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Forgiveness means to let go and to breathe. Not forgiving is like holding on to your breath but the thing is, you can't hold your breath forever! Forgiving is a means of gaining peace in your life where you will stop feeling angry, hurt and where you are in a position of strength where you do not let your feelings control you.
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Forgiving does not mean that you need to be best friends with the one who hurt you, it means more power to you as you can heal and move on with life.
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Here are some tips on how to practice the art of forgiveness.

1. Look at it as a gift that will bring you peace and not a gift to someone else.
2. Look at the benefits and stay positive, what did you learn?
3. Your distress comes from your thoughts and feelings not what happened to you 20 years ago or 2 mins ago.
4. You learn not to be like the one who harmed you.
5. Empathize with the one who hurt you and think - maybe there was a reason or maybe this person needs help/has issues.
6. Finally put more energy to kindness and love and focus on what you have!
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Abdullah Ibn Amr reported: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) was upon the pulpit and he said:

ارْحَمُوا تُرْحَمُوا وَاغْفِرُوا يَغْفِرْ اللَّهُ لَكُمْ

Be merciful to others and you will receive mercy. Forgive others and Allah will forgive you. (Musnad Ahmad: 7001)

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Takeaways from Proverbs 19
(Day 12 of #ProverbsHesedWisdomChallenge to read a chapter from the Book of Proverbs each day which corresponds to the date as suggested by Pastor Joseph Prince in 7 Jan 2018’s Vision Sunday sermon -
http://www.miltongoh.net/miltons-blog/the-year-of-hesed-wisdom-vision-sunday-new-creation-church-theme-of-the-year-2018 ):

As Pastor Prince taught before, the devil likes pressure you and rush you to make bad decisions.
However, that is not God’s style. God leads by peace in your heart and doesn’t force you to do things against your will.

“Also it is not good for a person to be without knowledge, And he who hurries with his feet [acting impulsively and proceeding without caution or analyzing the consequences] sins (misses the mark).” ‭‭(PROVERBS‬ ‭19:2‬ ‭AMP‬‬)

We see this often in movies: When something bad happens to the main character, he or she screams and shouts at God asking why that happened to him or her.
People are just so quick to blame God and they forget that the devil exists.
Anything bad is not caused by God. It’s caused by the sinfulness and foolishness of man who give in to the devil’s temptations.

“The foolishness of man undermines his way [ruining whatever he undertakes]; Then his heart is resentful and rages against the LORD [for, being a fool, he blames the LORD instead of himself].” ‭‭(PROVERBS‬ ‭19:3‬ ‭AMP‬‬)

The people of the world are quick to curry favor with the rich and famous while harboring the ulterior motive to get favors and benefits from the friendship.
When a person has no visible benefit to them, they treat him or her like they are insignificant.
We should be treating others with love and respect like how God’s word teaches, and not by whether we can make use of a person.

“Wealth makes many friends, But a poor man is separated from his friend.
Many will seek the favor of a generous and noble man, And everyone is a friend to him who gives gifts. All the brothers of a poor man hate him; How much more do his friends abandon him! He pursues them with words, but they are gone.” ‭‭(PROVERBS‬ ‭19:4, 6-7‬ ‭AMP)

Prioritize receiving God’s wisdom every day - all the blessings of God will pursue you.
Two great ways to keep understanding is to listen to Jesus-centered sermons and meditate on God’s word as you go about your day.

“He who gains wisdom and good sense loves (preserves) his own soul; He who keeps understanding will find good and prosper.” (PROVERBS‬ ‭19:8‬ ‭AMP‬‬)

Luxury is more suitable for people with wisdom, who God can entrust with more money without them being consumed and destroyed in the process.
If we want an increase in our finances, focus on growing in God’s wisdom first.
He who is faithful with little is also faithful with much.

“Luxury is not fitting for a fool; Much less for a slave to rule over princes.” ‭‭(PROVERBS‬ ‭19:10‬ AMP)

A big-hearted, forgiving person has a glory about him or her.

“Good sense and discretion make a man slow to anger, And it is his honor and glory to overlook a transgression or an offense [without seeking revenge and harboring resentment].” ‭‭(PROVERBS‬ ‭19:11‬ ‭AMP‬‬)

It is a terrible thing to be under God’s curse and judgement. Under the Law, because no one can keep the Law, man is always doomed to be cursed.
However it is a wonderful blessing to be under God’s grace.
Believers can enjoy a peaceful, happy life when they live by grace.
Pastor Prince taught before that the devil goes about like a roaring lion seeking whom he may devour, and one of his tactics is to imitate Jesus (the Lion of Judah) and make us think that God is angry with us.

“The king’s wrath terrifies like the roaring of a lion, But his favor is as [refreshing and nourishing as] dew on the grass.” ‭‭(PROVERBS‬ ‭19:12‬ ‭AMP)

Material wealth is a lower blessing than a God-chosen spouse for you.
Always treasure your spouse.

“House and wealth are the inheritance from fathers, But a wise, understanding, and sensible wife is [a gift and blessing] from the LORD.” ‭‭(PROVERBS‬ ‭19:14‬ ‭AMP‬)

We should bless people in need out of an overflow of the love and compassion that we have received from God, especially when we spend a lot of time in His word.
However God Himself promises to reward whoever blesses the poor.

“He who is gracious and lends a hand to the poor lends to the LORD, And the LORD will repay him for his good deed.” (PROVERBS‬ ‭19:17‬ ‭AMP‬‬)

When disciplining your child, especially when caning, don’t do it to vent your own anger.
It should be done out of love, just enough severity to correct the misbehavior so that he or she won’t suffer worse consequences in the future.
Let a person with a bad temper bear the full responsibility and consequences for his or her mistakes, so that he or she will truly learn.

“Discipline and teach your son while there is hope, And do not [indulge your anger or resentment by imposing inappropriate punishment nor] desire his destruction. A man of great anger will bear the penalty [for his quick temper and lack of self-control]; For if you rescue him [and do not let him learn from the consequences of his action], you will only have to rescue him over and over again.” ‭‭(PROVERBS‬ ‭19:18-19‬ ‭AMP‬‬)

A teachable person can receive God’s wisdom.
Be willing to admit and learn from mistakes.

“Listen to counsel, receive instruction, and accept correction, That you may be wise in the time to come.” (PROVERBS‬ ‭19:20‬ ‭AMP‬)

Trust the Lord, you don’t have worry about your future. God has it all prepared and planned out for you.

“Many plans are in a man’s mind, But it is the LORD’S purpose for him that will stand (be carried out).” (PROVERBS‬ ‭19:21‬ ‭AMP‬)

Praise and worship is so powerful. It can usher in life, peace and fend off evil.

“The fear of the LORD leads to life, So that one may sleep satisfied, untouched by evil.” (PROVERBS‬ ‭19:23‬ ‭AMP‬‬)

What are your takeaways from Proverbs 19? Do share them with me as well! 🙂

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