มนุษย์เป็นสิ่งซับซ้อน
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มีเพื่อนบางคนที่เฮฮาตอนอยู่กับเรา แต่พออยู่ต่อหน้าคนอื่นกลับเงียบเชียบเคร่งขรึม บางคนอยู่ในบ้านเป็นคนดุ พูดจาโผงผาง พอออกจากบ้านกลับกลายเป็นคนสุภาพอ่อนหวาน บางคนเคยพูดไว้ว่าจะไม่ทำสิ่งนี้เด็ดขาด เวลาผ่านไปกลับกลายเป็นว่า ทำได้หน้าตาเฉย
เราพบเห็นเรื่องราวเช่นนี้อยู่ตลอดเวลา สิ่งที่ตามมาคือความสับสนว่า ตกลง "มึงเป็นคนยังไง"
...Continue ReadingHumans are complicated.
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There are some friends who are funny when they are with us, but when they are in front of others, they are in the house. Some people are like they are like they are like they leave the house, they become polite. Some people once said they won't do this. Time has passed. It turns out that I can do it.
We see stories like this all the time. What follows is confusion that " what you are
Confusion in the personality that turns upside down or today. Tomorrow is another way. It hurts us down with that person.
I invite you to put the right-wrong thing first, but I want to think what makes us 'upset' with the volatility of people.
The answer that I get from myself is that we have expectations that people must have a predictable personality. We often try to ' limit ' or create that person's definition ' in mind.
We often make humans become ' simple ' beings because the nature of our brain doesn't like complexity, so we try to ' summarize ' things to understand whether this is like this or this person is like this person.
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The problem is that our 'summary' is always coming back to hurt themselves.
Because human beings are too complicated to conclude by a few definitions.
We can't limit anyone with narrow words, such as he is good, he is honest, gentle, gentle, he is simple, he is funny or evil, he is a bad person. He is a bad person. He is a cuddle girls. He is a savage, etc. Definition that we limit the experience we have touched by that person.
There are many aspects that we don't know or even that person doesn't know that they have that side in us. But when the situation changes, he is changed.
A good man becomes a bad person as much as a bad person. For one may be good for another.
Humans are never still and complicated
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Like this, what we can do to degrade disappointment is to expand the definition for one person. If you ever draw a narrow line, you should be ' space ' for ' for ' he doesn't know yet know ' For it too.
Do this often, we will be 'shocked' by human personality. The more often change with our hearts, the more we accept this nature of human beings.
Preparing our heart doesn't make his fault, but disappointments in our heart is less. Think -- Well, humans are like this.
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Humans are not still. We will have a headache and crack if we try to lock someone in a ' frame ' or ' that we have draft ' just because we want to see him like that.
Keep an eye on the possibilities in him and absorb the truth of life that we can't understand anyone easily. Even we can change into something we haven't portrayed. Even we are with one person. We are like one. Another one, isn't it?
Expecting 'stillness' from human beings is the source of pain and disappoint
When learning through the experience of watching this complexity in our friends around us, we live with less panic.
When someone is not what they think, instead of asking "why can it be like that It becomes" Oh, it can be like this too
Those who accept human complexities are less hurt by human beings.
Smile, accept, think in mind -- humans are so complicated.Translated
