The sunburn. The river breeze. The bare feet. The freedom. The less judgmental people. The care freeness.
judgmental 在 Daphne Charice D調 Facebook 八卦
同時也有8部Youtube影片，追蹤數超過379萬的網紅Jannine Weigel，也在其Youtube影片中提到，Stream PASSCODE Here: https://lnk.to/PasscodeJW Follow Jannine Weigel: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jannineweigel/ Facebook: https://www.fac...
judgmental 在 Facebook 八卦
This was #FatimahOmarMukhlis exactly 2 years ago, on 18th July 2019 - 2 months after her beloved Mamajee @adamdidam passed away. The photos were taken at 2.16 in the morning. These are the raw images of pain. These are the proof of love.
I have never shared these photos before plus many other photos too. So why am I sharing it now then?
Well, when my sisters lost our brother @adamdidam and my parents lost their son, I lost my daughter too. Yes, my old Fatimah was lost when her Mamajee passed away. It was too painful to watch her suffering. And I know many of you were worried and concerned about her too but some just simply refused to understand and preferred to keep on being insensitive, ignorant, judgmental and whatnot.
And the reason why I chose to share it today is because…when I woke up this morning, these photos popped up in the phone memory. As soon as I saw them, I cried. And I’ve decided to share them with all of you. Not so you can cry too but so you know the truth. So you know the pain. So you know that grief is real. So you know that it is not attention seeking. So you know that kids grieve too.
But why do they grieve? Aren’t they too young to understand? How can they grieve? Do the parents force them to grieve? No, because they are just normal human beings like all of us adults too. Yes, simply because they are human too, you know.
Kids have feelings too. They were born with a heart that can feel the exact same things that we feel. They can feel happiness and they too can feel the sadness. And our role as adults is to treat them like a real ‘human’ - be understanding, caring, nurturing, sensitive, supportive and guide them. Don’t just treat them like a joke or a laughing stock! Don’t belittle their feelings. Acknowledge their feelings. Allow them to be happy. Allow them to be sad.
And I’m glad that I kept Fatimah away so she can fully grieve. And I’m beyond blessed that we are surrounded by supportive family and friends who not only acknowledge Fatimah’s grief but also fully supported her to get back up and wake up from her deep wound…Alhamdulillah, she has come back stronger! 💪🏻
It’s ok to grieve,
Mrs Mom
#wisemomsays
#GRIEFAWARENESS 🤍
judgmental 在 Carol 凱若的生活・教育・實驗 Facebook 八卦
【 讓孩子明白 Part 2 】#永遠不要以語言能力而歧視一個人
今天稍早聊到了「隱形歧視」（不覺得自己歧視而事實上就是歧視的狀況），又剛好看到這篇文章，覺得挺心有所感的。雖然與「教養孩子」沒有直接的相關，但我想或許可以來聊聊「語言」這件事。
.
很多台灣的爸媽都希望孩子們的英語能力好，但其實，「願意交朋友」比當下的語言能力重要多了！因為語言本來就是「交流互動」的工具。
.
這文章的場景發生在加拿大。女兒剛從加拿大回來，第一個喜愛的～就是當地「友善」與「包容」的氛圍，也或許是她很幸運，都遇到了許多善良開放的人。姊姊說～到處都有人說她英文說得真好，就算不是真的聽說讀寫一百分，聽到也很快樂！
.
但她一回到德國，航空公司「兒童伴遊」服務的人員，就很直接（不客氣）地跟她說「你來德國這麼久，怎麼德文還這麼差？」（要是我在場肯定嗆回去『你怎麼年紀比我大這麼多，還這麼沒禮貌？』！有氣！😪）。
.
有些住過一陣子德國的台灣人，也會私下公開批評來德國的台灣人德文能力差，甚至暗指對方無法融入當地社會等等🙄。
.
我身邊的德國朋友都對各種語言與文化很有興趣（不然也很難當好友吧⋯⋯）😂😂。所以偶而遇到這樣的人就內心翻白眼🙄，不需要太玻璃心。畢竟一種米養百種人啊⋯⋯
.
-----
說真的，別人學不學語言，融不融入當地，都是他自己的事。
（我沒說語言不重要喔！只是那是別人自己個人的事）
學得快還是慢，也可能都有自己個人的原因。
.
第一，學習語言的速度本來就每個人不一樣。
再者，個別語言環境也很不同，個人動機也不一樣（例如要落地生根，或工作讀書的動機，自然比只外派三年的強多了）。
.
我從女兒第一天來德國就告訴她，「你不需要因為德語或英語說得不好，而感到自卑！」☀️。我們的母語本來就不是德語英語，我們努力學習，但「如果對方因此而對你態度不好或批評你，是他的問題，不是你的」。
.
我們沒有一個人，應該因為對方母語不是當地語言，而改變我們對他的態度！
.
-----
包括「口音」也常是很多電視節目或日常對話中的「笑話」。
.
但對此，我媽的回答很酷啊！
當我女兒說，外婆「講英文台灣口音好重喔」
我媽神回：「啊我就台灣人啊！不然要哪裡口音？」😆
媽，我給你一百萬個讚！👍👍👍
#學不學某種語言是別人自己的決定
#講得好某種語言也不是多高尚的事
#能不隨便論斷批評人才是高貴
【後記】感覺這篇也是上一篇的平衡報導。哈！但不是有意的，是剛好。
這告訴我們，人們或許會做「我不歧視」的宣言或行動，但是生活中隱藏的歧視仍舊是存在的（但至少有認知到啦）。
所以千萬別因為一個新聞就覺得德國真是移民的天堂，事實上真的不是，哇哈哈！😌
不過我這篇文倒不是寫給德國人看的（他們也看不懂，嘿嘿）
更不是要抱怨德國人。
而是反而希望我們自己台灣人，不要再用這樣的「語言歧視」來看自己人（或其他人）了！
而語言在工作和求學上的確是相對重要的，但這些都是對方自己的事。
至於在家裡要講什麼語言，也是人家自己的事！
還有阿，要不要融入當地，更是沒我們的事。有些人很開心自己沒有融入啊！噗～
所以總之一句話，Mind our own business!!
Don't be judgmental!
No discrimination!!
judgmental 在 Jannine Weigel Youtube 的評價
Stream PASSCODE Here: https://lnk.to/PasscodeJW
Follow Jannine Weigel:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jannineweigel/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JannineWeigelOfficial/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jannineweigel?source=h5_m
Lyrics:
Verse 1
What's your passcode
How do you treat your mama
Does your ex give you drama
Things that I gotta know
How many past hoes?
Do you believe in karma
What colour is your aura
Things that I gotta know
Did you lie? If you say no
You're a liar, you could go
I need honesty, transparency
No sugarcoats
Pre-Chorus
I won't be judgmental
Maybe sentimental
All I want is to be with you
Chorus
Cos I like you
Boy I really like you
But I've been through the fire too many times
So I gotta know gotta know
Cos I really like you
Wanna let you inside too
But I've been through the fire too many times
So I gotta know gotta know
Hook
Oops did I say too much too soon
Oops didn't wanna play it cool
Oops I can't pretend, think we could be more than friends (yeah)
Oops did I say too much too soon
Oops didn't wanna play it cool
Oops I can't pretend, think we could be more than friends (yeah)
Verse 2
Did you lie? If you say no
You're a liar, you could go
I need honesty, transparency
No sugarcoats, no I don't knows
Give you all of me
If you give me all the tea
Just let it flow cos I gotta know
What I'm getting into
Don't keep it confidential
It could be monumental
Pre-Chorus
I won't be judgmental
Maybe sentimental
All I want is to be with you
Chorus
Cos I like you
Boy I really like you
But I've been through the fire too many times
So I gotta know gotta know
Cos I really like you
Wanna let you inside too
But I've been through the fire too many times
So I gotta know gotta know
Hook
Oops did I say too much too soon
Oops didn't wanna play it cool
Oops I can't pretend, think we could be more than friends (yeah)
Oops did I say too much too soon
Oops didn't wanna play it cool
Oops I can't pretend, think we could be more than friends (yeah)
Bridge
I need answers I need passwords I need love
It's been years since I've forgotten how to trust
Maybe someday I'll be in my feelings
Not worrying bout who's in your DMs
But til then
I need answers I need passwords I need love
Chorus
Cos I like you
Boy I really like you
But I've been through the fire too many times
So I gotta know gotta know
Cos I really like you
Wanna let you inside too
But I've been through the fire too many times
So I gotta know gotta know
Hook
Oops did I say too much too soon
Oops didn't wanna play it cool
Oops I can't pretend, think we could be more than friends (yeah)
Oops did I say too much too soon
Oops didn't wanna play it cool
Oops I can't pretend, think we could be more than friends (yeah)
Film Director: Philip Rom Kulleh
Executive Producer: Chow Chun Son
Producer & AD: Hadi Hamid
Line Producer: Yen Han
Production Manager: Kaviraj
Production Manager: Sze Kay
Talent Coordinator: Rudy Tan
Production Assistant: Cindy Tai
Production Assistant: Oscar Gan
Production Assistant: Rika
DOP: Nicholas Chin
1st Camera Asst: Meor
2nd Camera Asst: Jeffery
Camera Assistant: Skaiste
Camera Assistant: Clifford
2nd Camera Op: Kai Lau
2nd Cam 1st Assistant: Yoon Wei
Offline Editor: Chia Lok
Online Editor: Dixon
Colorist: NC Nicole
VTR: Sabrina Wong
DIT: Jun Hoe
Art Director: Anthony Chan
Prop Master: Shian
Set Dresser: Kenji
Art Assistant: Kamal & Prasan
Gaffer: Kayee
Key Gaffer & Grip: Iskandar
Best Boy: Izzad
Crew: Amirul & Jaya
Special thanks to AirAsia Media Group.
Music video by Jannine Weigel performing Passcode. © RedRecords Sdn Bhd 2020. All Rights Reserved.
judgmental 在 Wah!Banana Youtube 的評價
If this video did well, it's because we did a good job. If not, it's your fault.
BTW Wanna know what game the Bananas are playing? It's Eternal Crusade! Download the game now: https://goo.gl/8WeRsb and jio us for boss raid please.
Produced and Written by Lingyi Xiong @Blingyi
Edited by Jason Hau @Jasonkokotan
Starring:
Audrey Goh @sparrowonweed
Eden Ang @Eden_Ang
Chrysan Lee @ChrysanLee
Jai Kishan @j.jaikishan
We're on Facebook! http://www.facebook.com/wahbananasg
Twitter/Instagram @wahbananasg
judgmental 在 Arwind Kumar Youtube 的評價
It all comes down to respecting an individual's choice of sexuality. One's sexual preference is NOT AN EXCUSE TO JUDGE. Use your WISE TIME to spread ACTUAL AWARENESS on ACTUAL ISSUES. LGBT IS NOT AN ISSUE. However, being a JUDGMENTAL PRICK is a BIG TIME issue.
judgmental 在 4ria - JUDGMENTAL C*NT - YouTube 的八卦
... <看更多>