這篇文章精闢描繪了現今台北市政府乃至於整個台灣對表演藝術的態度,卡勒看了既氣憤又無奈,在此翻譯分享給各位粉絲。希望我們都能盡微薄之力,慢慢改變台灣對藝術的看法。只有當我們能夠尊重一項專業時,它才能蓬勃發展,讓台灣發光。
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〈今天在公共場合發飆了〉
譯/卡勒
這是我第一次當眾情緒失控,氣到不行。
今天本來過得開開心心的,想說去參觀一下台北市街頭藝人考試,應該會更加愉快。到了國父紀念館,看見表演者都在各自的表演區準備就緒,感覺滿不錯的。直到我看到評審團的主審如何對待那些表演者,我就再也無法閉口不語。
我先說明一下這個考試:每位表演者都必須報名繳費,才能參加街頭藝人證照考試。他們有三分鐘的表演時間,希望能藉此獲得證照,就能靠自己的興趣來賺點小錢。但這位帶隊的評審(如照片所示)似乎很沒耐心。還不到一分鐘,他就硬生生打斷一個歌手的表演,說:「很多人都會唱不同語言的歌捏,像是英文歌啊什麼的。你唱一首來聽聽!」於是這個歌手開始唱台語歌。但才唱沒兩句,那位主審就和旁邊的評審交頭接耳,根本沒注意聽,接著他直接轉身離開,揮手示意其他評審跟上。
那個歌手根本唱不到一分半的時間(說好的三分鐘呢,不但沒有,還一直被這個評審打斷)。要記得:這個評審可是有領薪水的,是這些滿懷希望的表演者付錢請他來這邊看他們一展長才的。他基本上一再用同樣態度對待每個表演者,默視他們的用心與努力。連一句感謝的話也沒有說。他一副自己是大老闆的樣子,高高在上,俯視這些可悲的表演者。想聊天就聊天,想離開就離開,一聲「謝謝」、一個讚賞的手勢都沒有。一個鼓手在表演的時候一直被他打斷,說要「換點別的」。換了三次,他就頭也不回的走了。其他評審只是跟在他後頭,什麼也沒說。
於是,我走向前去,彬彬有禮的詢問他的大名和名片,告訴他希望未來能私下跟他一對一聊聊。他出言不遜,問我是什麼人。我能看出在他眼中,我這個年輕人不過就是個區區大學生。但我不是。我是個四十歲的舞蹈家、製片人,還是指導過全球各大名校與藝術節的教育家。
他不想給我他的名片。他似乎不太爽,而且很驚訝竟然有人會出聲。於是我說我可以留下自己的聯絡資訊,但我們需要好好討論一下剛剛的考核情形。
今天台北市政府審核表演者的方式,不僅不尊重,而且還嚴重侮辱了整個表演藝術圈。我不想把話說那麼白,但他讓我別無選擇。
我告訴他:第一,他對表演者的態度很不尊重。身為一個教育家,看到這種狀況,我是沒辦法保持緘默的。第二,這樣的審核流程對表演藝術社群很不公平。如果他不能把表演藝術者當作人看待,那他對藝術的看法又有何可取之處。我可以看出他氣炸了。但老話一句,他讓我別無選擇。他對待這些表演者的態度非常低劣。身為一個藝術家與藝術推動者,我必須有所行動。
承辦單位向我道歉,說考核必須繼續進行。我說我沒有要他們停下來的意思,只是想知道可以如何跟他們聯絡,討論這件事。跟我熟識的人,就會知道我是什麼個性。我這個人隨遇而安,幾乎不在公共場合發脾氣。但我今天所目睹的,對所有的表演藝術者來說都是天大的侮辱與蔑視。
這位高傲的評審完全不在乎我的意見。從他的眼神看得出來。基本上,他就是他自己所處世界的主宰,他說一,沒有人能說二。那就是他一貫的作風。在場的所有年輕員工都怕他。他今天表現這麼輕慢、無理、高傲,我真的很想知道他為什麼要這樣。
事後有幾個人走過來,感謝我勇於出聲抗議。他們其實也覺得很不滿,卻沒有勇氣對那個評審、或是對核發證照的單位表達意見。一名來自新北市的承辦人員說,看到表演者被如此對待,就連她自己也感到很不好受。
我不明白為什麼大家不站出來聲援彼此。台北市政府辜負了自己的市民,更是辜負了自己的表演藝術社群。
作為一個理應提倡藝術、文化與誠信的政府單位,他們今日的表現可說是慘不忍睹。這就像是叫貓、狗、鳥、猴來參加考試,然後告訴牠們考試內容是爬樹一樣。荒謬至極。
我留下聯絡資訊,他們說之後會跟我聯繫。如果他們沒這麼做,這就會成為我下一部製片計畫的主題,肯定很有意思。就拍一部紀錄片吧,拍攝一群滿懷希望與抱負的表演者受到何等對待的紀實。
我很抓狂,我很氣憤。真心希望他們能改變這般膚淺看待藝術的方式。
謝謝大家關注這個議題,我剛剛把評審的照片拿掉了,原因是我希望大家不要將這位評審當成壞人,而也我們把焦點專注在這個事件上,而不是人身上,我們才能真正長期的改善這個問題.因為我不會中文,所以我會和我的夥伴們一起再產出一篇更詳盡完整的中文文章,屆時也煩請大家一同關注,讓台灣的藝術環境更好,最好也謝謝幫我翻譯以下文章的朋友,我非常訝異這篇造成的影響力,感謝你們!
I CAUSED A SCENE TODAY IN THE PUBLIC
Today I got very angry and upset for the first time in public in front of a crowd.
What started out as a nice day, I thought it would only get better by attending the street performance artist's exam in Taipei. Everything seemed nice when I saw the performers were all prepared in their provided locations around the Sun Yat Sen Memorial Hall. But after I saw the head of the judge panel treated the street performers while performing, I couldn't keep my mouth shut.
Let me explained: each performer had to pay to register for the license exam. They were given 3 minutes to present their work(s) hoping they'd get a lisence so they can earn some sort of living from their passion. This one particular judge (pictured) leading the group seems impatiently listen and watch the street performers. It barely hit the one minute mark, he aggressively cut into the song of a singer and told the performer "many singers sing in different languages like English etc, sing in another language!"(I paraphrased with my bad Chinese translation). Then the singer started singing in Taiwanese language. But barely two sentences, he talked to another judge barely paying attention to the performer this head judge basically just left and gestured to the rest of the group to follow him.
The singer sang barely a minute and a half (they were promised 3 mins and they kept being interrupted by this judge). Bare in mind, this judge is earning a wage while these hopeful performers were paying him to be there. He basically did the same thing over and over again disregarding the artist's intent and hard work. Not a single word of appreciation. He just acted as he was a big boss looking down on these petty performers. He chatted as he wished and walked away without saying a "thank you" or a gesture of acknowledgement. A percussionist kept being interrupted asking him to do something different. Then he just left after the third time. The rest of the judges just followed.
So, i approached him politely asking for his name and his business card. I told him I wanted to talk to him one on one in the future. Degradingly he asked me who I was. I could see in his eyes that he saw a young man who looked like a student to him. But I was not and am not. I am a 40 year old dance artist, filmmaker and educator that have taught around the globe and in many prestigious colleges and festivals.
He didn't want to give me his business card. He seemed annoyed and surprised that someone spoke up. So I said I can give him my contact info but we needed to talk on how the exam went.
The way Taipei city exams the performers today was both disrespectful and insulting to the arts community in general. I didn't want to say this all out. But he left me with no choice.
I told him, for one, the way he treated the performers was disrespectful. As an educator I could not be quiet when I see something like that. Second, the process of the exam is not doing the art community any justice. If he cannot see the artists as a human being first, then what does it say about his view on the Arts. I could see him pissed off. But again he left me with no choice. He was very degrading towards these performers. As an artist myself and an art advocate I had to do something.
The organizer apologized to me said the process needed to go on. I told him I wasn't trying to stop them. I merely want to know how I could get in touch with them to discuss this. If you know me well enough, you should know my temperament. I am a happy go lucky person. I almost never get angry in the public. But it was genuinely insulting and degrading to every artists based on what I saw today.
This arrogant judge didn't care of my opinion. I could see it in his eyes. He was basically the superior in his world and his way was the right way. That's how he had always done it. All the young staffers there were afraid of him. Today he was disrespectful, rude, and arrogant. I really want to know why he does what he does.
After the incident, a few people came up and thanked me for speaking up. They felt the same way but they didn't have the courage to say it to this judge or the organization that issues these licenses. One organizer from the New Taipei City said even she felt bad seeing how the performers being treated.
I don't understand why people don't stand up for each other. The Taipei City has failed their community and even more so to their arts community.
For an organization that is supposed to advocate for the arts, culture and authenticity, they did miserably today. It is like giving an exam to a dog, a cat, a bird and a monkey then telling them that their exam is climbing a tree. It's absolutely ridiculous.
I left them my contact information. They said they will contact me. If they don't, this could be an interesting subject for my next film project. A documentary on how these hopeful, aspiring performers being treated.
I am mad and I am angry. I really hope they will change their shallow way of seeing Arts.
P.S. Share or repost in Chinese. They need to change. Thanks.
台北國際藝術村-寶藏巖 Taipei Artist Village-Treasure Hill
Taipei National University of the Arts
臺北表演藝術中心 Taipei Performing Arts Center
National Theater and Concert Hall, Taipei
中正紀念堂 Chiang Kai-shek Memorial Hall
National Taiwan University of Arts
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我之前去考也是這樣
大概是考不上就特別記仇吧哈哈哈!
以下中譯....
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// 今日令我感到震驚的一幕 //
今天是我第一次在公眾場合、眾人面前表達我的憤怒與失望。
這一切開始於美好的一日,我以為這天只會因為參觀台北街頭藝術家徵選而更美好。當我看到所有的表演者們都在散佈於中正紀念堂各地的徵選位置準備時,一切都看起來完美極了。但在我看到評審團主席如何對待這些奮力演出的街頭表演者時,我無法對這一切保持沈默。
先讓我說明,每位表演者都必須支付報名費參加街頭藝人的徵選。徵選時他們獲得3分鐘的時間來呈現他們的表演,希望透過徵選獲得街頭藝人證,所以他們可以有機會透過他們熱愛的事物(表演)賺取收入。照片中的這位評審,帶領著一組看起來對觀看或聆聽街頭藝人的表演完全不耐煩的評審團。演出大約進行一分鐘時,他暫停了歌手的演唱,並對歌手說:許多歌手能唱不同語言的歌,像是英文,唱另一種語言!隨後歌手唱了一首台語歌,但大約唱了2句,他就和另一位評審交談,並不在意歌手的表現,這位評審團的主席就離開了,並招手要其他評審跟著他。
這位歌手只唱了不到一分半鐘(他們規定為3分鐘,而且這位評審中途不斷地打斷),請記得,這位評審的出席費是由這些充滿的期待的表演者們支付的,過程中他不斷的踐踏這些藝術家的熱情與努力。沒有任何一個正面的字眼,他的行為就像他是這裡的大老闆,高高在上的看著這些卑微的表演者們。他隨意地與他人閒談以及離場,從未有任何言語或動作上給予任何人肯定。一位擊樂演奏者的呈現被打斷,並被要求演奏不同的內容,第三次時他就離場了,而其他評審就跟著他這麼做。
所以,我禮貌的接近他,詢問他的姓名以及希望索取他的名片。我告訴他我希望未來能與他對談。他鄙視的問我是誰?他用看待一位學生的眼神看著我,但我並不是。我是一位已40歲,並曾於世界各地的大學與藝術節工作的的舞蹈、電影、和教育工作者。
他不想給我他的名片,他看起來很不耐且驚訝有人對此表達意見。所以我說我可以給他我的聯絡資訊,但我們必須對徵選方式做討論。
今天台北市徵選街頭表演者的方式是對整體的藝術工作者與環境的不尊重與侮辱,我不想否定這一切,但他讓我無從選擇。
我和他說,第一點,他對待表演者的方式過於失禮。身為一位教育者,我無法對我所見的保持沈默。
第二點,評選的流程對藝術領域來說並不公正,若他不能尊重藝術家,那他對藝術的觀點又是什麼?我可以看出他對我的發言嗤之以鼻。但他的行為使我無從選擇。他嚴重踐踏這些表演者,我自己身為藝術家與藝術支持者,我必須要做點什麼。
承辦人對我表示道歉,並說程序必須要繼續下去。我和他說我並沒有意思要停止他們,我僅不過是想知道我該怎麼與他們取得聯繫,討論這件事情。如果你對我有足夠的了解,會知道我的個性,我是一個隨遇而安,很好相處的人。我幾乎未曾在公眾場合發過脾氣。但今日他們對在場所有藝術家做的一切,是真正的污辱與踐踏。
我可以從這位傲慢的評審眼裡看得出,他並不在意我的意見。他認為他是權威,而且他的做法是對的,他也總是這麼做。所有的年輕職員總是畏懼他。今天他的無禮、粗暴、傲慢,使我非常想了解他為何這麼做。
事後,幾個人前來感謝我站出來發聲,表示他們也有同感但沒有勇氣對評審、主辦單位反應這些評議、授權機制的問題。其中一位新北市政府承辦人說,她也對藝術家被對待的方式感到難過。
我不懂為什麼人們不為彼此挺身而出。台北市的社會已經失去它的功能,在藝術領域更是嚴重。
身為一個理應支持與保護藝術的機構,不論在文化或專業上,今天他們都完全失格。這一切看起來像是一個考一條狗、一隻貓、一隻鳥和一尾魚去爬樹一樣的荒謬。
我留給了他們我的聯絡資訊,他們說他們會聯絡我,如果他們沒這麼做,這可以是我下一部電影的標題《一部關於那些帶著希望與期待的表演者被如何對待的紀錄片》。
我非常的憤怒,我真的希望能夠改變他們對藝術膚淺的觀點。
翻譯William Lu文章
中文翻譯來自 黃翊
https://www.facebook.com/huangyimoving/posts/1727036437312305
謝謝大家關注這個議題,我剛剛把評審的照片拿掉了,原因是我希望大家不要將這位評審當成壞人,而也我們把焦點專注在這個事件上,而不是人身上,我們才能真正長期的改善這個問題.因為我不會中文,所以我會和我的夥伴們一起再產出一篇更詳盡完整的中文文章,屆時也煩請大家一同關注,讓台灣的藝術環境更好,最好也謝謝幫我翻譯以下文章的朋友,我非常訝異這篇造成的影響力,感謝你們!
I CAUSED A SCENE TODAY IN THE PUBLIC
Today I got very angry and upset for the first time in public in front of a crowd.
What started out as a nice day, I thought it would only get better by attending the street performance artist's exam in Taipei. Everything seemed nice when I saw the performers were all prepared in their provided locations around the Sun Yat Sen Memorial Hall. But after I saw the head of the judge panel treated the street performers while performing, I couldn't keep my mouth shut.
Let me explained: each performer had to pay to register for the license exam. They were given 3 minutes to present their work(s) hoping they'd get a lisence so they can earn some sort of living from their passion. This one particular judge (pictured) leading the group seems impatiently listen and watch the street performers. It barely hit the one minute mark, he aggressively cut into the song of a singer and told the performer "many singers sing in different languages like English etc, sing in another language!"(I paraphrased with my bad Chinese translation). Then the singer started singing in Taiwanese language. But barely two sentences, he talked to another judge barely paying attention to the performer this head judge basically just left and gestured to the rest of the group to follow him.
The singer sang barely a minute and a half (they were promised 3 mins and they kept being interrupted by this judge). Bare in mind, this judge is earning a wage while these hopeful performers were paying him to be there. He basically did the same thing over and over again disregarding the artist's intent and hard work. Not a single word of appreciation. He just acted as he was a big boss looking down on these petty performers. He chatted as he wished and walked away without saying a "thank you" or a gesture of acknowledgement. A percussionist kept being interrupted asking him to do something different. Then he just left after the third time. The rest of the judges just followed.
So, i approached him politely asking for his name and his business card. I told him I wanted to talk to him one on one in the future. Degradingly he asked me who I was. I could see in his eyes that he saw a young man who looked like a student to him. But I was not and am not. I am a 40 year old dance artist, filmmaker and educator that have taught around the globe and in many prestigious colleges and festivals.
He didn't want to give me his business card. He seemed annoyed and surprised that someone spoke up. So I said I can give him my contact info but we needed to talk on how the exam went.
The way Taipei city exams the performers today was both disrespectful and insulting to the arts community in general. I didn't want to say this all out. But he left me with no choice.
I told him, for one, the way he treated the performers was disrespectful. As an educator I could not be quiet when I see something like that. Second, the process of the exam is not doing the art community any justice. If he cannot see the artists as a human being first, then what does it say about his view on the Arts. I could see him pissed off. But again he left me with no choice. He was very degrading towards these performers. As an artist myself and an art advocate I had to do something.
The organizer apologized to me said the process needed to go on. I told him I wasn't trying to stop them. I merely want to know how I could get in touch with them to discuss this. If you know me well enough, you should know my temperament. I am a happy go lucky person. I almost never get angry in the public. But it was genuinely insulting and degrading to every artists based on what I saw today.
This arrogant judge didn't care of my opinion. I could see it in his eyes. He was basically the superior in his world and his way was the right way. That's how he had always done it. All the young staffers there were afraid of him. Today he was disrespectful, rude, and arrogant. I really want to know why he does what he does.
After the incident, a few people came up and thanked me for speaking up. They felt the same way but they didn't have the courage to say it to this judge or the organization that issues these licenses. One organizer from the New Taipei City said even she felt bad seeing how the performers being treated.
I don't understand why people don't stand up for each other. The Taipei City has failed their community and even more so to their arts community.
For an organization that is supposed to advocate for the arts, culture and authenticity, they did miserably today. It is like giving an exam to a dog, a cat, a bird and a monkey then telling them that their exam is climbing a tree. It's absolutely ridiculous.
I left them my contact information. They said they will contact me. If they don't, this could be an interesting subject for my next film project. A documentary on how these hopeful, aspiring performers being treated.
I am mad and I am angry. I really hope they will change their shallow way of seeing Arts.
P.S. Share or repost in Chinese. They need to change. Thanks.
台北國際藝術村-寶藏巖 Taipei Artist Village-Treasure Hill
Taipei National University of the Arts
臺北表演藝術中心 Taipei Performing Arts Center
National Theater and Concert Hall, Taipei
中正紀念堂 Chiang Kai-shek Memorial Hall
National Taiwan University of Arts
today is another day 意思 在 玳瑚師父 Master Dai Hu Facebook 八卦
【玳瑚師父隨筆碌】 《人比鬼更可怕》
Humans are More Frightening than Ghosts (English version below)
去年吾有寫過一篇有關農曆七月「鬼節」的文章。雖然「鬼節」剛過,我依然在此為你妳們介紹人與鬼“爲人不知”的一面。
在近半百的人生歲月裏,吾所接觸過的人,其數之多實不在話下。而吾的工作也必須接見很多很多人。因此,對於人的「人性」,有吾最真實的認知。。坦白說,吾是較怕人多過於鬼。蓋人的性格,並不鮮明。幫了他她之後,不求他她的回報,但求他她不會反回頭咬吾就好。相信吾這樣的説法,在在都有共鳴。
這裡就披露幾則發生在吾及吾衆多客人身上的真實事情,讓你妳們參考,人的「人性」,何為不鮮明。有位弟子的父親,爲了要讓其子國外攻讀碩士學位,毅然將賣屋的錢,圓其兒子的「夢」。這兒子的「夢」是圓了,可是至今仍然沒有感恩的心、盡孝父母、回饋社會,反而還跟父親慪氣、冷戰,甚至自私自利地不管父母弟妹的未來生死問題。養兒防老,看來是養兒煩惱啊!哀哉其父。記得最初見這位弟子時,着實有點驚嚇。因其臉相有如「惡人谷」出來的。但吾依然收他為徒,希望他能夠認真學佛,清除累世的業障及現世心中的垃圾。吾的天真卻忘了「相由心生」這句話。後來他果然常犯戒,更嚴重的是,他既然不把戒律放在眼裏 ,一錯再錯,如今罪如山、過如海,再不速速懺悔重新受戒,恐怕悔時已晚。
另有一學生,也是碩士生。雖有碩士學位,可是卻失業,也找不到就業機會。吾知道後,馬上二話不説的,親自出馬運用玄學的力量,為他謀得現今這份高職,並且授予他真實的佛法與基本玄學,好讓他從中體悟人生實相、生命實相以及福份次第的種種。至今他每次來上課,都會有新的怨言及新的欲望。(感恩的人,不會有怨言。)吾想,他是男的沒錯。可是怎麽“怨”力如此大,宛如怨婦再來,真是阿彌陀佛啊!做男不容易,難道你想做女不成?受人恩惠,不圖回報,還成天打妄語、怨這怨那的,再這樣下去,人身不保,三途惡道等著你。速醒,速醒。
有位客戶來電欲批八字。吾問爲何?她答欲找新工作,因與公司經理不和。她好意幫經理處理鐘長的問題,哪知反遭經理“盯死”。她覺得這樣做下去沒意思。這是「狗咬呂洞賓,不識好人心」。另有位美麗的空姐,因丈夫不忠,找吾堪輿其陽宅,想生個寶寶來「圓滿」婚姻。不久後,果然得了個女娃。吾認爲不忠就是不專一,因從專一努力,婚姻才能真正圓滿。
鬼的性格較鮮明,在於鬼大多數是直腸子。你妳祗要幫過他她一次,他她一定等待機會來報答你妳。不像人的心理如此的歪曲。幫了他她,不求他她回報,但求他她不會轉回頭,反咬你妳就好。因此,吾認爲人比鬼更可怕。你妳認爲呢?哈!哈!哈!
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I wrote an article about the Hungry Ghost Festival around the same time last year. Even though the festival has passed, I am still going to introduce the less known sides of a human and a spirit.
As I approached the half century mark in my life, as part of my job scope, I have interacted with countless number of people. Thus I possess a thorough appreciation of the human nature. Frankly speaking, I am more afraid of a human than a ghost. The human nature is not pure. When I helped a person, I do not expect him to return any favour. Instead I will be glad if this person does not turn around and harm me. I believe many of you would resonate with my sentiments.
Here, I shall divulge some stories which happened to people around me, to allow you a closer examination of the human nature which is primarily clouded. One of my students got his dreams of overseas studies fulfilled when his father sold their home and raised enough funds. This student had his wish but remains an utter ingrate, one who is unfilial to his parents and does not bother with contribution to the society whatsoever. Instead, he scoffed at his father, is constantly at odds with him and sports a selfish attitude towards the spiritual mortality issues of his parents and siblings. To raise a son to guard against old age? Seemed to me like 'to raise a son to give you more troubles at old age!' I pity the father. I remembered the first day I met this student and was slightly shocked. His face resembled that of a villain from the fictional notorious Bandits Valley. But I still took him in as my disciple, hoping he will change by learning the dharma and eradicating the bad karma and all the filthy thrash from his heart. Alas, I was naive to ignore that a person's appearance stems from his very heart. In the end, he flouted all the precepts, belittled them even and continued his errant ways. Now, his bad karma has accumulated as high as the highest mountains, and as deep as the deepest seas. If he does not repent now, I am afraid it will be too late.
Another student was jobless for some time, despite having a Masters. I got to know of it and immediately applied the principles of metaphysics on him and eventually landed him his current high post job. In addition, I endowed upon him actual knowledge of Buddhism and the basics of metaphysics in hope that he will see the truth of life and understand the different levels of merits. Till today, whenever he comes for my lessons, I would hear new complaints, grudges or new desires. (A grateful person is not prone to complaining.) I thought to myself, he is a guy, a man alright, but he is so full of complaints, just like a vengeful woman! Amituofo! It is not easy to be born a man. Does he really want to be a woman instead? To receive kindness from others yet does not reciprocate, coupled with frequent lies and complaints, if this carries on, he will lose his human form in his next life. The three lower realms awaits. Please wake up urgently!
A client called me, wanting to an analysis of her birth chart to be done. I asked her for the reason. She replied saying she needed help to look for a new job due to her current job dissatisfaction. She helped her manager with good intention but yet ended up being a 'marked' person. She felt it was not worth staying on. As the Chinese saying goes 'the dog that bit Master Lu Dong Bin does not realise his kind heartedness'. Another client, a beautiful flight attendant, got me to audit the Feng shui of her house in a bid to save her crumpling marriage, due to her husband's infidelity. She wished for a baby to complete the family. With my help, she got her wish. I feel that being unfaithful is akin to losing one's focus. To diligently keep oneself focused is the key to a blissful marriage.
Ghosts, on the other hand, are much clearer and more direct in their intentions. As long as you have helped a spirit before, the spirit would be sure to repay your kindness, unlike humans with their warped psyche. Do not expect a fellow human to repay your kindness all the time. You would be lucky if he or she does not return your favour with malice! Thus I feel that a human is far more sinister than a spirit. Don't you think so? Ha ha ha!
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