"Tuan.... jangan sesekali bandingkan apa yang tuan buat dengan apa yang isteri buat.... Apa yang tuan buat takkan pernah sama dengan apa yang isteri tuan buat dan lalui... ketika tuan nyenyak tidur tahukah tuan berapa kali isteri tuan bangun tidur, betulkan kedudukan anak yang kepalanya terteleng ke tepi... tukar lampinnya.. beri dia susu & baru tidur? Tahukah tuan betapa banyak perit yang isteri tuan lalui ketika mengandung #9bulan10hari, berdepan saat melahirkan anak & menyusukannya? Bayangkan... bila tangan tuan luka sedikit pun tuan terasa sakitnya.. apatah lagi yang bertarung nyawa melahirkan anak?.. Jadi, janganlah bandingkan apa yang tuan buat dengan apa yang isteri buat... kerana ia takkan pernah sama... " - Ustaz Ebit Lew ( Pakar Syariah 9bulan10hari)
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Ada suami ni jenis suka complain...
Katanya dialah yang buat semua kerja.. dialah yang paling bz.. dialah yang buat itu & ini...
Sehingga bila isteri minta tolong tidurkan anak pun dia ungkit.. katanya "saya dah mandikan anak, pakaikan dia baju.. dah byk sy buat"
Sedangkan benda yang suami tu buat hanya sekali dari 4 kali yang isterinya buat...
Walaupun buat hanya sekali namun diungkitnya mcm beratus kali buat...
Isterinya diam... cakap pun tak guna... sebab sehingga bila bila pun dia tetap akan kata dialah yang paling banyak buat kerja..
Sedangkan suaminya hanya berkepit dengan telefon berjam di tangan sambil baring..
Isterinya... kejap kejap bangun uruskan makan minum anak2 dan keluarga... kejap kejap layan anak sebab anak anak lebih suka bercakap dengan ibu dari ayahnya yang kerap melayan handphone!
Walaupun isterinya buat semua... tapi dia tetap kata dialah yang cari nafkah & dialah yang banyak kerja...!
Isteri di rumah yang buat kerja online business untuk sama sama bantu suami ni tak nampak!
Come on lah brother... tuan lelaki... tuan patut lebih pandai beri contoh terbaik buat isteri...
Bukannya mengarah itu & ini guna hukum Islam tapi bila sentuh bab sama sama jaga semuanya ditolak ke tepi!
Maka si isteri ini terlalu makan hati berhari2.. sehingga apa yang dia buat pun seperti terpaksa & rela hati..
& si suami... terus bela diri.. katanya dialah yang selalu makan hati...
Pelik..!
Macam mana rezeki nak masuk kalau hati bidadari sendiri pun ditolak ke tepi??
Tak terasa berdosakah buat orang yang tinggalkan hidup single & family demi suami?
Lebih 80% isteri makan hati dengan suami... & merekalah antara suami yang hatinya sering tak tenteram & bila buat apa saja terasa tak cukup sempurna.
Ustaz Ebit Lew selalu pesan... jagalah hati ibu & isteri kita.. bahagiakan mereka... dengan itu banyak rezeki yg tak disangka sangka mudah menghampiri kita.
COPYRIGHT@Nazira Nazir buat 9bulan10hari. Tak dihalalkan copy paste! Elakkan budaya copy paste. Menulislah sendiri...
" Sir.... don't ever compare what you do with what the wife does.... what you do will never be the same as what your wife does and go through... when you sleep well you know how many times your wife woke up , correct the position of the child whose head is terteleng to the side... change the baby.. give him milk & just sleep? Do you know how much pain your wife is going through when she is pregnant with #9 Bulan10hari, face when she gives birth to child & child? Imagine... when your hands are hurt even a little bit is painful.. What else is the one who fights the life of giving birth?.. so don't compare what you do with what the wife does... because it will never be the same... " - Ustaz @[465806410116276:274:Ebit Lew] (Syariah Expert @[151329642013884:274:9bulan10hari])
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There's a husband who likes to complain...
He said he did all the work.. He's the most busy.. He did it & this...
Until when the wife asks for help to make her child mention it.. She said "I've bathed her child, put her clothes on.. I've done a lot"
While the thing that the husband does only once from 4 times his wife does...
Even though I do it only once but it seems like I've done it hundreds of times...
His wife is silent... even talking is useless... because until whenever he will still say he is the most working..
While her husband only berkepit with a phone for hours in hand while laying down..
His wife... waking up for a while to manage to eat children and family... for a while to treat children because the children prefer to talk to the mother of her father who often treats her handphone!
Even though his wife did it all... but he still said he was the one who made a living & he was the one who worked a lot...!
Wife at home who does online business work to help her husband don't see it!
Come on brother... the master... you should be more good at giving the best example to your wife...
It's not leading that & this is using Islamic law but when you touch the same chapter, take care of everything being pushed to the side!
So this wife eats her heart too much.. until what she does is like forced & willing..
& the husband... continue to defend himself.. He says he's the one who always eats the heart...
Weird..!
How do you want to enter if your own angel's heart is rejected by the side??
Don't you feel the can for the people who leave their single life & family for the sake of their husbands?
More than 80 % of wives eat their hearts with their husbands... & they are among husbands whose hearts are often not at peace & when they do anything they don't feel perfect.
Ustaz Ebit Lew always order... take care of our mother & wife's hearts.. make them happy... with that many unexpected provisions that will be easy to approach us.
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