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💐How to Stop the Negative Chatter in Your Head
打消大腦中的消極念頭
🧸Did you make your New Year’s resolutions? I hope you put “cognitive reappraisal” on the list. Psychologists use this term to refer to the practice of replacing negative thoughts with ones that are both more positive and true. People who control their self-talk in this manner have better mental health, more life satisfaction, and even better-functioning hearts, research shows. Experts say the technique, which is central to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, is an important skill to master during difficult times. The good news is that you can do it at home.
你的新年目標定好了嗎?我希望你的目標裡有「認知重評」這一項。在心理學中,「認知重評」指的是用更積極、也更真實的想法來代替消極的念頭。研究顯示,能夠以這種方式控制自我對話的人,不僅心理更健康、生活滿意度更高,就連心臟功能也更強大。專家指出,作為「認知行為療法」的核心,認知重評是度過艱難時期需掌握的一項重要技能。好消息是,你在家就可以練習這項技能。
-cognitive reappraisal: 認知重評
-psychologist: 心理學家
-master: 精通
🌞Ethan Kross is an experimental psychologist and neuroscientist who specializes in emotion regulation. He is a professor of psychology and management at the University of Michigan and director of the Emotion & Self Control Laboratory, where he studies the science of introspection, or the silent conversations people have with themselves. He has a new book coming out this month called “Chatter: The Voice in Our Head, Why it Matters, and How to Harness It.”
實驗心理學家、神經科學家伊桑·克洛斯(Ethan Kross)是情緒控制方面的專家,他目前在密歇根大學擔任心理學及管理學教授,同時還兼任情緒及自我控制實驗室(Emotion & Self Control Laboratory)的主任。在這家實驗室裡,克洛斯主要研究與自省相關的課題,所謂自省,就是人們與自己進行的一場無聲對話。今年1月,他的新書《碎碎念:腦中的聲音、它的重要性以及如何掌控它》(Chatter: The Voice in Our Head, Why it Matters, and How to Harness It)出版。
-specialize in sth: 精通某事
-introspection: 自我省察、自省
-chatter: 碎碎念
-harness: 運用、掌控
🍀Does everyone talk to themselves?
Dr. Kross: Yes. There are lots of ways we use language internally. We use it to keep things fresh in our heads, like repeating a phone number. We try to simulate what we are planning to say, like when we go on an interview or a date. We talk to ourselves when we’re trying to or when we are trying to solve a problem. When we are doing something difficult, we mentally walk ourselves through the steps we need to take. Self-talk helps us to author the stories of our life, to capture stories that explain what we have gone through. Even if our self-talk is negative, that doesn’t always mean it’s bad. We can learn things from painful experiences that help us grow and improve.
每個人都會和自己對話嗎?
克洛斯:沒錯。我們和自己對話的方式有很多種。為了讓自己記住某件事,我們會和自己說話,比如不斷重複一個電話號碼;有時候自我對話是為了排演某個場景,比如在面試或約會之前;還有的時候,當我們想努力控制自己,或是想要解決某個問題時,也會自說自話。在遇到難事兒時,我們也會在腦海中構想自己需要採取哪些步驟。
這種自我對話可以幫助我們書寫生活裡的故事,記錄我們經歷的點點滴滴。即便自我對話有時很消極,也並不總是意味著它一無是處。痛苦的經歷可以教會我們成長,幫助我們不斷改進。
-capture: 捕捉
-painful: 痛苦的
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[Mommy's heart chat]
When adults do basic health care, only if they are easy to cooperate with paramedics, one order one move can be completed in short time. Any check seems simple, but it is difficult for some children, and for Kasper, he is a normal thing. I need regular tracking from head to foot, including brain brain, eye, hearing, rehabilitation and orthopedic, which is strictly an old bird level, but every time I check, I have a headache because he will scare himself. Self.
This time, let's talk about the part of the follow-up tracking of eyesight. The last one said that I went to an eye that was just opened soon. Even at the beginning, I showed that the child was slow-flying, hoping to let the nurse understand that the child is afraid, but in the process But it was a very beautiful encounter, though he flew slowly, but the mind was super sensitive. One of the other's eyes would make him afraid, and the light let kasper watch the instrument and focus for 20 minutes. The Child's emotions are already unhappy and even resist. I can only soothe the psychology of his fear, and ask the nurse to help, but the face of the nurse from the beginning is very patient, tell me :" must be very tight. Kasper's head, ask him not to move around, ok? Eyes must watch ahead, or how to test it! Still, you hold your child to be strong." I understand that nurses are actually very hard, and facing many people who check, may be less patient in professional, but I also know what the child is afraid of, and take the instrument to check it out. The data that comes out can't judge if the child's eyes are problematic? The doctor can only open the hitomi agent to go back to the clinic for a week.
In this week, I keep saying to Kasper: " I know you don't like some eye-eye water because it's uncomfortable, so you hate it, even you will collapse crying and resist, so that the neighbors have to play 113 line to catch mom. Now, but if we don't have a collaboration check, it might be a bit of eye water, so do you want to?" he shook his head and said, " don't!" I confirm again :" will you be able to cooperate with the check?" He nodded and said, " yes!" thank you my child for listening to what I said. Even when I was less cognitive than before, even a day before the day before the day, the teaser still will be declared a failure, and the only thing I can do is flowers. It's been a long time to soothe him.
A week later I searched for an eye clinic that I used to follow, and for Kasper, the first visit, the clinic looks old and even the equipment is not new, I still suggest that the child is slow-flying, and the nurse will be with me soon. I said, " Mom takes care of the child, you have worked hard!" I told the nurse :" the child's experience at the last clinic, I am deeply afraid that this time may still not be able to test the result. ~ " the nurse is very patient :" Mom doesn't matter, let's not force it, it's possible that the child has not tested before, so it will be afraid." and whispered to the kasper :" the head is close to a bit, some of them are balloons, some are the houses, just look at it. ! Aunt raised the chair high, and if you would be afraid, tell me?" I thought it was done in three minutes, I was surprised to say, " how can it be!" I don't know whether a week has been announced. But at least kids overcome is the truth.
Next is a headache of optometry, it is difficult to have kasper than the right gap, the last one is using the numbers, but the process is also 2266, don't know whether it is the the or the correct answer that is completely unavailable? So I told the nurse: " this part won't be hard to test!" the nurse told kasper :" you're really good, right? Let's study first, usually let mom scare a big jump in the end! Because you're better than that!" I'm watching the interaction between nurses and kasper on the side. It may be too difficult for the gap, so the nurse took a picture card, as long as the kasper showed the direction against the front, and the practice was 15 For a minute but I didn't see the nurse's face being unhappy, I whispered and smiled at the beginning, and the nurse asked kasper. " should I wear glasses or stick with a stick?" the kid is very assertive. :" to wear glasses!" I can't imagine that the official optometry only saw kasper cooperate with the nurse's instruction. The direction of the transfer is easy to correct. The process is really scaring me, though the nurse is not beautiful, but that is the one that will make people I really want to be close to the deep. Thank you so much for this lovely and bark nurse, so that I and kasper are feeling a very temperature clinic.
A lot of people will ask me to go to the hospital to see? Looking for that doctor? Frankly speaking, I really do not like to recommend, because maybe i feel fit, but I am deeply afraid of the experience that I recommend to you, so I often recommend looking for a health care worker who is comfortable with me, because it is a long time to fly the road. Often, when I get back to the clinic, parents are often very uncomfortable because of the discomfort of their children. If they are to disturb their minds, they will be found guilty. I am not trying to play privilege, but because I understand the point that the child is not able to get through. It is often short to see a doctor, but it is the most difficult to soothe the child's safety when it takes a long time.
Through this platform, not only can we share the food, the sights, but there will be a share of "slow flying" every week, hoping to let more people know about the children of different slow flying, maybe i am not the most professional, but in this way Experience sharing you will find that in fact he / they are very naive and cute, believe in you more understanding, give greater tolerance, no longer keep distance but close each other's heart.
#第127篇
#檢查對我們來說是家常便飯
#好的醫護人員可以讓孩子高度配合
#慢飛孩子的心思都擁有強烈的敏感度
#認識不同的慢飛天使從你我開始
#瞭解也是一種互動的幫助開始
#媽咪心事聊聊天 #時光小站
#遲緩兒 #慢飛孩子
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勞工局邀請教YES,教得幾開心!
服裝贊助 VIOLA.per.Donna
小時候社交上碰釘,睇咗好多人際同心理學嘅書,嘗試傾計果陣用吓招式,除非對方有偏見或利益衝突,通常都係使得嘅。
同學講咗好多嘢,我請咗幾個同學出嚟講talk,分享自己嘅理想同遺憾,課後有班同學圍住我問嘢。好多人覺得自己講嘢好慢、好悶、反應遲鈍、無乜朋友聽、無乜人生目標。呢d只係暫時。技巧可以訓練,信心可以培養,同學們唔好放棄呀!
人性需要自重感(social media嘅like同心心,你估真係無用架?),被聆聽與接納,可以帶嚟好正面嘅改變架。
勞工處「青年就業起點」(Y.E.S.)
Enjoy giving lectures in Y.E.S. by the labour department to share skills in public speaking, rather a workshop of inner-self visit. I had bummers in dealing with people so I read a lot about relationships and psychology. With a bit of tactics, it isn’t that hard to make friends and make people like you ( provided that there is no bias or conflict of interest) Many of them shared their hardships after class and I was so touched. We humans need explicit recognitions(dun tell me bullshit of likes being superficial) and we can change when being listened!
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