她也叫Cindy。看到這幾天的新聞，雖然我們不認識，但我覺得我可以理解體會她心裡的感受。我很少出來分享自己的想法，但這件事我真的覺得很重要。
不要說是演藝圈好了，每個人都渴望被疼愛，被接受，希望自己做的一切能得到大家的認可。不是嗎？我們每個人都在為生命奮鬥。但為什麼還是有這麼多人愛罵愛批評，愛打擊別人？？為什麼他們從不體諒自己寫的及說的會如何影響或讓別人受傷難過？當然，當公眾人物的得更堅強的去面對這些流言蜚語。這也是我們工作的一部分。漸漸的，我們對負面的評論會越來越麻痺，我們的臉皮也會越來越厚。
但我真的希望，我們大家可以對自己在網路上寫的或說的多負點責任。可能當下沒什麼意思或想太多，maybe只是隨便說說開個玩笑，但有時舌頭就像一把劍。你不知道，你這一句話，有可能會變成哪個人生命的代價！多點愛，多點體諒，多點包容，好不好？？
Her name was also Cindy. After seeing the news about her suicide these few days, I feel I can somewhat relate and understand what she was feeling. I seldom come out in public and talk about stuff like this, but I guess this is something I've always felt very strongly about.
Let's not just talk about the entertainment industry. Every single person in this world desires to be loved, to be accepted, and hope that what they do matters and is recognized by others. Right??? We are all fighting for LIFE. But why are there so many people who love to criticize and put down others? How come they do not even put into consideration the possible influence and hurt they could bring onto the ones they are criticizing? Of course, being a public figure, we are required and expected to be able to be strong and face all the constant negativity and rumors. That's part of the job. And slowly, our skins grow tougher, and we become more and more numb to it all.
I just truly hope, that we can all be more responsible to the things we say and the things we write. Maybe at the time we aren't thinking too much, maybe it was just a simple joke and didn't mean anything by it, but sometimes our tongues are like swords... And you never know if that one thing you wrote or said could take away someone's life.
So let's just all be a little bit more considerate, empathetic, and loving.... Ok????
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