【51歲了,看八字還有用嗎?】
At Age 51, Is Bazi Analysis Still Relevant?
曾經有人問過我類似以上的問題。
我的答案是:人生已過了一半。如果目前沒有您無法解決的難題,對於未來您也沒有什麼想要實現的夢想,不需要指導,那倒不如好好學佛,消業增福,為將來百年歸去時做好準備。
畢竟,無常和明天,不知哪個先到。
提供見證的女客人,年過半百,面對好些家庭問題。我們在今年二月過年前見面。
其中,讓她最頭痛的是與兒子之間的關係。兒子與她說話時,很容易不耐煩,也不聽她的勸告和教導,不像以前會聽完她講整句話。
許多母親遇到這樣的問題,會問我怎樣改善孩子的態度。
我的答案都是:先改變自己。
去改變任何人是很累的事情,也容易吃力不討好。在他的眼裡,會覺得你在逼他。可是,當你能夠改變自己的時候,你身上的磁場會隨之起變化。
人與人之間,喜歡和不喜歡,合與不合,說明了,就是五行的遊戲,磁場碰觸而產生的「火花」。
你的磁場與孩子的磁場不合,源自於你們八字的不合。
想擁有更好的親子關係,玄學上,可採取三種方法:改名、批命,和/或調居家風水。
個人磁場往正確的方向改進,你會發現很多本來不行的事情,突然就通了,不合的人,摩擦也減少了。
當然,如果兩人都願意改變,那就事半功倍了。
女客人說,孩子現在還會跟她開玩笑了。
我指點這位女客人,因為她八字所需,應該常去捐血。她說,2018年體檢報告顯示她有貧血。
可是,這八字不應該有貧血問題的。
我認為是她之前用錯五行,飲食習慣出了岔子。
她見了我後,照著我的話做了一個月,三月時,去做體檢。報告顯示一切正常,她可以捐血。
一個藥,不見得就能醫好所有的人,因為每個人的體質不一樣。一般人會以為喝紅棗茶能補血,所以有這方面的問題,就該多喝。
但在玄學上,這可不一定。對症下藥,在這裡就是要看客人八字而定。
年紀越大的客人,往往越固執,不容易改變自己的看法和作風。有些也因為以前已給不同的師父看過幾次命,更會固執己見。
這位女客人做得到,也真是命不該絕啊!哈~
偶爾,我會遇到客人,在諮詢時詢問關於他們父母的健康。
坦白說,與其東敲西打,如果父母願意,那你倒不如大方點出錢幫自己的父母看命。
真要改善父母的生活,我無法三言兩語就能交代清楚。這樣未免太敷衍你了,可我也不能只收看一個八字的收費卻變成看三個人呀~
客人便會問,孩子與父母,應該先看誰的八字?
一定是父母為先,因為沒有父母就不會有我們。
他們在人間的時間,隨著每一個生日,已逐漸減少。
百善孝為先,這點不要等到母親節才記得。
你真有善功德時,又何愁孩子不受教不成才呢?
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Someone once asked me the question above.
My answer: You have lived half your life. If there is no insurmountable issue at the present and you have no further ambition for the later years, it would be wise to focus on the Dharma diligently to eradicate your karma and prepare for your eventual passing.
After all, you cannot tell which will come first, tomorrow or death.
The female client who provided this testimonial is past 50 years of age and faced plenty family issues. The one which pained her the most is her relationship with her son. Her son is impatient when talking to her and does not heed her advice and teachings, unlike in the past when he would at least hear her finish her sentence.
Many mothers who faced the same dilemma would ask me for ways to improve the attitude of their children.
My answer to them all: Change yourself first.
To change another person is a tiring chore and often goes unappreciated. In the eyes of the other person, he would feel that you are forcing him. But when you can change yourself, the energy fields of your body will start to transform.
The dynamics in a relationship, simply put, is a game of the five elements and the chemistry reaction that arise when two energy fields come together.
The incompatibility in energy fields between you and your child stems from both of your Bazi.
From the Chinese Metaphysics viewpoint, there are three ways to improve the parent-child relationship: Change of the Chinese name, Bazi Analysis and/or alter the Feng Shui of your house.
As you change your own energy field in the positive direction, new paths will open up for problems seemingly hard to resolve and conflicts lessen with people whom you could not get along with.
Of course things would improve doubly quick if both parties are willing to change.
The female client told me that her child could even joke with her now.
I advised her, based on her Bazi, to donate blood regularly. She said a health examination in 2018 revealed that she was anaemic. But this Bazi should not have such a condition. I believe that was due to her using the wrong elements as well as her dietary habits.
She followed my advice for a month, and a health check in March showed that all was well and that she could donate blood.
One type of medicine does not necessarily work for everyone as all of us have different disposition. Most people would assume that drinking red dates tea improves anaemia.
But from the perspective of Chinese Metaphysics, this may not work well. The best cure is the one that is customized to the client’s Bazi.
Older clients tend to be more resistant and stubborn to change. Some clung onto their views so tightly due to their many Bazi analysis with different masters.
This client of mine managed to break the resistance to change. This shows that there’s still hope!
Sometimes I would get questions from clients during Bazi consultation asking about their parents’ health.
Honestly, rather than asking bits and pieces, be generous (if you can afford) and pay to have their Bazi read. I am unable to offer real improvements to your parents’ lives with sparse advice here and there. That would be trying to pull a fast one on you but I can’t be analysing 3 Bazi when you only paid for one.
The client will then ask who should be their priority for Bazi analysis: their child or their parents?
Parents. No two-way about this. Where would you be without them?
Their time in this world is dwindling as each birthday passes.
Filial piety is the foremost of all virtues. Don’t remember this only on Mother’s Day.
If you truly can garner merits from your filial piety virtues, why worry that your child will be disobedient and unable to make the mark?
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⛔ LUYỆN READING NÀO ⛔
THE IMPORTANCE OF CHILDREN'S PLAY
Brick by brick, six-year-old Alice is building a magical kingdom. Imagining fairy-tale turrets and fire-breathing dragons, wicked witches and gallant heroes, she's creating an enchanting world. Although she isn't aware of it, this fantasy is helping her take her first steps towards her capacity for creativity and so it will have important repercussions in her adult life.
Minutes later, Alice has abandoned the kingdom in favour of playing schools with her younger brother. When she bosses him around as his 'teacher', she's practising how to regulate her emotions through pretence. Later on, when they tire of this and settle down with a board game, she's learning about the need to follow rules and take turns with a partner.
'Play in all its rich variety is one of the highest achievements of the human species,' says Dr David Whitebread from the Faculty of Education at the University of Cambridge, UK. 'It underpins how we develop as intellectual, problem-solving adults and is crucial to our success as a highly adaptable species.'
Recognising the importance of play is not new: over two millennia ago, the Greek philosopher Plato extolled its virtues as a means of developing skills for adult life, and ideas about play-based learning have been developing since the 19th century.
But we live in changing times, and Whitebread is mindful of a worldwide decline in play, pointing out that over half the people in the world now live in cities. 'The opportunities for free play, which I experienced almost every day of my childhood, are becoming increasingly scarce,' he says. Outdoor play is curtailed by perceptions of risk to do with traffic, as well as parents' increased wish to protect their children from being the victims of crime, and by the emphasis on 'earlier is better' which is leading to greater competition in academic learning and schools.
International bodies like the United Nations and the European Union have begun to develop policies concerned with children's right to play, and to consider implications for leisure facilities and educational programmes. But what they often lack is the evidence to base policies on.
'The type of play we are interested in is child-initiated, spontaneous and unpredictable- but, as soon as you ask a five-year-old "to play", then you as the researcher have intervened,' explains Dr Sara Baker. 'And we want to know what the long-term impact of play is. It's a real challenge.'
Dr Jenny Gibson agrees, pointing out that although some of the steps in the puzzle of how and why play is important have been looked at, there is very little data on the impact it has on the child's later life.
Now, thanks to the university's new Centre for Research on Play in Education, Development and Learning (PEDAL), Whitebread, Baker, Gibson and a team of researchers hope to provide evidence on the role played by play in how a child develops.
'A strong possibility is that play supports the early development of children's self-control,' explains Baker. 'This is our ability to develop awareness of our own thinking processes - it influences how effectively we go about undertaking challenging activities.'
In a study carried out by Baker with toddlers and young pre-schoolers, she found that children with greater self-control solved problems more quickly when exploring an unfamiliar set-up requiring scientific reasoning. 'This sort of evidence makes us think that giving children the chance to play will make them more successful problem-solvers in the long run.'
If playful experiences do facilitate this aspect of development, say the researchers, it could be extremely significant for educational practices, because the ability to self-regulate has been shown to be a key predictor of academic performance.
Gibson adds: 'Playful behaviour is also an important indicator of healthy social and emotional development. In my previous research, I investigated how observing children at play can�give us important clues about their well-being and can even be useful in the diagnosis of neurodevelopmental disorders like autism.'
Whitebread's recent research has involved developing a play-based approach to supporting children's writing. 'Many primary school children find writing difficult, but we showed in a previous study that a playful stimulus was far more effective than an instructional one.' Children wrote longer and better-structured stories when they first played with dolls representing characters in the story. In the latest study, children first created their story with Lego*, with similar results. 'Many teachers commented that they had always previously had children saying they didn't know what to write about. With the Lego building, however, not a single child said this through the whole year of the project.'
Whitebread, who directs PEDAL, trained as a primary school teacher in the early 1970s, when, as he describes, 'the teaching of young children was largely a quiet backwater, untroubled by any serious intellectual debate or controversy.' Now, the landscape is very different, with hotly debated topics such as school starting age.
'Somehow the importance of play has been lost in recent decades. It's regarded as something trivial, or even as something negative that contrasts with "work". Let's not lose sight of its benefits, and the fundamental contributions it makes to human achievements in the arts, sciences and technology. Let's make sure children have a rich diet of play experiences.'
⛔ CÂU HỎI:
Do the following statements agree with the information given in Reading Passage 1?
In boxes 9-13 on your answer sheet, write
TRUE if the statement agrees with the information
FALSE if the statement contradicts the information
NOT GIVEN if there is no information on this
1. Children with good self-control are known to be likely to do well at school later on.
2. The way a child plays may provide information about possible medical problems.
3. Playing with dolls was found to benefit girls’ writing more than boys’ writing.
4. Children had problems thinking up ideas when they first created the story with Lego.
5. People nowadays regard children’s play as less significant than they did in the past.
(Trích Cam 14)
⛔ HIGHLIGHT TỪ VỰNG
Possibility (n): Khả năng
Self-control (n): Tự kiểm soát
Toddler (n): Trẻ mới biết đi
Pre-schooler (n): Trẻ nhỏ tuổi
Unfamiliar (adj): Không quen thuộc
Facilitate (v): Tạo điều kiện cho
Diagnosis (n): Chẩn đoán
Autism (n): Tự kỷ
Approach (n): Phương pháp
Stimulus (n): Sự kích thích
Serious (adj): Nghiêm túc
Debate (v): Tranh luận
Trivial (adj): Tầm thường
Fundamental (adj): Cơ bản
Contribution (n): Sự đóng góp
Các bạn làm đề nhé, cô chia sẻ đáp án dưới cmt nha!
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【棋盤為地子為天:人生的棋局 #1】
Your Life as A Game of Chess
佛教講因果業報,八字命理講用神喜神忌神。
前世種什麼因,這一世就結怎麼樣的果,一切的㊙️密都隱藏在您的八字、面相和身相中。
人有善報時,如事業大旺、家庭和諧、身心健康、心情愉快等,身邊必有諸多喜用神,為您助運。
人遇惡報時,如事業不振、家庭破裂、身得重病、心靈受困等,必有許多忌神圍攻著您,給您來個「將軍」,把您的人生棋局封鎖在焦慮和絕望中。
在八字命理中,知命補運,簡單的說,就是學會怎樣善用自己的喜用神,及如何避開自己的忌神,達到趨吉避凶的效果。
這位俊傑先生是我在五月尾時,見的一位美國客人。美國應該是我做Zoom諮詢最頻密的西方國家。
很多客人對自己的事業選擇,往往離不開哪一行能賺錢,就往哪一行去。但A先生能從這一行賺的錢,不代表B先生也能賺得到,因為兩人的八字需要的五行完全不一樣,所以千萬不要依樣畫葫蘆。
俊傑先生是一個對自己事業,很有個人想法的男士。在視訊中,我說了許多他八字的實相給他聽,也告訴他什麼可做,什麼不可做,並解釋為何如此。
五個月後,收到他這封感謝函,看到他做出明智的抉擇,我也意外,畢竟他很有主見,不是一個輕易改變的人。😄
在此,感謝俊傑先生以自己的經驗,鼓勵著對自己人生舉棋不定的讀者們。
常有人問,如何能改命?
答案很簡單:就是要用智慧。
您要先有這個智慧,意識到命可以改。
再去認出誰是真正可以引導你的軍師,進而做出明智的決定,反敗為勝。
感情用事,只會原地打轉,崩潰大哭。
理智的處理問題,才能把命運的死結,一結一結的解開。
人生猶如一場棋局,鬥智鬥勇鬥心力。
您是下棋人。
而我就是那個獻策的人。
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Buddhism speaks of karma and the Law of Cause and Effect. In the Chinese Metaphysics art of Bazi, we talk about the favorable and unfavorable elements.
The seeds you sowed in previous lives will bear fruits this lifetime. These intricacies are encoded in your Bazi, facial and bodily features.
When a person is enjoying the fruits of virtues, such as success in his career, harmony in his family, crescendo in his health, positivity in his emotions, etc, he is bound to be surrounded by his favorable elements support his ascending fortunes.
On the contrary, when one is reaping the fruits of his non-virtues, misfortunes abound such as a flagging career, broken family, ailing body, tormenting emotions, etc, he is held captive by his unfavorable elements. Like in a game of Chinese chess he is destined to lose, a check-mate will eventually push him into a trap of anxiety and hopelessness.
In the art of Bazi, we seek to understand our destiny to plug the holes of misfortunes. Simply put, it is learning how to make use of our favorable elements as well as how to evade the unfavorable ones. In this way, we ride the waves of good fortune and avoid the rogue waves of misfortunes.
Mr Jun Jie is a client from the USA whom I saw during the end of May. USA is the western country which I had the most clients for my Zoom consultations.
Many of my clients inevitably choose their career path based on dollars and cents. But the high-paying career of Mr. A may not yield the same rewards for Mr B because their Bazi are different. Therefore, please do not follow another blindly.
Mr Jun Jie is one who has a strong opinion about his own career choice. During the Zoom session, I told him many truths of his Bazi, and advised him what he can and cannot do, with my explanation.
Five months on, I received a thank-you email from him. I learnt, with much surprise, that he had made a wise choice. After all, he is an opinionated person and definitely not someone who changes his mind easily. 😄
At this juncture, I would like to thank Mr Jun Jie for sharing his experience to encourage those who might be facing uncertainties in their own game of life.
A common question I get: How do we transform our destiny?
My simple answer: Wisdom.
You must first possess the wisdom and awareness that your destiny is not set in stone. Then, you seek out the real military adviser, who can help you make decisive moves to save yourself from certain defeats and emerge victorious in life.
Life is like a game of chess. Victory is often achieved with wisdom, guts and perseverance.
You are the chess player, and I am your strategist.
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最近又玩到一個讓人能睡不覺的小黃遊
VIRTUES 大陸好像翻成"美德"
主要說你是個超有錢的富二代,但爸爸被調查錢被凍結,上課之餘
只能靠打工自立更生,同時租房子給各路美女進駐
出現的人物種類很多
如熟女阿姨 COSPLAYER 幼女 霸道女上司 運動健將 東方美女...等
優點是
故事內容算不少,要升到某個好感度後才會上床,但好感度提升也不難
但不是一見面就上床的那種(除了第一個見面的大美女XDDD)
中間會有不少誘惑橋段 讓持續投入的感覺不會無趣
3D 東方畫風,但多數歐美人的身材 建模非常細緻好看
地圖算是看過最精緻的 人物外觀也是看過最有水準
非常多動畫 很實用
推薦給對歐美小黃遊有興趣的各位
補幾張圖3d
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好像還沒完,但大部份角色都有實用情節了
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