整形，毀容，離婚，我行我素，自由自在，不跟風，勇敢，敢作敢當，瀟灑，犀利，是姐姐一直以來被公認是我的性格。
十年裡，從被罵被淘汰被酸被笑被罵到今天全部人叫我一聲「大姐」⋯ 全部人問我怎麼樣走到今天不靠任何人，起起落落站回起來。姐姐只能說 ：
一个人的胆子大，才能有作为；畏怯的人，懦弱的人，他們虽然没有身临其境的危险，但只要一听到人家的恐吓言语，早已吓得不知所措，试问这样的人怎麼樣繼續走下去，怎麼樣會有一次可以完成任何計畫呢？
姐姐一直都在過著簡簡單單的生活。简单的生活之所以很不容易，是因为要活的简单，一定不能想的太多。而一般人，都每天想太多⋯
其實，我們把活着的每一天，看作是生命的最后一天。而我們，活著千萬別像死人一樣，要活得精彩開心，也同時一定要注意健康，不要浪費時間。因為金錢買不回時間和健康。
孝順，照顧家人，永遠是我一生的第一。如果把我們顧大的人我們都不疼，去疼外人，我們算是什麼人？
每天 很多人埋怨沒有人給機會，但是其實姐姐一向來不等待机会的。因為姐姐相信自己能创造机会。
不管幾歲，都有你自己的market的。就算走得最慢的人，只要你不丧失目标，也會比漫无目的地徘徊的人走得快。懂嗎？
遇到挫折，但是坦途在前，那你又何必因为一点小障碍而不走完自己要走的路呢？生活是你自己的。何必被人擺弄左右？到頭來不是你要的結局，你也無法怪別人。是你自己要聽別人說的，是你自己要讓人替你做決定的。是你自己sohai
生活裡，没有一种 不通过 蔑视、忍受和奮斗 就可以征服的命运。
成功其實並不是将来才能有的，而是从决定去做的那一刻開始，持续累积而成的。
要相信 要記得，你所有坚忍不拔的努力，痛苦，忍受和吃了的苦，迟早会取得报酬的。
我們這些挣扎过来的人，都是真金不怕火炼的。任何幻灭都不能动摇我們的信仰。因为我們一开始就知道信仰之路和幸福之路全然不同，而我們是不能选。我們只是咬緊牙關去屏個死活。所以到頭來，我們不用讓任何人擺佈，自由自在的我行我素。
你呢？
十年了，你對你自己的人生，做了什麼改變？ People ask me, how does ten years in my life made a difference. Well, i grew bolder and fearless with no boundaries, and i am still constantly growing.
I dont like to stay stagnant without progressions in my life. Thats is as much as dead to me to be frank.
I live comfortably and freely in my own pace and will and choice. Freedom to me is life. Family to me is the only thing that’s important to me. And nothing else matters.
I love things that money cant buy. Like - loyalty, devotion, dedication and perseverance.
Im known to be the biggest bitch in Malaysia, because no one ever owns me and i am free to do as i please. Im known as a daredevil because i do things others dare not do, and i lead, i never follow. Im brave enough to admit, so i never hide anything from anyone because i have to courage to admit and own up to every single action and decision and failures i’ve made all my life. I dont lie because i dont have to and i dont need to.
To me, the opposite of bravery is not cowardice but conformity.
People like me have nothing to lose in life. And when i go forward, i never expect to return to where i am before.
In life, dare to take responsibility. You are where you are in life because of the choices you make. Keep your commitments, and grow.
From having nothing to everything and goes from 100 to 0 and climbing up again exceeding everything i had in life, where i am today is a blessing, and i appreciate every single thing and person i kept in my life.
Im very selective coz i dont pasar malam. Aint got no time for nonsense coz i dont need em.
Speak up. Make a difference. Share your feelings when you witness an injustice. Practice sharing your opinion. Don't allow someone to take advantage of you. Learn to say, "no." Refuse to hold back when your gut says to move forward.
Make a decision that you will think happy thoughts, speak kind words, and spend time doing things that bring you joy. Have a good attitude. See the glass half full. Look at the bright side. Expect the best. Choose to focus on what's good. Be kind. Always and ALWAYS choose kindness over everything.
So, what does ten years bring you ?
