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Continue ReadingSister-Brother-Baby:
Love each other doesn't mean we have to like each other all.
(write to some content in the film)
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One time dad and sister (which I call jae) got into an argument. I tried to say something to two sides. Good night. I'm angry. All the reason. What my sister said back is " you don't have to mess with me. They live together. For decades, it will fade. We will come back to talk well as usual. Just not now " and the words I remember " no need to make a big deal. People in the house fight is normal "
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Yesterday, I watched "Brother-Brother-darling" without expecting the movie to focus on brother-sister relationship like this. But the more I sit and watch, the more I think about myself and my sister.
If you ask if the movie is fun. I say - there are jokes to laugh at. Most of them are cute and not grip. It should be because of sunny and yaya, especially sunny playing forgetful. Let's say he's handsome from this hugh grant step. He has already crossed to Jim Carrie's steps, but that's it - this movie is more than fun and I want to invite you to watch a lot.
I miss myself and my sister because the movie shows the difference " between these two extreme. My brother can't want to go anywhere. No mess. Keep going to survive with the day. The perfect sister. Good at studying, good job. Great Sports. These two lives are like sky and abyss.
Me and my sister are not this different, but there is a similar part of me. I am quite unorganized, free love while my sister is good at studying, organized with life, which I think most brothers always have "different" in their own way
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There is a word that "friends are relatives that we can choose they are" brothers are friends that we didn't choose and can't choose I was born, there is this person in our house with us. No matter what, we have to live with it. Many more years, maybe my whole life.
I can't change people. I can't stop being in relationship.
I believe that I often think in my heart, "if I could change this person, it would be good" but the point is - you can't change.
" Brother-sister " is a strange relationship. We don't choose to be together, but we have to endure each other. We don't like each other, but we have to live together for a long time that created " Bond " until it becomes a relationship. And it's " I don't like you but I love you
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In a family where one brother or brother has a super clear personality. The other will become the opposite side of that person.
Brother-sister is a mirror back to each other's side (part of them)
Being together for a long time. Brothers is a relationship that " Compare " unintentionally. Even in denial, we can't help but compare. Sometimes this comparison is so deep that we don't realize, but it influences " US "
If you were a student, at first, you would try to fight. But if you didn't do well, you would go to get good things right away, such as becoming crazy, Sports, crazy, art, game or something that is not about studying in grade card.
If your brother is very organized, you will be stubborn and break the rules. If you are diligent, you may act back. Sit and sleep comfortably. If you go to a good personality, you may run away from the funny way. Funny way, and more. Let's see brothers around. I will see a few "mirrors" like this.
We all influence each other.
Another saying is " we all create one another's identity
I often don't create another person like us, but it makes another person different from us because he wants to "run away" the other way, not to repeat the way. I won't let you over the way.
Brother-sister is the first problem of our life that we have to find. What kind of "we will" do on our path. If we can't fight with another person on the road, there is still any way to go. Finding a solution like this over and over again. The handsome one who we are " to be the way we were when we were growing up.
And this kind of turning back that slowly creates the "opposite couple" in the two of us slowly spread us apart. Slowly makes us a different world and it's possible that -- slowly makes us understand each other less.
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Look at my brother, I see that he is on another planet. We are human beings who are made (or) to be in the same house.
The second problem that people have siblings slowly learn from teenagers to mature. How can we live with "different stars" to be happy to get the answer to this problem. Some people spend their whole life.
As if we have different brothers, so that we can learn to live with different people (no matter how much we say). We can't go anywhere. We may be separated for some time, but our hearts are tied.
Don't like it but love it
This is the kind of relationship training that " couples " can't give because couples are ready to " break up " when it comes to the point where they can't stand it, but brothers won't let the relationship reach that point because we both know that we will never stop being brother. Sister or if you have to stop being, it would be the saddest thing in life. It's a scar that I see it, it hurts every time.
So we support "the difference" in every way we can figure out.
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Like this, being a sibling is not a fun, beautiful dream. This movie is so good not to remind that dream. If it is to "work" a mental work to accept and love someone who is different from us with the heart. Not by judgement, judge him by personal standards.
We can only love my brother or brother when we go to "Stand in his shoes" wearing shoes. He looks at life from his angle. His condition. His handsome experience, then you will understand why he is like that. Why he thinks so. We may even be surprised that he is because we are.
Understanding will happen when switching shoes to exchange each other's stand and we will not judge the actions of brother or brother by one side. (like "brother chor cuddle hours" in judging sister's help with their own perspective in Wedding day)
Brothers open the opportunity for us to "exchange shoes" more often than other relationships that are less ready to forgive.
Many times, I think that the most valuable gift that brothers will give to each other, not a great thing. If it is to forgive each other with a heart that doesn't owe each other with open arms and say "I'm okay with you" even in our hearts, we may want him to change. In a way we think it's better than we are, but that may be just judging by personal standards. Embracing who he is is more valuable than trying to give him what (we think) is good.
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I like that the movie doesn't end at changing "who" of both of you or sisters. It's still the way they are. People don't change easily.
Brothers and sisters don't change "who they are" if you understand what kind of feelings we should be brothers.
Change from carrying the weight of comparison, but the difference, cursing what the other is to be best wishes for each other.
Yes, wish for each other -- we may have each other to learn this
We can wish to be good to each other without liking the other. and if we wish to be good for him happy, we may have to give up something. We may not have to try to change him. We just live beside each other with a heart. Expectation for one another to be the happiest
This is the lesson about "best wishes" that brothers teach us.
What brother chor cuddle said to the grandchild (sister's son) at the end, "I am a brother now. I love you very much" is a deep meaning when he has passed the cremation of brothers relationship.
" love you " is for sure, but " how to love " is what we take a long time to learn.
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After a few days, my sister bought some delicious rice for dad. Then the whole family sat around the band, eating and talking as usual.
Our house is back to normal again, but it's nice to ask about the meaning of " normal it may be the way my sister or jae said. Fighting is normal for people in the house.
We may fight to learn how to be together. Let us gradually pass the "best wishes" class. Same step by step with the relationship between me and my sister. Nowadays we are still human beings who are made / scalmed / scalmed in the same house. Not all the marks, but I can confirm that we always love each other.
This is what a different star sister taught me without saying, but a long relationship. Hints some secrets of life to me, "to love someone, we don't have to like all that they are"
This secret may not only be used with "Brother-sister"
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My brother and I used to have a time when we were apart and stopped talking to each other. But then one day we came back to talk again.
Some brothers relationship is not sweet and fragrant. Anyone who has a smooth relationship with brothers is lucky. But I think I am lucky.
I have known bitter love, and I believe my sister also tasted it from our love.
If it's this different, we can still love each other until one day. This lesson should spread our heart space to love many different people who have to meet in life.
Maybe this is why we were conjured in the same house since we were young.
I know that you love me, and I love you. I don't like all that the other person is, but we slowly learn to accept what we don't like.
I want to invite you to watch this movie, but I know that it will look strange. I believe that if you watch it, they will miss me. The scene where brothers hug each other at the end, the story will replace our feelings.
The distance between us is so far apart, meanwhile, very close.
What kind of relationship can teach us like this?
Don't believe that love is only sweet and don't believe that love is not sweet.
It's beautiful in another way.
Just like our brother or brother - he is beautiful in his way.
And all we should do is embrace that beauty
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「林醫師,你幫Janet接生呀?」
「Nonono.!..是George接生的!
從頭到尾都在搖滾區卻非常的專注冷靜!」
Janet Hsieh 謝怡芬 & George Young 真的是非常恩愛的一對夫妻
能參與他們的懷孕,生產,是件幸福的事
祝福你們
首先~要大大感謝大家的恭喜和祝福簡訊及禮物!其實到現在一切都還感覺很不真實,而我好像還停留在呆滯的狀態。我,的,天,啊,我真的是位媽咪了! George Young 我們有個兒子了!
(對了所以有人猜對嗎?是位男孩,10/11,凌晨2:37出生,3650公克,有大GG(像媽媽一樣man,哈哈!)
First of all, THANK YOU for all of the congratulatory messages, support, and presents! It’s been so surreal and I’m still in a daze. OMG! I’m a MOMMY!!! GEORGE, WE HAVE A SON!! @instageorgy
(BTW, anybody guess correctly? Baby boy, born Oct 11, 2:37am, 3650g, big GG (Takes after mommy. haha!))
現在我終於有時間可以稍微回顧,也同時想把這特別的分娩經驗分享給大家。
Now that I have time to think back, I wanted to share MY labor experience with you.
如何把寶寶生出來的101條守則:
How to deliver a baby 101:
先列出一個非常詳細的生寶寶計畫,包含以下需要事先想清楚:
自然產 v.s. 剖腹產
有打藥催生 v.s. 無藥
會陰剪開 v.s. 自然撕裂
是否寶寶一生出來就和母體肌膚接觸
是否保存臍帶、臍帶血
Write a very detailed birth plan. Include the following
Vaginal delivery vs. C-section
Medicated vs. Non-medicated
Episiotomy or natural tearing
Skin to skin afterwards or not
Do you want to keep the umbilical cord and cord blood for cord blood registry?
2. 小心翼翼地拿著那本生寶寶計畫並且沿長邊對著中線對折
Take that birth plan and carefully fold it in half, long ways, down the middle.
3. 再將紙攤開來
Open it back up again
4. 將紙的右上角往中線摺成三角形
Fold the top right corner down to the middle line, forming a triangle
5. 將紙的左上角往中線摺成另一個對等的三角形
Fold the left right corner down to the middle line, forming a matching triangle
6. 將你的生寶寶計畫(現在它應該是個紙飛機了)往窗外飛,然後和它揮手說再見
Fly your birth plan (now a paper airplane) out the closest window and wave byebye
哈哈。 well, 這個是我自己的經驗啦。
Haha. Well, that’s how it worked out for me in the end anyway.
生小孩之前,我們做很多研究,問了很多朋友然後跟我們的醫生 林思宏醫師 討論了。我跟George決定要用最自然的方式來生小孩, 用最少的醫療。 除非有緊急狀況或是必須的條件,我們盡量不要用催生、針筒、無痛藥或任何其他的藥物,也不想會陰側切或是剖腹。
Before delivering out baby boy, and after doing a lot of research and talking to numerous friends and our physician Dr. Jason Lin, George and I had decided that we wanted as “natural” of a birth as possible, meaning: as little medical intervention as possible. Unless there was a medical emergency or absolute necessity, we wanted no induction, no needles, no pain medication, no episiotomy, and definitely, no surgery.
不過很顯然的我們的寶寶很有想法,他有自己的一套計畫:已經41週大了他就是不打算出來(即便他已經有個超級大頭而且已經3700克),而且一點產兆都沒有!於是林醫師強烈建議我們催生。因此,在10月9日的中午,我們冷靜的打包好,吃飽午餐,非常平靜的前往醫院。這感覺好像是我們要去一趟三天兩夜的小旅行(嗯哼,最好是),但其實仔細想一想,我們的寶寶今天就要出來與我們見面這件事其實是蠻嚇人的!這是一種很詭異的平靜卻緊張的氛圍,好像我們一切都很有效率。
Well, our baby had his own plan. He (even with his big ol’ head and already almost 3700g) just didn’t want to come out, and after 41 weeks and not a single sign of labor, Dr. Lin highly recommended that we induce. So, on October 9 at noon, with our bags calmly packed, lunch eaten, we head to the hospital in a weird daze. It felt like we were packing for a 3-day holiday (haha! Yeah right!), but it was also so scary to think that we could have a baby TODAY! It was a strange calmness/nervousness. Almost like we were being too efficient.
其實坐上計程車後我們一度很想請司機回頭,並取消約診,然後回家繼續等。不過仔細想想又覺得,那,我們到底在等什麼?如果我們只是為了固執的等待陣痛自己來臨,卻因此造成拖延而產生很多不可控制的病發症怎麼辦?
There were moments in the short cab ride when we nearly told the taxi to turn around, cancel the appointment, and just wait it out. And then there were times when we thought, well, what exactly are we waiting for? What if we cause some complications because we were stubborn about waiting for contractions to start on their own?
每一位迎接寶寶來臨的準媽媽甚至準爸爸都會害怕自己的寶寶會在準備出生的前幾天因為受臍帶纏繞而窒息,或是寶寶會開始在媽媽肚子的羊水中便便甚而吃到自己的胎便,這其實很危險且容易造成感染,或是胎盤會開始失去功能等等。身為一位母親,妳就是會時不時的替寶寶擔心這擔心那,一切都是為了確保他/她能夠平安。
Every mother and even father has the fear that their baby will get tangled on its umbilical cord and stop breathing just DAYS before he or she is supposed to be born, or that it will start to poop inside and eat it’s own poop inside the amniotic fluid which can be very dangerous and cause infection, or the placenta will start will fail, etc etc. As a mother, you are constantly worried about that baby inside your belly and you just want to do anything possible to make sure it is OK.
所以,因為腦中有這麼多的擔心和顧慮不斷徘徊,於是我們乖乖的聽醫師的話,10月9日的中午12點準時到醫院報到,和飯店check in,喔不是,我是說我們的產房,並且真的開始面對催生這件事。
So, with these concerns and considerations in mind, we listened to our doctor and by 12 noon on October 9th, we checked into our hotel room, I mean, our hospital room, and started INDUCTION.
長話短說,38小時過後,我們的男寶寶來到這個世界。我絕對會說他是我們”美麗的男寶寶”!但你們真的見過寶寶剛生出來的樣子嗎?(George當時是搖滾區) 它當時並不是我認為最美的事物我必須承認...,它其實長得像異形啊!哈哈!
Long story short, 38 hours later, we have our baby boy. I would say our “beautiful baby boy,” but have you SEEN a baby when it comes out?! (George did at the business end). It is not the prettiest thing… it looks like an alien! Haha!
說真的我真的不知道如果沒有林思宏醫師、產房護理長王俐文還有其他護理人員、Holly及許多客服人員們的協助我會怎麼樣。生寶寶真的是件既美妙卻又嚇人的一件事,尤其當妳在分娩的這段期間只有感受到自己的無比脆弱,妳絕對會需要一個懂妳也懂妳的寶寶的團隊來支持妳:一個能不時監測妳和寶寶狀態的專業團隊,且具備充分耐心可以願意一一回答妳百萬種不可思議的問題。妳絕對會需要一個盡量能讓妳感到放心的環境,在這可能是妳人生中最不舒服的一天!(或者舉我為例,我人生中最不舒服的38小時!)
I honestly don’t know what I would have done without the support of Dr. Jason Lin, Wendy (our doula), and the rest of the nurses and staff at 禾馨婦產科-專業母胎兒醫學中心 . Having a baby is a wonderful, yet absolutely terrifying thing, and you feel completely vulnerable when you are going through labor. You need a team by your side who knows what YOU want for your delivery and for you and your baby. A professional group who is there to monitor you and your baby in case anything goes wrong, and who is also caring and supportive enough to answer all of your millions of silly questions. You need an environment which makes you feel as comfortable as possible, in what is going to possibly be THE MOST UNcomfortable day in your life! (Or, in my case, 38 LOOONG hours of my life!)
謝謝林醫師的熱情和專業,尤其在回答我們千奇百怪的問題的同時還能用一套幽默與邏輯來平息我們的不安。如果我真的要再做一次生產這件事,不用問,我一定會讓George來生...哈哈。不過說真的,我真的找不到第二人選來幫我的男寶寶順產接生。
Thank you Dr. Lin for your passion for your job, your professionalism when answering our questions, and your sense of humor to calm our nerves. If I had to do it all over again, there’s no question… I’d make GEORGE have our baby… Haha. But seriously, I can’t think of a better person that I’d rather have deliver our baby boy.
再來是護理長王俐文,妳真的是上帝派來的天使、我的救世主!妳陪伴著我和George最難熬的那幾個小時是我永生難忘!妳在我最艱困的的每一次陣痛幫我擦乾我的眼淚、用妳的笑容鼓勵我,幫我擠出那些痛、按摩我、跟我一起做骨盆搖擺運動,妳是我的意志力讓我堅持到最後。真的真的真的好感謝妳
And Wendy. Oh Wendy. You are an angel. A godsend. My savior! The hours that you spent with George and I during my most difficult moments will never be forgotten. You helped wipe away my tears, encouraged me with your smile, squeezed, massaged, swayed, and moved with me through all of my toughest contractions, and you kept me sane when I thought I couldn’t last another second. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU.
獻給那些即將臨盆的媽咪們,我不騙你,生產真的是我人生目前做過最嚇人的一件事!我從來沒有為一件事情如此害怕、緊張過。不過希望妳也可以一樣,有個很支持妳、照顧妳的家人和醫療團隊在妳身邊,也能像我一樣,順利地生出健康、開心又獨一無二珍貴的寶寶,妳們的寶寶!祝妳好運!加油!
To any moms out there about to deliver a baby, I won’t lie. It is the scariest thing I have ever done in my life. I have never been so nervous or scared about anything before. But hopefully, like me, you have an amazing support group and family by your side… and like me, you will also deliver a healthy, happy and precious baby. YOUR baby. GOOD LUCK. JIA YOU!
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聖誕快到,藉著《HIM》大碟的推出,我再在這裡分享我在去年聖誕寫下的見證文章。
祝福大家,愛你們!
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《周慧敏2013信仰見證文章》
2013聖誕快樂
Dear all
成為基督徒後,聖誕節對我的意義不一樣了。聖誕再不是關於聖誕老人、聖誕禮物、或聖誕狂歡派對的節日,聖誕是紀念著耶穌基督的愛而普世歡騰的日子。這天,提醒我祂賜給我們的恩典,讓我時刻都感受到被愛與能愛的幸福。所以,這個聖誕,我希望向您們表達愛和思念的同時,也藉著這個特別的日子為我的信仰作見證。
其實,訓練了自己40多年建立而來的一套信念,理應根深蒂固,能讓我心甘情願地放下這套建立已久的信念,由零開始,真的不可思議,神的力量遠遠超乎人能想像的。
未信主前,我曾經視個人修為作生活一大指標。因為自信,我認為依靠他人或宗教是軟弱的行為,所以,並不理解和輕視聖經強調因信才能得救的重要性。一天,我與朋友偶然談起宗教,意識到基督教以外的宗教大都強調自我修為的重要,然而,那套準則,幾乎是凡人不可能達到的。再者,我想到若聖經所說的屬實,那麼因我沒有信主,未接受基督的救贖,我即使在個人修為上到達到甚麼境界,都是沒有資格進天堂的罪人。相反,就算聖經所說的不實,我即使成為基督徒,其實都沒半點捐失,因為我不會在個人修為上退步。想到這裡,我決意用開放心認識基督教,了解聖經所強調的信,生命就這樣逆轉。
記得第一次到教會,適逢2009年的復活節崇拜,那天我的心情異常激動,我抖震的聲音無法唱出半句聖詩,但我在心裡,卻重覆地向神說著一句話:「天父,我回家了!」
初信主的那段日子,特別需要私人空間,好讓自己專注尋求神,免於因瑣事分心。但因為我是公眾人物,這個要求談何容易,我無法控制人,只能憑信心祈求神。一年下來,我與丈夫到教會崇拜,與教友查經,一切與尋求神有關的事宜,都被聖靈保護著,進行得很順利。記得決志當晚,我決心棄掉家裡一切與拜偶像有關的物件,禱告承認自己的罪,接受耶穌基督的救贖,感受到前所未有的輕鬆、平安,與寧靜。
聖經讓我明白得救不是靠自身修煉,而是靠基督的救贖,無人能夠憑行為自誇。就是因為世上沒有完美的人,世人就無需把個人修為的高低定位,因為永遠高處未算高。當我放下剛硬的心看清自己的罪,我喜見自己逐步放下了舊我,放下了盲目靠個人力量的一套自信,放下呈強的擔子。摒棄了成年人的外殼,讓我從孩提階段再生,而建立起對人對事的謙讓。越是懂得把自身的不足放大,把自滿縮小,我發覺自己更有勇氣包容憐惜人的軟弱。信仰令我的價值觀改變了很多。現在,我不會執著世界的眼光,更不時提醒自己不以自己的準則要求或論斷別人。就是因為信念明確,自己就更有能力去取捨和追求,尋到真正喜樂的根源,和那份靠個人力量無法相比的強大信心。
如果不是神的安排,很難想像在我尋找祂的道路上,能走得這般通暢無阻。回想這段路,其實神的使者早已陸續在我的生活裡出現,為我的信作預備,保守我的心直到受浸。隨著2010年浸禮的進行,我的舊我就如跟著基督死去般浸進水裡去。我從水裡起來那刻,我就如跟隨著基督復活,成為新造的人。哥林多後書5章17節記著說:「若有人在基督裡,他就是新造的人,舊事已過,都變成新的了。」
受浸後,相信神會藉著更多試煉,讓我學習信靠和順服祂,而得以在靈裡成長,以神喜悅的方式生活。今後,因著信,我已得著平安的心,欣然面對未來的考驗,走在光明與愛的道路中,盼望基督再來。我感謝神讓我看清自身的不足,給我謙卑的心去繼續尋求,好好愛神,愛人,愛自己。
2014年,是我踏進演藝界的第28個年頭。這些年來,與大家建立了的一份友誼,相信是我回顧演藝生涯裡得著最珍貴的禮物。過去,我接收了很多愛,今天我可以藉著同樣的藝人身份和崗位透過工作回報支持者,是我最大的福氣。感謝神讓我們相遇,以愛互動。2013的聖誕,無論您們身在高處或低處,願您們都能感受到祂給我們的愛,而得著那份平安與喜樂!
親愛的,聖誕快樂!God Bless!
Love
V :)
2013 Merry Christmas
Dear all
Christmas has a new meaning to me after I have become a Christian. The festival, no longer about Santa Claus, Christmas present or rave party – it is now a time to celebrate the love of Jesus Christ and the joy to the world. This day reminds me of the grace given by God, I feel so blessed that I am able to love and be loved. At this Christmas, when I am telling you how much I love and miss you, I would like to take this special opportunity to witness for Christ.
Honestly, I have trained myself to follow my own rules for more than 40 years. These principals are supposed to have deep-rooted in my mind. But I have changed, I am willing to let go my long-established self-belief and rebuild a new me. God’s power, far beyond our imagination, is truly amazing.
Prior to my believing in God, I regarded personal development as an ultimate goal in my life. I was always self-confident, regarding the dependence on others or relying on religion is a kind of weakness. You can imagine - it was reasonable that I didn’t understand and even look down on what is emphasized in the Bible – salvation only comes from faith in God. One day, my friends occasionally chatted with me about religion, I then realized that the other religions (other than Christianity) stress on the importance of self-development. But the standards set by them are almost impossible to accomplish. Then I thought more about it - if what the Bible tells us is true, I would consider myself not yet qualified to believe in God - because I have not obtained salvation from Jesus Christ, that means no matter how well I have developed myself, I am still a sinner, still not eligible to get into the gate of heaven.
But, how about the Bible is wrong? I won’t lose anything even if I decide to be a Christian – I am still the same person and my personal quality will not be affected. I decided to open my heart to learn about Christianity, to understand the faith emphasized in the Bible. My life has been changed since then.
I remember it was the 2009 Easter Service, the first time I went to church. I was extremely excited and I couldn’t sing the hymn at all with my trembling voice. But in my heart, I kept praying to God: “Father, I am home! I am home!”
In my early stage of becoming a Christian, I tried to minimize distractions from trivial issues and spare more room for myself to focus on seeking God’s mercy. But being a public figure, it is not easy to have a lot of privacy, I couldn’t do anything but only pray to God for help. For the whole year I felt very blessed by the Holy Spirit, everything relating to my seeking of God went on smoothly, such as going to church with my husband and gathering with fellow Christians for bible study groups. On the night when I made a commitment to follow Jesus, I decided to clear away everything at home that is in relationship to false idol worshipping. Then I prayed to God and confess my sins, and received salvation from Jesus Christ. Immediately, I felt so relaxed, peaceful and calm, I have never felt as easy.
The Bible teaches me a lesson – salvation comes from Jesus and not self-development, nobody can boast about themselves a well developed person. In fact, no one is perfect and there is no need to judge the level of self-development. After I have let go of my stubborn mind and seen my own sin, I am happy to see that I have gradually left my old self behind and no longer solely depend on my own confidence or strength. I don’t have to gear up and show my strong sides anymore, I am free from the hardship. Abandoning the adult self, I am reborn as a kid and I have more courage to accept the weakness of human. My value changes after I am in God - no longer persistent to man’s value. And I always remind myself not to judge others with my own criteria. Now I have a clear direction towards seeking God, I am more powerful to let go and seek for the ultimate source of joy, as well as the great faith which self-strength can never compare to.
I cannot imagine without God’s mercy, how can I walk so well on the path leading to Him? But when I look back, God’s messengers have gradually come into my life and prepared me for my change, as well as preserving my heart till my baptism. At my 2010 baptism ceremony, the ‘old me’ died, just like Jesus Christ immersed into water after his death. At the moment I was raised from water, I was reborn just as Jesus’ resurrection and became a new person. “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” 2 Corinthians 5:17.
After my baptism, God allows trials and testings to help me grow deeper in my trust in Him. I learned to grow in the Holy Spirit, and to live my life in a way pleasing to God. I now have a peaceful mind and I am contented to face the coming challenges, walking on the path of light and love and wait for Jesus to come again. I am really thankful to God for guiding me and grant me a humble mind to seek for Him, to love God, love everyone and myself.
The coming year 2014 is my 28th year being an artist. I am very happy that we have built friendship and stayed close, this is the most treasured gift in my career. In the past I received a lot of love from you, today I am glad that I am able to return my love as an artist, this is a real blessing. Thank God for letting us gather together and interact with love. At 2013 Christmas, no matter you are struggling or enjoying life, I hope that you can feel the love, peace and joy from Him!
My dear, Merry Christmas! God Bless!
Love
V :)
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