Ustaz Datuk Kazim Elias ada share 4 punca kenapa satu-satu perkahwinan tu tak bahagia.
Sebab duit ke? Sebab rupa? Atau sebab agama semata?
1. Punca pertama ialah sebab semua benda isteri buat. Basuh baju isteri, kemas isteri, masak isteri. Sedangkan isteri ni cuma dituntut untuk layan suami je. Jadi, tak perlu ke isteri buat semua tu? Isteri solehah dia TOLONG buat kerja. Bantu sama membantu. Masing-masing kena faham erti tanggungjawab.
...Continue ReadingUstaz Datuk Kazim Elias has shared 4 reasons why the marriage is unhappy.
Because of money? Because of the look? Or just because of religion?
The first 1. reasons are because all the wives do. Wash wife's clothes, clean the wife, cook the wife. While the wife is only claimed to treat her husband. So, don't the wife have to do all that? His pious wife HELP him do the job. Help together help. Everyone needs to understand the meaning of responsibility.
Ustaz said it, the more husband feels easy to relax and do nothing, the easier he forgets his responsibility. It's not that you're going back to tell your husband ′′ You, starting today I don't want to wash the clothes what's all cooking
No no no.
Difficult things will be easy when you do it together. Don't be happy together. When it's difficult, it's just a couple. No no no 🙅🏻 ♀️🙅🏻 ♀️🙅🏻 ♀️
2. Second reasons why we don't understand the ATTITUDE of our own partners.
It's easy to take care of this man as Ustaz Kazim said.
1-Feed full food. Zahir and inner heart. May everything be considered a worship. Amen oh Lord.
2-Where the husband went, followed! Hahaha 😂
As long as you can follow, follow.
3. The third reason is because we don't accept that is our partner. Many people only appreciate someone and then someone dies. So it's not good to wait for your husband or wife to die and then to say, ′′ Nothing is like my husband / wife." 😢
We won't know our partner as long as we don't share the same house, sekatil, pillow with him. Even his parents won't know him as deep as we know him. That's why, the wife knows her husband than her mother she knows her.
But a smart man, a religious man, a pious woman will always consider that the partner is a GIFT.
There is a couple, be grateful. Because there are still many who still Allah doesn't grant his prayers for couple. So be thankful.
Not happy nowadays, want to get a partner who prays, who reads, whose living is not crafty. So if we get a partner like that, learn to appreciate even though she is not beautiful to boroi to what.
Hat boroi, tak lawa, no comey to anything, there is Allah nak test us, which one of us is the most LAUGHING. Choosing religion, overcomes everything.
4. The last one, the reason is when someone doesn't become happy with each other. Yee, learn to be a fun couple.
If our partner likes so much, so we try to give so much or more. The most important thing is to work, let the rest decide. God willing.
The Ustaz shared again, this disaster he came in 3 forms:
• EXAMS
• TERRIBLE
• BULLET
If we feel that in marriage we're always a disaster, let's see these three. Which one is actually that Allah wants to show.
The test is for the believers. He gave an example, Asiah who is pious married to the evil Pharoah. That's a test for him.
The one that Allah tests someone is soleh solehah, the prayer is not left, the recitation is not missing, the fasting is full but the years of not having a That's a test of his name. And this test is no other than to lift the position of taqwa and our faith higher. Be patient and be happy with Allah's test.
The second, the misfortune that mai in the form of reprimand. Allah sends this because Allah wants to tell us to return to the goodness.
For example, we are careless of chasing money here, rich here and there, papppp Allah gives an accident. Can't find the cause of sustenance anymore. That's a warning. Maybe we don't pray humble. We make worship but a lot of crafty. So, Allah wants to flick a little to give advice. Want to let us go back to Him. So, don't talk about Allah. Allah doesn't do anything in vain
The last thing is this disaster come in the form of bullet or punishment.
In this marriage, if we want peace, we have to learn to ACCEPT. Accept what Allah gives. Acceptance is our partner. Accept all Allah's tests.
If it's one moment later Allah tests it without sustenance for a long mate, no fortune to be with.
′′ If you still can, hold it well, if you can't, let it go well."
Always learn to steal husband / wife's heart. Learn to take all the rewards that Allah wants to give in marriage. Learn to be a person who thirsts for reward.
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