shall we禮貌的八卦，PTT、YOUTUBE和Yahoo名人娛樂都在討論

『阿爸阿媽你地真係好撚煩!』
　
父母既可發洩對像，又無手尾跟，依句說話係細細過個陣好易衝口易出。但將來既你回想返你曾經有講過依句說話既時侯，你可曾後悔過?
　
每一次同班FD落吧飲酒，阿峰永遠唔會叫一D有酒精既飲品，多數都係叫杯Apple juice就算。我地圍內班朋友成日都會笑佢:『唔係化!? 落得黎飲梗係要飲酒啦!飲蘋果汁不如返屋企飲唔好?』
　
我地每一次笑阿峰既時侯，佢都會一笑置之，不作解釋。而我地都無再問佢原因，久而久之，我地都習慣左佢係唔飲酒。
　
直到有一晚放工成班出黎飲酒，阿峰情緒好低落，滿懷心事咁。我地問佢係咪發生左咩事，佢就話:『琴晚......我發夢見到自己飲完酒返屋企，阿爸阿媽不斷指住我黎罵，問我成晚去左邊，話我成日玩到咁夜唔返屋企，仲飲到成身酒氣返黎......』
　
阿峰接著說:『之後我好嬲，我覺得佢地好煩，於是係咁講粗口罵佢地，最後仲好大力咁......關埋房門訓覺唔理佢地。』
　
講到依到，阿峰雙眼通紅，開始忍唔住流眼淚，講到想喊咁。我地見到阿峰竟然講到喊，我地就知道阿峰係認真，我地都收起講笑既心情，好沉重咁繼續聽阿峰講落去。
　
『到我今朝早醒返個陣，我好想再訓過，我不斷逼自己再發多次依個夢.....但係，我點樣逼自己都好，都發唔返個個夢。我呆呆咁攤係張床到，望住天花板，都唔知喊左幾多次......我真係.....我真係好想......好想同爸爸媽媽講.....我戒左酒....我已經戒左酒，對唔住.....對唔住。』
　
阿峰講唔到落去，都放低左男人既面子，係我地面前毫無保留咁盡情地喊。心水清既我地，都知道阿峰抑壓左好耐。阿峰以前係一個好乖既男仔，好聽屋企人話，好鐘意痴住爸爸媽媽，但自從上到中學之後，阿峰開始反叛，識左一班豬朋狗友，日日吃喝玩樂，書都唔讀，晚晚飲酒飲天光。對於父母好言相勸，阿峰就覺得佢地好煩，好老套，老而不。
　
阿峰咁介懷個夢，係因為阿峰既爸爸媽媽係三年前一次交通意外不幸相繼去世。雖然阿峰之後修心養性，行返正軌，但已經報答唔到父母既情，令到父母死個日都帶住自己個仔唔聽話既事實含恨而終。阿峰最可恨既係，係夢入面始終同唔到父母講一聲『對唔住。』
　
當晚我地大概知道阿峰點解無再飲酒，而且阿峰既事令我地在埸既人都有一個反思。因為係依件事上面，阿峰深深體會到咩叫做『樹欲靜而風不息，子欲養而親不在』既道理。
　
反觀自己，細細過個陣都好似阿峰咁樣，好鐘意痴住老豆老母，特別係老豆。因為覺得老豆咩都識咁，屋企裝修，水電冷氣，燈泡，總之涉及機械木工既野，我老豆一定攪得掂，就算你趺親，整傷邊到都好，老豆一定可以用佢既"醫術同經驗"同你講:『小事黎姐!老豆以前我都試過奶野! 比你仲大獲! 拿! 無事既! 阿爸同你塗D趺打酒!好快好返!』個一刻，本來好驚好痛既心情，聽到咁有權威性既老豆咁講，即刻放鬆哂。
　
細細過同屋企人出街個陣，好多時都未見過世面，對身邊所有事物都好好奇，成日捉住爸爸媽媽黎問:『個D咩黎架? 話我知話我知!』有時侯唔識功課，對於只有小學程度都無既父母，佢地都盡量解答你，就算唔識都夾硬比個答案你，至少你錯左都可以屈係佢地身上。至於阿媽，我一聽到阿媽要落街買餸，我就即刻狗衝話要陪住佢，唔知點解個陣跟阿媽買餸係一種樂趣。有時侯同阿媽去女人街買衫，我就借機撤下嬌叫阿媽買個超人公仔比我。而且成日幫阿媽拔白頭髮，因為拔一條白頭髮，阿媽就當人工比一蚊我。個陣成日希望阿媽有多D白頭髮，因為佢愈多我就愈有錢。依家諗返起，真係好心酸，因為細細過從來無諗過，當阿媽白頭髮愈黎愈多既時侯，就代表佢愈黎愈老。
　
而我都同阿峰一樣，自上到中學之後，以上既行為都一一消失哂。每當阿媽叫我陪佢出街或者買餸時，我都會話有野做唔去，而我所謂既有野做只係留係屋企打機，久而久之，阿媽問多幾次之後，就無再叫我陪佢出街。而同老豆既關係更加黎一個180度大轉變，不但無傾過計，仲覺得佢既臭皮氣好討厭，以前覺得佢所擁有既『權威』，唔知幾時開始睇成『霸道』唔通人大左，睇野既心態同角度都唔同左!? 唔通真係好似Eason首歌咁，老豆，Shall we talk?
　
其實有樣野都幾諷刺。老豆老母辛辛苦苦供你讀書，令你擁有知識，擁有批判思考，擁有潮流既觸角。但當你擁有以上既野時侯，你就慢慢鄙視父母思想守舊，固執，什至看低你父母，覺得佢地好蠢，咩都唔識。父母供養緊你讀書，定係供養緊你厭棄父母既心?
　
當佢地問你:『依部智能手機點入鈴聲同埋有咩功能可以用架?』而你聽到之後，以一副煩厭既心態去求其講解下比佢地聽，但父母又點可以靠你幾句說話就可以學識點操控智能手機? 當佢地再問既時侯，你就好燥底咁說:『教極都唔識! 唔識就唔好用智能手機啦!』。而父母見到你燥底，討厭既時侯，佢地都唔敢再問，唯有兩老坐埋一角自己慢慢研究。
　
人好奇怪，對住其他父母就可以客客氣氣，好有禮貌，但對自己父母卻呼呼喝喝，大概父母對我地所做既野，我地都視為理所當然。好似黃子華所講:『男人只係能夠對一個女人咁老瀟(瀟灑)，就係佢阿媽!』
　　
阿媽問你:『阿仔呀!飲唔飲湯呀?』

你會好瀟灑咁答:『是但啦!』
　
阿媽關心緊張地說:『睇熱呀!D湯!』
　
你會好瀟灑咁答:『熱呀?! 唔飲啦!』
　
你會唔會以咁既態度同其他親戚，女朋友，或者其他父母呢?
　
有一晚同屋企人食飯，阿媽知我去左老人院探D公公婆婆，就笑說:『對住人地個阿媽就好有禮貌， "丫婆婆!你最近點呀" "食左飯未呀"，對住我地就.....哈哈哈!』最後成家人都笑左，包括我。其實諗深一層，阿媽算唔算攪左個黑色幽默呢?
　
人大左，自尊心愈黎愈強既時侯，對父母既肉麻行為都愈黎愈少做。當我開始明白要珍惜父母時，但要我一下子改變成個心態，總覺得做唔到。可能肉麻唔係我風格，我愛屋企人，但自尊心強烈既我，會刻意隱藏，默默咁愛佢地。就好似屋企人買左間屋比我，但自入伙以來，我都成日返返舊屋沖涼。當屋企人笑我有新屋都返舊屋沖涼時，一定係想慳返D水費。屋企人發覺我最近成日返屋企食飯，朋友笑我做咩成日返屋企，阿爸阿媽以為我無錢出去食。
　
但其實我好想同你地講，我咁做係想留係舊屋多D時間，陪住你地，因為我愛你地。
　

【#拜登就職演說全文】★中英版本★
資料來源：美國白宮新聞稿
This is America’s day. This is democracy’s day.

A day of history and hope. Of renewal and resolve.

Through a crucible for the ages America has been tested anew and America has risen to the challenge.

Today, we celebrate the triumph not of a candidate, but of a cause, the cause of democracy.

The will of the people has been heard and the will of the people has been heeded.

We have learned again that democracy is precious.

Democracy is fragile.

And at this hour, my friends, democracy has prevailed.

So now, on this hallowed ground where just days ago violence sought to shake this Capitol’s very foundation, we come together as one nation, under God, indivisible, to carry out the peaceful transfer of power as we have for more than two centuries.

We look ahead in our uniquely American way – restless, bold, optimistic – and set our sights on the nation we know we can be and we must be.

I thank my predecessors of both parties for their presence here.

I thank them from the bottom of my heart.

You know the resilience of our Constitution and the strength of our nation.

As does President Carter, who I spoke to last night but who cannot be with us today, but whom we salute for his lifetime of service.

I have just taken the sacred oath each of these patriots took — an oath first sworn by George Washington.

But the American story depends not on any one of us, not on some of us, but on all of us.

On “We the People” who seek a more perfect Union.

This is a great nation and we are a good people.

Over the centuries through storm and strife, in peace and in war, we have come so far. But we still have far to go.

We will press forward with speed and urgency, for we have much to do in this winter of peril and possibility.

Much to repair.

Much to restore.

Much to heal.

Much to build.

And much to gain.

Few periods in our nation’s history have been more challenging or difficult than the one we’re in now.

A once-in-a-century virus silently stalks the country.

It’s taken as many lives in one year as America lost in all of World War II.

Millions of jobs have been lost.

Hundreds of thousands of businesses closed.

A cry for racial justice some 400 years in the making moves us. The dream of justice for all will be deferred no longer.

A cry for survival comes from the planet itself. A cry that can’t be any more desperate or any more clear.

And now, a rise in political extremism, white supremacy, domestic terrorism that we must confront and we will defeat.

To overcome these challenges – to restore the soul and to secure the future of America – requires more than words.

It requires that most elusive of things in a democracy:

Unity.

Unity.

In another January in Washington, on New Year’s Day 1863, Abraham Lincoln signed the Emancipation Proclamation.

When he put pen to paper, the President said, “If my name ever goes down into history it will be for this act and my whole soul is in it.”

My whole soul is in it.

Today, on this January day, my whole soul is in this:

Bringing America together.

Uniting our people.

And uniting our nation.

I ask every American to join me in this cause.

Uniting to fight the common foes we face:

Anger, resentment, hatred.

Extremism, lawlessness, violence.

Disease, joblessness, hopelessness.

With unity we can do great things. Important things.

We can right wrongs.

We can put people to work in good jobs.

We can teach our children in safe schools.

We can overcome this deadly virus.

We can reward work, rebuild the middle class, and make health care
secure for all.

We can deliver racial justice.

We can make America, once again, the leading force for good in the world.

I know speaking of unity can sound to some like a foolish fantasy.

I know the forces that divide us are deep and they are real.

But I also know they are not new.

Our history has been a constant struggle between the American ideal that we are all created equal and the harsh, ugly reality that racism, nativism, fear, and demonization have long torn us apart.

The battle is perennial.

Victory is never assured.

Through the Civil War, the Great Depression, World War, 9/11, through struggle, sacrifice, and setbacks, our “better angels” have always prevailed.

In each of these moments, enough of us came together to carry all of us forward.

And, we can do so now.

History, faith, and reason show the way, the way of unity.

We can see each other not as adversaries but as neighbors.

We can treat each other with dignity and respect.

We can join forces, stop the shouting, and lower the temperature.

For without unity, there is no peace, only bitterness and fury.

No progress, only exhausting outrage.

No nation, only a state of chaos.

This is our historic moment of crisis and challenge, and unity is the path forward.

And, we must meet this moment as the United States of America.

If we do that, I guarantee you, we will not fail.

We have never, ever, ever failed in America when we have acted together.

And so today, at this time and in this place, let us start afresh.

All of us.

Let us listen to one another.

Hear one another.
See one another.

Show respect to one another.

Politics need not be a raging fire destroying everything in its path.

Every disagreement doesn’t have to be a cause for total war.

And, we must reject a culture in which facts themselves are manipulated and even manufactured.

My fellow Americans, we have to be different than this.

America has to be better than this.

And, I believe America is better than this.

Just look around.

Here we stand, in the shadow of a Capitol dome that was completed amid the Civil War, when the Union itself hung in the balance.

Yet we endured and we prevailed.

Here we stand looking out to the great Mall where Dr. King spoke of his dream.

Here we stand, where 108 years ago at another inaugural, thousands of protestors tried to block brave women from marching for the right to vote.

Today, we mark the swearing-in of the first woman in American history elected to national office – Vice President Kamala Harris.

Don’t tell me things can’t change.

Here we stand across the Potomac from Arlington National Cemetery, where heroes who gave the last full measure of devotion rest in eternal peace.

And here we stand, just days after a riotous mob thought they could use violence to silence the will of the people, to stop the work of our democracy, and to drive us from this sacred ground.

That did not happen.

It will never happen.

Not today.

Not tomorrow.

Not ever.

To all those who supported our campaign I am humbled by the faith you have placed in us.

To all those who did not support us, let me say this: Hear me out as we move forward. Take a measure of me and my heart.

And if you still disagree, so be it.

That’s democracy. That’s America. The right to dissent peaceably, within the guardrails of our Republic, is perhaps our nation’s greatest strength.

Yet hear me clearly: Disagreement must not lead to disunion.

And I pledge this to you: I will be a President for all Americans.

I will fight as hard for those who did not support me as for those who did.

Many centuries ago, Saint Augustine, a saint of my church, wrote that a people was a multitude defined by the common objects of their love.

What are the common objects we love that define us as Americans?

I think I know.

Opportunity.

Security.

Liberty.

Dignity.

Respect.

Honor.

And, yes, the truth.

Recent weeks and months have taught us a painful lesson.

There is truth and there are lies.

Lies told for power and for profit.

And each of us has a duty and responsibility, as citizens, as Americans, and especially as leaders – leaders who have pledged to honor our Constitution and protect our nation — to defend the truth and to defeat the lies.

I understand that many Americans view the future with some fear and trepidation.

I understand they worry about their jobs, about taking care of their families, about what comes next.

I get it.

But the answer is not to turn inward, to retreat into competing factions, distrusting those who don’t look like you do, or worship the way you do, or don’t get their news from the same sources you do.

We must end this uncivil war that pits red against blue, rural versus urban, conservative versus liberal.

We can do this if we open our souls instead of hardening our hearts.

If we show a little tolerance and humility.

If we’re willing to stand in the other person’s shoes just for a moment.
Because here is the thing about life: There is no accounting for what fate will deal you.

There are some days when we need a hand.

There are other days when we’re called on to lend one.

That is how we must be with one another.

And, if we are this way, our country will be stronger, more prosperous, more ready for the future.

My fellow Americans, in the work ahead of us, we will need each other.

We will need all our strength to persevere through this dark winter.

We are entering what may well be the toughest and deadliest period of the virus.

We must set aside the politics and finally face this pandemic as one nation.

I promise you this: as the Bible says weeping may endure for a night but joy cometh in the morning.

We will get through this, together

The world is watching today.

So here is my message to those beyond our borders: America has been tested and we have come out stronger for it.

We will repair our alliances and engage with the world once again.

Not to meet yesterday’s challenges, but today’s and tomorrow’s.

We will lead not merely by the example of our power but by the power of our example.

We will be a strong and trusted partner for peace, progress, and security.

We have been through so much in this nation.

And, in my first act as President, I would like to ask you to join me in a moment of silent prayer to remember all those we lost this past year to the pandemic.

To those 400,000 fellow Americans – mothers and fathers, husbands and wives, sons and daughters, friends, neighbors, and co-workers.

We will honor them by becoming the people and nation we know we can and should be.

Let us say a silent prayer for those who lost their lives, for those they left behind, and for our country.

Amen.

This is a time of testing.

We face an attack on democracy and on truth.

A raging virus.

Growing inequity.

The sting of systemic racism.

A climate in crisis.

America’s role in the world.

Any one of these would be enough to challenge us in profound ways.

But the fact is we face them all at once, presenting this nation with the gravest of responsibilities.

Now we must step up.

All of us.

It is a time for boldness, for there is so much to do.

And, this is certain.

We will be judged, you and I, for how we resolve the cascading crises of our era.

Will we rise to the occasion?

Will we master this rare and difficult hour?

Will we meet our obligations and pass along a new and better world for our children?

I believe we must and I believe we will.

And when we do, we will write the next chapter in the American story.

It’s a story that might sound something like a song that means a lot to me.

It’s called “American Anthem” and there is one verse stands out for me:

“The work and prayers
of centuries have brought us to this day
What shall be our legacy?
What will our children say?…
Let me know in my heart
When my days are through
America
America
I gave my best to you.”

Let us add our own work and prayers to the unfolding story of our nation.

If we do this then when our days are through our children and our children’s children will say of us they gave their best.

They did their duty.

They healed a broken land.
My fellow Americans, I close today where I began, with a sacred oath.

Before God and all of you I give you my word.

I will always level with you.

I will defend the Constitution.

I will defend our democracy.

I will defend America.

I will give my all in your service thinking not of power, but of possibilities.

Not of personal interest, but of the public good.

And together, we shall write an American story of hope, not fear.

Of unity, not division.

Of light, not darkness.

An American story of decency and dignity.

Of love and of healing.

Of greatness and of goodness.

May this be the story that guides us.

The story that inspires us.

The story that tells ages yet to come that we answered the call of history.

We met the moment.

That democracy and hope, truth and justice, did not die on our watch but thrived.

That our America secured liberty at home and stood once again as a beacon to the world.

That is what we owe our forebearers, one another, and generations to follow.

So, with purpose and resolve we turn to the tasks of our time.

Sustained by faith.

Driven by conviction.

And, devoted to one another and to this country we love with all our hearts.

May God bless America and may God protect our troops.

Thank you, America.
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★ 中文翻譯：資料來源中央社CNA

這是美國的一天，這是民主的一天，是歷史和希望的一天，是更新與決心的一天。美國幾個世代經過熔爐的考驗之後，如今再次遭到試煉，而且已再次奮起應付挑戰。今天，我們慶祝的不是一位候選人的勝利，而是一個奮鬥目標的勝利，是為民主的奮鬥。人民的意志被聽見了，人民的意志得到了關注。

我們再次學到，民主是珍貴的，民主是脆弱的，而在此刻，朋友們，民主已然勝利。短短幾天之前，還有暴力試圖撼動國會的根基，但今天我們齊聚這個莊嚴的所在，以一個在上帝之下不可分裂的國家，展開權力的和平轉移，一如我國200多年的傳統。

我們要用美國特有的方式，也就是不停歇、勇敢、樂觀的方式展望未來。放眼我們可以成為、也必須成為的國家。我謝謝今天蒞臨的兩黨前任總統，我衷心感謝，你們知道我國憲法的韌性，以及我們國家的力量。卡特總統（Jimmy Carter）也是，我昨晚與他通了電話，但他不克前來。我們為他畢生的奉獻向他致敬。

我剛才跟這幾位愛國者一樣鄭重宣誓，一篇最初由華盛頓宣讀的誓詞。然而，美國故事靠的不是我們任何一個人，或一部分人，而是我們全體。它靠的是「我們人民」，在尋求一個更好的合眾國的人民。這是個偉大的國家，我們是一群良善的人。

經歷過去幾個世紀的風雨和衝突、和平與戰爭，我們走過很長一段路，但前方還有很長一段路要走。我們將快速緊急前行，因為在這個危險與機會的冬天，我們有很多事要做。有很多需要修補、需要恢復、需要癒合。有許多需要建設，也可以有很多收穫。

在我國歷史上，很少人或很少時刻面臨著比我們目前更大的挑戰或困難。百年一見、無聲無息蔓延整個國家的病毒，在一年之內奪走的人命，跟美國在第二次世界大戰犧牲的總人數一樣多。數百萬工作機會流失，成千上萬企業關門。

400年來的種族正義的呼聲感動著我們，全民同享公義的夢想將不再拖後。地球生存的呼聲再急迫不過，也再清楚不過。如今政治極端主義、白人至上主義和本土恐怖主義的興起，讓我們有必要起來面對並將它們擊倒。

克服這些挑戰、恢復美國靈魂和鞏固未來需要的不只是話語，而是民主當中最難以捉摸的部分，那就是團結一心，團結一心。

另一個一月天，在1863年開年之時，林肯總統簽署解放奴隸宣言。讓我引述他在下筆時所說的話：「如果我留名青史，將會是因為這份宣言，以及我投注其中的全心全意。」

今天，同樣在一月裡，我全心全意投注於此：團結全體國人，團結整個國家。我請求所有美國人加入，和我一起努力，團結對抗我們共同的敵人：怨氣、不滿、仇恨、極端主義、目無法紀的行為、暴力、疾病、失業和無助。

團結一心，我們能夠成就偉大事業、重要的事情。我們可以糾正錯誤，可以讓民眾找到好的工作，可以在安全的校園教導孩子，可以克服這個致命的病毒。我們可以讓工作獲得報酬，重建中產階級，可以提供全民健保，可以兌現種族正義，讓美國再次成為世界主要的良善力量。

我明白，這個時候談論團結聽起來像愚昧的天方夜譚，我知道分裂我們的力量又深又真切，但我也知道這些力量不是現在才出現。美國向來在人人平等這個理想，和國家長期被種族主義、本土主義、恐懼和妖魔化分化的醜陋現實之間掙扎。這個征戰從未止息，勝利並無保證。

從南北戰爭、大蕭條、世界大戰到911恐攻，儘管歷經奮鬥、犧牲和挫折，良善的天使向來都會勝利。每當遇到這種時刻，我們都會有足夠的人團結一心，讓全國一起向前，我們現在也可以這麼做。

歷史、信仰和理性指向一條明路，一條團結之路。我們可以不把彼此當成敵人，而是鄰居。我們可以尊嚴和尊重彼此相待，可以同心協力，停止叫囂，讓溫度冷卻。因為沒有團結就沒有和平，只會留下苦毒與憤怒；不會有進步，只會有讓人厭倦的離譜言行；不會有國家，只會有混亂狀態。

這是我們危機和挑戰的歷史性一刻，而團結是前進的道路，我們必須以合眾國的姿態來面對這一刻，若能做到，我向諸位保證我們不會失敗。當我們團結起來，我們從來就不曾失敗，因此在這一天，在此時此刻，就在這裡，讓我們重新來過，全體一起來。讓我們開始再次彼此聆聽，讓對方說，相互探望，對彼表達尊重。

政治不必像這一團熊熊之火，燒毀一切，歧見不必成為全面戰爭的理由。我們必須摒棄操弄甚至捏造事實的文化，同胞們，我們不能這樣，美國必須不只是這個樣子，而且我相信美國不至淪落至此。

看看四周，我們站在國會大廈圓頂之下，這是南北戰爭時期完成的，當時美國的前途還在未定之天，但我們挺過來了，我們勝利了。我們現在站在此，看著偉大的國家廣場，金恩博士（Martin Luther King Jr.）曾對廣場上的群眾訴說他的夢想。也是在這裡，108年前的另一場就職典禮，數以千計的抗議人士試圖阻撓一群勇敢的婦女遊行爭取投票權。

今天我們見證副總統賀錦麗創造美國歷史，成為第一位擔任國家領導人的女性，別告訴我事情無法改變。

我們站在這裡，隔著波多馬克河（Potomac River）遠眺阿靈頓國家公墓（Arlington National Cemetery），也就是為國捐軀的英雄長眠之地。我們站在這裡，不過幾天前，暴動的群眾以為他們可用暴力箝制民眾的意志，阻撓民主運作，把我們驅逐出這塊聖地。但事情未如他們所願，今天不會，明天也不會，永遠都不會。

每位支持我們參選的民眾，我因你們給予我們的信心感到謙卑。對於沒有支持我們的人，讓我對你們說：未來請聽我說的話，評量我和我的心。如果你們還是不同意，也罷。這就是民主。這就是美國。以平和的方式在我們國家的規範之內表達異議的權利，可能是我國最大的優勢。

但請聽清楚：不同意見絕對不能變成不團結。而且我向各位保證，我要當全體國人的總統。不論你支持我或不支持我，我都將同樣為你們而努力。

好幾個世紀之前，我所屬教會的聖者聖奧古斯丁（Saint Augustine）曾經寫道，人民是個群體，由他們共同喜愛的東西所定義。身為美國人，我們共同喜愛而且能定義我們的東西是什麼？我想我們都知道：機會、安定、自由、尊嚴、尊重、榮譽，是的，還有真相。

最近的幾個星期、幾個月給了我們痛苦的教訓：有真相，也有謊言，為了權力和利益而說的謊言。我們每個人做為公民，做為美國人，特別是身為領導者的人，曾經承諾要遵守憲法、保護我們的國家的領導者，有職責、有責任要捍衛真相、打敗謊言。

我瞭解有許多同胞以害怕、惶恐的心情看待未來。我瞭解他們擔心工作問題。我瞭解他們像我父親那樣，夜裡躺在床上盯著天花板，想著得要有醫療保險、有貸款要付、想著他們的家庭，想著接下來會如何。我跟各位保證，我瞭解。但答案不是退縮，不是進入到彼此競爭的派系，不信任看起來跟你不一樣的人，跟你有不同信仰的人，或者新聞來源不同於你的人。

我們必須結束這場「無禮的戰爭」，它讓紅藍對立、鄉村與都市的民眾對立、保守派與自由派對立。我們可以做到，如果我們敞開心胸，而不是讓我們的心變硬，如果我們展現一些包容和謙虛，如果我們願意為別人設想，就像我母親說的：只要一下子就好，為別人設想。

因為人生就是這樣，你無法預知命運。有些時候，你會需要別人伸出援手，還有些時候，人家會請你伸出援手。就是要這樣，這就是我們為彼此做的事。如果我們這麼做，我們的國家就會更強大、更繁榮，更能為未來做好準備，而且我們還是可以有不同意見。

同胞們，我們在推動未來的工作時，會需要彼此。我們要集舉國之力，才能度過這個黑暗的冬天。我們可能在進入疫情最嚴重、最致命的階段。我們必須把政治擺在一邊，要終於能夠舉國對抗這個大流行，用舉國之力。我向各位保證，就如聖經所說：「一宿雖有哭泣，早晨便必歡呼。」我們將可一起度過，一起！

各位，我跟我在參眾兩院的同事們都瞭解，世人正在觀看，他們今天在看著我們，因此這是我要對國外傳達的訊息：美國受到試煉，而我們因此更為茁壯。我們將修補我們與盟國的關係，再次與世界往來，不是為了面對昨天的挑戰，而是今天和明天的挑戰。我們將不是藉著我們力量的典範來領導，而是憑藉我們典範的力量。我們將會是和平、進步與安定堅強而且可信賴的夥伴。

各位都知道，我們國家經歷了許多事情。我做為總統要做的第一件事，是要請你們跟我一起，為過去一年因疫情喪生的人們默禱，紀念那40萬個同胞，母親、父親、丈夫、妻子、兒子、女兒、朋友、鄰居和同事們。我們要成為我們自知可以成為、而且應該成為的人民和國家，以此榮耀他們。因此我請大家，一起為離世和失去親友的人們，還有我們的國家默禱，……阿們。

各位，這是試煉的時刻。我們面對對民主與真相的攻擊、正在肆虐的病毒、嚴重的不公、系統性的種族歧視、陷入危機的氣候，還有美國在全球的角色問題。其中任何一點都足以對我們構成嚴重的挑戰。但事實是，我們在同時面對這一切，這讓美國挑起我們最重大的責任之一。我們將受到試煉，我們能迎接挑戰嗎？這是大膽的時候，因為有好多事情要做。

而我向各位保證，這點是肯定的：你我將被評判，標準是我們如何解決這個時代一一發生的危機。我們將迎接挑戰。我們能否戰勝這個罕見而艱難的時刻？我們能否履行我們的義務，把一個新的、更好的世界傳給我們的下一代？我相信我們必須那麼做，而且我相信你們也這麼認為。我相信我們會，而且當我們做到，我們將寫下美國歷史偉大的新章節。美國的故事。

這個故事可能像一首對我來說深具意義的歌曲，它叫「美國頌」（American Anthem），它有一段歌詞至少對我來說很特別，它是這樣說的：「數百年的努力與祈禱讓我們來到今天，我們有什麼能傳承下去？我們的子孫會怎麼說？當我的日子結束，讓我內心知曉，美國，美國，我已為你付出最大努力。」

讓我們把我們自己的努力和祈禱，加到我們偉大的國家仍在發展的故事之中。如果我們做到，那麼當我們的日子結束，我們的子孫和他們的子孫會說：「他們付出了最大的努力，他們盡了他們的責任，他們修補了破碎的國家。」

同胞們，我的結語要跟開頭一樣，有個神聖的誓言。在上帝和各位面前，我向你們保證。我將始終開誠布公，我將捍衛憲法，我將捍衛我們的民主。我將捍衛美國，全心全力奉獻為你們服務，心中想的不是權力，而是可能性，不是私利，而是公眾的利益。我們將一起寫下美國希望的故事，而非恐懼的故事，是團結而非分歧，是光明而非黑暗。是禮貌與尊嚴、愛與療癒、偉大與善良的故事。

希望這是引導我們的故事、啟發我們的故事，是能告訴未來的世世代代我們回應歷史的召喚並且回應了時代挑戰的故事。民主與希望、真相與公義沒有在我們的時代衰亡，而是生生不息，美國固守了國內的自由，並且再次成為世界的明燈。這是我們對先人、對彼此和對未來世世代代的責任。

因此，我們要有目標、有決心，把注意力轉向這個時代的任務，靠信心來維持，靠信念來驅使，為彼此和我們全心熱愛的國家而奉獻。願上帝保佑美國，保守我們的三軍。謝謝美國！

【腳臭煩惱】遇上突然要脫鞋的環境好想逃走

⭐一脫襪就飄出鹹魚酸醙味
⭐小心腳臭演變成香港腳
#星期六放輕身心

腳氣尷尬時刻
腳氣一般指腳臭，又稱為香港腳，屬於中醫「足癬」的範疇，即真菌感染性皮膚病，由足部多汗潮濕或鞋襪不通氣引致，春夏天問題尤其嚴重，因為天氣潮濕，積濕會引致腳臭，真菌亦容易滋生。濕熱體質人士特別容易有腳臭問題，因為體內聚濕，鬱而化熱，這種體質的人容易出汗，汗液比較黃而且多帶有臭味。腳臭令人尷尬，日常生活不易發覺，但遇上要脫鞋的場合，就成為腳臭人士的尷尬時刻：
1. 湊阿仔去Playgroup — 大小朋友請脫鞋進場
2. 去朋友家吃飯 — 入屋前除鞋是禮貌吧
3. 去吃日本料理只剩榻榻米房 — 不如轉食中菜好嗎？
4. 坐長途機準備睡覺 — 上機後立即問空姐多取兩對襪

不想再受腳臭困擾，快著手改善濕熱體質，飲用有清熱袪濕的茶療或湯水；飲食清淡，多吃祛濕食物如薏米、赤小豆、綠豆、苦瓜等；著鞋記得要著襪，回家後洗腳及保持雙腳乾爽。

除臭茶療
功效：清熱袪濕，紓緩腳臭、口氣、臭狐等症狀。
材料：黃柏6克、蒼朮9克、生薏米12克
做法：材料洗淨，用600毫升水，武火煮滾後轉文火煮20分鐘。
此茶療煮一次後可倒入保溫瓶反覆沖泡至味淡。建議連續飲用4-5天。
注意：脾胃虛寒、容易胃痛腹瀉不宜多飲。

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Embarrassing feet odor
Athlete’s foot generally refers to foot odor, also known as the ‘Hong Kong foot’, is a kind of fungal infection of the skin of the foot, according to Chinese medicine. Commonly caused by sweaty feet and bad air circulation in the socks and shoes, athlete’s foot will become more serious during summer, as the weather is damp, and will encourage fungal growth.

Individuals with damp-heat body condition are especially prone to the athlete’s foot because the dampness accumulated will encourage the transmission of heat in body. This causes them to sweat more easily, and the sweat will leave yellow stains on clothes, and an unpleasant smell would linger.

Having an athlete’s foot can be embarrassing; it is something we might not discover on ordinary days, but under the circumstances where shoes need to be removed, the person will find themselves in awkward situations:

1. Bringing children to playgroup - we adults as ‘the big child’ will need to remove our shoes
2. Dining at a friend’s place – it is the basic courtesy to take off our shoes before entering someone’s house
3. Dining at a Japanese restaurant when only one tatami room is available – shall we go for Chinese cuisine instead?
4. Getting ready to sleep when travelling long distance – request two more pairs of socks from the air-stewardess right after boarding

In order to put an end to the foot odor problem, let’s improve the damp-heat body condition. Drink herbal tea or soup that can clear heat and eliminate dampness; avoid eating heavily seasoned food, and consume more food that can get rid of dampness in the body such as barley, adzuki beans, green beans, and bitter gourd. Remember to put on socks before wearing shoes; wash your feet when you reach home, and keep your feet dry always.

Tea to relieve odor
Effects: Clears heat and dispels dampness. Relieve food odor, bad breath and smelly armpit
Ingredients: 6g Amur Corktree Bark, 9g Atractylodes lancea, 12g coix seed
Preparation: Rinse all the ingredients. Combine all ingredients with 600 ml of water and cook on high heat until boiling. Turn to low heat and simmer for 20 minutes. The tea can be put into thermos and re-browed until flavour weakens. For best results, drink consecutively for 4-5 days.
Note: Those with asthenic spleen and stomach, or those are prone to stomache and diarrhea should eat less

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#男 #女 #我疲憊 #濕熱

這是我們每天的日常(其實片段是幾年前拍下的，Yobi自上年已經爬不上樓梯了)。我們每天外出，我都要無數次重複自己的理念：「不是不讓大家拍照，只希望您能夠先問一聲！」。尤其是在狗狗上廁所、我在清潔、我拿著屎屎去屎桶的時候。調過來，同樣事情發生在您身上，您又作何感想呢？當然大家亦有自己的選擇，但我可以有自己的選擇嗎？！
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大家都經常掛在口邊要講「初衷」、「原則」、「堅持」，我有啊！但為何我不讓您拍照，而我又變成仆街呢？！當我阻止大家拍照和解釋我的理念，大家可能會感到被冒犯甚至不悅，但首先大家有冇理會過我的感受先呢？我阻止第一個和解釋的時候，會好聲好氣；但到第十個、第二十個，我不是機械人、我都有情緒.....
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希望大家不要合理化拍照這回事，這不是什麼人權或自由，這是禮貌和尊重的事！大家經常都說台灣、日本當地人很有人情味很有禮貌，那我們自己的人情味往那裏去了呢？只去嚮往他人的，而自己又不去改變的，那這世界走落去會怎麼樣呢？不知自從那天起，很多人都只會在網上聊天，而人對人、面對面，就只會拿着手機過活，大家有幾多時候已經沒有再關心過身邊的人呢..... ？亦有些朋友可能遭到拒絕而感到不悅，在網絡上誣捏我會收人錢，$20/$50/$100不等，才可以影狗狗；但亦有無數的朋友可以作證，他們都跟狗狗拍過照，不用付款，只需要問一聲！不知情的朋友亦會相信自己選擇去相信的，實在無奈..... 如果認真便真的死了！我絕不介意跟大家分享，只希望大家能與人多一點關心、交流和溝通！
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This’s Our Daily Life (Btw, the clips were taken few years ago, and Yobi ain’t able to climb up the staircase since last year). Meanwhile we go out everyday, I have to repeat thousands of times : “It ain’t about NO PHOTO, but Please Ask Before U Snap”. Especially when doggies they pee/poo, when am cleaning after, when am carrying tons of pops. Try to imagine, what if the same shit is happening to yourself, how U feel?! U may have ur own perception/choice, but can I have mine?!
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People did study “May I?!”, “Would U mind?!” at school, but how come I stop U taking a photo and then I became impossible?! When I stop people taking a photo, try to explain why, and they may probably feel bad or offensive, but actually did people care how I feel the first place?! Am truly calm and patience when I stop and explain to the first one or second one, but when I talk to the tenth, the twentieth, I feel very very annoyed and pissed off..... Am not a robot, I have my emotion too. This ain’t sorts freedom or human rights, but courtesy and respect!
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Many people say they feel a lot the warmness and friendliness of the people when visiting TaiWan and Japan, but where is ours then?! I don’t know since when, people do communicate on social media’s, but they won’t talk to people face to face and became mute and deaf, for how long we didn’t care people around?!
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I never mind to share the happiness of the pack with people, am just expecting more and more people shall get engaged positively! They 5 are having photos with numerous people everyday, a reward to those people whom did ask for one politely!
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*拍照前請先打招呼詢問一下哦
*拍照前請先注意交通安全哦
*狗狗上廁所時請不要拍照哦
*我清理和拿著狗狗便便時請不要拍照哦
*摸狗狗前請先問一下
*我們鼓勵人與人之間應該多聯繫
*打個招呼拍拍照何樂而不為
*PleaseGreetAndAskBeforeYouSnap
*PleasePayAttentionToTrafficBeforeYouSnap
*PleaseDoNotSnapWhenDoggiesPeeAndPoo
*PleaseDoNotSnapWhenAmCleaningAndCarryingTheirPoops
*PleaseAskBeforeYouPat
*WeAreEncouragingHumanEngagement
*NothingToLooseToSayHi