"Baby berapa kilo?"
"2.5 kilo."
"Bersalin normal?"
"Tak, emergency caesar."
"Ruginya, baby kecil je kena caesar. Tapi tak apa la tak sakit nak bersalin. Saya bersalin normal je, 3.68 kilo. Ya Allah punya la susah."
Pung pang pung pang.
Emh.
Bersalin normal tu nikmat, bersalin caesar tu hikmah.
Geram je dengar, rasa nak tanya juga pernah kena caesar ke yang tahu bersalin caesar ni tak sakit? Huhu.
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Rezeki setiap orang berbeza.
Ada yang mudah hamil, mudah bersalin tapi ujian lepas bersalin anak selalu tak sihat, suami pemalas ya ampun minta jauh 80 simpang.
Ada yang mudah hamil, susah bersalin subhanallah tapi lepas bersalin Allah mudahkan proses kesembuhan, bagi suami yang bantu semua urusan rumahtangga dan ibu ayah yang empati bantu sepanjang tempoh berpantang.
Ada yang susah hamil, mudah bersalin dan mudah proses penyembuhan.
Ada yang susah hamil, susah bersalin tapi Allah ganti dengan anak yang sihat dan mudah diuruskan sepanjang tempoh berpantang ditambah pula dengan moral support dari keluarga.
Ada yang mudah hamil, mudah bersalin dan mudah semasa berpantang.
Ada yang susah hamil, susah bersalin dan susah semasa berpantang.
Rezeki pelbagai cara. Datang juga dalam bermacam gaya.
Kalau asbab dosa yang buat kita susah, istighfar.
Bila kesulitan demi kesulitan yang Tuhan hantar kepada kita, kita hadapi dengan iman dan taqwa, tiada pun mustahil untuk diberikan kebaikan dan nikmat yang lebih baik.
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Allah dah kata dalam al Quran, Allah dah lama bagitahu seorang ibu itu MENGANDUNG DENGAN KESUSAHAN DAN MELAHIRKAN DENGAN KESUSAHAN, dan kemudian menyusu dalam tempoh 24 bulan.
Dah tu apa yang nak hairan sangat kalau ada kesulitan semasa mengandung dan bersalin? Bukankah itu juga tanda arRahim dari Tuhan?
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Kalau dikatakan ibu bersalin caesar atau susah bersalin (tempoh sakit yang panjang misalannya) berlambak dosa, dah tu yang beranak dalam tandas hasil suka-suka tanpa suami tu wali Allah ke?
Kemon moms...
Kita lebih baik dari tu, tak perlu rasa hebat sebab berjaya bersalin normal dengan anak yang bambam dan rasa orang lain lekeh sangat. Mana tahu, rezeki dia Allah beri sudut lain. Ada suami yang baik, ibubapa yang baik, ibubapa mertua yang baik dan sahabat yang baik-baik. Rezeki dia je jumpa awak yang mulut kurang baik, huhuhu.
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Tak rendah pun martabat seorang wanita bila ditakdirkan bersalin caesar.
Bahkan ada situasi caesar jadi kaedah terbaik untuk ibu dan anak. Allah sentiasa beri yang terbaik walau nampak tak baik di mata kita.
Ummu Amir.
Bangga ada parut caesar. 😊
SUMBER: INSYIRAH SOLEHA
" baby how many kilos?"
" 2.5 kilos."
" giving birth is normal?"
" No, emergency Caesar."
" it's a loss, only a little baby got Caesar. But it's okay not to get sick of giving birth. I just gave birth to normal, 3.68 kilo. Oh God, it's difficult."
When it is for the pang.
Emh.
Giving birth to normal is a pleasure, giving birth to Caesar is wisdom.
I'm so annoyed listening to it, I feel like asking if it has been Caesar or who knows that Caesar's birth is not painful? Huhu.
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Everyone's sustenance is different.
There are people who are easily pregnant, easy to give birth but the test after giving birth is always not feeling well, husband is lazy, please ask for far away from 80 simpang.
There are people who are easily pregnant, hard to give birth subhanallah but after giving birth Allah will ease the healing process, for husbands who help all household affairs and parents who are empathy help during the period of confinement.
Some are hard to get pregnant, easy to give birth and easy healing process.
There are people who are hard to get pregnant, hard to give birth but Allah replace them with healthy and easy to manage during the confinement period plus with moral support from the family.
Some are easy to get pregnant, easy to give birth and easy during confinement.
There are people who are hard to get pregnant, hard to give birth and hard during confinement.
Provisions are various ways. Come in different styles too.
If the asbab of sin that makes us difficult, istighfar.
When difficulties for the difficulties that God sent us, we face it with faith and taqwa, nothing is impossible to be given good goodness and favor.
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Allah has said in the Qur ' an, Allah has long told that a mother is pregnant with difficulties and gives birth with difficulty, and then breastfeeding in 24 months.
That's what you want to wonder if you have difficulties during pregnancy and giving birth? Isn't that also a sign of God's grace?
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If it is said that the mother of the birth of Caesar or the difficulty of giving birth (a long period of pain) is spinning by sin, is that the one who gave birth in the toilet the result of love without the husband is the guardian of God?
What kind of moms...
We are better than that, don't have to feel great because we managed to give birth to normal with children who are bambam and think others are very the. Who knows, his sustenance Allah gives another angle. Have a good husband, good parents, good parents in law and good friends. Only his sustenance meets you whose mouth is not good, huhuhu.
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The dignity of a woman is not low when she is destined to give birth to Caesar.
There is even a situation of Caesar being the best method for mother and child. Allah always gives the best even though it does not look good in our eyes.
Ummu Amir.
Proud to have a Caesar scar. 😊
Source: insyirah solehaTranslated
