มีรุ่นน้องถามไถ่ว่า "แปลกไหมที่เลิกกับแฟนแล้วไม่รู้สึกเศร้า กลับรู้สึกสันติ และได้เวลาส่วนตัวคืนกลับมา" ผมถามกลับไปว่า "แปลว่าเขาไม่สำคัญเหรอ" น้องตอบว่า "เขาสำคัญมาก แต่รู้สึกว่าต้องปรับตัวเยอะ ต้องยอมให้เยอะ พอห่างออกมากลับรู้สึกดี"
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และคำที่น่าสนใจมากคือคำว่า 'สันติ'
...Continue ReadingA juniors asked me, " Is it strange that I broke up with your boyfriend and I feel sad. I feel peace and it's time to come back I asked, " doesn't mean he doesn't matter He is very important, " He is very important, but I have to adapt Let me get a lot. I feel good when I'm away. "
I thought this was interesting.
And a very interesting word is 'peace'
I used to think that people want ' happiness ' and try to do everything to find it. But recently, when I ask yourself deeper, what we want may not be ' happiness ' (happiness) but it should be ' peace ' (peace of mind)
Sometimes these two things are against each other, the more you want happiness or want to preserve happiness, we are nervous.
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There are many magic in this world that we believe that it is true. " unbroken relationships " is one of those things or believe that " break up is bad " may deceive both parties to hold relationships. Doesn't affect both of them.
We may believe that happiness is together.
Surely, if everything is smooth, this word will be true. But if it is not, it is not true for everyone.
Because the more I try to hold 'happiness', what happens is lack of peace in the mind.
And cuddle times we let go of believing that we have to preserve ' happiness ' in the way people tell each other. Suddenly we find that our hearts are more calm because we don't pleasing to the ' type ' that they say it's good but it. Not good for us
Breaking up or divorce. If you choose to do it in the moment and factors that there is a reason. It is possible that it makes us happier than being stuck in trying to solve the problem.
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' happiness ' is like a stacked thing. That's the happiness that we can feel from our heart and happiness caused by other people's expectations from others who think that breaking up is a shame, pity and many cases we try to heal ' happiness ' That other people draw the line by forgetting happiness in their heart.
When I think about this, I find that breaking up is just an example of 'happiness' that we often believe that if it is like this, it will be happier.
Such as richness, success, fame, position, etc. Of course, these are the elements of 'good life' but not always if it starts to overflow or so that fire will burn the heart.
I'm not saying that we shouldn't wish for those things. Just want to ask if we want to have because our heart is happy when we have those things or because other people believe that if we have those things, we will be happy.
We want to be happy
Or do we want other people to think that we are happy?
These two are similar but so different
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The question that I ask ourselves deep in the heart is ' happiness ' that we look at or try to keep. Whether it's a dream, success or love to the end, it brings ' peace in the mind ' or not.
If the answer is 'no'
I think one day we will find a new answer for ourselves that I can try to let go of 'happiness' to find something more important.
That's ' peace in mind '
Sometimes we need to let go of what we believe that is ' happiness ' in order to meet ' peace ' in the heart.
And that's what I learned from this juniors question...
"Breaking up is not sad if it makes us find a peaceful heart"Translated
