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คำถามคือ มีวิธีไหนบ้างที่จะรักษา 'ความเป็นเพื่อน' เอาไว้ ไม่ให้จางหายไปตามกาลเวลา
มีโอกาสได้อ่านบทความของเว็บไซต์ The Guardian ซึ่งเพื่อนนี่แหละที่แชร์มา ทำให้ได้คิดเกี่ยวกับเรื่องนี้ จึงขอนำบางส่วนในบทความมาแบ่งปัน บวกกับความคิดของตัวเองเสริมเติมเ...
Continue ReadingI just had a chance to meet a friend who hasn't sat and talked for three years. We disappeared. Even before we met each other often. The more I grow up (I don't want to use the word old). The more I want to keep the best and the most because this is One of the best of life
The question is, how can I keep 'friendship' from fading by time?
I have a chance to read the Guardian website that my friend who shared to think about this. So I would like to bring some in the article to share with their own thoughts. Add the following!!
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1. Nothing is the same forever - but that's not a problem
We always think about the ' same ' friend ' or think about the ' relationship between us in the same way. But when things change. It's not sad. It's good to talk about new things. Learn new identity of friends may change. Which is good that we will see new dimensions of human beings. Let us have new problems. And don't forget that we change. If you want to be friends for a long time, we have to reduce the expectation that " you haven't changed Enjoy adapting to the change. Friend s' friends.
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Haha. We can't talk about ' old things '
Of course, nostalgic talk is fun. Remember that time, this was like this but good relationship needs new topics to talk, new interests and new experiences that we have together. Want to be friends for a long time, we need to fill 'new' Mixed with old bad things too
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Haha. If you miss each other, tell me.
Technology makes greeting easier. We may see this. I miss my friend. I miss this clothes and miss this clothes. When I send it to me. When I see my friends. The book, brothers and sisters. I often take photos and send it to tell you. What a funny meme and think about someone, tag them. The feeling of ' still missing each other ' helps to make the relationship. So read this article and miss someone, don't forget to tag (haha)
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Haha. Don't have only one ' bestfriend '
'friend' is not husband and wife. There is no need to be registered in mind that this person is my only friend in the world. Open space for many personalities, many personalities, many interests. Some friends may make us feel comfortable with humor. Some people help to relieve suffering with deep Different things can be the same important. We have ' best friend '. They may be closer to someone, but it's not that they have to be the most ' the most ' position
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Haha. Fighting like brothers.
Wrong heart is normal, but act like we fight with people in the same house that we have to wake up every day. Forgive each other quickly. Get well soon. True friends. The more you fight, the more you understand, the longer we can be together. Maybe we are -- Oh this is like this
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Haha. Don't be crooked when I say it
Keeping promises is important for relationships. Simple things like appointments. We find that friends will cancel. We should not be crooked often. There is a chance that friends won't invite us again. Then we will slowly disappear from the group. The day when friends. If you want me, we may be lazy to meet, but we go out to see friends because we know that the day we need friends, friends will come out to listen
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Haha. The closer you are, the more I don't have a
Photos that I post on Facebook or Instagram. I don't have a lot of photos. Very close friends who talk to each other. So funny. Crazy until late night. There is no need to keep memories because I keep the memories because I keep '. Good moment. Good momentum. I don't have beautiful photos to keep it. It's often messy and leprosy. But it's so true and fun. We may take some photos with my best friends. But the memories are not beautiful photos that I post for other people to press like. As much as the moment that ' no one sees ' and we know each other. Whether it's so funny or sad that we have to help each other. The more you have ' non-media ' moment together. It means we are friends with the world. There are only us who know ' people like this are important people in life that we have to keep each other for a long time.
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The Guardian article is this article. I have written a bit more. :)
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/apr/27/how-to-be-best-friends-for-ever-dont-cancel-make-new-memories?utm_term=Autofeed&CMP=fb_gu&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook&fbclid=IwAR2lvtOhIT7Sya-yYd1s5PYxqD_8SONAXMk861Ju0xyiYPMV5SUOyohqD7k#Echobox=1556480309Translated
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