【補回失蹤的手指】
Getting Back The Missing Finger
這位男客人在去年九月初來找我批八字。
當時他問的是個人事業的發展。
後來他提到妻子懷孕了六個月,多次超聲波掃描,卻看不到胎兒的手有完整的五根手指。
醫生告訴他們,要有心理準備,這嬰兒出世後,手可能只有四根手指。
我聽了驚駭,問了他太太的生日,便向他解說為何他們八字的結合會導致這個問題。我也提到一些方法,希望他去做。
諮詢結束後,我一直在想著這問題。看看他們夫婦倆的八字,這孩子還有三個月才出世,還有時間扭轉乾坤。
在我跟師父出差的那十多年裡,我依稀記得師父曾經以風水解決類似的問題。
某晚,我打了電話給師父,請教他。師父慈悲再一次教我他用的方法,並提醒我客人的太太不能吃的食物。
人要改命,要懂得集合天時地利人和的力量,效果才會更快更顯著。
幾天後,我寫了電郵給男客人,交代了三件事,來幫助胎兒:
一、天時:
依客人妻子的八字,我列出哪些食物是她在這三個月必須避開的。
二、地利:
在他們家中的某個方位,擇良辰吉日貼上一張男嬰的海報。這男嬰的海報必須有的特徵及那個方位要注意的地方,我都清楚交代他。
這一段話,我打上粗體字 「盡快完成」。
三、人和:
從現在到孩子出生前,夫妻倆每天各唸至少108遍「南無地藏王菩薩」,迴向:祈願迴向給我的兒子身心健康,一切健全。
在我的經驗當中,有些客人比較講心情來過自己的人生,因此靠天時改命,自律和恆持力比較差的,無法得到理想成績。
靠人和,時勤時懶,又或者猜疑心重、猶豫不決的客人,也無法見效。
唯有地利,只要客人願意做一次的改變,不去更動那風水,這力量就能出來了。
今年一月七日,男客人寫了封簡短的電郵感謝我和師父,也說孩子剛出世一切OK。
他的感謝電郵和見他本尊時一樣 - 一樣木訥。😄
就因為客人表達能力不強,一封電郵多聲謝謝更顯得驚奇。我問他是做了哪些事,他說三件事都照辦了。我告訴他這事得他自己撥電感謝師父,因為這不全是我的功勞,也是 玳瑚師父 Master Dai Hu 的慈悲救渡。
看一個八字,能生出健全的孩子,太值得了!賀!🎉
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This male client had a Bazi consultation with me in last September in 2020.
At that time, he was asking about his career development.
Later on, he mentioned that his wife was already 6 months pregnant. However, despite several ultrasounds, they couldn’t see complete five fingers on the baby’s hand.
The doctor told them to be mentally prepared that their baby when born may have only four fingers on his hand.
I was shocked when I heard it. I asked for his wife’s birthday and explained why the combination of their Bazi would cause such an issue. I gave him some solutions and hoped that he would heed my words.
After the consultation ended, I kept thinking of this issue. I examined the couple’s Bazi back home. 3 more months before the baby is due, there is still time to turn the tide around.
In the 12 years I learnt under Shifu, I vaguely remembered he once resolved a similar problem with Feng Shui.
I gave Shifu a call one night and sought his teaching. Shifu compassionately taught me again what he did for his client, and reminded me the foods that the wife must avoid.
When you wish to transform your destiny, you must know how to gather the trinity powers of the Heaven, Earth and Human, and the result will be faster and more obvious.
A few days later, I wrote an email to the male client and gave him three things to do to help his baby:
1. Heavenly Time
Based on the client’s wife Bazi, I listed which foods his wife must avoid in the remaining three months.
2. Land Advantage
In a particular sector of their home, choose an auspicious date & time to put up a poster of a baby boy. I laid down clearly the characteristics of baby in the poster and the conditions of the sector.
I wrote in bold “Get this done AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.”
3. Human Harmony
From now till the child’s birth, the client and his wife should each recite 108 times daily “南無地藏王菩薩” and dedicate the merits to their son: May my son be born healthy physically and emotionally, and able-bodied.
In my experience, some clients are more temperamental when it comes to living their lives. Thus to rely on their Heavenly Time to change their destiny, it is hard to achieve desirable results with poor self-discipline and perseverance.
To rely on Human Harmony, if the client is lazy at times and diligent at others, or easily doubtful and hesitant, whatever effort also come to a naught.
But the only factor that can work in such times will be Land Advantage. As long as the client is willing to make a change once, and does not alter the Feng Shui after that, the power to transform his destiny will arise.
On Jan 7, 2021, the male client wrote a short email to thank Shifu and I, and said that things looked okay with his newborn.
His thank-you email was just like his persona in real-life - woody and reserved. 😄
Yet because the client was not expressive, it is even more surprising to get an email with many thank-you. I asked which of the 3 recommendations he took up, and he replied he did all 3. I told him to give Shifu a call to thank him personally. Firstly, out of sincerity. Secondly, this wasn’t all due to my effort.
If getting a Bazi read can result into a healthy baby born, what a great value! 😄 This deserves a celebration! 🎉
同時也有1部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過2萬的網紅營養師媽媽Priscilla,也在其Youtube影片中提到,七種寶寶含鐵質的bb手指食物 finger foods, 鼓勵寶寶自己進食, 提供鐵質, 補腦增強免疫力 , 適合 6-12月大寶寶. 免費下載: 寶寶引進固體食物清單 https://deft-thinker-8848.ck.page/4f3c33d214 [贊助] 營養師媽媽: ...
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#AllAboutBLW #MalayVersion
I am not a native Malay speaker, thats why I am not good in writing or in speaking. But I try to write this in Malay, to share everything about BLW.
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Video ini recorded proses BLW anak saya dari 6 bulan hingga 1 tahun. Mulanya dia memang GAG apabila dia makan, tapi akhirnya dia boleh mengendalikan.
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🔊①Intro to BLW
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BLW iaitu Baby Led Weaning,berbeza dengan Traditional Weaning(TW)
TW biasanya menyuap baby dan offer finger food(ff) kepada baby apabila mereka boleh menggigit. First food bagi TW ialah puree ataupun bubur.
BLW cara lain, kita terus offer makanan solid kepada kanak². Bagi mereka pegang untuk makan, explore berbezaan setiap makanan, belajar cara gigit.
BLW bukan bermaksud "baby eat by himself" saja. Misi nya nak bina keyakinan baby, train hand-eye coordinate, train muscle mulu, try berbagai texture makanan dengan tangan, koordinasi mata tangan dan mulut yang baik dan boleh dilihat mengambil dan memasukkan makanan ke mulut dengan sendiri,etc... Banyak manfaat untuk perkembangan kanak²
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🔊②Bila boleh start BLW
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Apabia kanak² memenuhi kriteria berikut
✅6 months old
✅Tiada reaksi lidah
✅Kawalan kepala yang tegak
✅Tanpa support tangannya pun boleh duduk dengan tegak,
*Saya bagi anak start BLW bila dia umur 6 bulan. Masa tu dia dah duduk dengan tegak,saya juga insert cushion dalam baby chair. Jiga nak ikat baby dengan tuala, please tinggal ruang untuk baby, in case mereka gagging.
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🔊③Perkara² yang memerlukan perhatian
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Perkara yang perlu perhatian terlalu banyak, I list down 2 points yang paling basic & penting.
➡️Menbezakan antara Gagging & Choking
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❤️Gag:muka merah, batuk, ngagis, reflex muntah. Let baby handle, tidak perlu process Heimlich maneuver.
💙Choke:Muka dah biru, tidak boleh bernafas, tidal dapat bersuara. Baby need Heimlich maneuver.
Gagging adalah reflek dari tubuh bayi untuk mengeluarkan makanan. Baby boleh handle it. Asalnya kita offer makanan yang betul, peluang choking sangat lendah.
➡️Learn Heimlich maneuver⚠️
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Sama ada Blw ataupun Tw,penjaga perlu tauhu prosedur Heimlich maneuver. Boleh attend kusus ataupun belajar ari YouTube.
⚠️Make sure you know before you start.
Jangan ganguan baby masa mereka gag, if not will make gagging → choking.
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🔊④First Food, How to Prepare, Menu
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Ada beberapa gang of BLW:
➡️Offer makanan asal saja, tak added gula + garam, 1 type of food each meals
➡️Asal nya size / type of makanan sesuai untuk baby,tidak care about makanan tu mudah menyebab sensitive ke tak, asal nya baby mampu mengiggit.
➡️Makan makanan dewasa, offer makanan yang sesuai mereka dari makanan dewasa, tida special prepared untuk mereka.
For Malaysian style, biasanya kita bagi sayur² rebus, one type of food each time. Tak recommend bagi buah²,sebab taste buah² sedap, biar baby makan yang kurang sedap punya sayuran dulu 😂
Bila baby berumur 8 bulan , kita offer daging & ayam, no added geram & gula sebelum umur 1 tahun. (Ini cara anak saya, tapi not good enough, baby dah boleh makan chicken rebus at start , daging boleh provide iron for baby)
Jika keluarga anda tiada record sensitif kepada makanan, kita boleh offer baby makan apa² saja, asal nya texture+size+type of makanan tu sesuai untuk keupayaan dia.
(Jika baby mudah sensitif degan makanan, please bagi satu type of makanan setiap kali, in case baby allergic, kita pun tahu)
👉First Food
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As simple as ABC
🥑Avocado
🥦 Broccoli〘my girl start with Broccoli〙
🥕Carrot
👉How to prepare
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Strip size or Wedges size
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Medium pieces (for shape size like grape please cut in half to avoid choking)
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Variety Size
【From BIG → SMALL】
Kekerasan lembut yang sesuai : test with fork, boleh go thru easily, tak keras atau lembut sangat.
👉Menu(summarize by @Reyshathegreat)
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🙋 Sayur²
- long beans, okra, asparagus
- broccoli, cauliflower: cut in florets
- potato, sweet potato, squash: cut in wedges, can leave some skin
- peppers:long strip
- celery
- lettuce
- tomato: cut in 1/2 or 1/4
- cherry tomato:cut in 1/2 lengthwise
🙋 Buah²
Cuci dan mengeluarkan biji
- apple, pear:cut 1/2 atau 1/4 ataupun in ring. Masa baby start blw boleh rubus dulu, bila baby handle well boleh offer whole as-is
- avocado, pineapple, melon:cut in wedges
- nectarine, apricots:cut in 1/2 atau 1/4
- blueberry:cut in half
- grapes:cut 1/2 lengthwise
- strawberry, raspberry:whole as-is
- banana:whole as-is,can cut in 1/2 lengthwise
🙋 pasta
- tak ya beli small size "baby pasta",boleh offer normal size : conchiglioni, fusilli, rigatoni
🙋 rice
- buat dalam rice ball shape,senang until memegang
🙋 meat
- offer in long shape atau on the bone(paha ayam)
- lamb, beef
- homemade patties
- chicken breast
- chicken leg
- chicken drumstic
🙋 bread
- cut in long shape atau triangle shape
- toast bakar easier untuk baby, less sticky
- pitta, tortilla wrap, chapatti
🙋 other foods
- As long as Nuts Free & Honey Free
-Ikut comfort level ibu
🙋 runny foods
- soup,bubur,oat meal,yogurt,
🙋 drinks
- warm water
Menu from :🔗bit.ly/howBLW
Ataupun boleh refer album saya
💌http://bit.ly/GoldenBLW6-7
💌bit.ly/GoldenBLW8-12
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🔊⑤Accessorries
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✅Baby Chair:bagi baby duduk untuk makan, ibu bapa tidak memegang. Boleh beli High Chair ataupun booster chair, saya guna high chair dari Ikea.
✅Bib:Boleh kumpul makanan, less messy.
✅Floor Mat/News paper:Letak atas lantai, less cleaning job.
✅Suction Plate:Biasanya tak recommend at start, sebab risau baby tak focus makanan, nak main plate saja. Tapi saya guna suction plate, sebab anak okay.
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🔊⑥Tips
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✅Makan sama sama dengan baby
❌Don't leave baby alone, mesti nak jaga baik baik.
✅Sabar
✅Baby BLW nak do more cleaning works then traditional weaning, enjoy 😆
Follow ig for more video:
👋http://bit.ly/GoldenCustardBunIG
baby finger foods 7 months 在 營養師媽媽Priscilla Youtube 的評價
七種寶寶含鐵質的bb手指食物 finger foods, 鼓勵寶寶自己進食, 提供鐵質, 補腦增強免疫力 , 適合 6-12月大寶寶.
免費下載:
寶寶引進固體食物清單
https://deft-thinker-8848.ck.page/4f3c33d214
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