ความหมายของความเงียบ
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เคยไหม พยายามแก้ปัญหาต่างๆ ด้วยถ้อยคำ อธิบายสารพันด้วยความเชื่อว่าคำอธิบายจะทำให้สถานการณ์ต่างๆ ดีขึ้น แต่แล้วถ้อยคำที่เลือกสรรแล้วกลับยิ่งทำให้เข้าใจผิด แต่แล้วถ้อยคำที่เผลอร่วงหล่นจากปากกลับยิ่งทำให้ทุกสิ่งย่ำแย่ลงไปอีก
เคยไหม ที่ทุรนทุรายกับความเข้าใจผิดนั้น พยายามกู่ร้องขอโอกาสปรับความเข้าใจ มี 'ความหมาย' มากมายที่อยากสื่อสารออกไปเพื่อเราจะได้เข้าใจกันมากขึ้น
...Continue ReadingThe meaning of silence.
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Have you ever tried to solve the problem with words with faith that the explanation will make the situation better. But then the words that you choose, the more mislead, but then the words that fall from your mouth, the more it makes everything worse.
Have you ever been that everyone with misconception is trying to ask for an opportunity to adjust understanding. There are many 'meaning' that you want to communicate so that we can understand each other more.
At that time, the most disgusting thing we don't want.
Is silence.
If the other is quiet and doesn't allow us to communicate, the more we feel hot as boiled water, but the pot is closed. It doesn't move. Ready to explode at any time.
But is actually that disgusting silence?
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A lot of meaningless words that try to recover the situation may not affect as well as they think. In the moment of the other's ears are closed.
That moment we may have to let 'silence' do some work.
Give both that person time and ourselves
Quiet - to pause to ponder
Quiet - so that the mood is unfold.
Quiet - so that the anxieties fade away
Silent - to turn back to the truth without emotion that exaggerate everything.
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'Silence' is to create space to open the opportunity for us to create new emotions in the same area. If it is not quiet, the contents that we will be around like stirring water in the original container.
Silence is pouring water
When you throw away, some people still pour old water in it. It's okay. But some people can think about it and try to pour a new one that is clearer and mix.
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When we are wrong, silence is hard to endure. Separated without having a chance to talk is something nobody wants.
But silence has its benefits.
Silence between people who are still enormous, after silence will be attracted to each other with less force.
On the contrary, if silence happens between one person who wants to close the door, silence will be useful, it makes us back alone again. We will miss another voice that we have been beside you. But when There is no voice. If we can live with silence long enough without trying to call that person. The voice that is not spoken to ourselves will gradually make us stronger. It is a strength within the mind. It's like a journey alone that has to face a lot but not a word. Complaining is better than I shout out to someone else who doesn't care.
Let silence heal. Let silence grow strength.
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We never get used to silence because we are afraid of loneliness.
We feel that silence is meaningless.
But no. Silence is always meant to be.
In the midst of a tough relationship, when it gives silence - there is always power.
If it is not power to two people, it is the power that happens to the other. Or at least it is the power that happens to ourselves.
Those who hate silence and try to cry for love, try to explain everything with words. Try to use a reason to solve many things that they have to lose a lot of valuable things that are worse than it should be.
Silence that means more than ten thousands of words that are embedded at the wrong time.
The right silence means a lot.
Which beat is the rhythm
This answer is the one who knows the art of silence.Translated
