< 5 Rules for Becoming an Etiquette Hotshot in 2014 >
Knowing your etiquette and having top-notch social skills form the basis for good human relationships wherever you are. In the super competitive world of work, the value of excellent etiquette is more highly regarded than ever, particularly as you're elevated up the career ladder. Being polished while remaining genuine and natural, gives you an absolute advantage in every area of life. Let the best of you shine with these 5 tips:-
1. First impression counts
It literally takes only 30 seconds for a person meeting you for the first time to form impressions about you, your character, and abilities. You’ll never get a second chance to make a first impression again! Like it or not, people are generally drawn to things that are better looking, so be prepared to look and sound your best at all times. Investing a little extra effort in your attire and appearance will make a world of a difference in elevating the impact of your first impression!
2. Make attempts to meet as many people as possible
When attending business events or social functions, avoid hiding at one corner or hanging out exclusively with your friends. If you don’t know anyone or happen to see someone you want to meet badly, use crafty conversation starters to warm things up. More often than not, events are the best way to build great network connections that will lead to business opportunities. So get the conversation started and expand your social circle.
3. People’s names matter, so does yours
Make it an effort to remember people’s names as it can increase your standing in the eyes of others. Most people appreciate your effort to learn their names if you spend more than a minute or two talking with them. In return, they will also readily remember yours for all the right reasons. And if an old acquaintance has forgotten your name, don’t make a big fuss out of it. Instead, reintroduce yourself with grace and let your elegant mannerism do the magic!
4. Master the art of small talk
Learn how to hold an upbeat conversation, with back-and-forth dialogue that is of your audience’s interest. Never monopolize a discussion. Instead, strive for a balance between talking and listening. Also, be open to talk about subjects that you know little about as this respect and consideration for others will take your ability to communicate with everyone and anyone to a whole new level!
5. Don’t be a gossip genius
Be mindful about the things you say about others. Avoid gossips by all means. Not only is it bad form, if words ever got back to the person you were talking about, you can pretty much be assured you’ll be the subject of the next gossip session! Also, never make negative snap judgments about the people you meet. We are nobody to judge!
