Early Childhood Phase
Bonda nak share pengalaman Bonda sepanjang tengok dua dua anak Bonda membesar . macam yang selalu orang tua kata , lain anak lain ragamnya . Kadang kadang kita sebut je tapi tak tahu punca kenapa ragamnya macam tu
Bonda memang nampak beza Aryan and Mika sepanjang mereka membesar . Apa yang Bonda buat untuk Mika , tak sama dengan apa yang Bonda dapat buat untuk Aryan masa Aryan baya Mika dulu .
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Mother wants to share mother's experience while watching two of my children grow up. As always parents say, other children are different. Sometimes we just mention it but we don't know the reason why it's like that
Mother really looks the difference between Aryan and mika as long as they grow up. What Mother did for Mika, not the same as what mother was able to do for Aryan during aryan baya mika first.
This is what mother meant, Aryan when she was a year old, disgusting to step on the sand, afraid of swimming swimming pool, and quickly scared when she heard the sound of firecrackers. Mika, not sneezing with sand, it's fun when it comes into the water, and it when listening to the sound of firecrackers.
Why is it like that? When Aryan baby got to age like Mika, mother didn't do the activity that mother now apply to Mika. At that time I was still looking for a tune to take care of my first child. New Mother said it.
There is no experience. So, when you see the effect of not being beraktiviti with your children from the beginning of age, mother determination to be istiqamah in fixing mother's parenting skills by doing better for Mika and Aryan.
Starting to start mother feels like it's too late to do all that for Aryan. But the truth is, there's never a late term when we try to find what method to use to improve our children's level. And of course, when we realize the importance of the lesson that we want to give to our children, nothing is impossible.
Maybe in a few people, will say that wasting time to beraktiviti with small children who don't know what this is. Mother doesn't agree because when she was 0-3 years old, this is the time they absorb all things like sponge.
Whatever we do will be emulated. Orders may not always be effective for children or children to listen to. But, our actions, our habits, our lifestyle that is observed by our children will always be the foundation of our children's behavior.
Our children's sub-conscious experience with us from birth until at least 3 years old, will be an orientation or fundamental in their life in the following year before they mix with other circles outside the house.
So, we have to set a standard or a basic stone that can help our children build their personality from the beginning of age. How is that? Start with basic training.
Example of basic training?
1. Train the mind
2. Train emotions
3. Train motor skills
4. Train the heart
No clue to do all this? These days are getting more advanced. There are a lot of content creators that share about all the topics above. Whether we are hardworking or not to explore. It's not even 10 hours to google an example of an activity that we can make a method to train our children about 4 things above.
And the myth that always moving among parents is the cost. Don't even need expensive tools. Even using things around us is enough. Like Mother, mother chose to DIY most activities because mother believes that we can achieve good results in wanting to run activity with children without spending a lot of money. Can refer to the picture below later.
For parents who are still looking for tune, mother is pleased to invite everyone to follow the activity of mother doing with this mother's children. Don't be afraid or lazy to be lazy. Let's get tired now, don't get dizzy later.
In the picture of all examples of activity during Mika 3 months to 12 months. Please follow mother's Instagram for more activities.
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Credit: Nurul Haziatul Munira Nurul Haziatul MuniraTranslated
