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【989陽光列車 0900-1200 每週歌單】

5/15 (五)
09:03:08 如果你是我的傳說 劉德華
09:07:09 Hey Angel One Direction 1世代
09:11:04 我要飛 草蜢
09:16:34 不要在我的傷口灑鹽 莊心妍
09:20:54 多想在平庸的生活擁抱你 隔壁老樊
09:25:57 媽媽 王宥忻
09:34:52 NANANA Super Kids
09:38:53 微加幸福 郁可唯
09:43:27 不晚 田馥甄
09:50:50 Bii My Love BII畢書盡
09:54:11 Teeth 5 Seconds Of Summer
Total time is 60:02
10:04:02 Someone Like You Adele 愛黛兒
10:08:39 原來思念也有生命 蘇永康
10:12:23 我的左耳 舒米恩
10:17:25 朝向約定好的明日 √5 (ROOT FIVE) 根號五
10:22:33 只想對你說 那對夫妻-Kim林京燁
10:31:35 Worth It Fifth Harmony
10:36:16 長城(粵) 崔子格
10:40:01 愛情雨 9m88
10:45:34 說分手之後 小宇-宋念宇
10:49:04 不在乎 任賢齊
10:52:52 假裝 蔡依林
Total time is 60:01
11:04:09 心引力 You&Me 廖柏雅
11:07:47 彼得潘 (Peter Pan) (live) EXO
11:11:41 繼續轉動 動力火車
11:18:20 可是我們呢 林凡
11:21:43 A Thousand Years Christina Perri 克莉絲汀派瑞
11:26:24 因你而在 林俊傑
11:35:03 Whistle Flo Rida
11:39:46 終結孤單 五月天
11:42:39 我當你空氣 旺福
11:49:17 黑鏡 Spark/Sydney
11:52:42 終於勇敢了 袁詠琳
Total time is 60:02

5/14 (四)
09:03:11 So Wonderful Emilia
09:06:38 別客氣 蘇盈之
09:10:12 這城市有愛 周華健
09:16:21 It's Me MIIII
09:19:44 跟你住 孫盛希
09:24:41 一定都和藝術有關 王菀之
09:32:40 Stand By Me Oasis
09:39:36 盲點 郭修彧
09:43:59 不是你的錯 丁噹
09:50:41 放風吹(台) 許富凱
09:54:42 Lovely Pie 紀佳松
Total time is 60:01
10:04:02 愛情傀儡 巫啟賢
10:07:57 最想到達的地方 謝?廷
10:12:59 Happier Ed Sheeran 紅髮艾德
10:18:34 我想買可樂 Erika 劉艾立
10:21:05 A New Day (新的一天) ATB/Betsie Larkin
10:30:17 紅蓮華 LiSA
10:35:09 只有夜來香 盧廣仲
10:39:38 不想回家(粵) 陳蕾
10:45:58 願聞其詳 吳汶芳
10:49:38 我可以忍受 徐婕兒
10:54:14 House Party 好事派對 家家/OZI
Total time is 60:01
11:04:13 出發 林柏宏/游昕
11:07:50 初熟之物 黃韻玲
11:11:36 我腦海中 (In My Mind 中文版) 尚雯婕/Dynoro
11:17:46 心率 鹿唅
11:21:19 黃昏進行曲 Rip Slyme 屎爛幫
11:26:52 可愛美眉 張信哲
11:34:20 Cake By the Ocean DNCE
11:38:19 靈感床 Supper Moment
11:42:59 破心臟 吳克群
11:50:29 停不下來 Spark/韓睿
11:53:21 No Good In Goodbye The Script 手創樂團
Total time is 60:01

5/13 (三)
09:02:59 決定愛你 徐若瑄
09:07:14 妳是我的Wifi 夜貓組
09:10:21 Physical Dua Lipa
09:15:19 複數的孤寂 張語噥
09:18:44 絕 莫文蔚
09:23:04 不用告訴我 韋禮安
09:31:31 So High (Featuring Jisim) Standing Egg
09:35:47 都是因為愛 iO樂團
09:38:51 Careless Whisper George Michael
09:46:48 天使吻過的聲音 王艷薇
09:55:14 一起去跑步 宇宙人
Total time is 60:01
10:04:09 孤單北半球 歐得洋
10:08:07 悲傷的香味 蘭馨
10:11:39 Tokyo 清水翔太
10:17:58 你不是一個人 梁詠琪
10:21:22 麻雀 李榮浩
10:29:34 Say So Doja Cat/Nicki Minaj
10:33:55 逗陣兄弟 陶吉吉
10:38:44 Crazy Children(粵) L.M.F 大懶堂
10:45:08 廚餘戀人 9m88
10:48:52 Better off alone單身更快活 Marie Digby瑪莉笛比
10:52:38 單身潛逃 戴佩妮
Total time is 60:01
11:04:01 Runaway Mama 林宥嘉
11:07:54 什麼歌 五月天
11:11:47 當你睡著的時候 Mom & Dad 媽爹
11:17:00 一首歌的故事 齊秦/李超
11:21:43 除此之外 范逸臣
11:26:05 Darkside Alan Walker/Tomine Harket
11:33:42 Les Pas 申蓮兒
11:37:56 帶著音樂去旅行 二珂
11:41:37 Honey 郭書瑤
11:47:55 FENDI GIRL Spark
11:50:46 打分數 黃立行
11:54:15 MAMACITA The Black Eyed Peas 黑眼豆豆/Ozuna & J.Rey Soul
Total time is 60:02

5/12 (二)
09:03:08 飄洋過海來看你 梁靜茹/艾怡良
09:07:47 放不下的活著 插班生
09:12:32 Venus 青紀日華利
09:17:21 大肚楠 阿牛
09:21:00 媽媽 王宥忻
09:25:52 默默 A-Lin
09:34:32 Love Is All Around Wet Wet Wet
09:39:25 別再叫我哥 許書豪/蕭敬騰
09:44:02 她沒在看我(Clean) 瘦子E.SO
09:49:46 我們的未來 家入里歐
09:54:06 Chillaxing 安心亞
Total time is 60:01
10:04:01 Eyes Like Yours Shakira
10:07:54 Double Trouble(粵) 張學友
10:11:02 Wonderful Day 宇宙人/白安
10:17:29 COLORFUL 婁峻碩
10:21:03 Mercy Duffy 黛菲
10:28:55 傻笑 周杰倫/袁詠琳
10:34:39 北京的夜晚 陳零九/孫盛希
10:38:31 Make It Right(Remix) BTS 防彈少年團/Lauv
10:44:31 為你我受冷風吹 胡彥斌
10:49:03 單身美好 郭靜
10:53:06 單身快樂 張玉華
Total time is 60:01
11:04:10 掉了 阿密特AMIT
11:07:57 負能量 李玖哲
11:12:07 P.S. I Hope You're Happy The Chainsmokers 老菸槍雙人組/Blink-182
11:17:56 愛這首歌(台) 蕭煌奇
11:22:25 可是我們呢 林凡
11:25:47 半途而廢 王菲
11:33:20 Piece Of My Wish Hey
11:39:44 Han Bok Ha Se Yeo 要幸福喔 夏宇童
11:43:18 Happy Glee
11:49:36 格林成人童話(clean) Spark
11:52:36 我比從前想你了 Bii畢書盡
Total time is 60:01

5/11 (一)
09:02:55 一起去巴黎 侯湘婷
09:08:38 Play Our Love’s Theme 土岐麻子
09:12:34 I'll Be With You Icy Ball 冰球樂團
09:18:21 不敢聽的歌 李千那
09:22:40 L-O-V-E 板本冬美/Tortoise Matsumoto
09:26:25 寂寞之上 宇宙人
09:34:37 My Way Frank Sinatra 法蘭克辛納屈
09:40:10 呼喚我 曾昱嘉
09:47:27 不用告訴我 韋禮安
09:51:45 多少 陳奕迅
Total time is 60:00
10:04:09 最溫柔的懸念 唐禹哲
10:07:12 凝視 閻奕格
10:11:51 世界上還有誰比我更愛你 Debbie Gibson 黛比吉布森/中山美穗, Wands, Mr.Big-Eric Martin
10:18:44 放不下你 年少
10:22:22 生命與我們 堂本剛
10:32:25 Inside Myself VAMPS
10:37:57 愛的方向 劉明湘
10:41:20 CHEERIO 蔡佩軒
10:47:10 一場遊戲一場夢 王傑
10:51:14 相安無事(粵) 周柏豪
10:54:54 COCONUT TREE CHING G SQUAD
Total time is 60:01
11:04:06 怎麼了 周興哲
11:09:15 I Said Hi Amy Shark
11:12:02 不按牌理出牌 MP 魔幻力量
11:19:47 造飛機(台) 謝金燕
11:24:12 全部都給你 吳克群
11:28:16 你一定不知道 金旼鍾
11:36:09 想定下來 關吉吉
11:40:38 A Garota De Ipanema Nossa Bossa Nova
11:47:51 假高潮 Spark/Karencici
11:50:44 刺青春 F.I.R.飛兒樂團
Total time is 60:01

似乎黎真喎！！！

(Update: 中文繹版連結：https://www.facebook.com/329728177143445/posts/1800273350088913/)

“An open letter to Eric Kwok, and for everyone re homophobia, discrimination and bullying”

Dear Eric,

Imagine this. You are one of the contestants on a TV talent show. You are sitting in a room with other hopefuls and one of the judges walks into the room and demanded this: “Raise your hand if you are not homophobic.”

I’m very sure you will raise your hand.

You don’t have to answer me whether or not you really are homophobic. But stay with the feeling inside your mind. How do you feel?

Your feelings are most likely the same as the feelings of your contestants when you walked into a room and asked them to raise their hands to declare their sexual orientation publicly. Because in this day and age, homophobia is just as “controversial” as homosexuality, if not more.

The reason why I’m writing this open letter to you is because after reading your apology, I want to take the opportunity to address to you, and everyone out there, the need for proper etiquette regarding LGBT issues, and to address the forms of micro-aggression, bullying and discrimination the LGBT community faces everyday especially in the workplace.

I’m taking this incident seriously because from my personal experience, this is not just a one-time slip-up for you.

I remember long time ago I was so looking forward to meeting and working with you because you are, after all, Eric Kwok the great songwriter.

You were very friendly when we talked privately. Then I started to notice how once there were audiences, media or other people around and when the cameras were turned on, you would start making insinuating and demeaning gay jokes about me and in front of me. Jokes and comments even my closest friends wouldn’t dare to make in public.

At first, I didn’t really pay too much attention. I just brushed it off as juvenile and trivial. In fact, I had been so used to these jokes since growing up that I learned not to react much.

However, as time progressed and we worked on more occasions, the same thing would happen repeatedly. The teasing and the stereotypical gay jokes continued and you would make sure that the spotlight would fall on me afterwards. The jokes no longer felt light. They felt hostile, even vindictive.

In fact, it felt like bullying.

One of these incidents was well documented in tabloids back then and you can still look it up yourself on the internet.

I came to the realization that it was not just a one-time thing. I don’t know if it’s intentional or unintentional but it’s definitely a habit and a pattern.

So many questions would be in my mind every time after working with you. Why does Eric do that every time? Is he picking on me? Does he hate me? Is he homophobic? Does he think homosexuality is something funny? Does he do this to other people too? Did I do something that pissed him off? I remember I was nothing but courteous. So why do I deserve this?

I had no answers for all of these questions. All I knew was I became fearful of working with you, dreading what words would fall out of your mouth to put me in an awkwardly embarassing position. But still I tried to give you the benefit of the doubt. You’re from California you shouldn’t be homophobic. I even defended you in my head by telling myself to loosen up.

But it’s not just you. Throughout my years in the entertainment industry, I have encountered and endured so many chauvinistic “tough guys” who like to use homosexuality as a laughing stock or source of bad comedy which were all discriminating and demeaning, yet not funny.

It’s not only me. I’m sure many people of the LGBT community face this everyday in their workplace. People around them would claim their intentions were harmless but we all knew deep down that these “jokes” have the power to put people someone in an embarrassing, inferior and even threatening positions.

We kept quiet and tolerated. Sometimes we even felt obligated to laugh along just so we couldn’t afford to look “petty” or “stiff”, especially in front of people of higher authority and stature.

So Eric I want to ask you.

Why have you been so obsessed with my sexuality all these years?

Why are you so fascinated by other people’s sexuality?

Why is being gay such a huge issue to you even to this day that you had to make it the first thing you asked your contestants?

Why you also had to specifically make a post on social media about that fact you questioned people about their sexuality?

Why do you take so much pride publicly in your ability to guess who are the gay contestants even when they weren’t ready to share that information?

And most of all why do you find all this to be so funny?

To begin with one’s sexual orientation is a very personal thing which others have no right to intrude, even in the entertainment industry where you are supposed to be fine with “controversy”.

This is for you and everyone out there: using your power and authority to demand someone to declare his or her sexual orientation, especially in a work environment, is ancient, barbaric and unacceptable.

Kicking someone out of the closet is just pure evil.

The fact you did what you did, especially with your stature and on broadcast TV, is not only wrong, but also you are telling the Hong Kong audience that it’s alright to continue this form of intrusion and micro aggression that the LGBT community wants to see gone.

You’re leading a very poor example by giving Hong Kong audience the impression that being gay is still a taboo.

How are your contestants, who are boys of young age, going to offer new perspectives to the Hong Kong audience under your guidance if you perpetuate stereotyping and demonstrate to them that being gay is still an issue?

I feel sorry for any contestants who are in fact gay sitting in that room that day too. They must have been traumatized seeing the way you forced your inquisition. The impression you left them with is that the entertainment industry is still a very unfriendly place for gays. Is that what you want them to think?

But most of all, it’s the attitude, tone and manner with which you shared about this incident on social media, giving people the impression that any matter regarding sexual orientation is still something shameful and laughable, which is on top of list the thing that the LGBT community fights hard everyday to change.

When you said in your apology you “have great respect for gay people, especially their hard fight for equality” I became baffled as what you did, in the past to me or in that room to the boys, is the exact thing that makes the LGBT community’s ongoing fight for equality so difficult.

Putting people down, perpetuate stereotypes, heckling and ridiculing yet making it look OK is anything but liberal and respectful, or Californian. I don’t see any “entertainment values” that are of good taste if they are made up at the expense of other people’s struggle.

If this incident happened in America, where you grew up, you would’ve gotten yourself in such hot waters that you probably can’t get out of.

I just want you and everyone out there to know that it’s not okay. And it never was. Never will be.

Being “as liberal as it gets” is great. Having gay friends is great too. Having dinner with your gay friends is absolutely fabulous! Playing all these cards to avoid being labelled as “homophobic” is very convenient. But having class, empathy, kindness and authentic respect is a completely different territory. These don’t come automatically with backgrounds.

At this point you don’t owe me an apology. I just hope that after this incident you can really start working and living with the essences of a truly liberal and creative individual. Inspire changes and end stereotypes. Start new trends and break old patterns. Embrace and not segregate. Do the work.

I had been away from Hong Kong and the industry for a few years now. It breaks me heart that I have to write this sort of open letter when it’s already 2018. I want to make this industry a safer, nicer and more accepting place to work in when I return. I want members of the LGBT community in Hong Kong, who have been so supportive of me and my music, to also have safer and nicer working environment in their respective lives.

I don’t mind coming off as an over-reacting petty bitch with no sense of humour if my message finally comes through and everyone, including you, “gets it”. I rather have no sense of humour than a bad one.

To all the contestants of the show. If anyone ever asks you if you are gay and you are not ready to discuss, it’s OK to stand up for yourself and say this: “It’s a rude question to begin with. You have no right to get an answer from me to begin with. And it doesn’t matter. It SHOULDN’T matter. It’s 2018. I hope one day I can use my craft to inspire the world and to make this become a non-issue.”

But if you are ready to be open, you have my complete support and love.

Let’s hope that through acceptance, learning and effort, one day there will no longer be any “controversial questions”. Wouldn’t we like that Eric?

Yours truly,
Pong

#LGBT
#homophobia
#safeworkplace
#中文版稍後會有
Eric Kwok 郭偉亮

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
💪💪💪💪💪

(Update: 中文繹版連結：https://www.facebook.com/329728177143445/posts/1800273350088913/)

“An open letter to Eric Kwok, and for everyone re homophobia, discrimination and bullying”

Dear Eric,

Imagine this. You are one of the contestants on a TV talent show. You are sitting in a room with other hopefuls and one of the judges walks into the room and demanded this: “Raise your hand if you are not homophobic.”

I’m very sure you will raise your hand.

You don’t have to answer me whether or not you really are homophobic. But stay with the feeling inside your mind. How do you feel?

Your feelings are most likely the same as the feelings of your contestants when you walked into a room and asked them to raise their hands to declare their sexual orientation publicly. Because in this day and age, homophobia is just as “controversial” as homosexuality, if not more.

The reason why I’m writing this open letter to you is because after reading your apology, I want to take the opportunity to address to you, and everyone out there, the need for proper etiquette regarding LGBT issues, and to address the forms of micro-aggression, bullying and discrimination the LGBT community faces everyday especially in the workplace.

I’m taking this incident seriously because from my personal experience, this is not just a one-time slip-up for you.

I remember long time ago I was so looking forward to meeting and working with you because you are, after all, Eric Kwok the great songwriter.

You were very friendly when we talked privately. Then I started to notice how once there were audiences, media or other people around and when the cameras were turned on, you would start making insinuating and demeaning gay jokes about me and in front of me. Jokes and comments even my closest friends wouldn’t dare to make in public.

At first, I didn’t really pay too much attention. I just brushed it off as juvenile and trivial. In fact, I had been so used to these jokes since growing up that I learned not to react much.

However, as time progressed and we worked on more occasions, the same thing would happen repeatedly. The teasing and the stereotypical gay jokes continued and you would make sure that the spotlight would fall on me afterwards. The jokes no longer felt light. They felt hostile, even vindictive.

In fact, it felt like bullying.

One of these incidents was well documented in tabloids back then and you can still look it up yourself on the internet.

I came to the realization that it was not just a one-time thing. I don’t know if it’s intentional or unintentional but it’s definitely a habit and a pattern.

So many questions would be in my mind every time after working with you. Why does Eric do that every time? Is he picking on me? Does he hate me? Is he homophobic? Does he think homosexuality is something funny? Does he do this to other people too? Did I do something that pissed him off? I remember I was nothing but courteous. So why do I deserve this?

I had no answers for all of these questions. All I knew was I became fearful of working with you, dreading what words would fall out of your mouth to put me in an awkwardly embarassing position. But still I tried to give you the benefit of the doubt. You’re from California you shouldn’t be homophobic. I even defended you in my head by telling myself to loosen up.

But it’s not just you. Throughout my years in the entertainment industry, I have encountered and endured so many chauvinistic “tough guys” who like to use homosexuality as a laughing stock or source of bad comedy which were all discriminating and demeaning, yet not funny.

It’s not only me. I’m sure many people of the LGBT community face this everyday in their workplace. People around them would claim their intentions were harmless but we all knew deep down that these “jokes” have the power to put people someone in an embarrassing, inferior and even threatening positions.

We kept quiet and tolerated. Sometimes we even felt obligated to laugh along just so we couldn’t afford to look “petty” or “stiff”, especially in front of people of higher authority and stature.

So Eric I want to ask you.

Why have you been so obsessed with my sexuality all these years?

Why are you so fascinated by other people’s sexuality?

Why is being gay such a huge issue to you even to this day that you had to make it the first thing you asked your contestants?

Why you also had to specifically make a post on social media about that fact you questioned people about their sexuality?

Why do you take so much pride publicly in your ability to guess who are the gay contestants even when they weren’t ready to share that information?

And most of all why do you find all this to be so funny?

To begin with one’s sexual orientation is a very personal thing which others have no right to intrude, even in the entertainment industry where you are supposed to be fine with “controversy”.

This is for you and everyone out there: using your power and authority to demand someone to declare his or her sexual orientation, especially in a work environment, is ancient, barbaric and unacceptable.

Kicking someone out of the closet is just pure evil.

The fact you did what you did, especially with your stature and on broadcast TV, is not only wrong, but also you are telling the Hong Kong audience that it’s alright to continue this form of intrusion and micro aggression that the LGBT community wants to see gone.

You’re leading a very poor example by giving Hong Kong audience the impression that being gay is still a taboo.

How are your contestants, who are boys of young age, going to offer new perspectives to the Hong Kong audience under your guidance if you perpetuate stereotyping and demonstrate to them that being gay is still an issue?

I feel sorry for any contestants who are in fact gay sitting in that room that day too. They must have been traumatized seeing the way you forced your inquisition. The impression you left them with is that the entertainment industry is still a very unfriendly place for gays. Is that what you want them to think?

But most of all, it’s the attitude, tone and manner with which you shared about this incident on social media, giving people the impression that any matter regarding sexual orientation is still something shameful and laughable, which is on top of list the thing that the LGBT community fights hard everyday to change.

When you said in your apology you “have great respect for gay people, especially their hard fight for equality” I became baffled as what you did, in the past to me or in that room to the boys, is the exact thing that makes the LGBT community’s ongoing fight for equality so difficult.

Putting people down, perpetuate stereotypes, heckling and ridiculing yet making it look OK is anything but liberal and respectful, or Californian. I don’t see any “entertainment values” that are of good taste if they are made up at the expense of other people’s struggle.

If this incident happened in America, where you grew up, you would’ve gotten yourself in such hot waters that you probably can’t get out of.

I just want you and everyone out there to know that it’s not okay. And it never was. Never will be.

Being “as liberal as it gets” is great. Having gay friends is great too. Having dinner with your gay friends is absolutely fabulous! Playing all these cards to avoid being labelled as “homophobic” is very convenient. But having class, empathy, kindness and authentic respect is a completely different territory. These don’t come automatically with backgrounds.

At this point you don’t owe me an apology. I just hope that after this incident you can really start working and living with the essences of a truly liberal and creative individual. Inspire changes and end stereotypes. Start new trends and break old patterns. Embrace and not segregate. Do the work.

I had been away from Hong Kong and the industry for a few years now. It breaks me heart that I have to write this sort of open letter when it’s already 2018. I want to make this industry a safer, nicer and more accepting place to work in when I return. I want members of the LGBT community in Hong Kong, who have been so supportive of me and my music, to also have safer and nicer working environment in their respective lives.

I don’t mind coming off as an over-reacting petty bitch with no sense of humour if my message finally comes through and everyone, including you, “gets it”. I rather have no sense of humour than a bad one.

To all the contestants of the show. If anyone ever asks you if you are gay and you are not ready to discuss, it’s OK to stand up for yourself and say this: “It’s a rude question to begin with. You have no right to get an answer from me to begin with. And it doesn’t matter. It SHOULDN’T matter. It’s 2018. I hope one day I can use my craft to inspire the world and to make this become a non-issue.”

But if you are ready to be open, you have my complete support and love.

Let’s hope that through acceptance, learning and effort, one day there will no longer be any “controversial questions”. Wouldn’t we like that Eric?

Yours truly,
Pong

#LGBT
#homophobia
#safeworkplace
#中文版稍後會有
Eric Kwok 郭偉亮