" ผมจะปล่อยให้เธออยู่แบบนี้ไม่ได้.."
สวัสดีครับเพื่อนๆ..เมื่อวานผมได้เข้าไปช่วยเหลือ น.ส.สรงชล
คอนทอง อายุ 55ปี อยู่กับพี่สาวที่สติไม่ค่อยดี อายุ 58ปี 2พี่น้องอยู่กันแบบพึ่งอะไรกันไม่ได้เลย ทำไมผมถึงบอกว่า ผมจะ
ปล่อยให้เธออยู่แบบนี้ไม่ได้แล้ว..คือ เธอไม่มีครอบครัวที่ไหน
มาก่อน ไม่เคยมีสามี อยู่กับป้ามาตั้งแต่เล็กๆ จนป้าเธอเสียชีวิต
เธอก็เลี้ยงดูพี่สาวเธอมาตลอด โดยเก็บของเก่าขายเลี้ยงชีพไป
วันๆ ชาวบ้าวแถวนั้นบอกผมว่า ก่อนที่เธอจะป่วย เธอมีจิตใจที่ดี
มาก เธอจะเก็บเศษอาหารตามร้านค้าแล้วเข็นรถเข็นเอาอาหาร
ไปเลี้ยงสุนัขจรจัดเป็นประจำทุกวัน บางวันเดินไกลถึง4กิโล เธอ
ทำแบบนี้มาตลอด ไม่เคยขอเงินใคร บางวันไม่มีก็รับจ้างขนขยะ
ตามร้านอาหารเพื่อได้เงินมาซื้ออาหารให้พี่สาวและสุนัขจรจัด
ซึ่งมากกว่า30ตัว แต่ตอนนี้เมื่อเดือน พฤษภาคม เธอได้ล้มลง
กับพื้นทำให้ศรีษะของเธอฟาดลงกับพื้นจนหัวแตกเลือดออกเยอะมาก ก่อนหน้านี้ชาวบ้านแถวนั้นก็เตือนเธอแล้วว่าให้พัก
ผ่อนบ้างเพราะเห็นเธอผอมและดูไม่แข็งแรง แต่เธอก็บอกว่าไม่
เป็นไร ถ้าเธอพัก สุนัขหลายตัวก็ไม่มีอะไรกิน จนกระทั้งเธอหมดแรงล้มลง เธอถูกกู้ภัยส่งตัวมาที่โรงพยาบาลศิริราช เธอถูก
ผ่าตัดอย่างเร่งด่วนเพราะมีเลือดคลั่งในสมอง เธอนอนอยู่โรง
พยาบาลศิริราช 10 กว่าวัน จากนั้นเธอก็มารักษาตัวต่อที่โรงพยาบาลตากสิน อีกเกือบเดือน แต่เธอเป็นห่วงพี่สาวเธอมาก จึงขอออกจากโรงพยาบาลก่อนทั้งที่เธอยังไม่หายดี วันแรกที่
เธอออกมา เธอก็ไปดูพี่สาวเธอ แต่พี่สาวเธอจำเธอไม่ได้ และ
พยายามไล่เธอออกไปจากบ้าน แต่เธอก็เข้าใจว่าพี่สาวเธอป่วย
เธอพยายามอดทนและทำทุกอย่างเหมือนเดิมคือ ไปหาอาหารให้สุนัขและอาหารมาให้พี่สาว แต่ช่วงพี่เธอป่วยอยู่ ก็มีชาวบ้านเอาอาหารน้ำไปให้เพราะสงสาร แต่เมื่อกลางเดือน มิถุนา เธอ
เกิดเป็นอัมพฤกษ์ ไม่สามารถเดินได้ ซีกซ้ายของเธอไม่มีเรี่ยวแรง ทำให้เธอต้องทนทุกข์ทรมานมาก พี่สาวก็ไล่เธอทุก
วัน..เมื่อวานผมไปหาเธอ ผมเจอพี่สาวเธอ ผมก็ถามว่านี่คือพี่
สาวใช่มั้ย พี่สาวได้ยินกระโกนด่ามาอย่างเสียหาย เธอก็บอก
ผมว่าอย่าถามเขาจะไม่รับรู้อะไร จำอะไรไม่ได้ ก็น่าสงสารพี่สาว
เธอนะครับ ตัวผอมๆหลังค่อมลงมาขนานลงมาถึงเอว..เมื่อวาน
ผมดูสภาพห้องแล้ว ไม่น่าเชื่อว่าจะมีคนอาศัยอยู่ได้ ถ้าเพื่อนๆ
เห็นก็ต้องตกใจ พื้นห้องที่มีทั้งฉี่สุนัข(สุนัข4-5ตัว)อยู่ในห้อง
และขยะต่างๆชนิด ภายในห้องน่าจะไม่เคยทำความสะอาดมา
เลยน่าจะเป็นปี ชีวิตเธอเหมือนถูกให้ทดลองสภาพจิตใจเธอว่า
เธอจะทนได้สักแค่ไหน ผมจะให้เงินแต่เธอปฏิเสธ เธอบอกว่า
ขอให้ช่วยพาเธอไปรักษาอัมพฤกษ์ให้หายดีกว่า เพราะครั้งที่
แล้วเธอเกือบจะปกติอยู่แล้วแต่ด้วยความเป็นห่วงทั้งคนและสัตว์
จึงต้องออกมาก่อน ผมได้ยินเธอขอร้อง ผมก็จัดให้ทันที จึงโทร
เรียกรถพยาบาลกู้ชีพร่วมกตัญญูมารับตัวเธอไปส่งที่โรงพยา
บาลตากสินทันที ระหว่างรอรถรถพยาบาล ผมถามเธอว่าใคร
อาบน้ำให้ เธอนิ่งและบอกกับผมว่า เธอไม่ได้อาบน้ำมา1เดือน
แล้วตั้งแต่ออกจากโรงพยาบาล ผมก็เลยจัดการอาบน้ำสระผม
ให้เธออย่างสะอาดที่สุด ขอเสื้อผ้าจากชาวบ้านมาใส่ให้เธอ เอา
แป้งมาทาหน้าให้ เธอนั่งร้องไห้ด้วยความตื้นตันใจ..
ตอนนี้เธอนอนอยู่ที่โรงพยาบาลตากสินรอผลเลือดและนอนให้
น้ำเกลืออยู่ ถ้าเธอต้องทำกายภาพบำบัดผมจะเอาเธอมาอยู่ดูแลที่บ้านมุฑิตา เพราะที่นั้นมีเจ้าหน้าทำกายภาพบำบัด ต่อจากนี้ไปชีวิตเธอต้องมีคนดูแลอย่างดี เพราะเธอคือนางฟ้าผู้มีจิตใจงดงามมากเหลือเกิน..ผมจะทำให้เธอเดินได้ครับ..
" I can't let her live like this.."
Hello friends.. yesterday I went to help. Congressman. Sanchon
Conthong, 55 years old with a bad conscious sister, 58 years old, 2 brothers and sisters can't rely on anything. Why did I say I would
Can't let her live like this anymore.. Well she has no family anywhere
Never had a husband with aunt since she was small until her aunt passed away.
She always raised your sister by keeping old stuff, selling her living.
Day crazy people around there told me that before she got sick she had a good heart.
So much she will collect food scraps in the store and push the cart and get food.
Going to treat cuddle stray dogs regularly every day. Some days walk up to 4 Kilograms.
I have been doing this all the time. I never ask for money. Some days I don't have it,
Follow the restaurant to get money to buy food for my sister and dog cuddle stray dogs.
Which is more than 30 but now in may she has fallen.
On the ground, making her head hit the ground until her head broke a lot of bleeding. Earlier, the villagers warned her to rest.
Pay some installments because I see you slim and don't look strong but she said no
What's wrong if you rest many dogs, there is nothing to eat until she is exhausted. She was rescued. Sent to siriraj hospital. She was right.
Urgent surgery because there is a crazy blood in her brain lying in the shed.
Siriraj Nurse for over 10 days. Then she came to heal the wasp at taksin hospital for almost a month, but she was very worried about her sister. So she asked to leave the hospital first day she hadn't recovered
She came out she went to see her sister but her sister didn't recognize her and
Trying to kick her out of the house but she understands that your sister is sick.
She tried to be patient and did everything the same thing. She went to get food for the dog and food for her sister. But when she was sick, there was sick, someone brought food and water because she felt pity. But in mid-June.
Born As Palsy, can't walk. Her left side has no strength. It makes her suffer so much. Sister chases her every time.
Day.. yesterday I went to see her. I met her sister. I asked if this is brother.
Is it a girl? Sis heard a damaged shave. She said.
I don't think so ask. He won't know anything. I don't remember anything. Poor sis.
You, slim, back, down to your waist.. yesterday.
I look at the room condition. I can't believe people live if my friends
I have to be shocked when I see it. The floor of the room with dog pee (4-5 dogs) in the room.
And all kinds of trash inside the room should have never been cleaned
It should be a year of your life. It's like being tried to her mind.
No matter how much she can endure, I will give money but she refused. She said
Let's take her to heal palsy because of the last time
And she's almost normal, but with concern for both people and animals.
So I had to come out. I heard her begging. I made it right away so I called.
Calling a grateful rescue ambulance to pick her up to the hospital.
Baltaksin immediately while waiting for the ambulance. I asked her who.
Shower her still and tell me she hasn't had a shower in 1 months
And since I left the hospital, I took a shower and washed my hair.
Give her the cleanest. Ask for clothes from the villagers to wear for you to take.
Powder comes to apply your face to cry with joy..
Now she's sleeping at taksin hospital waiting for blood results and sleeping.
Salt water. If she has to do physical therapy, I will take care of muthita's house. Because there is a physical therapy officer from now on, her life must be a good care of because she is an angel with a beautiful heart.. I will Make her walk sir..Translated
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说一说…..父母
前一阵子,参加了一个心灵课程。
一位三十岁左右的男人出来做分享。
他在新加坡工作,去年得知妈妈的癌症复发,而且还开始扩散,心里很难过,也很纠结。
他问了一个长辈朋友他该选择留在新加坡继续打拼事业还是辞职回去陪伴妈妈?
那位长辈朋友跟他说了自己亲生的经历。
长辈朋友说他年轻的时候,母亲患癌症,他带着母亲到处寻医,希望可以把母亲治好。
最后有位医生跟他说,他的母亲只剩一个月的命。
他致电给远在国外念医学系的弟弟,告诉他这个消息。
他的弟弟几年前获得了某间著名大学的医科奖学金,一个人到国外升学。
他还剩四个月就毕业,正式成为一个专业医生。
他跟教授申请一个月的假期,希望自己可以陪母亲走完她最后的人生。
结果教授不领情,说如果他这时候停学,就没办法毕业。
后来,他跟教授说,他很谢谢教授这几年对他的照顾和教导,但母亲只有一个,于是他选择了停学,回到家乡照顾妈妈。
长辈朋友说,他的弟弟归来后,每天无微不至照顾卧床的母亲,喂食,洗澡,清洗排泄物….。
而母亲在孩子细心的照顾和陪伴下多活了三个月才离开人间。
听完长辈朋友的故事,他决定辞职,回到他成长的土地,回到那个赐予他生命的母亲身边。
他的妈妈因为不想再承受多年前做化疗的幸苦,于是选择自然疗法。
他陪着妈妈一起学习气功,一起练习。
当妈妈学习遇到障碍时,他耐心教导妈妈,陪伴她一次又一次的练习。
这一次她带着妈妈,甚至爸爸一起来上课,三人之间的交流一天比一天温暖,一天比一天更往内心深处流动。
你可以看见这个三十的大男孩,边哽咽边诚恳地分享他内心的感受时,脸上闪耀着光芒,他的孝心滋养着他的生命,富足了他的灵魂,也感动了所有聆听的每一颗心。
你可以看见他患癌的妈妈因为他的爱而流露出幸福的笑容。
你可以看见他踏出的每一步是如何地一点一点软化了平时大男人的爸爸,让老夫老妻的爸妈重新感受相爱的甜蜜。
这段分享一直在我心中流淌,像安静清澈的河流,流过之处都获得了一份滋润。
今年农历过年前,九十几岁的外公中风跌倒,摔断了腿,也检查出食道收窄而必须插鼻胃管进食。
外公一向喜欢独居,就算孩子怎么相劝,他还是不愿意搬去跟任何一个孩子居住。
于是妈妈在家里附近准备了一个房子给外公住,方便照顾他老人家。
这个区可热闹了,小弟,大舅,表妹,两个表弟都住在附近,而二弟和二弟媳就住在正对面,很多照应。
外公出院后,爸妈,三个阿姨和舅舅们每天轮班,24小时在身边照顾卧床的外公。
有个专业护士来给外公做护理和检查时,跟他们说以她的经验观察,外公可能没办法坚持到过完年。
妈妈致电给我,让我有点心理准备。
农历年回家乡时,本来妈妈阿姨们已经订好餐厅一共六桌酒席给外公和我一起庆祝生日,因为我们两人是同一天生日,而且经常很靠近或在过年期间,已经有好几年,我都和阿公一起接受大家的生日祝福,一起许愿,一起吹蜡烛,切蛋糕。而这一次,阿公不止不能庆祝生日,而且长辈们也交代我们不要提这件事,因为在马来西亚华人的传统习俗里,老人家病重忌过生日。
于是所有的孩子,孙子和曾孙子每天都到外公家拜年,聚餐,非常热闹。
外公虽然行动不便,但躺在床上静静的聆听子孙们欢乐的声音,让他觉得很开心,嘴角不自觉微微上扬,好像这些陪伴就是他最好的良药。
他不停吩咐阿姨一定要记得帮他准备好红包,他要亲自给我们每人一个红包。
“爸,新年快乐,身体健康…阿公,恭喜发财,身体健康….阿祖,恭喜发财…。“我们七十几个人沿着客厅到厨房排成长长的队伍,一个一个握着阿公的手,从他手上接过那封非常珍贵的红包。
过完年,回到家,每天和妈妈通电话跟进外公的情况。
一天一天细心的照顾下和子孙每天的陪伴下,外公不止渡过了整个农历年,还自行拔掉鼻胃管(因为太不舒服),然后神奇的开始可以自己进食。
前几天,弟媳传来一条短片,一打开,看见外公竟然可以站起来慢慢的步行了。
这一次新冠肺炎疫情在全球大爆发,欧洲许多独居和疗养院的老人,在未接受正式治疗下,在家或疗养院孤独离世。
而小黄花慈善教育基金会也在行动管制令期间为一些贫穷的独居老人提供免费粮食。
以前和阿姨们一起探访过一间老人院,院长说他看到越来越多的老人院开设,心里觉得很悲哀。
我们现代人引以为傲,这越来越先进,越来越文明,科技越来越发达,物品越来越精致,教育程度越来越高的都市里,为什么就容纳不下这些前半辈子都在为社会为家庭付出的生命呢?
他们曾经也是年轻气盛,朝气蓬勃的劳动者,为什么在他们最需要被关怀,被爱护,被疼爱的最后的岁月里却被遗忘甚至遗弃?
越来越多的优越感并没能让我们感受越来越多的快乐,越来越争取的私人空间让人们的距离越拉越远……。
远到我们都看不见一些真正重要和值得珍惜的人和事。
这些老人们的家人呢?
也许背后有很多很多的故事,但这些故事是不是也许可以因为少一点的自我,多一点的同理心而被改写呢?
宇宙创造生命,而父母就是带这些生命来到这个世界的桥梁。
为什么我们可以把最好的给孩子,却不能把最好的给父母?
好友奶茶一个人照顾奶奶,爸爸和妈妈三个老人家,经常就是走路去看他们,陪他们,给他们煮好吃的,大小事都替他们打点。
每次看到她分享和奶奶,爸妈的合照,影片和文字时,心里都特别感动。
她堂堂一个影后,视后,歌后,平日的生活里,就是一个尽心尽力在照顾上面三个老人和下面一个孩子的平凡妈妈,女儿和孙女。
去年,我和一个好友探访一家慈善收留所,里头住了六十几位失智老人,他们都是因为各种各样的原因而被收留,有一些偶尔有家人来探望,有一些甚至无人问津。
看着那些老人枯萎的身躯躺在床上,空洞地望向远方,任由孤寂一寸一寸地侵蚀他的灵魂,生命就在这暗淡的小屋里渐渐地走向死亡,心里很是难过。
让我们闭上眼,回想小时候,父母辛苦照顾我们的身影,安静下来,感受一下现在的父母,我们是不是还可以聆听到他们的声音,感受彼此连接的温暖?
Let’s talk about….. Parents
Just recently, I participated in a spiritual class. There was a man, in his thirties who did a sharing session. He works in Singapore and last year, he learned that his mother’s cancer had recurred and it had begun to spread. He felt a wave of sad and complicated emotions overcome him.
He asked an elderly friend for advice, if he should choose to stay in Singapore to pursue his career or resign to accompany his mother?
This elderly friend of his then shared his own experience with him. When he was young, his own mother had cancer and he brought his mother around to seek for medical treatment, hoping to be able to cure her. Alas, one doctor gave him one news he would not want to hear, mentioning that his mother only had a month left to live.
He has a brother who had received a medical scholarship to study in a prestigious University a few years back and was all alone studying abroad. He gave his brother a call and delivered the unfortunate news. He was only four months away from graduation before he could be formally known as a professional doctor.
He applied for a month leave from his professor, hoping to accompany his mother through her final days. However, his application was rejected with the reason given that if he was to stop his courses, he would not be able to graduate.
He then thanked his professor for his care, guidance and advices throughout the many years but he chose and decided to take his leave and return to his homeland to care for his mother as there is only one mother in the world to him.
When his brother returned, with the special, attentive care and companionship given to his bed-ridden mother; feeding, bathing her, cleaning up her excrement, she managed to live through for another three months.
After listening to his friend’s story, he made a firm decision to resign from his job, returned to the place he grew up, returned to be with the woman who gave him life. His mother did not want to go through the sufferings of chemotherapy and chose holistic treatment instead.
He accompanied his mother to learn Qigong and practiced it together with her. He would be next to her, teaching her patiently whenever she encountered obstacles in her learnings and practice with her continuously.
This time around, he brought his mother and father for class. As days passed by, it can be seen that the interaction among them 3 was all about warmth, delving deeper into their inner world.
One could see a 30 years old man, choking as he shared his deepest feelings but yet his face shining radiantly as his filial attitude nourishes his life, enriching his soul, touching everyone’s heart.
You could see his mother who has cancer beaming broadly because of his love.
You could see how each step he took soften his father’s pride and ego, allowing the aged couple to mesmerize the sweetness of love again.
This sharing has nourished my inner soul, flowing through my system, like a quiet, clear river.
This year, just before the Lunar New Year, my 90 years old grandfather had a stroke and broke his leg. It was also found that his oesophagus was narrowed and a nasogastric feeding tube had to be inserted.
Grandpa has always enjoyed living alone. Nobody could convince him to stay with any of his children. So mum moved him to a house which she got nearby so that he can be taken care of easily. The location of the house is very strategic and lively as my younger brother, uncle and cousin sisters and brothers live in that area. The best part, my second brother and sister-in-law live just across the street.
When Grandpa was discharged from the hospital, my parents, three aunts and uncles took turns, rotating shifts to take care of my bed-ridden grandfather 24 hours a day.
There was a professional nurse who would come over to care, made necessary treatments and check up on Grandpa. She told my parents and relatives that from her experiences as a nurse, granddad would not survive till the Chinese New Year. My mum called me up to deliver this piece of news and told me to prepare for the worst.
We went back to our hometown for the Chinese New Year celebration and initially, my mum and aunts have made a restaurant reservation of 6 tables to have a feast for my grandfather and I as we share the same birth date and it was very close to Chinese New Year. We have had such celebrations for many years however, due to Grandpa’s condition, we were not able to celebrate together this year. We were all reminded numerous times that we are not to even talk about it by our elders because according to Malaysia’s Chinese Custom, it is best to forgo celebrating birthdays when our older relatives are gravely ill.
Therefore, all of us, the children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren went to Grandpa’s house every day to gather and have meals during the Chinese New Year celebration. It was bustling with noise and excitement. Although Grandpa was bed-ridden, listening to the gleeful voices from his grand and great-grandchildren has made him feeling happy. It was as though these companionships were the best medicine where one could see the corner of his mouth rising up faintly.
He kept reminding my aunt to prepare the Red Packets (Ang Pows) for him and that he would hand it out to us each, himself.
“Dad, Happy New Year. May you be blessed with good health”.. “Grandpa, Gong Xi Fai Cai, to good health”.. “Azu, Happy Chinese New Year..” There were about 70 of us, we could see an extremely long line forming from the living room up to the kitchen! We would hold Grandpa’s hand tenderly as we take the precious Red Packets from him.
After the Chinese New Year holidays, we all returned to our own home and I called up my mother every day to check up on Grandpa’s condition. With the sincere care and accompaniment of his children and grandchildren, not only did Grandpa spent the entire Lunar New Year with us but pull out the nasogastric tube all by himself (as it was making him feeling uncomfortable) and surprised us all as he began to eat by himself!
A few days ago, my sister-in-law sent us a short video. When I played the video, Grandpa could stand and began to walk slowly!
This time around, there is an outbreak of a new pneumonia (COVID-19) pandemic. There are many elderly people living alone or nursing homes in Europe. Due to them not being able to receive the proper treatment at the right time, many of them passed away feeling lonely.
Little Yellow Flower Education Foundation did a part by supplying free food baskets for some of the poor elderly folks who lives alone during the Malaysia Movement Control Order.
I visited a nursing home with my aunt once and the administrator told us that there were more nursing homes mushrooming and it was so disheartening for him.
It is something that is not understandable as in this modern metropolis world, where we can be proud of our achievements, where the world is more advanced, civilized, technologies are more developed, goods are more refined, education levels are standing tall, why is it that we are not able to accommodate and tolerate these elderly people who have once devoted their early days to the society and sacrificed for their family?
They were also once young and energetic laborers. Why are they now forgotten and abandoned during their last years when they are the ones who needs to be cared for, and loved most?
Feeling more superiority does not bring us more happiness. The more private space we strive for, will only distance ourselves from others…..
So far… that we could not even see and remember the people or things are really matters and are worth treasuring.
Where are the family members of these aged people?
There may be many stories to it but can it be rewritten if there were less pride and a little more empathy?
The Universe creates Life and parents are the bridges that brings life into this world. Why is it that we can provide the best for our children but not for our parents?
My friend, Rene has to take care of her grandmother, her father and mother; three golden gems. She will always walk over to their house to see them, accompany them, cook delicious meals for them and take care of their daily lives. Each time I see the pictures, videos and texts she share about her grandmother and parents, I am deeply moved.
Even as an International acclaimed actress and singer, she would still try her very best to take care of the three old family members and 1 young child as any normal mother, daughter and grand-daughter will do in her everyday life.
Last year, I visited a nursing home with a friend where there were more than 60 seniors who had dementia.
They are given shelter for various reasons. There are some seniors being visited by family members occasionally whereas there are some who are being totally neglected and abandoned. Seeing some of them, fragile looking, gazing blankly into the wall, allowing loneliness to seep into their souls by the inches, waiting for death to visit them while lying on their bed in this empty, dark shed, left me feeling extremely sad.
Let us all close our eyes, recollect our childhood’s memories, picturing the silhouettes of our parents who were taking care of us. Quiet down, feel the presence of our parents now. Can we still hear their voices, sense the connection and the warmth among us?
#说一说
#父母之恩
#letstalkabout
#loveforparents
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'haaa eloklah tu asyik duk memerap dalam bilik.. Alasan nak susukan anak.. Padahal nak' membuta' je malas nak buat kerja.. Orang lain tengok bela anak juga, susukan juga.. takda pula perangai macamtu. Kalau dah tahu anak tu asyik melekat je. Bagi je susu formula'
Ya Allah.. Kalau dengar tohmahan macamni.. IGNORE je! Nilah satu salah sebab kenapa ibu cepat give up.. Sebab takda moral support.. Asyik kena moral down je. Ingat semudah abc ke susukan anak ni?
Menyusukan anak ni letih ke?
Iya.. Sangat letih!
Bukan 10 minit anak menyusu, anggaran masa yg diperlukan sehingga anak hilang haus, memakan masa 20 minit. Itu belum campur anak mengempeng sampai sejam. Kalau dlm keadaan baring, dapatlah kita terlelap sekejap. Itu pun kejap2 terjaga takut anak tersedak susu. Tapi kalau dlm keadaan duduk pula, tersengguk2 emaknya memangku anak.
Itu kalau ibu menyusukan anak secara 'direct'. Kalau pam susu, sebelah 15 minit,sebelah lagi dlm 20 minit.. Kadang-kadang lebih setengah jam pam susu, duk picit2 breast bagi keluar lagi susu.. 😂😂 Yg ni admin selalu buat, konon2 nak bagi susu keluar banyak lah..
Walaupun ibu letih dan lemah tak bertenaga, walaupun ibu terpaksa minum dan makan dgn banyak, walaupun ibu terpaksa mencuba pelbagai suplimen milkbooster utk banyakkan kuantiti susu..
Demi anak!
Ibu sanggup, ibu takkan give up utk menyusukan anak. Ibu rasa bangga dan gembira bila anak ibu kenyang dan happy bila menikmati susu ibu..
Mana ibu yang menyusukan anak?
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Ya Allah.. If I hear this kind of shameless.. just IGNORE! This is one of the wrong reasons why mom gives up quickly.. Because there's no moral support.. Always need to be moral down. Remember as easy as ABC or breastfeeding this child?
Is this child's breastfeeding tired?
Yes.. So tired!
Not 10 minutes of breastfeeding child, estimated time that is needed for the child to lose his thirst, takes 20 minutes. That hasn't mixed with childburns for an hour. If we are lying down, we can sleep for a while. Even that's when you're awake, afraid that the child will choke on But when I'm sitting, the mother is snuggled, I'm a child.
That's if mothers breastfeed their children directly. If you pump milk, you'll be 15 minutes next to 20 minutes.. Sometimes it's more than half an hour of milk pumping, you'll pinch your breast and make it out of milk.. 😂😂 This admin always does it, it's all Give a lot of milk out..
Although mother is tired and weak, even though mother has to drink and eat a lot, although mother has to try various milkbooster supplements to increase the quantity of milk..
For the child's sake!
Mother is willing, mother won't give up to breastfeed children. Mother feels proud and happy when mother's child is full and happy while enjoying mother's milk..
Where are mothers who breastfeed children?
May we continue to be istiqomah, be patient in having beautiful days in the world of nursing. ❤️❤️
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Massage her so that emotions can be restored.
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why you always lying 在 渡辺レベッカ ☆ Rebecca Butler Watanabe Youtube 的評價
English cover of "Eine Kleine" by Japanese singer-songwriter Kenshi Yonezu. The title means "A little..." in German. I think the title was taken from Mozart's "Eine kleine Nachtmusic" ("A Little Serenade").
The lyrics were a bit cryptic in places, so hopefully I got the right idea :D The theme seems to be a girl* with low self confidence who finds someone to love, but is constantly worried that it won't last.
*Although the original artist is a male, he sings from a female's
perspective.
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今日は米津玄師(よねづけんし)の「アイネクライネ」を英語で歌ってみました。
所々分かりづらい歌詞があったのですが、全般の意味を把握して訳せたと思います!あくまでも私の解釈です('◇')ゞ
Enjoy♪
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曲情報 / SONG INFO
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米津玄師 / アイネクライネ
Kenshi Yonezu / Eine Kleine (A Little)
Released 2014
Music/Lyrics: Kenshi Yonezu
English Lyrics: Rebecca Butler Watanabe
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リンク / LINKS
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■HP⇒ http://BlueEyedUtaUtai.jimdo.com
■Facebook⇒ http://facebook.com/blueeyedutautai
■Twitter⇒ @BlueEyedUtaUtai
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歌詞/LYRICS
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The day that you and I first met
Brought happiness I won’t forget
But all along I’ve had a sorrow inside
I’ve learned to take for granted
These feelings of contentment are so strong I’m filled with pain
They lay seeds of an imminent goodbye surely coming any day
And if my living means I take away
Someone else’s only special place
Then I would rather be the gravel upon the ground
And walked on any day
‘Cause then there would be no misunderstandings and no doubt
No, you wouldn’t know we well enough to pick me out of the crowd
How I wish you had a clue of everything I feel for you
How my heart is flying
But I have a secret I can’t tell anyone alive
So I always end up lying
If you only knew the truth that’s deep inside of me
You’d know I’m more cowardly than you could ever see
So why, oh why, oh why…
Even through the pain lingering and rips in the seams
When you are here beside me
I can smile and laugh them away, and say it’s okay
Oh, what a gift you gave me
It’s like everything in my view is fading but you
‘Til you are all that I see
You gave me that miracle and left me wanting more
You called out my name and nothing’s like it was before
Well if it meant you wouldn’t pay the cost
Wouldn't lose your place and wander lost
Then I would gladly sacrifice someone else
Instead of you without a thought
And time and time again, we’re bound to smile as we pretend
We’re blind to the future, living a lie so small but certain
It doesn’t matter how I pray, or how I vow
Every night I’m haunted by the same dream
Where a little twist will come, swallow you and leave me numb
Taking you so far away from me
If you only knew the truth that’s deep inside of me
You’d know that I’m more spineless than you could ever see
So why, oh why, oh why…
Darling, please, tell me we can stay forever this way
Two hands entwined with our love
As we cross uncrossable nights, into the daylight
Where you will go, I’ll follow
And I wonder how I can shine into your closed eyes
All colors of the rainbow
I don’t know if I will be enough for you to stay
But, darling, I hope you don’t mind if I call your name
From the moment I was born, I never felt that I belonged
Screaming, "Let me disappear!" - ‘cause everything felt so wrong
Ever since then I’d been searching for somewhere all along
I could someday be free, and I found you finally
消えない悲しみも綻びも あなたといれば
kienai kanashimi mo hokorobi mo anata to ireba
それでよかったねと笑えるのがどんなに嬉れしいか
sore de yokatta ne to waraeru no ga donna ni ureshii ka
目の前の全てがぼやけては溶けてゆくような
me no mae no subete ga boyakete wa tokete yuku you na
奇跡であふれて足りないや
kiseki de afurete tarinai ya
あたしの名前を呼んでくれた
atashi no namae wo yonde kureta
あなたの名前を呼んでいいかな
anata no namae wo yonde ii kana
why you always lying 在 Lesley Chiang Official Youtube 的評價
This was my Goodbye Letter.
In 2013, I was on my balcony, writing this song. This was before I realised the severity of my depression.
I decided to release this original English version today, not for only mental health and suicide awareness, but also as an act of reaching my hand out to anyone who’s been there, or is struggling now. I felt really alone that night, and I don’t want anyone else to ever feel that way.
You are never alone. There is always hope, always a guarantee that life will get better. I know I say this a lot, but I truly am living proof that happiness is possible after such darkness.
This song is very heavy, and in all honesty, I’m pretty darn scared to share it with you all. Because it’s just too personal.
But I made a commitment a few years ago to share my story in order to help others, and I’ll continue to proudly be a part of this movement. We must talk openly about these things, in order to change the stigma around it.
It is okay not to be okay. It is okay to be struggling.
We’ll get there. Life is oh so beautiful. I promise you!
PS
“3 years later I am here today…”
The end of this song was recorded 3 years after my darkest night (it still took me a while to be ready to share this with everyone), and I am so happy to say NOW? 6 years later! I am STILL here today!!
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Tonight
Composed by Lesley Chiang / Yu
Lyrics by Lesley Chiang
Produced by Team One Sound / Lesley Chiang
Starting to really think
That I am really sick
I’m unhappy everyday
And the only thing that will really make me feel okay
Is if I just keep on lying
“Everything is fine.”
And you are still my man
Don’t ever want nobody to know that our love has ended
I do not know how I have sank so low and
I cannot let go
I’m incomplete
I feel like it is time
As If I had just died
This pain goes on
So endlessly
I have lost my mind
Pathetic little piece of shit
Not even strong enough to face this
I know my place this time
I’m just your fan, a nobody
I won’t stand in your way
Say goodbye tonight
I’m leaving tonight
Our story ends tonight
Tell me, where did I go?
It’s like I’ve lost my soul
I can’t feel the love no more
Is there even a reason why I should keep living on?
So much time has gone
And I still can’t move on
Would it even be a threat
If I say to you that I really just might go and end it?
I should mean more to you
I was right there for you
I still think our break was incomplete
I will give you more time
I’ll reflect and rewind
I will love you endlessly
I have lost my mind
Pathetic little piece of shit
Not even strong enough to face this
I know my place this time
I’m just your fan, a nobody
I won’t stand in your way
Say goodbye tonight
I’m leaving tonight
Our story…
It’s my one last try
To make things alright
My heartbreak ends tonight
3 years later I am here today
Can I just say that
I am still alive
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If you or someone you know needs help, you can call the Suicide Prevention Services 生命熱線 at 2382 2007.
why you always lying 在 Dũng Đồ Chơi. Youtube 的評價
THE SHEPERD BOY - Xe Ô Tô Tải Đi Xúc Đất Bị Ngã Xuống Ao - Đồ chơi trẻ em có nội dung: Ô tô tải đi xúc cát và chở cát để các xe khác xây nhà. Trên đường đi, không may ô tô tải bị ngã xuống ao nước và bị kẹt không tự đi lên được. Các xe cần cẩu, xe nâng, xe xúc chờ xe tải lâu quá liền đi tìm. Khi tìm thấy thì xe cẩu đã dùng cần cẩu để kéo xe tải lên. Sau đó các xe tiếp tục làm nhiệm vụ. Video về đồ chơi rất hay cho các bé xem. #dungdochoi
Lời Bài Hát The Shepherd Boy:
On a green pasture, there’s a shepherd boy.
Only him and the sheep, so the boy got bored.
He thought of lying, to amuse himself.
Ran toward village, “Wolf! Wolf!” the boy yelled.
Oh shepherd boy. Oh shepherd boy.
Why did you tell lies?
Oh shepherd boy. Oh shepherd boy.
Lying is not fine.
The villagers came, but there was no wolfs.
Came to help the boy, but they got laughed at.
A few days later, it happened again.
“Wolf! Wolf!” The boy shouted, and villagers came.
Oh shepherd boy. Oh shepherd boy.
Why did you tell lies?
Oh shepherd boy. Oh shepherd boy.
Lying is not fine.
Then one evening, the sun was setting.
Out of near forest, a real wolf did spring.
Running in terror,”Wolf. Wolf.” the boy cried.
But no one came ‘cause, they thought it’s a lie.
Oh shepherd boy. Oh shepherd boy.
Why did you tell lies?
Oh shepherd boy. Oh shepherd boy.
Lying is not fine.
The wolf ate many, many of the sheep.
Then slipped away, into the forest.
That day the boy learnt, “If you keep lying,
No one will believe, the truth you’re telling.”
Oh shepherd boy. Oh shepherd boy.
Whatever you do.
Oh shepherd boy. Oh shepherd boy.
Always speak the truth.
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