「談《無痛失戀》一句"OKAY"的意義」
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"Eternal Sunshine of The Spotless Mind"相信好多人都睇過,套嘢好睇亦唔會有太多嘅爭議。而作品於我最深刻嘅一幕就係臨近尾聲嘅呢場戲同呢句對白。
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故事嘅發展係咁嘅:
Joel: Wait.
Clementine: What?
Joel: I don't know.
Joel: Just wait. Just wait.
Clementine: What do you want, Joel?
Joel: I don't know. I want you to wait for... just a while.
Clementine: Okay.
Joel: Really?
Clementine: I'm not a concept, Joel. I'm just a fucked-up girl who's looking for my own peace of mind.
Clementine: I'm not perfect.
Joel: I can't see anything that I don't like about you. Right now I can't.
Clementine: But you will. You know, you will think of things, and I'll get bored with you and feel trapped...because that's what happens with me.
Joel: Okay.
Clementine: Okay.
Joel: Okay.
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兩個人喺條走廊度糾纏,占基利想盡一切辦法留住肥溫,雖然連佢自己都唔知自己想點,所以只係話'JUST WAIT",因為佢知道自己仲愛對方,所以唔可以比佢離開。跟住Clementine終於出聲,話自己只係一個一塌糊塗唔完美嘅女仔,連自己都顧唔掂,唔能夠為JOEL帶嚟佢想要嘅烏托邦式愛情。而Joel就話無論你係點我都愛你,你嘅缺點係我眼中都係優點,然後就引申出女方嘅當頭棒喝,謂你今日比愛情蒙蔽咗就梗係覺得我好,但如果五年後十年後我仲係咁刁蠻咁甩漏呢?你始終會頂唔住而走,"feel trapped"。
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跟住,JOEL神來之筆嘅一句"OKAY"就出現咗,肥溫重覆咗"OKAY"兩次,二人相視而笑。可能大家會問,佢地兩個究竟okay乜春呢?其實喺情侶瀕臨分手邊緣嘅時候,總係會覺得兩個人之間有d野係永遠解決同磨合唔到,或者有太多太多嘅積累層壓咗好耐嘅不滿,認為以往嘅甜蜜已經番唔到轉頭,所以要選擇分開,因為下個會更可愛。
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但"OKAY"之於一段關係嚟講算係乜呢?意思就係,我知道你嘅優點,亦清楚明白你嘅缺點,五年後可能會發生乜狀況都已經作咗最壞嘅打算,但仍然"OKAY",因為你仍然相信愛嘅力量。面對仿似係注定嘅結局,真正嘅愛並唔係要監生去改變對方,例如好似執藥咁列出一堆要求對方做到嘅「要求」,例如化妝要叻D,要練得大隻D,著衫要好睇D,要去減肥等等,而係將最好嘅對方以愛做藥引帶佢出嚟。
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愛並唔係必然嘅遷就,為咗要「愛」而無咗自己,而是為了愛,我們都願意遷就,一起進步,拖住手望著同一個終點共行人生路。當你明知會悶嘅時候,點解唔一齊去諗點樣解悶呢;當你自己都知道自己fucked-up嘅時候,點解唔嘗試去改變下自己呢;而點解對方係一定會打破你嘅"peace of mind",而唔可能做到共享寧靜呢?對方可以係壓力,但亦可以係動力,睇你點睇,但好多人都會直接將對方判咗死刑。
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無人可以包生仔,可能結局真係" I'll get bored with you"。但至少你夠膽為住愛去改變同去有了期地承受,至少你好努力咁嘗試過。在未知的境況之下,仍然夠膽許下畢生的承諾,就是最動人堅貞的愛情。反而如果明知有好下場嘅話,人人都會爭住去愛,都唔珍貴啦,係咪先?
同時也有4部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過69萬的網紅TheKellyYang,也在其Youtube影片中提到,Hi大家好我又來了~~~~~ 我發現自從我逼大家叫我高產女王, 大家還真的叫了之後, 我就不好意思不高產了耶 這是什麼心態!!! 上次分享了螺螄粉的影片後馬上又幫自己的零食庫補貨! 大家知道我家裡一定會有一個零食庫馬~ 我就想說欸我何不來分享我補的零食 因為啊這次的零食有一半以上我都沒吃過 完全超...
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3月18日 02:31來自iPhone客户端
I am so sorry to let you wait for such a long time. Thanks for all your patience and understanding. It's been three years. Long time no see. Thanks for all the fans from Guangxi Nanning. You are amazing tonight! Really a great thank to all of you in the fan meeting. It's a success!
18/3/2013 02:31 From iPhone Client
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【我親愛的Zoom視訊客人們】
To My Dear Zoom Clients
我忍了真的⋯⋯真的⋯⋯很久,今天過後實在忍無可忍,一定要叮嚀所有過去和未來的客人們。
我年紀很大了,受不了太大的刺激。
拜託,你們可以Zoom好來嗎?😓😑
一、Zoom視訊的視角 = 拍護照照的視角
護照自2020年起就已成為古董,但大家這一生應該有拍過證件照吧!
對了,就是要頭髮整齊,讓我看到你的雙耳、雙眼、鼻子、嘴巴、頸項和肩膀,到胸部。
我批八字時,需要看整個面相。不要讓你一半的臉掉出鏡頭外,這樣很像鍾無艷,也不要嘴巴不見掉,這樣我很像在跟一條羅漢魚視訊。
我看面相包括看你的嘴巴、牙齒和說話時的嘴形。是的,看相就是需要那麼仔細。
如果你的螢幕太低,那就找書本或舊報紙,把螢幕墊高一點。別讓我整一個小時半只看到你的雙下巴,會把你的面相比例給看錯。
不要一直告訴我不好意思,方法是人想出來的。
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二、光線
太暗,我看你如見鬼。
太亮,我會看不清你的膚色。
拉開窗簾,不要背向陽光。
有必要的話,就直接開燈!
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三、勿放什麼椰樹沙灘/金門大橋的虛擬背景圖
什麼虛擬背景圖都不要放啦~
我的家美最重要,我不在乎你的家美不美,我只是來看命的。
如果你的Wi-Fi不是很強,電腦功能不是很厲害,這類的虛擬背景圖會讓你的視訊畫面卡卡的。
有時你轉個身,整個右邊不見了,或部份的頭髮少了,讓我覺得我好像在看恐怖片,嚇人啊~
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四、環境和聲音
有些海外客人其實非常用心。為了與我視訊,特別去買有麥克風的耳機🎧,讓我能更清楚的聽到他們的聲音。😍
沒有使用耳機和麥克風的客人,往往他們的聲音會有種空氣般的回音,如果他們本身講話又小聲,我的耳機聲量開滿,我還是聽得滿辛苦的
也有香港和馬來西亞客人租過會議室、鐘點房間或單人工作室,就是為了不受家人的干擾,能安心的與我視訊。😍
最有趣的是,去年新加坡阻斷措施時,有位男客人跑到屋外的走廊坐在地上與我視訊。只是外頭風聲有點大,我好幾次都聽不清楚他的聲音。
曾有客人在咖啡廳與我視訊。咖啡廳裡的高談闊論聲和器皿的敲擊聲,頻頻從我的耳機闖進我的耳朵,哇~我的耳朵那時真的是活受罪,還要裝一副氣定神閒的樣子。
天啊,兩次過後,我寧願退錢,也不再見這樣的客人了。耳朵只有一對,我要保護好啊!
在這裡聲明:一般我們買手機時的那種有麥克風的耳機,就已能視訊。沒有戴耳機和麥克風的客人,我一概會拒絕諮詢,把費用原銀奉還。
五、孩子
曾試過諮詢的前20分鐘,一直被女客人的小孩打擾,進來哭著要媽媽主持公道。
如果你家中有六歲以下的兒童,會時不時來敲你的門,我建議你還是先別約我。你這樣會分心,無法聽好我交代的事,而我也得一直等你去安撫你的孩子,就無法在限定時間內看完你的八字,這樣對誰都不公平。
六、我只見客人一人
這個規矩,從我一出道就定下來,也清楚的寫在網站上,根本不用一而再的來試探水溫。
但這兩個星期,還是有客人硬闖關,事先安排自己的配偶/孩子坐在電腦的另一面,要他們聽我講他的八字。
我從不改我的規矩,也沒有八字或風水是我非看不可的。
讀書這麼高,連自己的命都不能自己負責,這已經不是能改到命的人了。
你一定要你的配偶陪你聽,那你需要的不是我來教你改命,是你的配偶來安你的心。
將來若還有這樣的事,我會直接中斷視訊,把錢退回去。
七、「我第一次用Zoom!」
可是從報名那天到今天的諮詢,你有兩個月的時間去摸索。
兩個月,怎麼還是錯誤百出?因為客人根本沒有事先準備和練習。
結果我就這樣等了20分鐘,還得等對方下載軟件。
Zoom不難使用,但如果是你沒有花時間去摸索,就不要撒謊,直接說,我就直接退現錢。
品德是改命的資糧,不要為了自己能脫身就隨便編一個漏洞百出的謊,還說自己是好人。這...不會臉皮太厚了嗎?
小事都不願做好,絕對不會成大器。
八、暈車
有些客人用Ipad或手機來視訊。
重點是,他一支手拿著手機,一支手拿筆寫筆記。他一邊寫,另一支手就一邊搖晃。他做在床上,移動一下,手機就彷彿大海嘯幾下🌊
我一天如果見三個這樣客人,我的視線就搖晃了5個小時。工作完畢後,頭也會痛得厲害,無法完成晚上製片的工作。
沒有自拍器三腳架,也應該有些書本或東西來頂著手機。
各位,多點善心,為我著想一下吧⋯⋯
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To My Dear Zoom Clients
I have been enduring it for a really really long time. That's it! I am gonna put a stop to this after today and send out this reminder to all my past and future clients.
I am getting on in years, and cannot stand too much stimulation.
Please.... can you guys do a proper Zoom?
Number 1: Going on screen in Zoom = Taking a photograph for your passport.
Since 2020, the passport has become something of an antique but I believe everyone has taken some kind of ID photos! Yes, the ones with your neatly combed trusses where I can see both your ears, nose, mouth, neck, shoulder all the way to your chest.
I would like to see your full face during the Bazi Consultation. Please don't allow half your face to fall off the screen and you end up looking like Zhong Wu Yan! Please also don't hide your mouth making me feel like I am talking to a Arrowana.
When I analyze your facial features, it includes your mouth, teeth and the shape of your mouth while you are talking. Yes, it is down to such level of details.
If your PC / Laptop monitor is too low, please find a book or old newspapers and stack it on top. Please don't let me only see your double chin for that 1.5 hours, as I would probably get the proportion of your face wrong.
Don't keep telling me you are apologetic. Think of a way out.
Number 2: The background lighting.
Too dark, you risk looking like a ghost.
Too bright, I cannot figure out your skin color.
Draw open the curtains, but don't face your back to the sunlight.
If necessary, just turn on the lights!
Number 3: Background images of coconut trees on sandy beaches or the Golden Gate Bridge.
There is no need to put on a virtual background. I only care about how my hone looks, I am not bothered by yours. I am only here to see your Bazi.
If your WIFI signal or your PC / Laptop performance is poor, using the virtual background can often make your Zoom video choppy. Sometimes when you turn your body, one side of your body or some part of your hair will disappear. It's really like one of those spooky movies scaring the wits out of me.
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Number 4: Background environment and noise.
Some of my overseas clients really put in effort for our Zoom sessions. They bought a headset with a mic so that I can hear them properly and vice versa.
Those that did not use a earphone or a headset often sounded echo-ish, and if they spoke softly, I would have to turn on the volume on my side full throttle and still have a hard time trying to hear them.
There are some clients from Hong Kong and Malaysia who would rent meeting rooms, hotel rooms or private work spaces by the hour so as to reduce any disturbance from others and better focus on the Zoom session with me.
I recalled an interesting incident during the Circuit Breaker last year. A client from Singapore Zoom-ed with me along the corridor outside his house. Most of the time, I was hearing the howling of the winds rather than his voice.
Some clients sat themselves in coffee places for our session. These places are often filled with loud chatters and the clanging of cups and plates, and my ears suffered terribly. Yet, I have to continue to be seen as composed and attentive.
Goodness me, after 2 of such experiences, I decided that I rather refund these clients and never see them again. I have only 1 pair of ears and I want to protect them at all costs!
A normal earpiece that comes with the purchase of a handphone is good enough for Zoom video calls. For clients who do not have a earpiece/headset and a mic, I would end the consultation and refund the monies.
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Number 5: Children
There was once where a session with a female client was repeatedly disrupted by her kids, running in crying for their mother to settle their quarrels. If you have children below 6 years of age, and likely to interrupt our session, I suggest you don't book a consultation with me.
You will be distracted, unable to focus on my advice and I have to wait for you to clear up the situation with your children, eating into the allowable time for me to complete the consultation. This is unfair to both you and me.
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Number 6: I only meet one person, that is the Client.
I have set this requirement the day I stepped into this line of work, and it is clearly written in my booking form. There is no need to try your luck under any circumstances.
But in the space of 2 weeks, there were some clients who rode their luck and got their spouse / child to sit on the other side of the screen to listen in on our consultation.
I never change my stance, and there is no single client that I cannot afford to lose.
If you insist to have your spouse sit in, it is apparent that you do not need me to help transform your destiny. Rather you really need your spouse to put your heart at ease.
If such things happen the next time, I will end the session immediately and refund the fees.
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Number 7: "My first time using Zoom"
But you have 2 full months to prepare before our actual consultation. You did not end up wasting time exploring the software and I wasted 20 mins waiting for you to download the software.
Zoom is an easy software to use but if you did not spend the time to familiarize yourself with it, please quit the lies and tell me directly. I will refund the consultation fees on the spot.
Our moral ethics serve as the foundation for our transformation. Stop weaving web of lies to get out of sticky situations, and still claim that you are a good person. Isn't this too thick-skinned?
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Number 8: Giddy spells
Some clients use Ipad or their handphones for the Zoom session. Crucially, they hold the device with one hand, and take notes with the other. As they write, the other hand holding the phone becomes shaky. If he is doing that on his bed, his handphone would shake like a tsunami wave every time he changes his position.
If I see 3 such clients within a day, it would be 5 hours of shaking visuals for me. That would mean a splitting headache at the end of my work day, and not being able to work on my videos at night.
Even if you don't have a tripod stand, at least prop up the device with a book or something.
Please everyone, please be kind and have mercy on me......
wait and see意思 在 TheKellyYang Youtube 的評價
Hi大家好我又來了~~~~~ 我發現自從我逼大家叫我高產女王, 大家還真的叫了之後, 我就不好意思不高產了耶 這是什麼心態!!!
上次分享了螺螄粉的影片後馬上又幫自己的零食庫補貨! 大家知道我家裡一定會有一個零食庫馬~ 我就想說欸我何不來分享我補的零食 因為啊這次的零食有一半以上我都沒吃過 完全超新奇!!!!!!!!! 超喜歡吃沒吃過的東西!!!!!!!!
大家記得要先抓一包零食或是隨便一點東西邊吃邊看啊, 不然妳會很餓的真的..... 整個影片我拍完吃完我剩下的唯一一個印象竟然就是韓國拌飯LOL 其實這個韓國拌飯還有超多別的牌子耶 我下次要再買來吃吃看 這次很保守的只有買個三包 下次要大買特買~
明天中午決定要帶一包去吃~~~~~ 中午不用在冷冷的跑出去買東西吃啦ya
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wait and see意思 在 Teri Timeout Youtube 的評價
本年度最陽剛又最性感的MV就是Lil Nas X了😆
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-TERI xx
【完整翻譯】Lil Nas X & Jack Harlow - Industry Baby
Baby back, couple racksCouple Grammys on him, couple plaquesThat's a fact, throw it backThrow it back
我回來了 帶著滿架子的獎牌
葛萊美拿了好幾座 白金唱片得了一堆
這一切鐵證如山
所以趕快轉過去熱舞來討好我
And this one is for the championsI ain't lost since I beganFunny how you said it was the endThen I went did it again
這是獻給稱霸的冠軍
踏上路以來 我從來就未曾迷失
你不覺得好笑嗎? 酸民說我玩完了
但我回來了 又大獲全勝
I told you long ago on the roadI got what they waiting for
I don't run from nothing, dogGet your soldiers, tell 'em I ain't layin' low
早在那條老街上 我就說了吧
我有大家引頸期盼的東西
我可不會隨便逃跑
所以告訴你的大軍 我沒有要低調引退的意思
You was never really rooting for me anywayWhen I'm back up at the top, I wanna hear you sayHe don't run from nothin', dogGet your soldiers, tell 'em that the break is over
反正你也從來沒喜歡過我
當我重返榮耀 我要聽到你說
「他不會輕易離場」
所以集結你的大軍 告訴他們休息時間結束了
Need to get this album doneNeed a couple number onеsNeed a plaque on every song
Need mе like one with Nicki now
我得把這張專輯完成
我得再拿下幾座冠軍
我要每一首歌都有白金獎牌
我要和Nicki一起站上高峰
Tell a rap nigga I don't see yaI'm a pop nigga like Bieber
I don't fuck bitches, I'm queer
But these niggas bitches like Madea
告訴嘻哈饒舌仔 我眼裡根本沒有你
我就像小賈斯汀一樣 流行到爆
妹子?我沒興趣 我是酷兒
你們這些酸民就像個老媽子一樣
let's do it
I ain't fall off, I just ain't release my new shit
I blew up, now everybody tryna sue me
You call me Nas, but the hood call me Doobie
開工吧
我沒有跌落神壇 我只是新歌還沒發
我一夕爆紅 現在每個人都想告我
你們叫我Nas 但我家鄉的人叫我Doobie
[Jack Harlow]
My track record so clean, they couldn't wait to just bash meI must be gettin' too flashy, y'all shouldn't have let the world gas me
我沒拿什麼獎 他們等不及就說我沒實力
我肯定是太招搖了 你們不該讓全世界噴爆我
It's too late 'cause I'm here to stay and these girls know that I'm nastyI sent her back to her boyfriend with my handprint on her ass cheek
太遲了 因為老子我已經要在這裡待下
妹子們都愛我
讓我在她的翹臀上留下紅紅的掌印
再回去找她男朋友
City talkin', we takin' notesTell 'em all to keep makin' postsWish he could, but he can't get close
OG so proud of me that he chokin' up while he makin' toasts
I'm the type that you can't control, said I would, then I made it so
謠言四起 我們做著筆記
告訴大家繼續po文吧
他只是羨慕 但他永遠趕不上我
嘻哈大老們為我驕傲 他敬酒的時候還在哽咽
我完全不受控 我就是說到做到
I don't clear up rumors, where's y'all sense of humor?
I'm done makin' jokes 'cause they got old like baby boomers
Turned my haters to consumers, I make vets feel like they juniors
Say your time is comin' soon, but just like Oklahoma
我從來沒在闢謠的 你們難道都沒幽默感嗎
我也不想在開玩笑了 不然怎麼講都是老梗
把我的酸民變粉絲 讓老兵變年輕
你說你的時代已經要來了
Mine is comin' sooner, I'm just a late bloomerI didn't peak in high school, I'm still out here gettin' cuter
All these social networks and computersGot these pussies walkin' 'round like they ain't losers
但我的時代來的更快 我是大器晚成
我在高中不受歡迎 但現在我越來越討喜
這些鍵盤戰士 總是故意說著妹子怎樣 顯得自己比較不魯
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照片不但留住回憶,也總會留住當時種種情緒。 旅遊不但讓我們忘記該忘記的,也總會讓我們記起遺忘了的,讓我們的心重新出發。或許這就是出走的樂趣。雖然音質比較差,但重要的是紀錄了這一段記憶。事先說聲不好意思,更好音質的接下來會有更多! Thank you Sri Lanka for the adventure, and praying for the victims and their friends and families affected by the flood, reminiscing the beautiful days you gave us with the birds chirping away. Take good care. Much love. #prayforsrilanka
感謝 iCable 帶我們到斯里蘭卡?? 旅行, 感謝《帶吉他去旅行》節目團隊!Keep this deep within your soul, wait for me to come home.
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