有些事情,本身沒有男女之分,但男人跟男人做,就是有點破舊立新的感覺。
數年前有位舊同學從紐約回港定居,本身沒有聯絡,但有次在街上偶遇,交換了電話號碼,拋下一句「得閒出嚟食 lunch」之後,便各走各路了。
估唔到之後佢真係 message 我。
「你好似就嚟生日喎 (Facebook reminder),幾時得閒食 lunch?」咁樣約到,點好意思推。
仲好記得嗰餐喺 Ole 食,即係一間喺中環有好悠久歷史嘅西班牙餐廳;這麼多年來,水準如一,而且有種懷舊風情,很不錯的。
言歸正傳,生日飯。
成餐飯大家有講有笑,又預測下未來的合作空間,總之一切正常。
Until 上甜品。
我叫咗個 Tiramisu,而喺個 Tiramisu 上面,竟然插咗支蠟燭,個碟上面仲寫住 happy birthday。
可能係我有問題,但我真係好少,好少好少,好少好少好少,試過同一位男士食飯而係有吹蠟燭呢個儀式。
I mean,男人同女人,我見過,女人同女人,我都見過,但男人同男人,真係冇乜印象。
作為一個 private banker,臨場反應當然是九秒九的迅速,我表現得相當開心和興奮。
然後,就是今天,禮尚往來,我請了那位朋友吃生日飯。
法國餐廳,高規格接待;當然,講得係禮尚往來,我一早安排了蠟燭和 happy birthday 在甜品上面。
但米芝蓮三星果然係米芝蓮三星,服務太好了,侍應竟然問我們:「使唔使幫你哋影張相?」
我知道朋友一定會想拍照,所以就好踴躍咁同侍應講 sure sure。我一手搭著他的肩膀,還故意把臉貼近;朋友嘅嘢,人哋歡喜,我真係冇乜所謂。
點知,大概一小時後,我收到他的短訊。
Hey man... actually... I mean... I really mean no offence here but... I am straight... so... yea...
徹底 lost for words,我諗如果我回一句 so am I,佢信嘅機會好微。
人哋畀我吹嘅,只係蠟燭,是我想太多了。
其實我想講呢。
正常人是應該有批判思考的,但如果每件事情都附加一個陰謀論在後面,那就只有批判,而沒有思考了。
同時也有1部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過4,880的網紅Mister Mouth 嘴哥樂團,也在其Youtube影片中提到,Mister Mouth-Face The World-03 remind Re Mind (If I Still Remember...) 詞/李列 曲/阿倫 編曲/Mr.Mouth Remember how we met Too young to be afraid Remembe...
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Reflection - from
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可能因為歌詞表達的意思也是自己常常想着的題目,特別喜歡。。。❤️
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Look at me
You may think you see
Who I really am
But you'll never know me
Every day
It's as if I play a part
Now I see
If I wear a mask
I can fool the world
But I cannot fool my heart
Who is that girl I see
Staring straight back at me?
When will my reflection show
Who I am inside?
I am now
In a world where I
Have to hide my heart
And what I believe in
But somehow
I will show the world
What's inside my heart
And be loved for who I am
Who is that girl I see
Staring straight back at me?
Why is my reflection
Someone I don't know?
Must I pretend that I'm
Someone else for all time?
When will my reflection show
Who I am inside?
#instantpo🙋🏻♀️ #隨心載
#自彈自唱 #photoalbum #sharing #🎵🎶 #Reflection #mulan
#loveforart #lovefortravel #themissingsomething #⭐️
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【不要再TMI了!】
我是一個精力熱情爆表的人。講好聽是有話直說、真誠坦白;不好聽就是講話不經大腦、話太多讓別人抓不到重點、白目。最近美國很潮的用字是TMI(Too Much Information)意思就是給太多資訊,讓別人模糊重點。
因為這是我的缺點,所以也還不能給大家什麼建議,倒是我可以分享我的職涯教練給我的建議,希望大家學會以後回頭教教我。
1. 分類。比如說你要說這台車很好,有安全氣囊、天窗、音響、鮮豔顏色、省油⋯等等二十樣事情。你就說這台車安全(氣囊、自動煞車⋯)、舒適(天窗、皮椅⋯)、漂亮(顏色、造型⋯)。
2. So what (那又怎樣?)。不斷提醒自己只講最重要的事,因為如果對方想知道更多,他/她會問。而最重要的事是「我知道,所以,我可以因此改變什麼?」對方的決定或行為會因為這個資訊而有所改變。如果對方不管知不知道這件事,行為也不會有什麼改變,那就是不重要的事。
3. 分眾。一樣的資訊在傳達的時候先想想對方是誰,關心的事情是什麼,為什麼關係這件事。然後刪減要傳遞的訊息,只講對方在意的事。
把缺點說出來,希望大家幫忙督促教導我,減少TMI,共勉之!
I am a person who has lots of energy and passion. Say it in a positive way: I am a straight shooter and very transparent; say it in a negative way: I share too much information, not in an organized way, no focus and not always in appropriate situations.
Given this is my weakness, I am not in a position to teach you about this. However, I want to share what my career coach taught me. I am hoping you will learn it and can teach me later on. 😉
1. Categorization. For example, you want to say this car is awesome because it has pretty color, air bag, sun roof etc 20 things. You say, the car is (1) safe (air bag etc), is (2) comfortable (leather chair, sun roof etc) and is (3) pretty (color, shape etc).
2. So what? Remind yourselves that only talk about what’s most important because if they need more information, they would ask! So, what’s most important? That’s something that the audience would do something different based on the information. Different decision, different action. If no matter the person know about the information or not, will not change their behavior, then most likely the info is not important.
3. Adjust for your audience. Who are you talking to? What do they want to know? Why do they want to know that? Select the information that only relevant to them.
I am sharing my weakness. Hopefully you will guide me, teach me and we can learn from each other in this journey of learning eliminate TMI!
#TMI #資訊氾濫 #講重點 #簡潔扼要 #Concise #Focus #TooMuchInformation #領導力 #Leadership
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Mister Mouth-Face The World-03 remind
Re Mind (If I Still Remember...) 詞/李列 曲/阿倫 編曲/Mr.Mouth
Remember how we met Too young to be afraid
Remember the used plans to prove who I am
It's not so easy to go straight
Finally you walk away
Someone says It's not too late Take my hands
Say hello to new days Say goodbye to sunset
Wake me up when I forget Wake me up when you can't take
Waiting for Whisper and talk to me
Why you ask me why Can't you hear my heartbeat ?
I don't know how to smile Please come back
Why you ask me why Write down on my body
I don't know how to smile So Please come back to me
You're everything You means a lot to me
Why you ask me why (So far away)
Can't you hear my heartbeat ?
I don't know how to smile (So far away)
Please come back to me
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Re Mind 表示讓心重新出發
另一個解釋是remind,意思是讓這首歌提醒我們
(是否我們還記得當初最原本的感動。)
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還記得我們剛相見的時候,太年少而不懂得什麼叫害怕。
還記得以前那些,要證明自己的計畫嗎?
但是 要往夢想筆直得前進卻沒那麼簡單,
最後 你還是離開了。
有人說,現在出發還不算晚。
牽我的手
向過去的夕陽說再見,
迎接即將而來的明天。
當我忘記的時候,請叫醒我。
當我無法承受壓力的時候,請叫醒我。
等待我,輕聲對我說話。
為什麼要問我原因 ?
你聽不到我的心跳嗎?
我好累,累的忘了笑容,
請你回來。
為什麼要問我原因 ?
刻印在我的身體。
我好累,累的忘了笑容,
所以 請回到我身邊。
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