'Kenapa nak mohon cerai ta'liq Puan?' tanya saya.
'Sebab suami dah lama tak bagi nafkah. Dah lebih 4 bulan. Sejak suami excident. Lepas excident dia tak kerja dah. Kitaorang pun dah tak duduk sama', jawab client perempuan tersebut.
'Kenapa tak duduk sama Puan? Kenapa tinggalkan suami lepas suami eksiden? Kenapa Puan tak jaga suami?'
'Kitorang ni susah. Duit pun takde. Saya pulak tak kerja. Memang harap gaji dia je. Ni dia dah eksiden, kena benti keje. Saya pun takde duit. Macam mana nak tanggung dia, nak uruskan dia. Jadi biar jelah dia duduk dgn family dia. Apa2 jadi pun family dia ada', jawab client tersebut.
'Oh..macam tu. Ok2. Puan datang dengan siapa?' tanya saya lagi.
Dia terdiam.
Tup tup masuk seorang lelaki.
'Ye cik? Ada apa2 yang boleh saya bantu?'
'Takde apa.Saya tunggu bakal tunang saya ni', jawab lelaki tersebut sambil tangannya menunjuk ke arah client perempuan tersebut.
Ya Allah. Tarik nafas panjang saya. Manusia jenis apa nih??
Hmmmm.....
Saya cuma nak ingatkan pada diri saya sendiri dan pada semua perempuan diluar sana yang bergelar isteri, Nabi kata NERAKA tu hampir keseluruhan isinya adalah perempuan. Bila sahabat tanya pada Nabi kenapa keseluruhan isi neraka adalah perempuan? Nabi jawab 'disebabkan kekufuran mereka'.
Sahabat tanya lagi 'Adakah perempuan2 itu kufur kepada Allah?' Nabi jawab 'Tidak melainkan mereka KUFUR kepada suami dan mengKUFURI kebaikan suami BAHKAN saat dia melihat sesuatu yang tidak berkenan dihatinya tentang suaminya, nescaya ia akan berkata 'aku sama sekali belum pernah melihat kebaikan darimu (suami)'.
Oh ya. Satu lagi, bagi lelaki yang suka menyondol masuk kebun kepunyaan orang, Nabi cakap masa Nabi dimikrajkan, Baginda diperlihatkan isi neraka. Ada satu golongan yang Nabi tengok makan daging busuk (bangkai) sedangkan ada daging baik disebelahnya. Rupanya2 tu golongan penzina yang suka berzina dengan perempuan sedangkan ada isteri yang halal untuk 'digauli'.
Ok. Last sekali, mati tu dekat oi! Takde isyarat, takde tanda.Tau2 dah terkiok je. Jadi bawak2 beringat dan bertaubat ye.
# The most beautiful blessing we have been given IS the CHANCE to REPENT.
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' Why do you want to ask for divorce? ' ask me.
' Because husband has not given a living for a long time. It's been more than 4 months. Since the husband is accidentally accident. After accident he doesn't work anymore. We're not sitting together anymore, answer the female client.
' Why don't you sit with Madam? Why leave your husband after his husband accident? Why don't you take care of your husband? ' '
' We are having a hard time. There's no money. I'm not working. I hope it's only his salary. This is the accident, need to stop working. I don't have money either. How to take care of him, to manage him. So let him sit with his family. Whatever it happens, his family has ', answer the client.
' Oh.. like that. Ok2. Who did you come with? ' ask me again.
She is speechless.
Tup tup into a man.
' Yes miss? Is there anything I can help? ' '
' Nothing. I'm waiting for my future fiance ', answering the man as his hands are pointing to the female client.
Oh God. Take my long breath. What kind of human is this??
Hmmmm.....
I just want to remind myself and to all the women out there who are called wives, the Prophet says HELL almost all its contents are women. When friends ask the Prophet why the whole contents of hell are women? The Prophet answered 'because of their disbelief'.
Friends ask again ' Do women disbelieve in Allah? ' The Prophet answered ' Not unless they REFUSE to their husbands and CONFUSE the goodness of the husband even when he sees something that is not willing to be in his heart about her husband, he will say ' I have never seen the goodness of you (husband) '.
Oh yes. Another one, for the men who like to condemn into the garden of people, the Prophet said when the Prophet was likened, His Majesty was shown the contents of hell. There is one group that the Prophet sees eating rotten meat (carcass) while there is good meat next to it. Apparently there are adultery people who like to commit adultery with women while there are wives who are halal to be ' to be ' acted '.
Okay. Last time, death is close to oi! No signal, no sign. You know it's already fun. So please be careful and repent.
# The most beautiful blessing we have been given IS the CHANCE to REPENT.
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同時也有1部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過283萬的網紅bubzbeauty,也在其Youtube影片中提到,Hello friends, I hope you're well. I know I don't appear here very often but as always, I do MISS YOU GUYS very very much. Long time no catch up here...
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i miss my family divorce 在 9bulan10hari Facebook 八卦
#kisahbenar
Suami : Sayang.... raya nak dekat.... abang tak cukup duit nak belikan baju raya untuk sayang & anak2... boleh tak kalau kita pakai baju yang ada?
Isteri : Allah... boleh abang... kami dah cukup bahagia bila ada abang disebelah kami... bukannya kemewahan... 😊
...Continue Reading#kisahbenar
Husband: dear.... Raya is near.... I don't have enough money to buy raya clothes for love & children... can we wear the clothes that we have?
Wife: Allah... can I... we are happy enough when we have a brother next to us... not a luxury... 😊
This was the incident 5 years ago... when I & my husband were through the hardship of life.... I'm grateful no matter who & whatever my husband is.
At that time I was pregnant.... I was even craving because I loved my husband. Don't want him to be difficult.
2 years of trouble... butted my husband has a lot of money... if he can get where he ckp overtime... while my husband works hotel as a receptionist only... salary is not until 2 k a month...
There's a day.. while washing my husband's clothes.. I see the effects of the lipstick & the smell of women...
I'm silent.. because I don't want to doubt.... because I know my husband is good...
After a week... I noticed my husband was senyum2 talking about his phone... he didn't entertain me so much...
Maybe Allah is willing.... my heart is moved to check my husband's cell phone...
Allah... melts my heart.. when my husband's picture hugs & kisses a woman in a luxury train.....
Allah Allah Allah... who is this?
I shock my husband.. who I ask... he is angry I am back.. he ckp why touch his phone.. sbb he said he said he never a man... I ask who again... this time he is woke up & angry me... he said...
" While I live with you I will not be able to live this kind of luxury.. I get all with Tia... what can you share? I won't... so keep silent!"
I cried at that time sis..... what is my sin.... I am loyal & love my husband 😞
I tried to be strong to ask my husband.. that time was in abstinence....
I'm asking what makes my love do this?
" he gave me a luxury... you? He let me feel like using a luxury car... you? As long as I'm loyal & entertaining my lust is not enough....
My jerks.. I'm quiet.. Take a bag & I get out of the house bringing my child while crying & in a state of pain in abstinence & in cold...
I call my friend.. Come and invite me to my mom's house.... in seremban.
I'm sad for months sis...
I cried and didn't stop..
I miss my husband...
But in the same time I can know my husband is drifting away 😞 he is going anywhere with Tia... He doesn't stay at home... eat with his life just like a rich person.
I get advice & ask for divorce.
"you don't need to ask for divorce.. I divorce you myself.. you don't deserve me"
I'm strong & try to be strong.
In These 2 years... I work at the tv station... my child is about to enter 2 years.. I already have my own salary.. every week I go to the orphans house to calm my heart by giving charity ...
There are a few times my ex-husband came to my mom's house to find me....
If I used to accept it before... but I think I'm too strong now sis. Thank you very much for the advice of kak zira.. I'm starting to believe in the wisdom that Allah finds people like this to give the best for us.
#9 bulan10hari really helps me heal my emotions.
My advice for husbands out there... it's a sin when you are a loyal wife... & your life will be more loss when you lose a wife who is willing to be hard to find someone else. Imagine if your wife does what you do... isn't it painful?
Pray for me sis.. pray for me friends for 9 months...
There is a lot of strength that I got here.. Thank you 😊
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Liza (not a real name) she is through a very difficult situation in her journey to wake up again.
When you talk to Liza.. We can also cry when we think of strength.. Perseverance & love that is made to play.
Liza is almost complaining.... Luckily there are family & friends who continue to support you 😊
That's right.....
A wife is tested when her husband has nothing.... & a husband is tested when he has property & everything....
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i miss my family divorce 在 謙預 Qianyu.sg Facebook 八卦
【三問三答】
Some questions I always get asked:
1) Is your Destiny Analysis very brief or specific?
Clients who have had their Bazi read by me had never complained of my analysis being brief.
After our first consultation, a young man recently told me he felt underprepared in terms of questions, responses and knowledge in front of me.
(Actually I find him okay.)
Take a look at my album of testimonials from clients and workshop participants.
Why do you think some of them write lengthy testimonials for me?
These are the people who have experienced positive transformations when they followed my advice.
They don't get extra incentive from me from writing all these.
This is their way of paying me back and helping others.
If I had been brief, superficial or vague, you think my smart and educated clients will bother?
A more intelligent question to ask me is:
"Can you solve my problem?"
我不打沒有把握的戰。
You probably have spent enough time trying to figure out the deadknot in your life.
If I can't solve your problem, I will not take up your case.
And when I can solve your problem, compared to other Feng Shui masters that you may have consulted, then don't worry your pretty head off whether I will be brief or specific.
不管是白貓還是黑貓,抓到老鼠就是好貓。
Whether black or white, the cat that catches the rat is a good cat.
As long as the solution works, and is simple to implement,
Don't get tricked by the illusion of consultation time - longer time must be better value for money.
Being taken for a merry-go-round with no end result is frustrating.
If the Feng Shui practitioner cannot make it, 1 minute with him/her remains a waste of money and time.
In any case, my Bazi consultation time is 1.5 hour and 2 hours for Feng Shui audits.
I also cover 10-13 other areas in your Bazi , apart from your issue at hand.
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2) Do you provide reports?
Never did, never will.
I trust that you, as a responsible and self-loving adult, can write your own notes.
I'm a patient person. I will give you time to write.
One client told me that she rather write her own notes, as previously, she couldn't comprehend what the other Feng Shui Master wrote in her report. It was too technical for her.
While I'm patient, I'm also particular.
If I do not see you writing down important details, I will stop the entire consultation till you jot it down.
Don't tell me that you can remember.
You may not and I'm not going to risk my reputation of being detailed for your callousness. Most importantly, I take every destiny very seriously.
If in front of me, you are flippant about your destiny, don't think it's important to write down when you do not know better than me, then there is no motivation for me to continue the consultation.
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3) After a Destiny Analysis, do I still need to come back to you every year?
So you got a thorough health check up done this year, does that mean you don't have to do it anymore?
After getting your whole Bazi read, the next kind of reading you should seek is known as 流年運程, Annual Luck Analysis.
Some people think that this service is our way of further"monetizing" our clients.
#rollrolllrollmyeyes
People's goals change every year.
You want to start a business.
You want to start a family.
You want to branch out your business.
Your child had done well last year, you want to know what else you should do to help him for his PSLE.
You don't know if you should change your company.
You want to get a divorce.
You want to...
An annual luck analysis helps you to stay on track of your previous goals, and provides a yearly breakdown on how to get maximum results with the least minimal effort and obstacles.
During the consultation, I also help to highlight to client Ma the potential opportunities that will happen that year so that they won't miss out due to ignorance.
In some Bazi, they may have a bad luck period eg from 2015-2020, a good 5 years.
Does that mean everything they do will be futile?
But life continues to happen, what can they do?
This is where a Annual Luck Analysis comes in.
Out of the 5 bad years, there's bound to be a year that is more promising, there's bound to be solutions to get around things.
By going microscopic, we will always, always have a chance to turn the tide to our favour.
Never never never give up.
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I don't make much small talk during consultations.
I understand that money can be limited for some of you.
When you take the good faith to invest in me, I see it as my duty to live up and beyond your expectations, instead of chit chatting.
Don't misinterpret it as me being unfriendly.
I can answer some doubts you may have before meeting me, but there is a limit to how much I will clarify.
I can't be helping you if you overthink and get too insecure about Chinese Metaphysics. You have to solve that yourself before you consult anyone. There's a reason why I wrote 400 over posts and 60+ Lives.
Your money and my time are both scarce resources.
So let's invest it in the right person.
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p.s I accidentally highlighted and pasted a single sentence over this entire post in my Iphone. I had wanted to copy the post into my FB.
I literally freaked out for a few seconds. Immediately I goggled for a way to undo the paste. I wanted my post back!
Guys, the solution is to SHAKE your Iphone. A Undo pop-up will appear. #notjoking #itsavedmylife
Moral of the story: never let fear overtake our ability to solve a problem effortlessly.
i miss my family divorce 在 bubzbeauty Youtube 的評價
Hello friends,
I hope you're well. I know I don't appear here very often but as always, I do MISS YOU GUYS very very much. Long time no catch up here. This month, instead of doing the usual Q&A on Instagram, I decided to film it on Youtube instead. Thank you so much for submitting your your questions through Instagram (follow me @itsbubz). You guys asked some really great insightful questions and why this video ended up being much longer than expected so feel free to grab a snack and beverage.
I know the video is a bit blurry. I apologise. I STILL don't know how to focus my camera after over 10 years..... Bad Bubz.
Your questions:
1. What do you miss the most right now?
2. Have you changed since your divorce?
3. The most difficult lesson you’ve learnt in life?
4. How to deal with end of relationship without closure?
5. What would your younger self be most proud of if she knew you now?
6. How do get over being cheated on? My self esteem/self love is even lower.
7. How do you get over shame from your past actions?
8. How do you handle the fear of rejection?
9. How to not fear approaching 30 and single?
10. How do you train Isaac to be so sweet?
11. Favourite Christmas movie?
12. If you had a high paying job but not happy, will you stay in this company?
13. How to not care about people pleasing and being perfect?
14. Are you ready to fall in love again?
15. What are your plans for Christmas this year?
16. Are you dating?
17. What was your recent dream?
18. How do you know of a person’s true intentions?
19. How to break through family expectations?
20. What is your first travel destination after covid lock down?
21. Any big plans and future projects?
22. How do you become your happiest self?
As always, please continue to take care of yourself and your heart.
All my love,
your friend Bubz xo
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