time constant unit的八卦，Yahoo名人娛樂都在討論

Dear 05, thank you for 3 years. I never felt 'home' living alone, until I met you.

I lived in unit 05 for 3 years. A 350 square feet studio unit. I fell in love the moment I walked in because of how pleasant the vibe was. It's crazy to say this but this home has a SOUL in it, that matched mine.

I grew so much here. Mentally and emotionally. Everyday I wake up feeling like the happiest man on earth because my 05 gives me so much of peace and joy. I tell my mum, sister, best friend or whomever who has been here so much that my home 'hugs' me all the time. There have been times when I get so stressed, I burst into tears. Just a few moments later, I feel as if I am being comforted by 05, and I immediately fall asleep feeling calm. Have you ever felt this at home? My plants, books, furnitures, fragrances, everything feels SO alive. I never once felt lonely living on my own.

On top of that, I have one of the most understanding, caring and kind owners, Sophia Ngu. I told her the day I moved in that I would like to make the home mine in anyway I could and she gave me the liberty to do it. I changed a little of everything in the most minimalistic way and it felt like the best home ever. Sophia and I had such a beautiful owner-tenant relationship because of the trust we had in each other. I have never met her but hopefully someday, I will. It's a blessing to have an owner who supports you all the way. (we both were emotional about this).

I am writing this because 05 deserves a space on my platform. I am so attached to 05. But I needed a bigger space to expand on my production company. It's so hard to leave and say goodbye. (i had tears in my eyes while typing these words, that's how broken I am).

Unfortunately, the only thing constant in life is change and we have to always be ready to adapt.

I found a bigger space where I can expand on opportunities and offer therapeutic healing sessions for anyone who needs it. It's been a dream of a lifetime. It is a 100% bare unit and I have to work on it from scratch.

If there are any Interior Designers and Architects or companies who would like to collaborate with me on setting up my next home, please do send me a message on Facebook. I would like to film a YouTube video, documenting the entire process of the Bohemian Balinese makeover as an offering of gratitude.

My last 30 days in this home will be extremely emotional but I guess that's just what happens when you love so deeply. It's hard to let go.

This is from my heart, to all of you.
I want you to know that whoever who said only the living has the ability to love you back, is not absolutely right. Because I felt love from every corner of 05.

Thank you, 05.
I love you and will forever remember you.

I used to hate Father’s Day because I don’t have a good relationship with my father. We aren’t close and my parents are divorced... now we only talk once a year, during CNY, when we gather at my grandma’s. He wasn’t that bad I guess, he never beat his kids, got drunk or gambled or was verbally abusive. I still have many happy memories of him during my childhood. I guess he was just very... traditional, quite chauvinistic and not fond of showing affection... and after so many years I never quite forgave him for his infidelity, because he would never apologize for it. Now that we have grown apart and lead completely separate lives, it saddens me that Dash only has one grandparent to dote on him, because my dad never asks about his only grandchild n Mike’s parents, although they do love Dash very much, are so far away in USA. Other children have 4 grandparents to spoil them all the time, Dash has one. Not quite sure if my dad would be sad if I died, only makes a difference to him once a year I guess 🤷🏼‍♀️ lol dunno why I’m typing such an emo caption at 6am when my video is such a happy one. Getting to my point I swear! Point is: I hated Father’s Day. The one day everyone is talking about how wonderful their fathers are and how much their dad love them. Inconsiderate much?! So many of us have estranged dads ok!! Fuck you and your complete family unit 😡 Worst thing is nothing wrong w people showing love for their fathers so I can’t even rant... only can seethe with jealousy quietly lol. Hate social media on Father’s Day yeah lah you are daddy’s girl good for you your papa gave you a car for your birthday did he well mine gave me a load of daddy issues and constant anxiety of my partner cheating beat that 😂 Ok I still haven’t gotten to my point. Point is after Dash is born, Father’s Day no longer signifies only my dad. It also means a celebration of my husband, the love of my life and father to my child. I love you @mikesayre - I’m so proud of you for how hard you work for this family and your dedication to us and I know you sacrificed so much to be with me. Yet you never gave up. 13 years together and 6 years as a dad. Dash and I love you - song says it all😘

【玳瑚師父隨筆碌】 《修行在個人》
Spiritual Cultivation Is Your Own Responsibility (English version below)

文章開頭前，祝吾的讀者們冬至快樂，有個圓圓滿滿的一年。天氣越來越冷，多穿件衣服，別着涼了。

Before the start of my article, here's wishing all my readers and your families a Happy Winter Solstice and may your year end on a auspicious and complete note. The weather is turning cold. Do remember to wear more clothing to avoid catching a cold.

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若干年前，有客人對吾說，她他們想買靠近吾住的地方，甚至最靠近吾住的單位，害吾在那段日子，彷若電影中的「忍者」，什麼意思？「神出鬼沒」。她他們的理由是；生活中碰到難題，可以第一時間找到吾，並給於她他們實際的幫助。這些客人有這樣的想法，是真的可以理解的，或許她他們忘了，「天下無不散之宴席」，這句話。

人與人之間的因緣，是非常之微妙的，又不可思議的。不是嗎？想想看，最疼愛妳你的人，現在還在妳你身邊嗎？最要好的同學，如今是否還有聯絡？最敬愛的師長，還在嗎？幼時的玩伴，現在在哪裡？人生是要順應變遷的，更要在這人事因緣變遷中，學習獨立、學習堅強、啟發智慧、累積經驗，未來才能更上一層樓。

曾有人要求吾守護他一家人， 一直到其子女長大成人，他敢講吾倒是不敢聽。哈！哈！哈！其實啊！到今天依然有男有女，一樣要吾守護她他們一家人，長長久久，祇是有些是明說，有些則眼神透露，確實叫吾受寵若驚，一時不知如何回應。這時才領悟，什麼叫有情眾生。說真的，每當有這些客人的請求，吾都是感到無比榮幸的，祇是君子之交淡如水啊！有緣自然來相聚，互相珍惜，惜福惜緣，那就夫復何求了。

我們「出現」在這人世間，祇有兩個字，那就是修行，修正我們的行為，一直到達覺行圓滿，永遠快樂、自在、任運，這種真實的覺受境界，唯有真正成佛才能夠完完全全體會及擁有。吾少食少眠少憩，就是為了妳你們的「終生大事」，除此之外，吾已找不到任何意義寫作。親愛的讀者粉絲們，切記師父引進門，修行在個人。

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Many years ago, some clients told me that they wanted to buy a residential unit near my place, a unit as near as possible! At that time, I had to be like the ninja as depicted in the movie, moving around stealthily to prevent myself from being discovered! Their reason to live near me was to have immediate access to my practical assistance, should they encounter problems in life. I can totally understand why my clients think this way but perhaps they forget that "all good times must come to an end."

The affinity between people is very intricate and unfathomable. Is it not so? Think about it, the one who doted the most on you, is he or she by your side now? The best of classmates, are you still in touch with them now? The teacher whom you respected the most, is he or she still around? Your playmates from childhood, where are they now? Our lives are always in a constant flux of change. In the midst of all these changes in our relationships, we should learn to be independent and strong, to develop our own wisdom and accumulate our experience. Only then can we make progress.

Once, there was a person who requested me to watch over his entire family, until his children grow up. It was an audacious request that I could not bear to hear. Ha ha ha! In fact, even till today, there are still such requests from my clients, some verbal, others through their eye expressions, to look after their families. I am taken aback by these requests and the trust bestowed on me, that I do not know how to react at first. It was at such a moment that the realisation hit me: sentient beings are emotional creatures. Every time I hear such a request, I am honoured, but the friendship between men of virtue should be pure like water and free from self-interest. We will meet and gather when the conditions arises, and we should treasure one another and our affinity. Only then will we have no regrets.

We appear in this world for a singular purpose: spiritual cultivation. That is to cultivate righteousness in our speech, body and mind and attain enlightenment, achieving eternal bliss, freedom and contentment. Only beings in the state of Buddhahood are able to fully experience this state of Truth. I compromised on my sleep and meal times to prepare you for the "biggest event of your life". There is no other goal more worthy than that for me to continue my writings. My beloved readers, please keep in mind that a Master can only show you the door, you will have to take the first step in.