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TINGGAL 6 HARI LAGI NAK BERPUASA - WAJIBKAH IBU HAMIL BERPUASA? BAHAYA TAK PADA KANDUNGAN?

#kisahbenaribupuasa
Assalamualaikum 9bulan10hari. Mohon ibu ibu yang tengah hamil ni pertimbangkan perkara ni. Tolonglah jangan puasa kalau anda tak mampu. 3 tahun lepas, masa bulan puasa saya puasa dalam 22 hari walaupun pregnant 3 bulan. Saya jarang loya & muntah.

Doctor banyak kali bagitahu jangan puasa sebab anak sangat perlukan zat & nutrient masa 1st trimester ni. Saya teruskan puasa sebab keadaan saya taklah teruk sangat. Loya muntah pun bila terbau bawang saja. Lepas raya, masa kandungan 5 bulan doctor cakap anak saya tak mengembang & maybe berdepan komplikasi saraf tunjang.

Lagipun masa awal2 mengandung sy tak makan langsung folic asid =(

Doctor cakap... kalau saya tak berpuasa... mengikat perut untuk makan makanan berkhasiat secara sedikit tetapi kerap masa bulan Ramadan tu... kemungkinan untuk anak saya lahir sihat sangat tinggi.

Betul sis... lepas anak saya lahir dia memang kecil. 1.9kg saja dengan ada problem di tulang belakangnya (spina bifida).

Doctor cakap.. untuk anak berkembang dengan elok masa kita makan tu kena jaga betul2 & makan secukupnya. Kesian anak saya sekarang.

Nasihat saya, kalau anda mengandung & tak sihat tu tolonglah jangan puasa..makanlah makanan sihat. Jangan skip makan... Lebih baik sis ganti puasa nanti... dari terpaksa buatkan anak kita "berpuasa" seumur hidup.... =(
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Actually... ramai mommy rasa bersalah kalau tak berpuasa... sedangkan dalam Islam... adalah tak wajib berpuasa bagi ibu hamil & ibu yang menyusu untuk meneruskan puasanya jika beri kesan negatif pada diri & kandungan.
(Rujuk penerangan lengkap dalam @ebook.9bulan10hari.com)

Bagi kes ni, ibu ini terlepas pandang 2 perkara :
1. Tak makan asid folik 3 bulan sebelum hamil dimana ia boleh beri kesan negatif kepada perkembangan saraf tunjang bayi. (penyakit Spina Bifida & Hydrocephalus)
2. Since dah tak makan folic acid, mommy sepatutnya perlu perbanyakkan makan sayur & buah.... repair balik mana yang terkurang dulu. Maknanya jangan langsung berpuasa ketika itu, jaga pemakanan & lifestyle sebaiknya.

Perkembangan anak sangat bergantung kepada apa yang mommy makan. Tolonglah jaga pemakanan.

Macam mana nak kenalpasti keadaan mommy & bayi ok atau tak untuk berpuasa?
Ketika ini, pregnant mommy bolehlah berjumpa doctor, minta doctor buat pemeriksaan & bincang mengenai puasa ini. Minta pandangan doctor.
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Apa pandangan dari sudut islam?
(Rujuk ebook.9bulan10hari.com, Ustaz Faiz - Pakar Hukum 9bulan10hari terangkan secara terperinci mengenai ini)
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Mommy... tolonglah ambil tahu keadaan mommy & anak dalam kandungan.

Kalau tak sihat, tak boleh puasa... tolonglah jangan paksa diri.

Mommy perlu jumpa doctor & berbincang pasal puasa ni....

Doctor akan melihat beberapa faktor bila berbincang pasal puasa ketika hamil ni :
- Adakah mommy muntah loya teruk sehingga tak lalu makan?
- Adakah kandungan mommy dalam lingkungan 1-3 bulan?
- Berapa jam mommy berpuasa kerana ada negara yang berpuasa lebih lama berbanding negara kita 12-13 jam sehari?
- Ketika mommy nak berpuasa ni cuaca sejuk atau panas, kerana cuaca panas boleh menyebabkan mommy mudah dehydrate.
- Bagaimana kesihatan mommy sebelum hamil?
Tolong ambil berat mengenai ini ya mommy.

Like, share & tag ilmu ini agar dapat membantu ramai ibu2 hamil di luar sana.

Silakan share & elakkan budaya copy paste!!

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Nazira Nazir,
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ONLY 6 DAYS LEFT TO FAST - MUST PREGNANT MOTHERS Fasting? IS IT DANGEROUS TO THE CONTENT?

#kisahbenaribupuasa
Assalamualaikum 9 months 9 days. Asking for pregnant mothers to consider this. Please don't fasting if you can't afford it. 3 years ago, during fasting month I was fasting in 22 days even though I was pregnant for 3 I rarely feel nauseous & vomiting.

Doctor told you many times not to fasting because your child really needs substances & nutrients during the 1st trimester. I continue fasting because my condition is not too bad. Even nauseous vomiting when smelling onions. After Raya, the doctor said that my child didn't grow up after Raya, maybe it's a nerve complication.

After all, when I was pregnant I didn't eat folic acid at all =(

Doctor said... if I don't fasting... tie the stomach to eat nutritious food but often during Ramadan... the possibility of my child being born is very healthy.

Right sis... after my child was born she was small. Only 1.9 kg with problem in his spine (spina bifida).

Doctor said.. for children to grow well when we eat, we have to take care of it and eat enough. Pity my child now.

My advice, if you are pregnant & unhealthy please don't fasting.. eat healthy food. Don't skip eating... It's better for me to replace the fasting day... than having to make our children ′′ fasting ′′ for life.... =(
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Actually... many mothers feel guilty if they don't fasting... while in Islam... it's not compulsory to fasting for pregnant mothers & breastfeeding mothers to continue their fasts if they give negative effects to themselves & content.
(Refer to the complete explanation in @ebook. 9 months 9 days. com)

In this case, this mother missed 2 things:
1. Didn't eat folic acid for 3 months before pregnant where it could give a negative effect to the development of the baby's nerve. (Spina Bifida & Hydrocephalus disease)
2. Since I haven't eaten folic acid, mommy should have to eat vegetables and fruits more.... repairs to those who have been lacking first. It means that you don't fast at that time, take care of your diet & lifestyle.

Child development depends on what mommy eats. Please take care of your diet.

How to identify the condition of mommy & baby, is it okay or not to fasting?
At this time, pregnant mommy can see a doctor, ask the doctor to check up & discuss about this fasting. Asking for a doctor's opinion.
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What is the view from the Islamic corner?
(Refer to ebook.9bulan10hari.com, Ustaz Faiz - 9-month-old law specialist in detail explaining this)
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Mommy... please take care of the condition of mommy & child in the content.

If you're not healthy, you can't fasting... please don't force yourself

Mommy needs to see a doctor and talk about fasting....

Doctor will see a few factors when talking about fasting during pregnancy:
- Did mommy throw up badly until she didn't eat?
- Is mommy's content in 1-3 months?
- How many hours is mommy fasting because there is a country that fasting longer than our country 12-13 hours a day?
- When mommy wants to fasting, the weather is cold or hot, because the hot weather can cause mommy to dehydrate easily.
- How is mommy's health before pregnant?
Please care about this mommy.

Like, share & tag this knowledge so that it can help many pregnant mothers out there.

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MOMMY PERNAH BERSALIN SECARA C-ZER?

Baca perkongsian menarik dari mommy Puan Nor Farra Farihan ni sebagai rujukan anda.

Mama nk cite pengalaman yg boleh dijadikan panduan untuk ibu2 yang bersalin secara caeser..
...Continue ReadingMOMMY EVER GAVE C-ZER?

Read the interesting sharing from Mrs Nor Farra Farihan's mommy as your reference.

Mama wants to tell you about experience that can be a guide for mothers who give birth in caeser..

When you remember the feeling of crying and the greatness of Allah SWT's power saved my life, Umar was born caeser, not that mama never gave birth to caeser, giving birth to a baby has been 3 times that mama gave birth to

Brother Batrisyia maternity ceaser sbb the open slow road, Sister Ardini maternity is not enough month, Sister Bambam Caeser is also a forced doctor and a big sbb 4.3 kg.. baby umar is forced to do so twice the caeser.

Have you ever felt the pain out there when the doctor was operating,? why did I say that because I experienced such a situation.

I entered the operation room at 4.00 pm.. after greeting my husband and called my parents in the village, when I entered the bedah room I felt like the world was small, am I still alive to see my children grow up.

Nurse wipes my tears, if you don't want to cry, your emotions will be disturbed, remember only Allah swt and the baby will come out soon... may she make it easy.. after anesthetics at 5

Specialist doctor told me that he will operate the same place during operate first, the nurse gave me medicine, after drinking I immediately vomited because of the wind.. if you want our operation we need to fast, I'm fasting from

Surgeon doctor starts operation, I can feel the smell of the knife in the middle of the stomach.. zikir and reading the holy verse of the Quran playing on the lips... during the operation of the specialist doctor stopped operating.

′′ Ma ' am, wait for a moment, I can't continue to operate the place where madam operate between the wall of the uterus and the intestines, the doctor said

In my heart I only pray to save my child even though my life is not long ya Allah.. This child is the fourth gift for my beloved husband... the expert doctor asked the nurse to call the expert doctor who is still senior than him, at that time I felt the operation went on ..

Wait in 10 minutes the specialist doctor will come in a mess, it's a pity to see him running to save the patient... if he's eating he'll surely leave his food he runs to save us.

She came with a smile, be patient, madam, specialist doctor whispers in my ears.. pray a lot, remember Allah swt always... she starts with Bismillah.... when it's more than an hour of effort to release the baby.

Suddenly I feel so sick the doctor is pressing my stomach to release the baby.... I can be able to patiently bear the pain when the operation is going on... Oh God... I can't stand the pain anymore, I'm screaming and asking for the pain Please.

Please doctor help me to feel the pain of operate this time... I beg the doctor to add anesthetics, I feel the pain I don't know how to say it's so painful... the anesthetic doctor is sitting near me, he told me that I can't Madam, if you add anesthetics..

′′ Are you so sick?" asking the anesthetics.

′′ Yes doctor, please help my doctor I can't stand this sick doctor."

I was crying at that time... the anesthetist put on oxygen, he put in the pelali medicine.. suddenly I didn't realize that I was drifting away.. the last thing I said ya Allah.... I think I was sleeping but I feel , but I cannot open my eyes.

When I realized I saw the nurse lifting the baby bring her out to shower at that time it was already 8.00 pm.. I thank Allah swt for still living to see children grow up..

Oh God, the process of releasing the baby this time is long, almost 3 hours more.. usually operate the other child under 1 hours after bringing the baby out... the doctor asked me, ′′ you have eaten the haruan essence @ the haruan fish abstaining the past child.."

′′ Yeah I ate the first 2 weeks."

Doctor told you that you experienced (adhesion colic) which is where the intestines are attached to the result of the past surgery, you can take it but after a month with a moderate quantity.

The haruan essence is not encouraged due to her concentration to caeser because it could cause the colic adhesion that madam was experiencing earlier... maternity mothers normally are very better to eat the haruan essence due to the healer of the

When you operate, please don't eat the haruan essence, it's very dangerous to be like me... the wall of the uterus sticks with the stomach intestines.. a short operation can be long and it's very painful and it can n'

During pregnancy I often have a stomach ache which is cramp, when the baby grows up the stronger I cramp.. now I know that the cramp is due to the closeness that involves nerves when we sit down and wake up and walk.. all of this happens there is a wisdom that ....

Mama prays for Umar to become the Muslim fighter that Allah SWT loves.. can share if you want to tell me that mommy has operated..

Hopefully useful!

Source: Mrs Nor Farra FarihanTranslated

今天的飛碟早餐，邀請瑞信兒童醫療基金會執行長 呂立先生來到節目當中，為各位朋友分享兒童友善醫療議題。

◎兒童友善醫療
兒童們內在資源有限，對疾病、醫療不瞭解，或和家人分離，他們會害怕、會拒絕、會反抗，對家長而言是一大心理負擔；對醫護來說，也需在照護上花費更多時間和心力；就小朋友自身，疾病造成的身體限制及照護環境可能助長依賴性及削弱自尊、或是創傷。兒童友善醫療（Child-friendly care）的概念來自1950年代的美國，教育家Emma Plank開始從社會、心理、教育等各層面擬定照顧住院病童需求的計畫。引入醫療兒童輔導師（Child life specialist，下稱輔導師）這個專職的角色，按部就班地輔助醫療過程的進行。

◎臺灣的努力
目前臺灣的輔導師是由「瑞信兒童醫療基金會」出資送學員留學，但全臺灣僅有兩位，跟國外一家醫院動輒三、四十位仍是天壤之別。
那麼社工師呢？編制上，一位社工師負責照顧200-300個人，負荷非常沉重，因此他們也只能挑出有特別困難的病友和家屬來幫忙。而很多時候溝通、潤滑的角色反而落在護理人員身上。

在兒童安寧醫療的部分，臺大醫院有安寧共照服務，不過主要是服務成人。呂醫師也籌備了許多年的功能小組，吸引了許多對安寧緩和有熱忱的成員，正式成立「臺大醫院兒童整合式照護小組，針對不同的病例定期進行跨專業討論與協助，同時與喜願協會、臺大童癌童語社等社團合作。自2012年，小組定期開會，會中包含多科醫師、護理師與督導長、護理長、心理師、藝術治療老師、社工師，也有宗教師、營養師，綜合來談末期病童的狀況，了解家庭之間的互動、小組還能做什麼等。

◎來賓介紹 瑞信兒童醫療基金會執行長 呂立
呂立醫師畢業於國立臺灣大學醫學系，曾赴美國波士頓兒童醫院胸腔科及哈佛大學公衛學院環境醫學科生理部門進行訪問與次專科研究。現為小兒部兒童胸腔加護醫學科主任、臨床助理教授與瑞信兒童醫療基金會執行長。

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I know every child is different and they all develop in their own time but lately, Tim and I started to worry more about Isaac. It's probably me being too anxious but sometimes, I worry if Isaac has ASD. Along with his tantrums, stranger anxiety and reluctance to speak- it does make us feel concerned.

However, we do feel more comforted knowing he is still quite babyish for his age. He might just really well be a late bloomer. If that really is the case, that's fine. If it's something more complexed, that's ok too. Just want to make sure he gets all the support and help he needs. Either way, we will always love him. As long as he is happy and healthy. I want to thank you all for being so so patient and kind these 2 years. I know you guys just love him for the way he is rather than how he "should" be. To be honest, I actually secretly cherish the fact that he is quite "baby" for his age. He is already growing up too fast to me.

The funny thing is, on the actual day that I rang to make an appointment with a speech therapist, Isaac started to bust out a few words. Today, he has been saying "Hello" and counting to three all day. It's almost as if he's been trolling me and is stepping up his game so he doesn't have to see a specialist.

Love, the Bubz family xo





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