原先諗住出喺專欄,但講到性議題,我又要照顧不同讀者群眾,寫起來我自己也覺得放不開手腳,所以呢篇文就留在自己專頁出啦!(抱歉,編輯姐姐,我今晚放工再寫另一篇俾你呀下~)
首先,呢個18+ Central真係好得意,嘉賓方面同志組織唔請、性工作者唔請、太激進唔請、唔陽光正面唔請。喂,唔講我以為呢個係林以諾牧師的復出棟篤《蘇哥Show》呢!要形象健康正面好簡單,不如同環球影城Crossover請史力加出黎講解下佢點樣同費安娜公主生仔啦,岩小朋友呀,再唔係請《超人家族》都得架,教下點生超級BB,反正個個家長都想啲仔女十八般武藝有超能力咁款架啦!個會場又夠大,最岩一眾媽媽帶仔女去放電,即刻變成合家歡節目!到時請埋Little fitting room嗰個post自己個女出浴照賣廣告嘅老母,表演瘋狂沖涼啦好冇?
對了,講起牧師,大家可知道常見體位「傳教士式」其實真的是十九世紀傳教士們「認證」的體位?因為他們認為人類不應用其他動物的交配姿勢。如果要形象健康正面,咁不如淨係推呢個姿勢啦,開乜鬼adult expo姐?
更糟糕的是這些商業展覽,打著性教育與開放的名義,卻對真正推廣性教育沒有一絲興趣。在商業化繩縛術與BDSM之際,卻不打算觸碰性文化的核心:是不是縛著就叫BDSM? 不是的,BDSM的核心是征服與臣服,是侵佔、引導與抵抗,是擁有與從屬,那是近乎宗教一樣的禁忌的原始慾望。綑綁是儀式,卻不是慾望一樣的信仰本身。這些商業活動告訴你的,是綑綁就很狂野,然後不知道為什麼就會有快感,但真相又是這樣嗎?只具形式而不理解崇拜信仰的核心,在宗教上會變成耶L,那最多令人啼笑皆非;但只有形式而不具備慾望核心的性行為,那是施暴。
性愛最精采的部份,從來都是在腦海而不是在肉身,這才是真正人的性愛與禽獸的交配之分別。
我最後想看看有多少女孩和男孩去了這些展覽,然後一方躍躍欲試,一方半推半就,關上房門到最後發現搞完一輪唔知為乜,女嘅交足戲扮投入、男嘅以為自己雄風畢現,然後女嘅為了顧存對方面子,繼續一個完全沒趣的角色扮演。
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【18+ Central 八宗罪】請追蹤此帖文,以得知最新情況。Good moaning於過去數星期一直期望得到主辦單位的積極回覆,惟事與願違卻是一次又一次的失望,本族群期望可於明天4月5日的開幕日,獲得主辦單位的基本尊重,願意正視我們的查詢並提供我們一再期望的合理解釋,尤其是對性小眾的歧視言論。
Good Moaning作為本地推動女生情慾自主的組織,一直致力消除社會對性別議題的污名化,惟目睹全港首個大型成人嘉年華的主辦機構一而再再而三地污名性議題,帶頭邊緣化並歧視性小眾,又要威又要戴頭盔地劃清「色情」界線,邀請我們/其他KOL合作時混亂兼無禮的安排及要求,本族長作為一個全心全意希望為香港性文化出一分力的小人物,實在感到非常心痛和可惜。千言萬語在心頭,一時三刻未能一一說清。族長期望以文明的方式與主辦單位溝通,同時希望與族人分享與族長同等的知情權。
人類交配姿勢 在 螺螄拜恩的實話實說 Facebook 八卦
【好書分享:抽獎送暢銷奇幻愛情小說《遺落之子》】
在五、六、七年代的國、高中女生群體記憶中,除了手牽手上廁所;路過喜歡男生的班級時,故意提高聲量引起對方注意;下課時湊在一起摺紙星星;眼鏡不小心掉進馬桶裡(喔對不起,這應該只有我)等等,最不能錯過的一項,大概是上課時偷偷傳閱言情小說,放在抽屜裡悄悄翻閱。
而這些小說的封面上,一定有個無人不知、無人不曉的名字『凌淑芬』!之於部分女性,『凌淑芬』三個字牽動之回憶,可能比國文課本中的歸有光、顧炎武、豐子愷,更豐饒、更富盛名。
和大家一起長大的凌淑芬寫小說不稀奇,但她開始寫奇幻小說了!《遺落之子》不僅包含奇幻元素、還有武俠、冒險、科幻、懸疑、犯罪、及愛情,而且竟然寫的非常、相當、著實不錯!!
但我自首,在閱讀前,我心中原本帶了偏見。
《遺落之子》是三部曲形式的奇幻愛情小說,兼之融合要素極多,故我懷疑,即便凌淑芬在文壇經營許久,言情大家能否成功跨界奇幻?
看完輯一〈荒蕪烈焰〉,男主角狄玄武即代表生母凌淑芬「啪」一聲,在我臉上甩了一個耳刮子,半邊臉瞬間腫起來(咦不對,本來就是腫的,全身都很腫啊~~)。
輯一〈荒蕪烈焰〉設定了完整且龐大的世界觀,描述地球歷經太陽閃焰後,人類文明瓦解,進入後文明時期,地球遍布各類變異生物,例如龍角散…呃,不對!是龍角鹿、水陸兩棲巨鳥獸、食屍花、噬人獸等殺人怪物,讓人聯想到加拿大小說家瑪格麗特‧愛特伍(Margaret Atwood)的《末世三部曲》,或知名冒險遊戲《異塵餘生》(Fallout)之世界觀。
不同於上述作品的是,作者大膽融合「東方武俠」與「西方科幻」,交織出一套天馬行空的冒險旅程,寫武俠手起刀落、拳拳到肉,酣暢武打場面令人大呼過癮;寫科幻行文嚴謹,融合生物學、心理學和其他科學原理,打造出壯闊大膽的未知世界。
當然,身為言情大師,書中充滿英俊的男主角、男配角、男反派和反派小弟(是有完沒完),女主角自然也嬌豔無倫,和男主角展演一些如太陽馬戲團般上上下下左左右右ABAB之交配姿勢,花招百出、變化多端,直叫人目不暇給(拿放大鏡)。
於輯二〈末世餘暉〉,男主角甚至和女配角一面殺敵,一面較量做過的姿勢,女配角曾離地十尺於樹上野合,男主角則離地三十尺;女配角曾於船中繾綣;男主角則直接於激流中天人合一,逆流而上,不進則退!!聞之令女配角氣結。閱讀至此,直為作者生動幽默之筆法傾倒。
當我以為輯一〈荒蕪烈焰〉已展現凌淑芬的實力與本事時,輯二〈末世餘暉〉和輯三〈曙光再現〉,又帶給我一波波的驚喜與高潮(不小心被女主角影響,她一個晚上都不知道高潮幾次來著)。
輯二初始,主角在荒蕪大地踽踽獨行,其後之黑道「清算日」和成衣廠血戰,除了聯想到史蒂芬金的《黑塔》(Dark Tower)系列,更讓讀者看到凌淑芬寫槍戰、寫動作戲(不是愛情動作戲)之紮實功力。黑幫大屠殺之文字構成暢快淋漓,內容一幕幕於在腦海中形成具體電影畫面,鬥智、鬥武、鬥計,最終所有伏筆一線勾起,背後秘辛令人驚訝不已。
再者,看凌淑芬寫俊帥英挺的男人固好,然看其寫女人更是種享受,風華無雙的女人、堅韌聰明的女人、清麗脫俗的女人,她筆下的女人個性複雜、立體多面,絕非清新聖母白蓮花,或等待英雄救援的纖弱女子。這是聰明女子才能寫出來的聰明女人。
縝密文字編排與深度社會關懷,則徹底於輯三〈曙光再現〉展現,《遺落之子》三部曲一路看下來,會發現作者極力透過作品傳遞正確價值觀,男主角狄玄武雖有冷酷無情的嗜血面,然其懲奸除惡之一舉一動,從不違「俠」字,這是「武俠」最重要之核心觀念。
故作者透過許多角色傳遞正義感和文字溫度,例如:
「邪惡的蔓延不是因為壞人作惡,而是好人袖手旁觀。」by 溫格爾醫生
「真正的強者,不是打遍天下無敵手,而是明白如何將他的強,用在需要的地方。」 by 辛開陽
讀完加總起來有1200頁的《遺落之子》,我有三個感覺:
1、好幸福,讀完一本就有下一本,完全不用等。
2、我想看狄玄武去其他地方冒險,結識更多花花草草啊啊啊(敲碗)(被女主角殺)!!
3、《遺落之子》是華文小說的驕傲,期待看到它售出多國版權、翻譯成多種語言,改編成影視作品那天。
【抽獎辦法】如下:
1、這裡有『五本』《遺落之子》第一集,要送給網友,有興趣的朋友請在本則動態下『按讚』+『留言』+『公開分享』索取。
2、留言請留:『遺落之子:奇幻愛情巨作』
3、活動時間:即日起,至2017/11/30(四)晚上十一點截止,屆時將於粉絲團公布得獎者名單。
4、請正取得獎者於2017/12/01(五)晚上十二點前,回覆寄件資訊,超過領獎期限未認領者由備取遞補,寄送僅限台澎金馬。
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人類交配姿勢 在 姚愛寗 Pipi Yao Facebook 八卦
想拜託大家也一起分享出去
這個世界有很多的負能量
但是有愛就能療癒一切
請愛花草樹木
請愛宇宙萬物
(English version below)
前陣子因為朋友阿莫去了趟大象志工,講述了許多故事與知識,覺得非常必須統整起來跟大家分享...(文長)。---at Elephant Nature Park(ENP)
▲簡單的認識是:
不鎖、不勾、不騎、不沖涼、不馬戲
Simple check list for elephants:
NO chain, NO bullhocks, NO ride, NO bath, NO performance
▲兩個關於大象的經歷:
🐘Mae Yu
1984年生
數度被強迫交配、搶走小孩,加上過度工作前腳受傷無法行走整體狀況極差,在被救援後不管大家如何努力她都沒有求生意志... 在嘗試各種方法後,大家決定幫她找回孩子。
非常幸運的,真的在馬戲中找到她的孩子Boi。
在他們相見那天,他們叫喊聲是響遍山谷的,維持許久(工作人員甚至也從沒聽過那樣的叫聲),他們相認相擁。終於Yui恢復進食,狀況才慢慢好轉。
他們真的真的非常幸運...因為被勞役、被拿來娛樂的甚至還有數千隻,他們有許多老了、跛了、瞎了,還有心理出狀況的。
🐘Mae Boonjan
在多次受孕後,最後一次生小孩時因為知道自己的孩子又快要被帶走,讓他想踩死自己的小孩Zuki,被馬戲訓練師制止並帶走。
在多次的打擊和崩潰而精神出了問題的Boonjan,在被救援後也還是無法與其他象和平共處,目前在林中依然獨處孤獨的生活著。
雖然ENP將Zuki找回,但也許因斷奶太久,Boonjan並不太認得自己的小孩,加上Zuki天生的缺陷也讓他不久後就夭折了。
被救援的象並不是免費的,在泰國一隻小象就要200萬泰銖,就算沒有利用價值的老象也要價幾十萬,因為他們還是可以被迫受孕,或奪走象牙、製作皮包.......。
*2/24 經歷更新:
在ENP陸續救援的數十隻象中,大部分都願意重新相信人類,但也會有無法平息苦痛與怒火的象⋯。例如其中一隻已傷害了不少人,在救援後甚至會試圖將靠近柵欄的人捲進去。
⋯過去他在馬戲工作,因選擇反抗而被戳瞎了眼(為了讓他失去方向感而乖乖就範),後來剛烈的他也許帶著赴死決心更強烈的反抗,導致他連左耳都被割下半只,最後被麻醉制服。人們不敢再靠近他,也決定要活活餓死他。
他的怒火,或許帶著超越我們想像的恐懼⋯。
被救援的他還是走來走去、發出尖叫聲、並試圖脫離圍欄。我們能同理,卻也真的無法體會他過去所承受的痛苦。
▲更多的是:
1. 香蕉對大象而言就像人類的甜食,其實吃多了也不好。
2. 大象用氣味辨識人,像聞鞋子、腳。
3. 大象甩耳是為了散熱,因耳朵遍布血管所以散熱快,並幫助身體降溫。
4. 大象有些喜歡玩水,但也有不喜歡的,而且會怕冷。他們喜歡泥巴浴可以保濕、驅蚊,觀光行程中的幫大象洗浴容易導致皮膚乾燥甚至潰爛。
5. 正常的象是有弧度的山丘狀背部,他們的脖子、象鼻強壯,可捲起500kg重物。但象背很脆弱,終年被騎乘下來背部會塌陷,有些甚至會導致膝蓋無法彎曲,連睡覺都要站著。
6. Phajaan儀式,會將象單獨關進一個只能站立的木製牢籠,除了剝奪水和食物外,他們還會不斷撥放噪音讓象保持清醒。
用尖銳的竹籤或釘子刺進他的腳趾、用象勾劃破耳朵。早晨和傍晚還必須被象勾抽打一小時。當象虛弱得無法站立時還會套上繩索勒住他們的頸部。
Phajaan 就是毀壞,摧毀象的意志,讓他們崩潰...再利用恐懼來進行"訓練"。而訓練的每一天都還是持續地被折磨...。
7. 被囚禁的他們運氣好的話一天能喝5-10公升的水(原應是140-200),只有乾棕櫚葉可吃。很多不聽話的象甚至被打斷腿...。
8. 大象強暴:許多象媽媽是被強迫交配的,他們的身心受到極大傷害,甚至一聞或看到公象就會拼命逃跑,但同時因為被鐵鍊鍊住的狀態導致他們臀部塌陷後肢殘障(Bualoi is one of them)。
9. 小象除了爸媽之外還有保母,保母會擔起照顧的責任亦步亦趨。爸媽一定會盡全力保護小象,反抗盜獵者的最後可能就是被殺掉...包括保母,他們才能帶走小象。
10. 被救援的象恢復期可能需要1-2年才能回到[較健康]的狀態,有些甚至在被解開鐵鍊時會強烈驚慌害怕到尿失禁,有人靠近就會要自己舌頭,也完全不敢進食⋯。
*2/28更新:
Ploy Thong 雙眼失明,估計約30歲,他於泰國芭堤雅待了16年,日復一日從大早到日落的載著遊客,用象鼻嗅探方向。在更早之前也曾待在馬戲團中。
在解救Bua Keaw時大象基金會的志工注意到Ploy的痛苦而與他的主人進行談判,終於去年(20180203)被ENP營救。到達象園的他發出低沈的聲音,吸引了在不遠叢林中的象群,他們都紛紛趕上前去迎接他,大家用象鼻親切的撫摸這隻盲象,象鼻纏繞著彼此。猜想他必定永遠不會忘記新家庭成員們的溫暖。(如有興趣可關鍵字搜尋Ploy Thong,此段有影片紀錄)
▲小插曲:
隔著一條河,位在ENP對面的即是以營利為目的的象營。可以看到他們一天到河邊洗了好多次澡,皮膚脆弱乾燥常常有傷口。那的象伕腰間掛著長勾,讓大象學人的姿勢坐下跪下以方便大家拍照,最後再讓他們騎上他的背,一次幾百塊。
阿莫問了ENP的工作人員:「難道都沒有大象逃跑過來嗎?」
他說:「幾個月前有一隻小象逃了過來,當時所有大象都停下動作,並走向這個孩子。
但很快的,他就被對面的公司捉回去了。當晚對面的河岸邊傳來小象的哭喊尖叫,而接下來的一個禮拜他都沒有再出來載客。(通常會被關在籠中防止逃跑,禁食挨餓,也免不了毒打)
那晚,園裏的大象們到了睡覺時間依然躁動、議論著、很不平靜。大家心裡也都十分難受卻都無能為力,因為一隻小象要價上百萬,而救援清單中還有200多隻狀況更緊急及情況更糟的大象們⋯。
除了希望大家把資訊傳遞出去外,也能一起祈求這隻小象、及其他還在受傷害的象們都能被更善待、被釋放,回歸自由與平安。
*象園中的大象們很多在ENP中有詳盡記錄,如果想認識他們也能到網站上搜尋,或想參與志工也能聯繫:www.elephantnaturepark.org
▲Two elephants experiences
🐘Mae Yui
''Mae Yui was the first elephant we rescued for this project. At that time, she was emotionally very ill. No matter how hard we tried to treat her wounds, she didn’t care. No willingness to thrive.
Mae Yui was forced to mate for three times and each time, her babies were taken away by the mahouts to undergo "Phajaan". Last time afterwards, she refused to work. That’s why the previous owner sold Mae Yui.
Fortunately, ENP actually found Mae Boi, the young baby of Mae Yui.
When Mae Yui and Mae Boi reunited. The moment they saw each other, they were roaring so loud, for so long. Anyone who heard that can deeply understand elephants are highly sentimental animals.
Once her baby Mae Boi returned, Mae Yui recovered shortly.''
🐘Mae Boonjan
The past of Mae Boonjan was as tragic as Mae Yui. She has been forced to breed for a few times in the industry (conventional practice). When she gave birth to her last baby Zuki, she knew the trainer would come and take it away soon. Or maybe Zuki was born disable - Mae Boonjan decided to kill her own baby.
And of course her mahout won’t let her do that (commercial considerations) – he stopped her and took away Zuki. Later ENP also rescued Zuki. However they separated for too long and Mae Boonjan could hardly remember Zuki. They didn’t make the bonding again. Since Zuki was born with defects, it died soon.
Mae Boonjan didn’t go along well with the group. She prefers to roam around on her own, quietly in the jungle.
The rescued elephant are not for free. In Thailand, a baby elephant will cost 2 million baht. Even if the old elephant without value is worth hundreds of thousands, they can still be forced to conceive, or take away ivory or make leather bags. ....
*2/24 update:
Among the dozens of elephants rescued by ENP, most are willing to believe in human beings again, but there are also some that can not calm the pain and anger... For example, one of them has hurt many people, even tried to involve people who near the fence after rescue.
In the past, he worked in a circus and was stabbed blind for choosing to resist (he was obedient in order to make him lose his sense of direction). Later, he might have the determination to die, and resist even stronger, which led to his left ear being cut off, and the end he was overcome by anesthesia. People were afraid to be closer any more and decided to starve him to death.
His anger, perhaps with more fear than we can imagine...
Now he was still walking around, screaming and trying to get out of the fence. We can understand, but never can really feel the pain he has experienced in the past.
▲ More is:
1. Bananas for elephants are like our sweets.
2. Elephants use smell to identify people, like shoes and feet.
3. Elephant's ear is for heat dissipation. Because the ear is spread over the blood vessels, it dissipates heat fast, helps body cool down.
4. Depends on different personality, some of elephants love playing in water, some not, also, they are afraid of cold. They love mud baths to moisturize and repel mosquitoes. “Elephant bath” for tourist can easily lead to dry skin and even ulceration.
5. The normal elephant back is a curved hill-shaped. Their neck and trunk are strong and able to roll up 500 kg. However, the back is very fragile. When be riding all the year round, elephant's back will collapse. Some will even cause their knees unable to bend, that they can only stand sleep.
6. The Phajaan ceremony will separate the elephant into a wooden cage that can only stand. In addition to depriving water and food, they will continue to release noise to keep the elephant awake.
Use a sharp bamboo stick or nail to puncture elephant's toes and use bullhock to cut ears. Be beaten for one hour every morning and evening. When elephants are too weak to stand, they will put on the ropes to hold their necks.
Phajaan means ''destroying'', destroying elephant's mind, letting them collapse... so they can "train" them by fear. And training is still being tortured...
7. If they are lucky, they can drink 5-10 liters of water a day (it should be 140-200), and only dry palm leaves can eat. Many of the disobedient elephants even had their legs broken.... (Bualoi is one of them)
8. Many mothers are forced to mate, their body and mind are greatly hurt, when they smell or see the male elephant, they will straight run hard, but at the same time, because of the chained state, their hips collapse and hind limbs are disabled.
9. In addition to the parents, the baby elephant has a babysitter, and the babysitter will take responsibility for the care. Parents will do their best to protect family. The last thing to fight the poachers is to be killed...including the babysitter, so poachers can take baby elephant away.
10. The recovery period of the rescued elephants may take 1-2 years to return to a [healthier] state, and some will be super terrified when the chain is untied.
*2/28 Update:
Ploy Thong, blind, around 30 years old, spent 16 years in Pattaya, Thailand, taking tourists day in and day out from dawn to sunset, sniffing directions with his trunk. He had been in the circus before.
In rescuing Bua Keaw, elephant foundation volunteers noticed Ploy's suffering, so they negotiated with his owner. Finally, Ploy was rescued by ENP last year (20180203). When he arrived the park, he made a low voice, which attracted the elephants in the forest not far away. They all came up to meet him. They caressed the blind elephant with their trunks and wrapped them around each other. Guess he would never forget the warmth of his new family. (if you are interested, please search keyword Ploy Thong, this section has a video recorded.)
▲ Episode:
Across the river, opposite ENP, is a profit elephant camp. You can see elephants showering many times a day by the river, their skin weak, dry and with cuts. And man with a long hook around his waist, he let elephants knelt down like human so that everyone could take pictures, then let them ride on his back (hundreds of dollars at a time).
Amor asked the ENP staff: "Didn’t any of the elephants escape?"
"A few months ago there was a baby elephant run away, that time all the elephants stopped and went to the baby," he said.
But soon, he was caught back. That night the baby elephant screamed and cried loud across the river, and he did not come out to take any passengers for a week. (they were often kept in cages to prevent escape, starved them, fasted and beaten)
That night, the elephants were still restless, and talking at bedtime. There's nothing we can do for it, because a baby elephant costs millions of dollars, and there are more than 200 elephants on the rescue list who were in more urgent or worse conditions...
In addition to hoping that everyone can pass on the information, please also pray for this baby elephant and other who injured, to be treated better, released, and return to freedom and peace.
* Many elephants in the ENP have detailed records, if you want to participate in the volunteer or knowing these elephants please do search or contact: www.elephantnaturepark.org
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