My daughter turns 3. That means I've been a daddy for 3 years already.
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Is it hard being a daddy?
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I'm not that kind of daddy person, I don't get along with kids well, and the biggest problem with me is I am not into kids, unlike many other guys who do so.
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3 years back, I have this fear of losing out. A lot of "what if" that goes around my head and I never thought I could live that daddy life, especially when I have to maintain my physique.
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Looking back from today, I really lol' ed because being Daddy is still nowhere close to my hard workout and dieting to get six-pack abs.
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Really. It wasn't hard as you think. Every stage of her development gave us a different challenge; we shall take it as a lesson, just like a workout rep that builds us.
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The scariest part of everything? Not her poo overflowed throughout her diapers. I would say the scariest thing of all is the anticipation of any scary event, like when she's seriously ill, and you think it's game over... or anything that goes into your head before it happens a.k.a fear.
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When things finally happen, this time this moment, it wasn't as hard as you think, because you'll be surprised how much you can handle the situation, and there goes for the day, the next day, it's 3 years now. More challenges to come, bring it on.
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On the other side, there are many of those moments that words alone cannot describe... Like when she starts calling you "Daddy", beginning to walk, walk with you, hugging you before you leave the house, and their every bit innocent actions... So much more... Truly a blessing.
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Lastly, I want to thank my dearest wife for everything. Thank you for bringing @bbxinrou into our life and doing all the heavy-family liftings (and she organised this party as well).
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Also to everyone who attended this. Truly appreciate your participation. 🙏
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Special shoutout to Bites Dessert Bar for the beautiful place. Food is super excellent, and it's truly a paradise for every dessert lover. You should try out their dessert-buffet, or anyone who wants to throw a party for their loved one, check out this place Bites Dessert Bar.
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Decoration set up by La Memoria Event
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