「林醫師,你幫Janet接生呀?」
「Nonono.!..是George接生的!
從頭到尾都在搖滾區卻非常的專注冷靜!」
Janet Hsieh 謝怡芬 & George Young 真的是非常恩愛的一對夫妻
能參與他們的懷孕,生產,是件幸福的事
祝福你們
首先~要大大感謝大家的恭喜和祝福簡訊及禮物!其實到現在一切都還感覺很不真實,而我好像還停留在呆滯的狀態。我,的,天,啊,我真的是位媽咪了! George Young 我們有個兒子了!
(對了所以有人猜對嗎?是位男孩,10/11,凌晨2:37出生,3650公克,有大GG(像媽媽一樣man,哈哈!)
First of all, THANK YOU for all of the congratulatory messages, support, and presents! It’s been so surreal and I’m still in a daze. OMG! I’m a MOMMY!!! GEORGE, WE HAVE A SON!! @instageorgy
(BTW, anybody guess correctly? Baby boy, born Oct 11, 2:37am, 3650g, big GG (Takes after mommy. haha!))
現在我終於有時間可以稍微回顧,也同時想把這特別的分娩經驗分享給大家。
Now that I have time to think back, I wanted to share MY labor experience with you.
如何把寶寶生出來的101條守則:
How to deliver a baby 101:
先列出一個非常詳細的生寶寶計畫,包含以下需要事先想清楚:
自然產 v.s. 剖腹產
有打藥催生 v.s. 無藥
會陰剪開 v.s. 自然撕裂
是否寶寶一生出來就和母體肌膚接觸
是否保存臍帶、臍帶血
Write a very detailed birth plan. Include the following
Vaginal delivery vs. C-section
Medicated vs. Non-medicated
Episiotomy or natural tearing
Skin to skin afterwards or not
Do you want to keep the umbilical cord and cord blood for cord blood registry?
2. 小心翼翼地拿著那本生寶寶計畫並且沿長邊對著中線對折
Take that birth plan and carefully fold it in half, long ways, down the middle.
3. 再將紙攤開來
Open it back up again
4. 將紙的右上角往中線摺成三角形
Fold the top right corner down to the middle line, forming a triangle
5. 將紙的左上角往中線摺成另一個對等的三角形
Fold the left right corner down to the middle line, forming a matching triangle
6. 將你的生寶寶計畫(現在它應該是個紙飛機了)往窗外飛,然後和它揮手說再見
Fly your birth plan (now a paper airplane) out the closest window and wave byebye
哈哈。 well, 這個是我自己的經驗啦。
Haha. Well, that’s how it worked out for me in the end anyway.
生小孩之前,我們做很多研究,問了很多朋友然後跟我們的醫生 林思宏醫師 討論了。我跟George決定要用最自然的方式來生小孩, 用最少的醫療。 除非有緊急狀況或是必須的條件,我們盡量不要用催生、針筒、無痛藥或任何其他的藥物,也不想會陰側切或是剖腹。
Before delivering out baby boy, and after doing a lot of research and talking to numerous friends and our physician Dr. Jason Lin, George and I had decided that we wanted as “natural” of a birth as possible, meaning: as little medical intervention as possible. Unless there was a medical emergency or absolute necessity, we wanted no induction, no needles, no pain medication, no episiotomy, and definitely, no surgery.
不過很顯然的我們的寶寶很有想法,他有自己的一套計畫:已經41週大了他就是不打算出來(即便他已經有個超級大頭而且已經3700克),而且一點產兆都沒有!於是林醫師強烈建議我們催生。因此,在10月9日的中午,我們冷靜的打包好,吃飽午餐,非常平靜的前往醫院。這感覺好像是我們要去一趟三天兩夜的小旅行(嗯哼,最好是),但其實仔細想一想,我們的寶寶今天就要出來與我們見面這件事其實是蠻嚇人的!這是一種很詭異的平靜卻緊張的氛圍,好像我們一切都很有效率。
Well, our baby had his own plan. He (even with his big ol’ head and already almost 3700g) just didn’t want to come out, and after 41 weeks and not a single sign of labor, Dr. Lin highly recommended that we induce. So, on October 9 at noon, with our bags calmly packed, lunch eaten, we head to the hospital in a weird daze. It felt like we were packing for a 3-day holiday (haha! Yeah right!), but it was also so scary to think that we could have a baby TODAY! It was a strange calmness/nervousness. Almost like we were being too efficient.
其實坐上計程車後我們一度很想請司機回頭,並取消約診,然後回家繼續等。不過仔細想想又覺得,那,我們到底在等什麼?如果我們只是為了固執的等待陣痛自己來臨,卻因此造成拖延而產生很多不可控制的病發症怎麼辦?
There were moments in the short cab ride when we nearly told the taxi to turn around, cancel the appointment, and just wait it out. And then there were times when we thought, well, what exactly are we waiting for? What if we cause some complications because we were stubborn about waiting for contractions to start on their own?
每一位迎接寶寶來臨的準媽媽甚至準爸爸都會害怕自己的寶寶會在準備出生的前幾天因為受臍帶纏繞而窒息,或是寶寶會開始在媽媽肚子的羊水中便便甚而吃到自己的胎便,這其實很危險且容易造成感染,或是胎盤會開始失去功能等等。身為一位母親,妳就是會時不時的替寶寶擔心這擔心那,一切都是為了確保他/她能夠平安。
Every mother and even father has the fear that their baby will get tangled on its umbilical cord and stop breathing just DAYS before he or she is supposed to be born, or that it will start to poop inside and eat it’s own poop inside the amniotic fluid which can be very dangerous and cause infection, or the placenta will start will fail, etc etc. As a mother, you are constantly worried about that baby inside your belly and you just want to do anything possible to make sure it is OK.
所以,因為腦中有這麼多的擔心和顧慮不斷徘徊,於是我們乖乖的聽醫師的話,10月9日的中午12點準時到醫院報到,和飯店check in,喔不是,我是說我們的產房,並且真的開始面對催生這件事。
So, with these concerns and considerations in mind, we listened to our doctor and by 12 noon on October 9th, we checked into our hotel room, I mean, our hospital room, and started INDUCTION.
長話短說,38小時過後,我們的男寶寶來到這個世界。我絕對會說他是我們”美麗的男寶寶”!但你們真的見過寶寶剛生出來的樣子嗎?(George當時是搖滾區) 它當時並不是我認為最美的事物我必須承認...,它其實長得像異形啊!哈哈!
Long story short, 38 hours later, we have our baby boy. I would say our “beautiful baby boy,” but have you SEEN a baby when it comes out?! (George did at the business end). It is not the prettiest thing… it looks like an alien! Haha!
說真的我真的不知道如果沒有林思宏醫師、產房護理長王俐文還有其他護理人員、Holly及許多客服人員們的協助我會怎麼樣。生寶寶真的是件既美妙卻又嚇人的一件事,尤其當妳在分娩的這段期間只有感受到自己的無比脆弱,妳絕對會需要一個懂妳也懂妳的寶寶的團隊來支持妳:一個能不時監測妳和寶寶狀態的專業團隊,且具備充分耐心可以願意一一回答妳百萬種不可思議的問題。妳絕對會需要一個盡量能讓妳感到放心的環境,在這可能是妳人生中最不舒服的一天!(或者舉我為例,我人生中最不舒服的38小時!)
I honestly don’t know what I would have done without the support of Dr. Jason Lin, Wendy (our doula), and the rest of the nurses and staff at 禾馨婦產科-專業母胎兒醫學中心 . Having a baby is a wonderful, yet absolutely terrifying thing, and you feel completely vulnerable when you are going through labor. You need a team by your side who knows what YOU want for your delivery and for you and your baby. A professional group who is there to monitor you and your baby in case anything goes wrong, and who is also caring and supportive enough to answer all of your millions of silly questions. You need an environment which makes you feel as comfortable as possible, in what is going to possibly be THE MOST UNcomfortable day in your life! (Or, in my case, 38 LOOONG hours of my life!)
謝謝林醫師的熱情和專業,尤其在回答我們千奇百怪的問題的同時還能用一套幽默與邏輯來平息我們的不安。如果我真的要再做一次生產這件事,不用問,我一定會讓George來生...哈哈。不過說真的,我真的找不到第二人選來幫我的男寶寶順產接生。
Thank you Dr. Lin for your passion for your job, your professionalism when answering our questions, and your sense of humor to calm our nerves. If I had to do it all over again, there’s no question… I’d make GEORGE have our baby… Haha. But seriously, I can’t think of a better person that I’d rather have deliver our baby boy.
再來是護理長王俐文,妳真的是上帝派來的天使、我的救世主!妳陪伴著我和George最難熬的那幾個小時是我永生難忘!妳在我最艱困的的每一次陣痛幫我擦乾我的眼淚、用妳的笑容鼓勵我,幫我擠出那些痛、按摩我、跟我一起做骨盆搖擺運動,妳是我的意志力讓我堅持到最後。真的真的真的好感謝妳
And Wendy. Oh Wendy. You are an angel. A godsend. My savior! The hours that you spent with George and I during my most difficult moments will never be forgotten. You helped wipe away my tears, encouraged me with your smile, squeezed, massaged, swayed, and moved with me through all of my toughest contractions, and you kept me sane when I thought I couldn’t last another second. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU.
獻給那些即將臨盆的媽咪們,我不騙你,生產真的是我人生目前做過最嚇人的一件事!我從來沒有為一件事情如此害怕、緊張過。不過希望妳也可以一樣,有個很支持妳、照顧妳的家人和醫療團隊在妳身邊,也能像我一樣,順利地生出健康、開心又獨一無二珍貴的寶寶,妳們的寶寶!祝妳好運!加油!
To any moms out there about to deliver a baby, I won’t lie. It is the scariest thing I have ever done in my life. I have never been so nervous or scared about anything before. But hopefully, like me, you have an amazing support group and family by your side… and like me, you will also deliver a healthy, happy and precious baby. YOUR baby. GOOD LUCK. JIA YOU!
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[美國大學最知名的畢業致詞 This is water]
看了新聞 發現美國高中生80秒對美國教育的批評被傳遍
也被翻譯了
然而這篇也同樣熱門 甚至更有意義的卻被忽視了
所以筆者決定自己把字幕找出來 一句一句翻給大家看
希望能對學弟妹有些幫助 看完能有些想法 順便練英文囉XD
如果對這系列有興趣 喜歡的話 還請幫忙分享出去
花了快一個多小時翻譯= =||| 不過可能翻的也沒有很好
日後筆者會翻譯更多篇好影片過來
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There are these two young fish swimming along
有兩隻年輕的魚正在悠游
And they happen to meet an older fish swimming the otherway
他們碰巧遇到了一隻老魚
Who nods at them and says morning boys how's thewater?
老魚向他們點頭說:早阿 今天的水如何?
And the two young fish swim on for a bit and eventually
One of them looks over at the other and goes
What the hell is water?
這兩隻魚又游了一下 最終其中一隻說 什麼是水?
The point of the fish story is merely that the most obvious
Important realities are often the ones that are hardest
魚的故事是在指出一個明確 重要的事實 也同時是最困難的
To see and talk about Stated as an english sentence of course is just a banal platitude
如果只是去探討英文上的句子 顯然只是一個平庸的老生常談
But the fact is that in the day to day trenches of adult existence
Banal platitudes can have a life or death importance
然而事實是 在一天一天如打戰般的成人生活
平庸的老生常談經常有生或死的重要性
The plain fact is that you graduating seniors Do not yet have any clue What day in day out really means
事實是 當妳從高中畢業 你不會知道真正的生活意義是什麼
There happen to be whole large parts of adult
American life That nobody talks about in commencement speeches
這發生在大部分美國成年人的生活中 沒有人開始在演講中談論這個
One such part involves boredom routine and petty frustration
其中很大一部分是無聊 重複的生活 和非常大的挫折
The parents and older folks here will know all too well what I'm talking about
在這裡的父母和比較老的成年人會非常清楚我在講些什麼
By way of example let's say it's an average adult day
舉例而言 讓我們看看現在成年人的生活
And you get up in the morning Go to your challenging white collar college
graduate job
你早上起床 去面對充滿挑戰性的白領生涯
And you work hard for eight or ten hours And at the end of the day you're tired and stressed
你工作非常辛苦 每天八到十小時 到了一天的盡頭 你累癱了 而且充滿了壓力
And all you want is to go home and have good supper And maybe unwind for an hour and then hit the sack early Because of course you have to get up the next25.day and do it all again But then you remember there's no food at home
你唯一想做的就是回家 吃一頓豐盛的晚餐 也許 放鬆個幾個小時
或直接倒到床上
因為 理所當然的 你明天也得重複一遍
但你忽然想起家裡沒有食物了
You haven't had time to shop this week because of your challenging job
And so now after work you have to get in your car and drive to the supermarket
因為妳充滿挑戰性的工作 這一周你都沒有時間去採買
所以現在 在下班後你必須開車去超級市場
It's the end of the work day and the traffic is apt to be very bad
在一天工作的結束 交通通常非常糟糕
So getting to the store takes way longer than it should
所以你去店裡的時間 也比一般需要花的長
And when you finally get there the supermarket is very crowded
當你終於到了超級市場 卻需要面對人潮洶湧
Because of course it's the time of day when all the other people with jobs
Also try to squeeze in some grocery shopping But you can't just get in and quickly out
因為 理所當然的 不只你 其他有工作的人也需要擠出一點時間來採買
所以你不無法迅速的採買就離開
You have to wander all over the huge over lit store's confusing aisles
你需要在巨大令人困惑 琳瑯滿目的商品走到中困惑
To find the stuff you want and you have to maneuver your junky cart
去找到你真正需要 可以放進你品質很糟的購物車中
Through all these other tired hurried people with carts
還得和別人搶購物車
Et cetera et cetera cutting stuff out because this is a long ceremony
等等等等 這是一個漫長的儀式
And eventually you get all your supper supplies Except now it turns out there aren't enough check-out lanes open
最終你買到你的晚餐 然而卻發現沒有足夠的櫃台是開的
So the checkout line is incredibly long which is stupid and infuriating
所以隊伍排得不可思議的長 這是愚蠢而且氣死人的事情
But you can't take your frustration out on the frantic lady working the register
但你無法將你的挫折與怒氣 發洩在結帳小姐身上
Who is overworked at a job whose daily tedium and meaninglessness
尤其他們的生活已經是需要過度的工作 整天單調無聊又沒意義
Surpasses the imagination of any of us here at a prestigious college
勝於任何在座 就讀於名校的學生
But anyway you finally get to the checkout line's front
總之 無論如何 你最終到了隊伍前面
And you pay for your food and you get told to Have a nice day
你為你的食物付了錢 並得到了一句 祝你有個愉快的一天
In a voice that is the absolute voice of death Then you have to take your creepy flimsy plastic bags of groceries
這句話適用無聊死氣沉沉的聲音說出來的
然後你得提者你笨重 脆弱的塑膠袋
And then you have to drive all the way home
through Slow heavy SUV-intensive rush-hour traffic
然後你還得開車回家 在交通尖峰時刻
et cetera et cetera Everyone here has done this of course
等等等等 在座的每一個人 都做過類似的事情
But it hasn't yet been part of you graduates actual life routine
Day after week after month after year But it will be
但這還沒成為你畢業後 每一天 每一周 每一月 真正的生活 但總有一天會
And many more dreary annoying seemingly meaningless routines besides
還有更多無聊 沒意義的生活行程
But that is not the point The point is that petty frustrating crap like
this Is exactly where the work of choosing is gonna come in
但這不是重點 重點是在這挫折的鳥事 正是選擇來臨的時候
Because the traffic jams and crowded aisles and long checkout lines
因為在嚴重的塞車 和壅擠的隊伍中
Give me time to think and if I don't makea conscious decision About how to think and what to pay attention
給了我們時間去思考 如果我們不去做一個有知覺的決定
關於我們要如何去集中注意力去思考
I'm gonna be pissed and miserable every time
我們將會生氣 悲慘的度過每一天
I have to shop Because my natural default setting is the
certainty That situations like this are really all about
我必須要去採買 因為天生設定的的缺陷
me About my hungriness and my fatigue and my
desire to just get home
這關於我的慾望 我的想要 我想要直接回家休息
And it's going to seem for all the world like
everybody else is just in my way And who are all these people in my way?
所以這讓整個世界看起來 其他人只是在擋我的路
And look at how repulsive most of them are And how stupid and cow-like and dead-eyed
看看他們多令人厭惡 又笨有者母牛般的死眼睛
And nonhuman they seem in the checkout line Or at how annoying and rude it is that people
沒有人比排在你前面的人更煩更粗魯的了
Are talking loudly on cell phones in the middle of the line
他們拿者手機講話大聲 完全不顧旁人感受
If I choose to think this way in a store and on the freeway
如果我選擇在店裡 在高速公路上 這樣去思考
Fine lots of us do Except thinking this way tends to be so easy
當然可以 大部分的我們都是這樣去思考的 因為這樣想很容易
and automatic That it doesn't have to be a choice
這是很自動的 好似我們並沒有選擇
It is my natural default setting It's the automatic way that I experience
這是我們的天生設置缺陷 這是來自我經驗很自動的事情
The boring frustrating crowded parts of adult life
無聊又令人挫折的成人生活
That I am the center of the world And that my immediate needs and feelings
Are what should determine the world�s priorities The thing is that of course there are totally different ways To think about these kinds of situations
我是世界的中心,而我的眼前有需要和感受
應該確定什麼世界上優先考慮的事情
當然也有完全不同的方式來思考這些種情況
In this traffic all these vehicles stopped and idling in my way
在這個交通所有這些車輛停了下來,用我的方式空轉
It's not impossible that some of these people in SUV's
這不是不可能的,有些開者SUV的人
Have been in horrible auto accidents in the past
曾遇過可怕的交通意外
And now find driving so terrifying that their therapist
以至於認為開車事非常恐懼的 只能尋求治療師的協助
Has all but ordered them to get a huge heavy SUV
所以命令他們去開巨大 又笨重的suv休旅車
So they can feel safe enough to drive Or I can choose to force myself to consider
the likelihood That everyone else in the supermarkets checkout
line Is just as bored and frustrated as I am
所以,他們可以感到安全,或者我可以選擇強迫自己考慮
一種的可能性,其他人在超市結帳時也是一樣的無聊和沮喪
我也是那個讓人感到生氣的人
And that some of these people probably have much harder
甚至有些人有更困難的情況
More tedious and painful lives than I do Again please don't think that I'm giving you moral advice Or that I'm saying you are supposed to think
他們可能有更無聊 單調 痛苦的生活
再次提醒 不要我在給你們道德上的建議 或者告訴你們應該怎麼去思考
this way Or that anyone expects you to just automatically
do it Because it's hard
這只是一種對你們能自動去思考ˋ的期待 因為這很難
It takes will and effort and
這需要很大的努力
if you are like me
Some days you won't be able to do it Or you just flat out won't want to
如果妳像我 有些日子你不需要去這樣想 或者單純的你不想要去
But most days if you're aware enough to give yourself a choice
但在大多天 如果你有足夠的意識 給自己一個機會
You can choose to look differently At this fat dead eyed over made up lady
Who just screamed at her kid in the checkout line
你可以選擇在這一個在隊伍中對者他小孩大吼的女胖子 以不同的眼光看待
Maybe she's not usually like this Maybe she's been up three straight nights
holding the hand of a husband who is dying of bone cancer
也許他並不常像這樣 也許他已經很多晚上握者他即將死於骨癌丈夫的手
Or maybe this very lady is the low wage clerk At the motor vehicle department who just yesterday Helped your spouse resolve a horrific infuriating Red tape problem through some small act of
或者,也許他是低工資的業務員 在機車部門剛好服務了你的太太解決了問題
Of course none of this is likely but it's
also not impossible It just depends what you what to consider
沒有什麼是不可能的 只是看你如何去思考而已
If you're automatically sure that you know what reality is
And you are operating on your default setting Then you like me probably won't consider possibilities
如果妳都自動的腦補 確定你知道什麼是真實
那麼你只是自動執行你天生的缺陷 你不會去思考其他可能性
if you really learn how to think how to
pay attention Then you will know there are other options
如果你真的學者去思考和注意 你將會知道你有其他選項
It will actually be within your power to experience A crowded hot slow consumer hell type situation
As not only meaningful but sacred On fire with the same force that made the
stars Love fellowship the mystical oneness of all
實際上,它會在你的能力範圍內,遇到擁擠的慢熱消費者地獄的情況
This I submit is the freedom of a real education Of learning how to be well adjusted
這是我提出的建議 一個自由 真實的教育 是要學習如何調整自己
You get to consciously decide what has meaning and what doesn't
That is real freedom that is being educated And understanding how to think
你需要有意識的決定 什麼是有意義的 什麼不是
這是由教育給予的真實的自由 並且去了解該如何思考
The alternative is unconsciousness The default setting the rat race
The constant gnawing sense of having had And lost some infinite thing
另一個選項是無意識的 像實驗老鼠般賽局
持續的啃食者你的意識 失去了一些重要可以無限的事情
I know that this stuff probably doesn't sound fun and breezy
Or grandly inspirational the way a commencement speech
我知道這件事情 可能聽起來不活潑也不有趣
或者是一個鼓舞人心的畢業典禮演講
You are of course free to think of it whatever
you wish But please don't just dismiss it as just some
Finger wagging Doctor Laura sermon None of this stuff is really about morality
or religion or dogma Or big fancy questions of life after death
無論如何 你當然是可以自由思考的
但拜託請不要認為這只是一些花俏 無用的道德或宗教大道理
或者某些死後才需要知道的問題
The capital T Truth is about life before death It is about the real value of a real education
真理是生活在死亡之前 是教育的真正價值
Which has almost nothing to do with knowledge And everything to do with simple awareness
Awareness of what is so real and essential So hidden in plain sight all around us all the time that we have to keep reminding ourselves overand over
這和我們的知識並無相關 這只是很簡單在我們的意識之中
意識什麼是真的並且重要的
並且不斷一遍一變得提醒自己
This is water
這是水
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原先我想像好萊塢明星一樣左手一個右手一個,身上再一個,爸爸那還有兩個~來個五胎組球隊~當然這曾是我愛死孩子的天真想法!
後來知道了一些現實面以及看過各種小惡魔的畫面後,決定兩胎真的已經很剛好了!很足夠!
但隨著年紀增長,越來越害怕各種改變與未知!一次又一次看到這種生產過程還有養小孩的過程~
我只能說: 但願我找到對的人,未來的老公能愛我很多很多!跟我一起加油~
首先~要大大感謝大家的恭喜和祝福簡訊及禮物!其實到現在一切都還感覺很不真實,而我好像還停留在呆滯的狀態。我,的,天,啊,我真的是位媽咪了! George Young 我們有個兒子了!
(對了所以有人猜對嗎?是位男孩,10/11,凌晨2:37出生,3650公克,有大GG(像媽媽一樣man,哈哈!)
First of all, THANK YOU for all of the congratulatory messages, support, and presents! It’s been so surreal and I’m still in a daze. OMG! I’m a MOMMY!!! GEORGE, WE HAVE A SON!! @instageorgy
(BTW, anybody guess correctly? Baby boy, born Oct 11, 2:37am, 3650g, big GG (Takes after mommy. haha!))
現在我終於有時間可以稍微回顧,也同時想把這特別的分娩經驗分享給大家。
Now that I have time to think back, I wanted to share MY labor experience with you.
如何把寶寶生出來的101條守則:
How to deliver a baby 101:
先列出一個非常詳細的生寶寶計畫,包含以下需要事先想清楚:
自然產 v.s. 剖腹產
有打藥催生 v.s. 無藥
會陰剪開 v.s. 自然撕裂
是否寶寶一生出來就和母體肌膚接觸
是否保存臍帶、臍帶血
Write a very detailed birth plan. Include the following
Vaginal delivery vs. C-section
Medicated vs. Non-medicated
Episiotomy or natural tearing
Skin to skin afterwards or not
Do you want to keep the umbilical cord and cord blood for cord blood registry?
2. 小心翼翼地拿著那本生寶寶計畫並且沿長邊對著中線對折
Take that birth plan and carefully fold it in half, long ways, down the middle.
3. 再將紙攤開來
Open it back up again
4. 將紙的右上角往中線摺成三角形
Fold the top right corner down to the middle line, forming a triangle
5. 將紙的左上角往中線摺成另一個對等的三角形
Fold the left right corner down to the middle line, forming a matching triangle
6. 將你的生寶寶計畫(現在它應該是個紙飛機了)往窗外飛,然後和它揮手說再見
Fly your birth plan (now a paper airplane) out the closest window and wave byebye
哈哈。 well, 這個是我自己的經驗啦。
Haha. Well, that’s how it worked out for me in the end anyway.
生小孩之前,我們做很多研究,問了很多朋友然後跟我們的醫生 林思宏醫師 討論了。我跟George決定要用最自然的方式來生小孩, 用最少的醫療。 除非有緊急狀況或是必須的條件,我們盡量不要用催生、針筒、無痛藥或任何其他的藥物,也不想會陰側切或是剖腹。
Before delivering out baby boy, and after doing a lot of research and talking to numerous friends and our physician Dr. Jason Lin, George and I had decided that we wanted as “natural” of a birth as possible, meaning: as little medical intervention as possible. Unless there was a medical emergency or absolute necessity, we wanted no induction, no needles, no pain medication, no episiotomy, and definitely, no surgery.
不過很顯然的我們的寶寶很有想法,他有自己的一套計畫:已經41週大了他就是不打算出來(即便他已經有個超級大頭而且已經3700克),而且一點產兆都沒有!於是林醫師強烈建議我們催生。因此,在10月9日的中午,我們冷靜的打包好,吃飽午餐,非常平靜的前往醫院。這感覺好像是我們要去一趟三天兩夜的小旅行(嗯哼,最好是),但其實仔細想一想,我們的寶寶今天就要出來與我們見面這件事其實是蠻嚇人的!這是一種很詭異的平靜卻緊張的氛圍,好像我們一切都很有效率。
Well, our baby had his own plan. He (even with his big ol’ head and already almost 3700g) just didn’t want to come out, and after 41 weeks and not a single sign of labor, Dr. Lin highly recommended that we induce. So, on October 9 at noon, with our bags calmly packed, lunch eaten, we head to the hospital in a weird daze. It felt like we were packing for a 3-day holiday (haha! Yeah right!), but it was also so scary to think that we could have a baby TODAY! It was a strange calmness/nervousness. Almost like we were being too efficient.
其實坐上計程車後我們一度很想請司機回頭,並取消約診,然後回家繼續等。不過仔細想想又覺得,那,我們到底在等什麼?如果我們只是為了固執的等待陣痛自己來臨,卻因此造成拖延而產生很多不可控制的病發症怎麼辦?
There were moments in the short cab ride when we nearly told the taxi to turn around, cancel the appointment, and just wait it out. And then there were times when we thought, well, what exactly are we waiting for? What if we cause some complications because we were stubborn about waiting for contractions to start on their own?
每一位迎接寶寶來臨的準媽媽甚至準爸爸都會害怕自己的寶寶會在準備出生的前幾天因為受臍帶纏繞而窒息,或是寶寶會開始在媽媽肚子的羊水中便便甚而吃到自己的胎便,這其實很危險且容易造成感染,或是胎盤會開始失去功能等等。身為一位母親,妳就是會時不時的替寶寶擔心這擔心那,一切都是為了確保他/她能夠平安。
Every mother and even father has the fear that their baby will get tangled on its umbilical cord and stop breathing just DAYS before he or she is supposed to be born, or that it will start to poop inside and eat it’s own poop inside the amniotic fluid which can be very dangerous and cause infection, or the placenta will start will fail, etc etc. As a mother, you are constantly worried about that baby inside your belly and you just want to do anything possible to make sure it is OK.
所以,因為腦中有這麼多的擔心和顧慮不斷徘徊,於是我們乖乖的聽醫師的話,10月9日的中午12點準時到醫院報到,和飯店check in,喔不是,我是說我們的產房,並且真的開始面對催生這件事。
So, with these concerns and considerations in mind, we listened to our doctor and by 12 noon on October 9th, we checked into our hotel room, I mean, our hospital room, and started INDUCTION.
長話短說,38小時過後,我們的男寶寶來到這個世界。我絕對會說他是我們”美麗的男寶寶”!但你們真的見過寶寶剛生出來的樣子嗎?(George當時是搖滾區) 它當時並不是我認為最美的事物我必須承認...,它其實長得像異形啊!哈哈!
Long story short, 38 hours later, we have our baby boy. I would say our “beautiful baby boy,” but have you SEEN a baby when it comes out?! (George did at the business end). It is not the prettiest thing… it looks like an alien! Haha!
說真的我真的不知道如果沒有林思宏醫師、產房護理長王俐文還有其他護理人員、Holly及許多客服人員們的協助我會怎麼樣。生寶寶真的是件既美妙卻又嚇人的一件事,尤其當妳在分娩的這段期間只有感受到自己的無比脆弱,妳絕對會需要一個懂妳也懂妳的寶寶的團隊來支持妳:一個能不時監測妳和寶寶狀態的專業團隊,且具備充分耐心可以願意一一回答妳百萬種不可思議的問題。妳絕對會需要一個盡量能讓妳感到放心的環境,在這可能是妳人生中最不舒服的一天!(或者舉我為例,我人生中最不舒服的38小時!)
I honestly don’t know what I would have done without the support of Dr. Jason Lin, Wendy (our doula), and the rest of the nurses and staff at 禾馨婦產科-專業母胎兒醫學中心 . Having a baby is a wonderful, yet absolutely terrifying thing, and you feel completely vulnerable when you are going through labor. You need a team by your side who knows what YOU want for your delivery and for you and your baby. A professional group who is there to monitor you and your baby in case anything goes wrong, and who is also caring and supportive enough to answer all of your millions of silly questions. You need an environment which makes you feel as comfortable as possible, in what is going to possibly be THE MOST UNcomfortable day in your life! (Or, in my case, 38 LOOONG hours of my life!)
謝謝林醫師的熱情和專業,尤其在回答我們千奇百怪的問題的同時還能用一套幽默與邏輯來平息我們的不安。如果我真的要再做一次生產這件事,不用問,我一定會讓George來生...哈哈。不過說真的,我真的找不到第二人選來幫我的男寶寶順產接生。
Thank you Dr. Lin for your passion for your job, your professionalism when answering our questions, and your sense of humor to calm our nerves. If I had to do it all over again, there’s no question… I’d make GEORGE have our baby… Haha. But seriously, I can’t think of a better person that I’d rather have deliver our baby boy.
再來是護理長王俐文,妳真的是上帝派來的天使、我的救世主!妳陪伴著我和George最難熬的那幾個小時是我永生難忘!妳在我最艱困的的每一次陣痛幫我擦乾我的眼淚、用妳的笑容鼓勵我,幫我擠出那些痛、按摩我、跟我一起做骨盆搖擺運動,妳是我的意志力讓我堅持到最後。真的真的真的好感謝妳
And Wendy. Oh Wendy. You are an angel. A godsend. My savior! The hours that you spent with George and I during my most difficult moments will never be forgotten. You helped wipe away my tears, encouraged me with your smile, squeezed, massaged, swayed, and moved with me through all of my toughest contractions, and you kept me sane when I thought I couldn’t last another second. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU.
獻給那些即將臨盆的媽咪們,我不騙你,生產真的是我人生目前做過最嚇人的一件事!我從來沒有為一件事情如此害怕、緊張過。不過希望妳也可以一樣,有個很支持妳、照顧妳的家人和醫療團隊在妳身邊,也能像我一樣,順利地生出健康、開心又獨一無二珍貴的寶寶,妳們的寶寶!祝妳好運!加油!
To any moms out there about to deliver a baby, I won’t lie. It is the scariest thing I have ever done in my life. I have never been so nervous or scared about anything before. But hopefully, like me, you have an amazing support group and family by your side… and like me, you will also deliver a healthy, happy and precious baby. YOUR baby. GOOD LUCK. JIA YOU!
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