行动管制令第……
孩子已经20多天足不出户。
他们每天早睡早醒,吃,喝,玩,乐,坏蛋一下,在屋子里从大门窜到后院,一楼二楼跑上跑下….除了偶尔抢东西哭闹,其余时候尽都是欢乐声。
孩子的世界没有昨天或明天,只有当下。
他们觉得很幸福,因为几乎每一天的24小时,爸妈都在他们身边,这对现代的孩子而言,是多么奢侈的事。
而我呢?
这突如其来的瘟疫让人不自觉焦虑起来,但也因为行动管制令待在家闭关,减低杂念,心里渐渐平静下来。
焦虑时心里时时祈福,平静后也时时祈福,这两者间的心念一样,但心境不一样。
我把家里一大一小冰箱都囤积满满的食物,孩子学校的家长很热心,帮群组里的妈妈们订购活力农耕蔬菜和水果。
这时候还能吃到高原活力农耕农夫用心种植的蔬菜,心里感动万分。
每一次收到蔬菜箱,一打开,感觉好像能闻得到高山大地的味道,摸着蔬菜,都能感觉泥土的温暖。
好友说她年轻的侄子和太太都在前线工作,两个年轻的生命,还有很多很多的前线人员,不分昼夜,在为全国人民尽他们最大的努力,控制疫情。
他们的每一天都在极大的挑战中渡过,每次想到他们,我就告诉自己“我要尽自己最大的努力乖乖待在家,好好过日子。”
每天,只有当下,没有等一下特别急的事,没有明天要赶着去完成的事,于是…………可以安然的打开冰箱,以非常珍惜存库里食物的心,细细的计划着早餐,午餐,孩子下午点心,晚餐….,在平常的料理中来点不一样的创意(因为食材有限),然后非常享受那个可以全然投入在为自己和家人烹饪的时光。
那个迎着晨光熬黑米粥,吹着午后热风做pizza,或在雷雨咆哮声中炒菜,煎蛋……的时光,都是那么那么的美好。
有人说烹饪时的情绪很重要,那是一种能量,这个能量伴着食物一起被享用者吸收,吸收到他的身,心,灵。
怪不得,我总是觉得外婆和妈妈做的菜特别好吃,因为她们都带着慈悲的心煮每一道菜肴。
在家画画的画室间有一个落地玻璃门,门前不远有一棵大树,一棵喜欢在风中起舞,在雨中飘来淡淡翠绿味,在夜里细语的大树。
当我在画布上无尽地延续生命的线条时,它在那儿陪伴着我,静静地微笑。
每一幅画里都是我和自己展开的对话…..。
每隔几天,就和家乡的爸妈,弟弟弟媳们视讯,搞笑逗乐他们一下。
每天都传自己煮的好料照片给妈妈看,然后炫耀说自己煮得比她好,青出于蓝(我特爱跟我妈开玩笑)。
每天总有些时候,静静坐着,闭上眼,听听大地的声音。
平时的车辆声减少了,于是鸟叫和虫鸣变得更清澈。
在这安下心过好当下的日子里,我还能做些什么呢?
小黄花慈善教育基金会的两个中心因为行动管制令,也同时关闭了。
我们都担心本来已经是低收入户的家庭,在这段时间可能还要面临零收入的困境,于是小黄花的员工待在家里开始致电每个家庭慰问他们的情况,然后为这些家庭订购足够一家大小的食物,确保他们至少可以温饱。
孩子学校的老师因某个亲戚是前线医护人员,而得知医院缺乏医疗防护用品,于是孩子学校善良的家长们决定募款购买防护用品捐赠医院。
最后在和老师详细沟通之后,我决定由小黄花发起这项募款项目,让更多人知道这件事,让更多都想为疫情付出的人民一起集合力量来帮助前线人员。
学校的家长们有的帮忙张罗订购防护用品,还有一些一起动手做起手工艺品义卖筹款….而募款反应非常热烈,家人,亲戚,邻居,朋友甚至国外朋友,各界人士都出力支持。
前几天新闻报道有一个家庭,爸妈和小孩在空无一人的公园里呆坐在石椅上,警方上前询问才发现,这一家人家里连米都没有,已经好几天没吃东西了。
警察人员自掏腰包给他们买食物。
我看到这则新闻,眼泪真的快掉出来。
于是我们(小黄花)马上透过两个贫民区域中心孩子的家长致电询问其他需要帮助的家庭,食物提供从33个家庭一下子增加到151个家庭。
我们不知道未来将会放生什么样的事,我们只能好好的珍惜活着的每一刻,好好爱自己,爱身边的人,爱这个大家一起共存的地球村。
有时候有些事情的发生是要我们安静下来聆听某一些生命的声音。
这段时间我又看到了好一段时间没看见的蜻蜓飞进家里,孩子兴奋的追着它边跑边跳。
平时只在树上停歇的鸟儿,飞到院子的草上散步,松鼠在汽车稀少的马路上大摇大摆。
我们继续祈福疫情尽早结束,继续勇敢抗疫,继续互相扶持,继续在这段安静下来的时间沉淀。
让我们用爱来化解这一场战役。
The …. days of MCO
The kids have not gone out for about 20 days.
Everyday they are sleeping and waking up early. Their daily activities are all about eating, drinking, playing mischievously, looming around from the entrance till the backyard, running across the floors in the house. Most of the times they are filled with joys and laughter, except occasionally crying of fighting for toys.
In the innocent children world, there is no yesterday or today, but at the moment. They are embraced by happiness because their parents are with them almost 24 hours in a day. This is literally a luxurious for the modern era children.
What about myself?
This sudden pandemic makes people feeling unconsciously anxiety. Despite of that, my heart gradually calmed down and distractions are reduced because of retreating myself at home during the Movement Control Order. Pray humbly when panic of anxiety attacks or even tranquillity. The two state of minds are the same, but the mood is distinct.
I have stocked up the fridges with load of foods, the parents of my kid’s school are very thoughtful, they are helping other mothers to purchase the organic farmed vegetables and fruits. Having to eat the organic vegetables and fruits farmed by the farmers at this very difficult time, it had deeply touched my heart.
Every time when I receive the vegetables box, it reminisces me the good nature of the high mountain and the warmth of soil.
A good friend of mine told me her nephew and wife are working at the frontline, joining along with many other frontliners, working very hard day and night for the nation to strive the Corona virus.
They are living their day in a hard challenge, whenever I think of them, I will tell myself to stay at home and live my live to the best.
We have plenty of time in day as we away from a busy pace of life. Thus, I may unhurried to open up the fridge, with the heart full of appreciation towards the foods to plan the breakfast, lunch, teatime and dinner menu for the kids. Creativity is what I need to spice up the meals (due to the shortage of ingredients) and fully enjoying the preparation time of foods for myself and family.
Cooking the black rice porridge at the welcoming morning light, baking pizza with the afternoon breeze or frying egg or vegetables during the thunderstorm seems to be like the very best moments in life.
Someone said that emotion is important during cooking because that good energy will be going along with the foods, while the people enjoying the foods can absorb all these good energies to nurture the body, mind and soul.
I always feel that the foods prepared by my grandmother and mother is exceptionally delicious and the reason is that they are preparing the foods with compassion.
I can see a big tree outside through the ceiling glass from my painting studio. It likes to dance in the wind, pouring with good scent of greenery during the rain, and talking softly at night.
When I continue to create the lines on the painting canvas, the tree is there to accompanying and returning smiles to me.
Each painting is the conversation and monologue between me myself and I.
Every few days, I will be video calling my parents, my brothers & my sisters in-law, making fun and bring laughter to them.
I send my food photos to my mother everyday and telling her I am the better cook (of course I am only joking to my mom).
There are some hours in a day, I will be sitting peacefully, closing my eyes to listen to the voices of the surroundings.
The cars are getting lesser these days, so the bird and worms chirpings are more audible.
In such a peaceful days, what else more I can do?
The two branches of Little Yellow Flower Foundation had temporarily ceased operation due to MCO.
We are worrying particularly for the low-income family because they will not able to generate income during the MCO. Staffs from the Foundation started to caretaking and prepared foods to make sure that they are able to cope with the difficult time.
The teacher in the kid’s school get to know that hospital is running out of medical supplies. Hence, the kind parents started fund raising to donate medical supplies to the hospital.
After discussed with the teacher, I decided to raise fund and to create public awareness through the Little Yellow Flower Foundation.
The parents in the school providing their kindness by sourcing medical supply, and some even made handcraft to seek donations. The fund raising had received tremendous responds from the community including those who are living abroad. Everybody show their best support on the fund raising.
There was a news saying that a family of 3 were sitting at the bench in the park. They have been starving for 3 days and a kind police bought them foods.
When I get to know this news, my tears almost burst out.
Thus, our Foundation took immediate effort to reach out more unprivileged families the food supplies and helps, this had extended from the initial 33 families and now a total of 151 families are covered with the helps from the Foundation.
We are unable to predict the future, but we may cherish and live every moments of our life. Love yourself, loving people that around you and also love the mother earth.
Sometimes we need to unwind and quiet down ourselves and to listen to voice of the nature.
During the time, I have seen dragonfly flying around the house after so long, the kids were chasing it up and down happily. The birds that normally resting on the tree are roaming at grass of the yard, the squirrels swaying freely on the road with lesser cars.
Let’s pray for the pandemic to end as soonest, continue to bravely fight the Corona virus by supporting each other as well as taking the chance of this quiet time to collect your thoughts.
Let us resolve this battle with love.
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同時也有4部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過41萬的網紅Rinozawa,也在其Youtube影片中提到,2014年1月6日/R:4歳7ヶ月 It was slower that she of this day woke. She is not in time for a nursery school, and mom and Yuuma go out with leaving her in the h...
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Pic - Plane ride with the twins
Many asked me whether is it difficult to travel in a big family ? The answer is NO if each of us play our role right. We always prepare the children early to reach the airport 3 hours before departure . I would buy some activity books for the girls to play on the flight so that we could focus on the twins . Start bottle feed the babies as the plane are about to take off as the depressurisation might cause discomfort to them . We prefer baby carriers as strollers are too bulky .
For those who can afford , do get a bigger room at the hotel for the family so that they can run around instead of a small contained room . And that means spending on a suite.
Know your babies moods - when they need their sleep and feeding time and make your plans revolving on these routine . Dad needs to help with the extra work to allow mommy have some rest as travelling can be very exhausting to us parents . I don’t need sleep much just 4 hours a day so usually I will take the night shift . Sometimes babies can be very cranky at a new environment so be aware of this too . And get help from hotel staffs . We were lucky that many Legoland staffs adored our babies so sometimes we just hand to them while we have our breakfast but with cautious of course . Only trustworthy faces are allowed to handle our babies ... 😁
Our 4 days holiday experiment was a blast and will certainly looking forward for our next trip . So please don’t let a big family prevent you from travelling afar as it can be more rewarding .
Pic - I’m handling the twins while Dr Halina is preparing the girls on their flight seats .
Enjoy the School Holidays ....
breakfast for school days 在 Lee Hsien Loong Facebook 八卦
Always heartened to read of Singaporeans who help others, whether providing food to the poor like Mr Toh, or doing a something extra for our NSmen like Mr Tan (featured in ST http://bit.ly/161Yfod). There are many ways to help, and Mr Toh and Mr Tan do it the way they know best. I hope they inspire others to step out and spread this spirit of generosity. – LHL
Toh Ah Wat is 65 and runs a drinks stall at Ang Mo Kio market. He lives in a four-room flat in Yishun with two of his four children, and his wife. He takes only three days off a month. But his hard work earns him enough to be generous – any one who can’t afford a meal in the area gets a free breakfast from him – a hot drink and kaya and butter toast.
Each morning, I wake up at just before 4am, at the darkest hour. After 30 years, I don’t need light and I don’t need an alarm. Before 4.20, I am out of the flat. I need to be quick because there are people waiting by 5 am. I drive my old Mitshubishi to Ang Mo Kio. I don’t think I actually speed, but get to my stall no later than 4.40 am.
Then it’s like a race against time – boil the water, wipe down the counters, boil the cups. Heat, water, powder, milk, lights. In that order.
I need the water to be a rolling boil, and then when it’s steaming hot, it goes into the powder. This gives the best fragrance.
People tell me the ang mohs, they don’t actually boil the water until it’s 100 degrees, if it’s too hot, something happens to their coffee and it tastes funny. I’ve tried it, but it tastes funny anyway, even if they did it at the “correct temperature”. But our coffee is different you know – we have a different colour, a different flavour, composition and the powder reacts differently.
I have been roasting beans since I was 10. I don’t know chemistry but I know what I am talking about. Our coffee needs the water hot but you need to know when you take stop boiling it – just that little bit over and it’s sour.
I never did well at school, never wanted to stay in school beyond primary four. But I have a nose for coffee and for making tea. Well, tea is the hard one but I can’t tell you my secret. No matter how fast I need to make it, no matter how many people give me their orders, I carry it in my head, I don’t get it wrong.
From 5 am to 7 am, I hardly stop – people going to work, and they need breakfast fast and nourishing. I sell a basic set for $2.20 – two eggs, soft or hard boiled, kaya and of course tea or coffee. This is much cheaper than anywhere else – less than half the price you pay for those in air-con places. It’s nothing fancy but I make sure the coffee and tea are better than the usual. Each day, I sell between 70 to 100 breakfasts.
Then, from 8 am onwards, those who need a free meal come around. It’s nothing organised, just from the neighbourhood. They here, sit down, and I give them breakfast. I started doing this many years ago – because you know, as hawkers we know who are the poor people around us. When they pay, they will take the money out reluctantly, and even a $2 note is folded carefully. Some of us will say, “It’s ok, don’t have to pay.”
But actually, people have their pride. They don’t want to come to us and try for a free meal, and they are afraid because they don’t know which one can afford to give them a meal.
So, last October, I made it more formal. I went to the community centre and told them – look you must be helping lots of people. Anyone who needs a meal you tell them to come to me, and I will give them free breakfast. Just don’t come during peak hours if they can help it.
I told my wife: “We am not serving anything expensive, a few meals, surely we can treat people.” She agreed. She takes the afternoon shift – I get off at 4 pm and she takes over.
So the CC people, they made a simple printout with a picture of the breakfast and gave them to people who need a free meal. Each month, I give out about 50 free breakfasts. I didn’t set a limit for the CC, but this is the number that come to me, on the average.
I used to give eggs automatically, but some of them don’t eat it so it’s wasted – they are old and many have high cholesterol and they explain they cannot eat the eggs. So I only give when they ask for it now.
My wife says some people come in the afternoons for “breakfast” too, but it’s ok, whenever they are hungry, we will feed them. I am hoping that it will catch on among the other hawkers too, but so far, I don’t think anyone else has done it yet. But it doesn’t matter. I keep doing it and someday, others will do the same too, if they can afford it.
I usually try and sneak a lunch in at 12 noon – I eat from all my neighbours stalls, it's a big market but over the years, I’ve tried everything. My favourite now is the fish soup stall.
We all eat from one another – all pay market price but we give each other more ingredients or a special cut of meat. I usually eat within 15 minutes because the lunch crowd comes out right after 12. I have four helpers – two in the morning, and two in the afternoon – all my relatives, or my wife’s family.
After lunch, it’s breakneck speed until 3 pm. Then I can sit down and talk to my friends, drink sugar cane juice, and finally talk to the customers. After a break, I drive home, take two to three hours’ nap and drive back about 9pm. to close up.
I do all the heavy lifting – getting the beer and drinks out from the store to the stall, clear the bottles, do the clean up and close the accounts.
I fetch my wife home, have a simple meal, and we are usually in bed by 11 pm after a bit of TV. We’ve done this together for decades so we have a routine like clockwork. Except for our off days – when we can do whatever we like. We take two full off days a month, and two half days. All of them are spent with our six grand kids – two of my four kids are married.
I don’t bring them any where expensive, or buy them anything, but we have a good time, just driving around Singapore, have meals at zi char stalls, and you know, just giving them a break from their parents! When they see me, it’s like a holiday for them – “Gong gong is here!” and they go wild.The oldest is in secondary school, and the youngest are in primary school.
When they were younger, my kids always offer to help me out at the stall but I forbade them to do so. It’s a hard life and I wanted them to do well, have a better life. Now all of them have good steady jobs, which is the best reward for me.
breakfast for school days 在 Rinozawa Youtube 的評價
2014年1月6日/R:4歳7ヶ月 It was slower that she of this day woke.
She is not in time for a nursery school, and mom and Yuuma go out with leaving her in the house.
She who woke at about 10:00 a.m. eats slow breakfast with dad.
Dad warns her that she got up late, but she didn't mean any harm. Hahaha
In fact, she was a day to let a nursery school take a rest from the beginning on that day because days of the slight cold continued.
Because she cannot play outside, she spends it with dad all day in a house :)
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Do SUBSCRIBE for new weekly videos: https://www.youtube.com/user/joannasohofficial Happy World VEGAN Day! To all the vegans out there, I'm sure you must have had at least one person asking you "Where do you get your protein from?" or saying "You're NOT consuming enough protein!". I’m sure you’ll agree that this is NOT true.
There are lots of high protein plant-based food such as nuts and seeds, tempeh, tofu, soy, legumes, beans, quinoa, oatmeal, spinach and more. I've put together a high protein plant-based meal plan. Watch it and make them!
Your protein intake will vary depending on your activity level. But the general recommendation is 1g of protein per 1kg of body weight. For instance my body weight is 50kgs, so my daily protein intake should be around 50g. But because I’m active, I’ll up my protein intake to about 60 - 70g.
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BAKED TOFU MUFFINS (makes 6)
Crust
1. 2 cups Potatoes, grated – 232Cals, 6.06g Protein
2. 1 tbsp. Olive Oil – 119Cals
3. A pinch of Salt and Pepper
Filling
1. 200g Firm Tofu, sliced in cubes – 176Cals, 18g Protein
2. 3 Garlic Cloves, diced – 12Cals, 1.14g Protein
3. 1 medium Onion, diced – 46Cals, 1.01g Protein
4. 1 cup Spinach – 7Cals, 0.9g Protein
5. 1/3 cup Cherry Tomatoes, halved – 9Cals, 0.44g Protein
6. 1/3 cup Mushroom, thinly sliced – 5Cals, 0.71g Protein
7. 1/3 cup Red Bell Pepper, diced – 13Cals, 0.49g Protein
8. ½ tbsp. Olive Oil – 60Cals
8. Salt and black pepper to taste
3 muffins: 339cals / 14.37g protein
CHICKPEAS TOFU SCRAMBLE WRAP (Serves 3)
1. ½ can Chickpeas – 153Cals, 8.5g Protein
2. 100g Firm Tofu - 55Cals, 4.8g Protein
3. ¼ cup Cherry Tomato, halved – 6.5Cals, 0.33g Protein
4. ¼ cup Red Bell Pepper, diced – 9.5Cals, 0.37g Protein
5. ¼ cup Onion, diced – 17Cals, 0.37 Protein
6. 1 tbsp. Olive Oil - 119Cals
7. ½ tsp. Turmeric Powder – 4Cals, 0.09g Protein
8. ½ tsp. Garlic Powder – 5Cals, 0.24g Protein
9. ¼ tsp. Smoked Paprika – 2Cals, 0.08g Protein
10. A pinch of Salt
11. 8-inch Whole Wheat Tortilla – 130Cals, 4g Protein
Each Wrap: 254Cals, 9g Protein
TEMPEH CHILLI CON CARNE (Serves 4)
1. 2 tbsp. Olive oil, divided - 119Cals
2. 1 cup Tempeh, cut in cubes – 320Cals, 31g Protein
3. 2 tsp. Soy Sauce – 6Cals, 0.8g Protein
4. 1 Red Bell Pepper, diced – 37Cals, 1.2g Protein
5. 1 cup Zucchini, cut into cubes – 19Cals, 1.4g Protein
6. 1 Carrot, diced – 25Cals, 0.6g Protein
7. 2 Garlic Cloves, minced - 8Cals, 0.76g Protein
8. 1 medium Onion, diced – 46Cals, 1.01g Protein
9. 1 can Black Beans – 378Cals, 26g Protein
10. 1 can Diced Tomatoes – 32Cals, 1.52g Protein
11. 1 tbsp. Smoked Paprika – 20Cals, 1.02g Protein
12. ½ tsp. Cumin Powder – 8Cals, 0.37g Protein
13. ¼ tsp. Cayenne Pepper – 1Cal, 0.05g Protein
14. 2 sprigs Coriander, roughly chopped – 1Cal, 0.1g protein
15. 1 cup Cooked Wild Rice – 166Cals, 6.54g Protein
Per serving with Rice: 421Cals, 23g Protein
All these recipes can be prep ahead and you can keep them in the fridge for up to 3 days. Add two ¼ cup servings of trail mix as your snacks and you’ll be meeting your daily protein requirements of 70g protein and about 1700Cals.
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breakfast for school days 在 Annie Tran Youtube 的評價
Good morning families, supporters, and fellow seniors. Let's stop for a moment and pretend we're all in English class, but without the 400 page novel. The standard for today is going to be the past, present, and future tense.
First up, past tense. I want you all to flashback to life before high school. Things were easy, were they not? We couldn't show off our breakfast, lunch, and dinner on Instagram like we can today. Things were simple. First world problems here and there, but we survived. Let's go back a bit further. See this piece of paper. This is what we are like when we are born. A blank, smooth, and clean slate. Now, fast forward a few years. We enter high school.
Suddenly, assignments pile and continue to pile. Friendships, if we're lucky, continue as acquaintances; if we're unlucky, become broken. Some days, we compare ourselves to what you see now. Our lives start to feel all crumpled up. But to make it through another day, what do we do? We smooth out the edges, and we carry on.
We argue with our parents. We think we're right. We're never right. We meet a boy, or a girl. We think we understand that four letter word, "love." We don't understand. Unless you've successfully found your high school sweetheart, then good for you!
But for the rest of us, we cry. We post depressing statuses on Facebook about being "hash tag forever alone." Some days, we want to rip our hearts out. Like this. But to make it through another day, what do we do? We hold the pieces together, and we carry on.
Fast forward to right now. Welcome to the present. We are here together. After four years. Goodness knows what we can do in one night. Especially the night before finals, the night before that five-page essay is due, the night the word "sleep" becomes non-existent. Or the night you just can't log off League of Legends. So think about it. If that's what we can do in one night, what have we accomplished over this span of four years? Let me answer my own question in two words. A lot.
High school has not only taught us how to solve for "x" or what went on in Shakespeare's mind, but it has also taught us how to do the impossible. We have learned how to procrastinate effectively. We have pulled all-nighters and lived to tell of it. We have asked a crush to prom even though fear of rejection made our knees quiver and the actuality of rejection meant social suicide. Oh, and we survived the end of the world in 2012.
And now we're coming towards the end of this chapter in our lives. Every wrinkle, every edge, every wear and tear on this sheet of paper. They are stories. Lessons. Mistakes. But we have a choice. A choice to continue to look like this, or a choice to do something about it. To put all the pieces back together, into something like this. This is what we can grow to be. This is what we have grown to be. This is what matters.
We are reaching into a new world. Let's refer to this new world as the "future." To make it through another day, what must we do? We must fight. Let me share a quick story. I watched my grandpa fight cancer for a year. Just last month, he lost that fight. I began to question the purpose of fighting my fears, fighting through my struggles, and fighting for what I want.
Have you ever had days where you felt like flying? Perhaps you aced a test. Your crush said yes to your prom proposal. Your parents bought you a new car. But have you ever had days where you felt like falling? You failed a test. You ended a relationship. You disappointed your parents. Sometimes, all the above in one day. Welcome to the life of this paper airplane. It can fly in some moments. But what do we do when it falls? We pick it up, throw it out there, and put it back in the air. That's what we are going to do with our lives.
When we fall, we are going to pick ourselves up. Push ourselves. And carry on. In doing this, we will become better students. Better friends. Better sons and daughters. Better people. And Grandpa, wherever you are, I will become that better person for you.
We have changed, and we will continue to change. But we are not the only ones changing. The world around us is changing. We can talk to our smartphones. Cars are running on electricity. We have laptops that are thinner than my English notebook. We are all moving forward, and life after high school, is just the next big step.
So that wraps up today's lesson on past, present, and future tense. Don't worry, there will be no test tomorrow, or ever again. Just kidding, we'll see tests again in college and in life, but that's another problem for another day. So, to accomplish the goal of today's lesson, remember the words of Albus Dumbledore: "It matters not what someone is born, but what they grow to be." Class is dismissed.
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