family health comes first的八卦，Yahoo名人娛樂都在討論

"The greater your revelation of Jesus, the greater your capacity to receive from Him!"

What breakthrough are you in need of today? Are you in need of healing for yourself or a loved one? Are you longing for real, lasting peace to take the place of the anxiety and depression you’ve been going through? Are you trying to find safety and security for your future and your family in these uncertain times?

Beloved, the Lord’s heart is for you to have all these things, so much so that He already took the first step to pay for them in full with His perfect sacrifice on the cross. On the cross, He took your sins in his own body and became sin so that you could become the righteousness of God in Christ (2 Cor. 5:21). With this free gift of righteousness comes every other gift of healing, of wholeness, of peace, and of security.

In today’s sermon, we saw how the more we identify ourselves with the Lord and His righteousness, the more we will see healing flow into our bodies and peace multiplied in our lives. So this week, practice identifying yourself with Jesus and His righteousness. In biblical times, this act of identification was done by laying one’s hand on the burnt offering (a picture of Jesus, our blameless sacrifice). Today, we do this by confessing, “I am the righteousness of God in Christ,” and seeing ourselves exchanging all our sin, sickness, and pain for His righteousness, health, and peace.

Declare the truth of your righteous standing in Christ even in the midst of your challenge. Let it sink into your heart and open the floodgates of blessings that come with being the righteousness of God in Christ!

Read our official sermon notes from this latest sermon, Greater Shalom And Security (Aug 22, 2021) here: https://bit.ly/389euag

Pic - Seeking forgiveness from each other .
To find a spouse 4 criteria need to be looked at ...
1. Her Beauty
2. Her Wealth
3. Her Religion
4. Her Descendants
Religion comes first more than anything followed by the rest . There are additional criteria on my part which are ...
5. Her Intelligence
6. Her Health
Love is not everything on looking for a spouse .
When I met Dr Halina her beauty strucks me and her mannerism . But that wasn’t my main criteria . I looked beyond . She came from a family of 4 sibling Doctors . Her parents are some of the most honourable people I know .
Even then - it took me 8 years to finally settling down with her due to my Angkasawan Programme .
My point is that we have a choice . Marriage is a big decision and it’s not just about love . It involves both families . Each spouse needs to know their role . Give and take . Compromise .
Accept each other’s flaws .
Two strong headed spouse will certainly have a tough time. I’m full of fire and Dr Halina is like a soothing water and we complement each other . InsyaAllah ...
We have been married for 10 years now with 4 beautiful kids and InsyaAllah more to come .
May Allah grant us Jannah - Amiinn .
Selamat Hari Raya Everyone .
Love As Always ...
Just sharing ...
PS - Always seek forgiveness from each other and not just on Raya .

คุณพ่อ "บอส" กำลังยิ้มแย้มทั้งน้ำตา ขณะที่เขากำลังอุ้มลูกน้อยของเขา ซึ่งเพิ่งลืมตาดูโลกได้ไม่นาน ในโรงพยาบาลที่กรุงเทพ

คุณบอสบอกกับเราว่า "ผมมาเพื่อที่จะได้เห็นหน้าลูก เจ้านายของผมไม่ยอมให้ลาหยุดเพราะมีงานต้องทำเยอะมาก แต่ผมไม่สนใจ เพราะครอบครัวของผมต้องมาก่อน"

มีหลักฐานที่ชี้ให้เห็นว่าถ้าสายสัมพันธ์ระหว่างคุณพ่อและลูกน้อยเริ่มต้นตั้งแต่แรกเกิด คุณพ่อก็จะมีแนวโน้มที่จะมีบทบาทในการพัฒนาของลูกน้อยมากขึ้น นอกจากนี้ยังมีงานวิจัยที่แนะนำว่าเมื่อเด็กๆ ได้มีปฏิสัมพันธ์กับคุณพ่อแล้ว พวกเขาจะมีสุขภาพจิตที่ดี มีความเชื่อมั่นในตัวเอง และมีความพึงพอใจต่อชีวิตในระยะยาว

ยูนิเซฟขอเสนอให้ภาครัฐจัดให้มีนโยบายที่สนับสนุนสถาบันครอบครัว ซึ่งรวมถึงนโยบายการลาคลอดบุตรของพ่อแม่โดยได้รับค่าจ้าง เพื่อให้พวกเขามีเวลาและทรัพยากรต่างๆ ที่จำเป็นในการเลี้ยงดูลูกน้อย ทั้่งนี้เพราะความก้าวหน้าทางประสาทวิทยาได้พิสูจน์แล้วว่าเมื่อพวกเด็กๆ ได้ใช้ชีวิต​ โดยเฉพาะในช่วง 1,000 วันแรก (ตั้งแต่ปฏิสนธิไปจนถึงอายุ 2 ขวบ) ในสภาพแวดล้อมที่มีการเลี้ยงดู และกระตุ้นการพัฒนาการ สมองจะมีการสร้างการเชื่อมโยงอย่างรวดเร็ว ซึ่งจะนำไปสู่ความสามารถในการคิดวิเคราะห์ การเรียนรู้ การรับมือกับภาวะเครียด และการเติบโตเป็นผู้ใหญ่ในอนาคตต่อไป

#ก้าวย่างแรกนั้นสำคัญ

The father, Boss, cries with laughter as he holds his newborn baby Matt, born a few moments before at the hospital in Bangkok.

“I came to see my baby’s face. My boss didn’t allow me to take the day off because I had lots of work, but I don’t care, my family comes first” says Boss.

Evidence suggests that when fathers bond with their babies from the beginning of life, they are more likely to play a more active role in their child’s development. Research also suggests that when children positively interact with their fathers, they have better psychological health, self-esteem and life-satisfaction in the long-term.

UNICEF urges governments to implement national family-friendly policies that support early childhood development – including paid paternity leave – to help provide parents with the time, resources and information they need to care for their children. Advances in neuroscience have proven that when children spend their earliest years – particularly the first 1,000 days from conception to two years old – in a nurturing, stimulating environment, new neural connections form at optimal speed. These neural connections help to determine a child’s cognitive ability, how they learn and think, their ability to deal with stress, and can even influence how much they will earn as adults.

#EarlyMomentsMatter

你也可以擁有不動幸福 YOU TOO CAN ACHIEVE PASSIVE HAPPINESS

我們一出生，就從來沒有停止過去追求幸福。小時後，吃喜歡的食物，玩新的玩具，去新的地方，長大後，追求愛情、事業、金錢.......

但有的人，天生八字真的不怎麼樣，小時讀書馬馬虎虎，長大後，要財沒財，要事業沒事業，要愛情沒愛情，原生家庭又給不到她他溫暖。

於是，有些人把希望寄託在孩子身上，以為自己生孩子，也能夠製造一個快樂溫馨的家庭，是他們的人生終極目標。

但是他們都沒發現，他們的八字根本沒有這樣的命。夢想和現實起了對立，有了自己的家庭後，反而煩惱更多，快樂更少。

錢依然不夠用，伴侶原來不是稱職的家長，大家會為了孩子的事吵架、冷戰。

孩子健康又不好、情緒管理差、很難教，女傭讓他們很傷腦筋，兼顧家庭和事業也讓自己不停和時間賽跑，活得沒有自己，也不知道到底哪一天才會雨過天晴。

八字無法改，但是一命二運三風水，所以八字沒有的，聰明的人會用風水來補助自己的運。

我常跟客人說：不要傻傻地吃苦。很多時候，只要把居家風水搞好，很多的問題都能迎刃而解。這基礎做好了，就算您沒有去追求，幸福也會自動降臨您家。

風水如何能夠讓您心安的六種方式，且聽我在這影片的解說。

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Since our birth, we have never stopped pursuing happiness. As kids, we cheer when we get to eat our favourite food, play new toys and see new places. As adults, we chase love, career achievements and  money. 

However, there are some people whose Bazi are really nothing to shout about. When they are young, their academics are so so. When they grow up, they want money but they don't get it. They want a good career, but no, it didn't happen. They crave a good relationship but nah, they never have it. And the family they grow in couldn't give them the warmth in their lives either.

Hence, some of them place their hopes on having children they think belong to them. They envision that they can finally create a loving and warm family. That shall be their ultimate life goal. That is why people work so hard for, isn't it?

But what they didn't realise is that their Bazi were not able to support them in their pursuits. Their dreams and the reality they face every day become a stark disparity. As they have their own families, instead of having more happiness, they get more troubled.

Money still remains scarce, and the spouse turns out be an incompetent parent, causing conflicts and cold wars in the marriage over the children. 

The children aren't any better off. Their health fluctuates, they are poor in emotional management, do not listen well to instructions. With both parents working, getting a good maid is necessary. Yet, this maid becomes another headache. Balancing both family and work starts taking a toll on them. Every day is a race against time. There's no living for yourself like what all those new age gurus preached. Worse is when they have no idea EXACTLY WHEN life will be better. 

We can't change our Bazi. So as the Chinese saying goes, first is our Destiny, second is our Luck, third will be our Feng Shui. Whatever our Bazi lacks, the smart person will make up for it by using Feng Shui to supplement their own luck. 

Don't suffer in vain, when a solution is actually within reach. In many situations, after the home Feng Shui is done right, many problems get resolved.  Once this foundation is laid right, even when you are not actively chasing for it like a mad hamster, happiness will descend into your home by default. 

So how exactly can Feng Shui give you a peace of mind? I talk about the 6 ways here in this video.

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阿彌陀佛，你好！我是李季謙，來自新加坡的風水命理師。我將我的一生貢獻於弘揚佛法和中華玄學。這過程曲折離奇，卻也充滿了許多人生的領悟。

通過我的影音與寫作，我希望能與你分享，盼你也能夠突破自己命運的束縛，真正活得精彩：我命在我，不在天。

人生長短無所謂，最重要的是活得有價值，有貢獻。

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Hi, I am Lee Ji Qian, a Chinese Metaphysics practitioner from Singapore. This journey in propagating Buddhism and Chinese Metaphysics has been full of hard knocks and exciting discoveries.

Through my videos and online writing, I hope to share my journey with you. So that you too can break free from the limits of your destiny and truly live a life you can call exciting. My destiny is in my own hands, not Heaven. So is yours.

It does not matter whether we can live a long or short life.
What matters most is living a life of value and contribution.

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My resolution in 2021 will be to keep up my work as usual under many changes. Of course health always comes first. I am working on free new projects. Hopefully I will share with you in 2021 💕

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