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สอง-สามปีมานี้ ผมพบว่าคนรอบตัวทั้งเพื่อนพ้องน้องพี่มีอาการเบื่อๆ อยากๆ หรือที่เรียกกันว่า 'โรคซึมเศร้า' กันหลายคน ตัวผมเองก็มีบางช่วงเวลาที่เซ็งๆ เนือยๆ นอยๆ อยู่บ้างเหมือนกัน แต่เมื่อลองนั่งคุยกับคนที่มีอาการของโรคอย่างแท้จริงก็พบว่า คนที่เป็นโรคนั้นมีภาวะที่แตกต่างไป ผมเคยไม่เข้าใจคนที่เป็นโรคนี้มาก่อน ทำให้เผลอปฏิบัติตัวไปในทางที่ผิด คิดอยากช่วยแต่กลับทำให้ทุกอย่างดูแย่ลงไปอีก วันนี้อยากลองแชร์ความคิดและข้อมูลบางอย่างเผื่อจะเป็นประโยชน์ท...
Continue ReadingLive with 'depression' next to each other.
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Two-three years ago, I found that people around me, friends, brothers and sisters. I want to be bored, aka ' depression '. Many people have some times that I'm tired. Some of the same time, but when I sit and talk to someone who has a real disease, I found that people with different condition. I didn't understand. People who have this disease before. I accidentally act in the wrong way. I want to help, but I do everything. Looking worse today. I want to share some thoughts and information. In case it's beneficial with depression, including close ones. Of course I'm not a doctor. I just want to tell you and talk about some aspects. If anyone has good information or helpful ways to do it. Feel free to share. It should be beneficial to many people.
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1. Before speaking, we should listen.
People around patients with depression often judge and look at their own eyes. We always try to sedition to be strong, have goals, ask about passion, and whatever you think it will be powerful with life. Sometimes I accidentally scold. Said why he is so tired, lazy, long spine, doesn't do anything. Sometimes I encourage him to get up to do something. All of this with best wishes, but know that for patients. These things. The more it makes the situation worse because it shows the understanding of the condition he is experiencing. If someone close to be bored before he lets him do many things, we should give him a bit of how he feels about the world and our lives. To understand more
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Lol he didn't want to be
When we listen, we will understand that the condition he is very difficult because it is an insensitive feeling about everything, no negative, no negativity, nothing, no meaning, don't want to don't want to do anything, don't want to talk to anyone, which he doesn't even want to be The more pressure in the world that everyone has to work hard, the more you feel worthless. I want to get up to work, but I don't have enough strength. Besides being tired, we still have to fight the value that society around you. It's a time that is not easy. I am.
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Lol he may not be stressed by anything. Suddenly it happens.
Everyone has stress, but it's all caused by something. While this disease is different. Sometimes - one day this symptom happened yesterday, I still smile. Today we can't tell him. " Hey, keep thinking positive " or " just change the way of thinking, life changes " something like that. When it happens, it will last for weeks or months. During that time. Patients will be the one who don't want to do anything, whether it's work. Playing or even showing love with love is a great time of understanding and if he says " you don't understand me that's what he really wants to say
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4. Give him time to give us time
During that time, he will change to a different person. It may be a bad person who has been active. May not be bored of work. I may not get out of bed or insomnia, no strength. Sometimes I don't think that they don't want to live. It's a time when people. All around you should give time to not try to make him get well quickly because it's impossible. But it shouldn't be more pressure or take care of it. Because this moment, he may not have much mood to interact with anyone. Give time. Him and with us.
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Lol it's about chemicals in the brain
What we should understand is that this disease is not caused by an attitude or perspective to the world. Even when it affects the world, but the cause of the brain, there may be some chemicals in the brain that is low or some medical disorders. Still can't answer. What is the real cause of it? It may be genes or mixed environment. When we understand this, we will see that it's normal that people have some disease in some times. Comparison to cold may not be right, but think about it. Sometimes some diseases come into life. Give it time. It will slowly unfold.
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Lol call it a disease to feel normal
When this is a symptom of a disease. Instead of a disease, we should feel like it is normal for human beings. It should not feel that we should not feel bad. We have a disease or someone beside us. Just a normal thing that happens to keep us beside each other to support and understand together.
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7. Do you want to change the name of the disease?
I really want to rethink about this disease. The word ' depression ' makes us not want to tell anyone that I have this disease. In fact, we are not going to be depressed for the rest of my life or all the time. I want to call it ' disease. What are you tired? ' because it's temporarily tired. Well, people can be tired? It's only temporary. I will come back to have new power. Just ' I'm not ' not ' depressed ' Go forever. Don't panic.
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Haha. Invite him to go to the doctor.
Many patients don't know that there is a disease in the world. Some people may not admit that they are in America. There is an average that each patient takes more than ten years to ask for advice from the doctor. Even going to the doctor can help you feel better. Sitting and talking. Paying medicine to balance brain chemistry, including doctor's advice is beneficial to patients. If someone close to have some symptoms, you should recommend him to go to the doctor. It's like we have a sore throat and fever. We need to find a doctor. Isn't we find a doctor? Doctor cures this disease. It's not a shocking thing. As I said it's normal. People can have a disease.
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Haha. You are not weak. You can tell each other.
Whether we have this disease or close ones, one thing we should understand is that we are not weaker than others. It's one condition that something in the brain is unbalanced. In that condition may have an idea to compare ourselves to others, such as opening Facebook. I feel like everyone is happier than me (a little less on Facebook) or compare to myself when I'm brighter, but it's similar to when we ankle. We can't go back to being the same right away even if I speed up the day. No matter how much you speed up, open-minded talk can heal the feeling, including telling the thoughts of suicide can help reduce the risk of suicide too. The close ones should open your mind and listen and some people should open your mind to tell the feeling. People we can trust. Tell the world that I have this disease. People around you will understand that in the midst of society that don't understand. Patients will make patients feel worried. We don't dare to tell anyone. So we need more understanding in society for the story that are walking around. Inside will be told more comfortably.
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Lol let's exercise
I found that many brothers and sisters who have a disease. Better, brighter, more power from exercise. Even if you try and do it continuously, you will slowly feel better. Exercise may cause some chemicals in the brain to add good feelings for us. Some people say that we have lived in the field before. Before we have to run for food. Now we have to sit in a narrow air conditioning room all day. It makes it unnatural. So we should find When you return to our natural activity. Exercise is a magic pill. It helps both chemicals. It helps to help healthy. If there are people close to you, try to invite them to exercise together. But don't have to much pressure. Take it slow.
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All that I think spreading knowledge of understanding is very important. Both close level is to interaction with patients in the house. If we understand, we will treat each other better and at the level of Society is wide. If society understands, patients will dare to speak. Dare to tell others stories and feelings.
It's not strange that we have some moments to cross over. Whether at the level of family or society. I think we need understanding of each other to be beside each other to cross that time. There is still a bright tomorrow waiting. I'm still here.
If it's not too disturbing, I want to share this information to help create more understanding of this disease. If anyone has any information, please comment and tell me. It should be beneficial to everyone.
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同時也有164部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過14萬的網紅張韶涵Angela Zhang,也在其Youtube影片中提到,[ 數位音樂平台] iTunes : http://goo.gl/WaFk0z KKBOX : http://goo.gl/s8iquR myMusic : http://goo.gl/GOGB9r Omusic : http://goo.gl/RjTehe 世界沒有末日 只是愛無以為繼 機器人...
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[ 數位音樂平台]
iTunes : http://goo.gl/WaFk0z
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myMusic : http://goo.gl/GOGB9r
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世界沒有末日 只是愛無以為繼
機器人的世界會不會比較安靜?
也許有一天,機器人也會懂得愛.......
2014張韶涵全新單曲 『OK蹦』
是一首概念單曲,從收歌發詞音樂製作一直到最後所搭配的影像呈現。
都有著張韶涵貫穿其中的概念:
她用機器人作為表現手法,講述『愛』這個主題。
雖然音樂元素採用電氣重節奏舞曲的編制,呈現前衛時尚的音樂風格,卻相反的在講述一顆炙熱跳動渴望愛的真心。
這次首支單曲『OK蹦』是張韶涵從上百首舞曲中,挑出足以表達她想說的概念的一首歌,由於專輯在開始製作之際,她就已經規劃好每首歌曲的任務與位置,所以對於這首肩負講述概念的主要歌曲,張韶涵花費了十足心力終於找到最適合的DEMO,並且和填詞人溝通之後,用冰冷的機器人,也可能會懂得愛切入,引發人們對愛的深思。
製作人Jay Chong和張韶涵擁有絕佳默契,清楚地接受到Angela的想法,張韶涵甚至為了配合Jay Chong的工作狀況,專程飛到韓國錄音,就是希望可以將歌曲做最完美的呈現。
音樂錄影帶導演比爾賈,在經過多次與張韶涵會議討論,花費長時間聆聽張韶涵口述她心中對於機器人懂得愛的故事,耗費二個月時間打造這支時尚獨特又帶著人性反思的『OK蹦』MV,在結尾處也為下一支MV留下 "女神誕生" 的伏筆,讓人更想一探究竟。
未來世界也許科技會遍及人們生活的絕大部分。
但是充滿正能量的張韶涵說:
愛,仍舊是唯一的答案。
OK蹦 Bandage
改編詞:吳易緯
原詞曲:Sommerdahl, Harry Mikael
Boom Boom Boom Boom Boom
Boom Boom Boom Boom Boom
Boom Boom Boom Boom Boom
為什麼人類世界這麼吵
Why is the human world so noisy
太多的閒言閒語太無聊
All those small talks bore me out
在命運的圈套又哭又笑
I'm helplessly stuck in a pitfall of fate
突然瘋狂失控 誰也修不好
Got out of control, cannot be fixed
當個機器人沒煩惱 我不怕被打倒
Better being a carefree robot, Not afraid of defeat
任務完成銷毀就好
Simply destroy when mission's complete
心破了洞 Doom Doom Doom
Heart is wounded, Doom Doom
OK 蹦 Boom Boom
Bandage, Boom Boom
你用愛去治療 我的傷口
You heal my wound with your love
感覺痛 Toom Toom
When there's pain, Toom Toom,
OK 蹦 Boom Boom
Bandage, Boom Boom
我需要你的時候 你絕不遲到
You are never late when I needed you
給我擁抱 跟寂寞唱反調
Embrace me against loneliness,
用溫柔調配出特效藥
Your tenderness is my remedy
心跳動 Doom Doom
Heartbeat, Doom doom
Make Me Boom Boom Boom
愛情的因果循環不可考
There is no formula for love
承諾它總有一天會拋錨
Promises are bound to be broken
壞掉的東西就該丟掉
What's defected should be discarded
你卻不放棄堅持到最後一秒
But you held on till the end
關掉我們失敗預告 身體開始燃燒
Let go of our negativity, warm up our bodies
倔強的傷痕是驕傲
Scars of obstinance is our pride
啊~ 把武裝都融掉
Soften that outter shield
啊~ 凝聚眼淚多美好
Gather up the tears
啊~ 保護我要說到 做 到
Rememer your words to protect me from harm
心在跳動 Doom Doom
Heart is beating, Doom Doom
OK 蹦 Boom Boom
Bandage, Boom Boom
我開始怕寂寞 開始做夢
I'm starting to feel lonely, starting to have dreams
感覺痛 Toom Toom
When there's pain, Toom Toom
OK 蹦 Boom Boom
Bandage, Boom Boom
你需要我的時候 我絕不遲到
I'll never be late when you need me
給你擁抱 跟世界唱反調
I'll embrace you, against all odds
從遺憾中萃取出微笑
Extract happiness from sorrows
愛跳動 Doom Doom
Beating love, Doom Doom
Make U Boom Boom Boom
Boom Boom Boom
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(* This MV contains disturbing scenes *)
“誰能聽見我內心的無助 陪我一起痛苦”,大家都愛正能量,背負負能量的我們,被遺忘。避而不談的人們,我們多麽渴望被別人聽見。
大馬創作鬼才Namewee黃明志作詞作曲執導的《十種自殺的方法》MV以黃若熙鮮少嘗試的RAP唱方式呈現,站在家暴受虐、校園霸淩、被孤立的受害者立場,以第一人稱的感受出發。各大媒體所刊登的自殺案例只是冰山一角,問題無法解決,人們試著避重就輕,這是病態社會的日常。歌曲也反面嘲弄,可以伸出援手但卻自閉雙目,漠視真實的旁觀者。
“Who could hear my helplessness
Willing to suffer with me”
Everyone loves positivity, we who are burdened by the negativity are long forgotten
“10 Ways to End” music video directed and song produced by Malaysian creative act Namewee showcasing the victim’s perspective of domestic abuse, bully and depression cases through Ribbon’s RAP. What we’ve seen from the mainstream media is just tip of an iceberg, it still remains a riddle that couldn’t be solved while we decide to avoid the topic, that’s how bad the society gets on a daily basis. This song also sarcastically pointed out those who did not helped but just remain as a by-passer
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