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อันเนื่องมาจาก พีชพชร-แพทริเซีย
#อย่าพยายามเมื่อเราไม่ใช่
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กรณีพีช พชร กับ แพทรเซีย นี่ผมขอบอกเลยว่าเราไม่สามารถไปตัดสินได้แน่ๆว่าใครผิดใครถูก เพราะความเป็นจริง ความรักนี่จะบอกว่ามีปัจจัยมากมายเข้ามาเกี่ยวข้องที่จะนำพาให้คนสองคนไปกันได้ตลอดรอดฝั่งหรือไม่ ไม่ว่าจะเป็นนิสัยใจคอ ไลฟ์สไตล์ รสนิยม ความพึงพอใจต่อกันและกัน หรือบางทีเอาจริงๆมันแทบไม่มีอะไรตายตัวเลยสำหรับความรัก ถ้าอยู่มาวันนึง ฝ่ายใดฝ่ายหนึ่งจะมองว่าคนรักของเรามันไม่ใช่แล้ว ไม่ใช่ก็คือไม่ใช่ พยายามยังไงมันก็ไม่ได้ ทำดีให้ตายไม่เอาก็คือไม่เอา
#ความรักไม่ใช่รางวัลของคนทำความดี
#ความรักไม่ใช่รางวัลของคนที่มีความพยายาม
#ความรักคือนามธรรมที่ไร้เหตุผล

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พีช พชร กับ แพทริเซีย เค้าคบกันสองคน เรื่องราวของคนสองคนเราไม่อาจจะไปตัดสินใจได้หรอกว่าใครผิดใครถูก แต่ความเชื่อของสิ่งมีชีวิตที่เรียกว่า มนุษย์ มองว่าการคบซ้อนเป็นเรื่องที่ผิด การคบคนใหม่โดยที่ยังไม่บอกเลิกคนเก่าเป็นสิ่งที่ผิด ซึ่งมองในจุดนั้น มันก็ผิดจริงๆ แต่ปัจจัยหลายๆอย่างที่เกิดขึ้นมันมีโอกาสเกิดขึ้นได้เสมอ บางครั้งความรักมันก็เหมือนลมเพลมพัดนะ อยู่ดีๆเป็นคนดีๆอยู่ดีๆ ความรักมันจะพัดอะไรเข้ามาในชีวิตก็ไม่รู้ ทุกอย่างอยู่ที่จิตใจ อยู่ที่อารมณ์ ต่อให้คนที่มันมีคนรักของดีแสนดีให้ตาย ถ้าวันนึงเกิดมีลมเพลมพัดเอาใครเข้ามาก็ไม่รู้ แล้วดันไปเกิดอารมณ์วูบวาบขึ้นมา ถึงระงับตัวไม่ให้ไป แต่ถ้าใจมันเริ่มไป เราอาจจะเริ่มมามองหาข้อด้อยของคนรักที่เราคบหาอยู่ก็ได้ มันเกิดขึ้นได้
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ผมอยากจะบอกว่า จากบทสัมภาษณ์ ผมว่า พีช พชร เติบโต เข้าใจในความรัก และมีมุมมองที่ดีในความรักมากแล้ว อยากให้ทุกคนหาโอกาสไปฟัง และศึกษาแนวคิดทัศนคติของเค้าให้ดี ไม่ได้มาชื่นชมนะครับ แต่ถ้าทำได้แบบที่พีชบอก มันก็คือสิ่งที่ดีที่สุดเท่าที่คนๆนึงจะทำได้แล้ว
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พีชบอกว่าพยายามแก้ไข พยายามทุกอย่างแล้ว ไม่มีใครไม่เสียใจ อย่าไปว่าอีกฝ่าย อย่าไปด่าเค้า สมัยเค้าเด็กๆเค้าก็เคยเป็น คนทุกคนก็อาจจะเคยเป็น ผมอยากจะบอกว่า การพยายามในวันที่เราไม่ใช่ มันแทบจะเป็นสิ่งที่ไร้ค่าเลย มันไม่มีค่าอะไรเลย นอกจากเอาไว้เป็นสิ่งที่ปลอบโยนเราในวันหนึ่งให้เราได้มีโอกาสบอกกับตัวเองว่า เราทำดีที่สุดแล้ว เท่านั้นเอง เท่านั้นจริงๆ
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คนเราในวันที่ใช่ ทุกๆอย่างดีหมด แต่ถ้าวันไหนที่ไม่ใช่ ทำอะไรมันก็ผิด ทำดีแค่ไหนก็ไม่ใช่เรื่องสำคัญอะไรที่ที่จะทำให้เค้าหันมามองแล้ว ยิ่งทำดี บางคนกลับมองว่าเป็นเรื่องปกติเรื่องเคยชินจนไม่เห็นค่าไปแล้ว ไม่ใช่ก็คือไม่ใช่ อย่าพยายามกับคนที่มองว่าเราไม่ใช่แล้ว ผมอยากจะบอกว่า ความรักมันไม่มีเหตุไม่มีผล คนดีแสนดีไม่โดนเลือก บางคนไปเลือกคนเจ้าชู้ บางคนไปเลือกผู้ชายที่ชอบตบตี บางคู่ผัวตบตีซ้อมเมียบ่อยๆ มีลูกกันหัวปีท้ายปี บางคนดีแสนดีเพอเฟค แต่ไม่ใช่เค้าก็ไม่เอา ความรักมันคือนามธรรมที่ไร้เหตุผล ไม่มีบทิสูจน์ของรักแท้เลย บางคนอยู่ด้วยกันมาเป็นสี่สิบห้าสิบปี วันดีคืนดีหย่าร้างกันก็มี คู่แต่งงานมีลูกกันโตเป็นหนุ่มเป็นสาววันนึงยังนอกใจกันได้ นับภาษาอะไรกับคู่รักที่เรียกว่าแฟนที่ยังไม่ได้แต่งงานกัน มองเป็นธรรมดาโลก ก็ไม่น่าจะต้องไปหวือหวาอะไร อย่าไปตัดสินฝ่ายใดฝ่ายหนึ่ง เพราะสุดท้ายเรื่องของความรักมันก็คือเรื่องของคนสองคนอยู่ดี จริงไหม?
The origin of Peach Pache - Patricia
#อย่าพยายามเมื่อเราไม่ใช่
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Peach Pech and Patracia. I'm telling you that we can't judge who is wrong because of reality. Love says that there are many factors involved that will be able to bring two people together or not. Neck, lifestyle, taste, satisfaction with each other, or maybe it's almost nothing dies for love. If one day, one side will think that our lover is not, it's not, it's not, it's not, it's not trying. It's not good. If you die, you won't take it.
#ความรักไม่ใช่รางวัลของคนทำความดี
#ความรักไม่ใช่รางวัลของคนที่มีความพยายาม
#ความรักคือนามธรรมที่ไร้เหตุผล

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Peach Passion and Patricia are two together. The story of two people. We can't decide who is wrong. But the belief of human beings is considered a stack of being in a relationship is wrong. The relationship is wrong. The new person doesn't break up. Old is a wrong thing. At that point, it's really wrong. But many factors that happen. There is always a chance to happen. Sometimes love is like a wind. It's just a good person. I'm suddenly a good person. Love will blow anything in life. I don't know everything At the mind, it's in the mood. Even if the person who has a lover of good things to die. If one day, there is a wind blowing. I don't know if it's a glittery emotion. I won't let you go. But if my heart starts to go. We might start looking for the inferiority of the loved one we are dating. It happens.
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I want to say that from my interview, Peach Phatcharung grew to understand in love and have a good perspective in love. I want everyone to find a chance to listen and study their attitude. I don't come to appreciate it. But if I can do it, I'm telling you. It's the best thing one can do.
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Peach says that he has tried to fix everything. He doesn't regret it. Don't blame the other. Don't scold him. When he was young, he could have been. I want to say that he tried on the day that we were not there is nothing worth Nothing is worth anything except to comfort us one day. Let us have a chance to tell ourselves that we did our best.
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People on the right day, everything is good. But if you don't do anything, it's wrong. It's not important to make him look at it. The more good you do, some people see it as normal. It's not worth it. It's not trying. Don't try. Those who think that we are not. I want to say that there is no reason. There is no effect. Good person doesn't get picked. Some people go to choose. Some flirty people choose to choose. Men who like to slap. Some couples. Husband hits. They have sex often. They have kids. At the end of It's good and perfect. It's not like it. It's an unreasonable abstract. There is no monstrosity of true love. Some of us have been together for forty and fifty years. Good night. Good night. Divorce. We have a married couple, kids, One day girls cheat on each other. What language is the couple called unmarried boyfriend. Look normal. The world shouldn't be flashy. Don't judge any side because eventually love is about two people. Is it true?Translated

น้อง-พี่-ที่รัก:
รักกันไม่ได้แปลว่าจะต้องชอบกันทั้งหมด
(เขียนถึงเนื้อหาบางส่วนในภาพยนตร์)
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Continue ReadingSister-Brother-Baby:
Love each other doesn't mean we have to like each other all.
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One time dad and sister (which I call jae) got into an argument. I tried to say something to two sides. Good night. I'm angry. All the reason. What my sister said back is " you don't have to mess with me. They live together. For decades, it will fade. We will come back to talk well as usual. Just not now " and the words I remember " no need to make a big deal. People in the house fight is normal "

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Yesterday, I watched "Brother-Brother-darling" without expecting the movie to focus on brother-sister relationship like this. But the more I sit and watch, the more I think about myself and my sister.

If you ask if the movie is fun. I say - there are jokes to laugh at. Most of them are cute and not grip. It should be because of sunny and yaya, especially sunny playing forgetful. Let's say he's handsome from this hugh grant step. He has already crossed to Jim Carrie's steps, but that's it - this movie is more than fun and I want to invite you to watch a lot.

I miss myself and my sister because the movie shows the difference " between these two extreme. My brother can't want to go anywhere. No mess. Keep going to survive with the day. The perfect sister. Good at studying, good job. Great Sports. These two lives are like sky and abyss.

Me and my sister are not this different, but there is a similar part of me. I am quite unorganized, free love while my sister is good at studying, organized with life, which I think most brothers always have "different" in their own way

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There is a word that "friends are relatives that we can choose they are" brothers are friends that we didn't choose and can't choose I was born, there is this person in our house with us. No matter what, we have to live with it. Many more years, maybe my whole life.

I can't change people. I can't stop being in relationship.

I believe that I often think in my heart, "if I could change this person, it would be good" but the point is - you can't change.

" Brother-sister " is a strange relationship. We don't choose to be together, but we have to endure each other. We don't like each other, but we have to live together for a long time that created " Bond " until it becomes a relationship. And it's " I don't like you but I love you

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In a family where one brother or brother has a super clear personality. The other will become the opposite side of that person.

Brother-sister is a mirror back to each other's side (part of them)

Being together for a long time. Brothers is a relationship that " Compare " unintentionally. Even in denial, we can't help but compare. Sometimes this comparison is so deep that we don't realize, but it influences " US "

If you were a student, at first, you would try to fight. But if you didn't do well, you would go to get good things right away, such as becoming crazy, Sports, crazy, art, game or something that is not about studying in grade card.

If your brother is very organized, you will be stubborn and break the rules. If you are diligent, you may act back. Sit and sleep comfortably. If you go to a good personality, you may run away from the funny way. Funny way, and more. Let's see brothers around. I will see a few "mirrors" like this.

We all influence each other.

Another saying is " we all create one another's identity

I often don't create another person like us, but it makes another person different from us because he wants to "run away" the other way, not to repeat the way. I won't let you over the way.

Brother-sister is the first problem of our life that we have to find. What kind of "we will" do on our path. If we can't fight with another person on the road, there is still any way to go. Finding a solution like this over and over again. The handsome one who we are " to be the way we were when we were growing up.

And this kind of turning back that slowly creates the "opposite couple" in the two of us slowly spread us apart. Slowly makes us a different world and it's possible that -- slowly makes us understand each other less.

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Look at my brother, I see that he is on another planet. We are human beings who are made (or) to be in the same house.

The second problem that people have siblings slowly learn from teenagers to mature. How can we live with "different stars" to be happy to get the answer to this problem. Some people spend their whole life.

As if we have different brothers, so that we can learn to live with different people (no matter how much we say). We can't go anywhere. We may be separated for some time, but our hearts are tied.

Don't like it but love it

This is the kind of relationship training that " couples " can't give because couples are ready to " break up " when it comes to the point where they can't stand it, but brothers won't let the relationship reach that point because we both know that we will never stop being brother. Sister or if you have to stop being, it would be the saddest thing in life. It's a scar that I see it, it hurts every time.

So we support "the difference" in every way we can figure out.

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Like this, being a sibling is not a fun, beautiful dream. This movie is so good not to remind that dream. If it is to "work" a mental work to accept and love someone who is different from us with the heart. Not by judgement, judge him by personal standards.

We can only love my brother or brother when we go to "Stand in his shoes" wearing shoes. He looks at life from his angle. His condition. His handsome experience, then you will understand why he is like that. Why he thinks so. We may even be surprised that he is because we are.

Understanding will happen when switching shoes to exchange each other's stand and we will not judge the actions of brother or brother by one side. (like "brother chor cuddle hours" in judging sister's help with their own perspective in Wedding day)

Brothers open the opportunity for us to "exchange shoes" more often than other relationships that are less ready to forgive.

Many times, I think that the most valuable gift that brothers will give to each other, not a great thing. If it is to forgive each other with a heart that doesn't owe each other with open arms and say "I'm okay with you" even in our hearts, we may want him to change. In a way we think it's better than we are, but that may be just judging by personal standards. Embracing who he is is more valuable than trying to give him what (we think) is good.

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I like that the movie doesn't end at changing "who" of both of you or sisters. It's still the way they are. People don't change easily.

Brothers and sisters don't change "who they are" if you understand what kind of feelings we should be brothers.

Change from carrying the weight of comparison, but the difference, cursing what the other is to be best wishes for each other.

Yes, wish for each other -- we may have each other to learn this

We can wish to be good to each other without liking the other. and if we wish to be good for him happy, we may have to give up something. We may not have to try to change him. We just live beside each other with a heart. Expectation for one another to be the happiest

This is the lesson about "best wishes" that brothers teach us.

What brother chor cuddle said to the grandchild (sister's son) at the end, "I am a brother now. I love you very much" is a deep meaning when he has passed the cremation of brothers relationship.

" love you " is for sure, but " how to love " is what we take a long time to learn.

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After a few days, my sister bought some delicious rice for dad. Then the whole family sat around the band, eating and talking as usual.

Our house is back to normal again, but it's nice to ask about the meaning of " normal it may be the way my sister or jae said. Fighting is normal for people in the house.

We may fight to learn how to be together. Let us gradually pass the "best wishes" class. Same step by step with the relationship between me and my sister. Nowadays we are still human beings who are made / scalmed / scalmed in the same house. Not all the marks, but I can confirm that we always love each other.

This is what a different star sister taught me without saying, but a long relationship. Hints some secrets of life to me, "to love someone, we don't have to like all that they are"

This secret may not only be used with "Brother-sister"

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My brother and I used to have a time when we were apart and stopped talking to each other. But then one day we came back to talk again.

Some brothers relationship is not sweet and fragrant. Anyone who has a smooth relationship with brothers is lucky. But I think I am lucky.

I have known bitter love, and I believe my sister also tasted it from our love.

If it's this different, we can still love each other until one day. This lesson should spread our heart space to love many different people who have to meet in life.

Maybe this is why we were conjured in the same house since we were young.

I know that you love me, and I love you. I don't like all that the other person is, but we slowly learn to accept what we don't like.

I want to invite you to watch this movie, but I know that it will look strange. I believe that if you watch it, they will miss me. The scene where brothers hug each other at the end, the story will replace our feelings.

The distance between us is so far apart, meanwhile, very close.

What kind of relationship can teach us like this?

Don't believe that love is only sweet and don't believe that love is not sweet.

It's beautiful in another way.

Just like our brother or brother - he is beautiful in his way.

And all we should do is embrace that beauty

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#BrotherOfTheYearTranslated

【#JW部長 接受 #法國 🇫🇷《觀點周刊》專訪】

Bonjour! Ça va?

請把鏡頭轉向法蘭西共和國
魔法部長再度登上國際媒體為台發聲啦！

#台灣不是中國瞄準的唯一國家
這專訪標題可不是隨便下的
雖然「威脅」對我們台灣人是家常便飯
但我們有責任向全世界發出警告
千萬別讓 #捕鼠器 的寓言故事成為國際現實！

這趴專訪的精華內容
小編決定一字一句誠意奉上 (往下滑)
讓我們凝聚共識 #團結一心
持續點亮台灣這座 #亞洲民主燈塔 🌞

#台灣是台灣
#理念相近國家
#新南向政策

Le Point 報導連結 https://reurl.cc/zzgRRN

🔸 歐盟執委會外交暨安全政策高級代表今年6月聲稱中國「不會對世界和平造成威脅」，對台灣而言，應該不是這樣吧？

JW：對歐洲來說，中國很遙遠。但台灣距離中國不到200公里，我們強烈感受到這個威脅。台灣並不是唯一被中國威脅的國家，#日本 對東海問題已有所警覺，中國在南海將島礁軍事化的行為，也迫使 #美國 及 #東南亞國家 做出回應，更別提 #印度 和中國在邊界發生的衝突，中國還妄想對外輸出那套專制政體，看看他們對 #新疆、#西藏 和 #香港 做了什麼「好事」！

🔸 在 #港版國安法 之後，台灣有沒有可能成為下一個目標？

JW：香港發生的事是個悲劇。香港從前是東亞地區自由和法治的典範，但港版國安法使香港 #喪失言論和新聞自由，並且 #破壞法治，香港人卻無從置喙。其中第38條還適用包括台灣公民及地球上所有中國政府認為威脅到它本身政權的其他人，中國想要把它的專制政體國際化，這是必須要阻止的。

🔸 我們應該如何抵禦中國的 #戰狼外交？

JW：明確回擊「戰狼外交」才能符合我們的利益。國際社會，特別是享有共同價值的歐洲、北美和東亞國家，必須協調合作，如果我們能夠團結在這個根本價值之下，就能構成強而有力的力量，來告訴中國：你錯了！

🔸 台灣想要加入WHO，但美國卻要退出；中國在近年已經暗地掌控許多國際組織，現在才要改革，是否太晚？

JW：就算遲了，也比從來不做來的好。我們都看到了 #世界衛生組織 #國際民航組織 和 #國際刑警組織 發生了什麼事。但對我們而言，最慘痛的經驗是 #聯合國。1971年UN大會以2758號決議接受中國為會員國，將蔣介石的代表逐出聯合國，並且把PRC視為中國的唯一合法代表。中國政府扭曲這個決議，要求聯合國秘書處接受它對這個決議的詮釋，聲稱台灣已經是中國的一部分。對於這樣的說法，我們必須很清楚表示：#台灣從來就不是PRC的一部分！

#MOFA Minister Joseph Wu was recently interviewed by French news magazine Le Point. The headline of the article was “Taiwan is not the only country China is targeting,” echoing Minister Wu’s warning to our like-minded democratic partners around the world. You can find excerpts from the interview in English below!
#SharedValues #Democracy #Freedom #Taiwan

🔹 Le Point: Josep Borrell, High Representative of the European Union for Foreign Affairs and Security Policy said in June that the People’s Republic of China (PRC) “is not a threat to world peace.” But is it a threat to Taiwan?

JW: From Europe’s perspective, China is far away. But Taiwan is just 200 kilometers from China, so we feel this threat very strongly. […] Japan is also aware of the threat in the East China Sea. The militarization of the South China Sea has reached a level that requires a strong response from the United States and the countries of Southeast Asia. That’s without even talking about the clashes on the border between India and China. In addition, the Chinese are trying to export their authoritarian vision of the world. Just look at what they’ve done to Xinjiang and to Tibet, and now to Hong Kong!

🔹 Le Point: After the national security law in Hong Kong, could Taiwan be the next target?

JW: What happened in Hong Kong is a tragedy. Hong Kong was once a model of freedom and the rule of law in East Asia. The National Security Law has deprived it of its freedoms, freedom of expression and freedom of the press, and destroyed its rule of law. Hong Kong people have no say. And according to Article 38, this law is supposed to apply beyond Hong Kong, that is, to me, to the citizens of Taiwan and to anyone on the planet who the Chinese government considers a threat to its regime. We must stop this. China wants to expand its authoritarian international order. And we are now worried that the Chinese government is imposing something on us as well.

🔹 Le Point: How does one defend oneself against Wolf Warrior Chinese diplomacy?

JW: Whether it’s the Chinese foreign ministry or embassies, Chinese diplomats have become very aggressive. Taiwan has known this for a long time. It’s in our interest is to respond clearly to this Wolf Warrior diplomacy. In addition, the international community, and in particular like-minded countries in Europe, North America and East Asia, must work together. If we are united in our core values, it will be enough signal forcefully to China that it is wrong.

🔹 Le Point: You want to join WHO just as the United States is leaving it. For years, China has quietly taken control of international institutions. Isn't it too late to reform them?

JW: No, it is still possible. Better late than never. […] We saw what was happening at the WHO, the International Civil Aviation Organization and Interpol. But it was what happened at the United Nations that was most painful for us to bear. When China was reinstated as a member in 1971, under UN General Assembly Resolution 2758, establishing the People's Republic of China as the sole legal representative of China and kicking the representative of Chiang Kai-shek out of the organization. That’s all this resolution said. It said nothing about Taiwan. The Chinese government twisted this resolution and imposed its interpretation on the UN secretariat, to make it say that Taiwan was already part of China. [...] We must be very clear about this: our island is not is not a part of the People's Republic of China!

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Today’s Vlog:
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Give me a kiss,
Cup top problem,
Not punny,
Too emotional,
My battle with greed


While Youtube has been a huge blessing in my life, sometimes, I wonder if it’s a curse. Since my Youtube career launched, I struggle with even more greed every single day. In some ways, Youtube took away my perspective. Of course, greed is in our nature and it’s in us all to be selfish. We deserve to take good care of ourselves but sometimes, we lose focus on what truly matters. At one point in my Youtube career when I grew the fastest and earned the most, I was most miserable. I wasn’t happy with the person that I was on the inside. Being so self centred also meant I was self deceived. Having it “all” didn’t full fill the gap in my heart. Now, even though I am still not where I want to be yet… I’m glad I’m not longer where I used to be. I’m making progress. I have meaning in my life. No money in the world can buy true joy. You hear it all the time- the more you give, the more you receive. I can’t agree more enough. I hope we can keep inspiring each other. Keep each other focused on what matters.



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10 REASONS HAVING FACIAL HAIR IS OVERRATED FOR ASIAN GUYS (MOVEMBER)

Many Asian guys dread Movember - a global movement that encourages men all over the world to grow moustaches in support of combating prostate cancer, testicular cancer and mental health challenges.

As the stereotype goes, Asian’s can’t grow facial hair, or at least find it very hard to, and unlike some other Asian stereotypes, this one is kind of true.

I actually did a video a few months ago on Asians not being able to grow facial hair and I received quite a few comments and questions from unhappy Asian guys longing for more than just baby hairs.

But you know, I feel its overrated. It seems like the universe likes to screw around with us because there are many Asian guys who can’t grow facial hair but would really like to, and then there’s me, an Asian guy who CAN grow facial hair, but never cared for having that ability.

Here’s 10 reasons why facial hair is overrated (for Asian guys).

1) Time

This one’s the most obvious one. It takes time, to maintain facial hair., Maintaining a well-groomed beard, or having to shave everyday takes time; time that’s better spent sleeping in, reading the paper or checking emails.

2) Cuts & Irritations

I don’t have this problem because I never shave.

But for most jobs, one is actually expected to look presentable which means frequent shaving, and thus a higher likelihood for cuts or irritations.

3) Career

A lot of jobs require a fresh face, especially in Asia. In fact, a study has shown that 84% of HR professionals agree that clean-shaven, facially hairless employees, have a much higher chance of being promoted than those with beards, moustaches and stubble.

So for those who can’t really grow facial hair.....who cares! You’re naturally one step closer to rising the ranks anyway.

4) Ageing

People often make fun of guys who can’t grow facial hair for having young looking faces.

But, really? You’re making fun of someone because they look youthful? How many people would kill to look young for their age?

Although I guess the counter to that is that asians never age, so there’s nothing to worry about. That’s a misconception. Asians do age slowly, but up to a certain point; maybe to their early 30’s, and then BAM! Oldie.

5) Food Magnet

Food. Beard. Magnet.

6) Female Perspective

Yes some studies have shown that a fair share of women do like facial hair on a guy, but this viewpoint is primarily directed towards white guys. Out of the women who are into Asian guys however, I think they prefer a clean shaven look. Especially Asian girls. From my experience, Asian females seem too not be a fan.

And for non-Asian females who are into Asian guys, they don’t care, they really don’t. If they’re into Asian dudes, they probably even prefer a hairless, smooth appearance.

7) Scratchiness

It’s not pleasant for a girl when your rough stubble cheese grates across her delicate face. That scratchiness can be really irritating for her.

8) Moustaches

When it comes to moustaches, and assuming you’re an Asian guy, do the world a favour and don’t attempt to grow one. Asians just don’t look good in those soup strainers.

Do you really wanna be looking like an Asian pedophile?

9) Celebrities

If you’re bothered by your lack of facial hair, you’re probably somewhat influenced by Hollywood and western pop culture. But even so, there are a number of heartthrob stars who are as facially sparse as the average Asian.

To name a few, Harry Styles, Michael Cera, Justin Bieber ....okay maybe they aren’t the manliest of men, but you can’t deny their popularity with girls. So if that’s your concern, it’s really no big deal.

10) Does It Even Matter?

'Nuff said.

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The minutes didn't matter. The Denver Nuggets were just encouraged to see a uniform draping Nene's beefy body again, and that great smile splashed across his face once more.


The big Brazilian forward played the final 77 seconds of the Nuggets' 118-105 win over the Dallas Mavericks on Thursday night, marking his return to the court 2 1/2 months after surgery to remove a malignant testicular tumor.

"Everybody was excited to see Nene back out there, just to see him back in his uniform, seeing him smile again after the stuff he's been through," said Carmelo Anthony, who scored 32 points and keyed the decisive run in the Nuggets' fourth straight win.

Nene had been out since Jan. 11, and it's been just over a month since he underwent chemotherapy.

In the locker room afterward, Nene never stopped smiling. He said he's still full of nerves, still absent enough stamina but certainly not lacking any strength.

"I survived, I'm still here," he said. "I'm a new man, stronger than ever, I just say, 'Thank you, everybody.' "

Allen Iverson added 31 points for the Nuggets, who are a half-game behind Golden State for the eighth and final playoff spot, and one game behind the Mavericks. The Warriors visit the Pepsi Center on Saturday night for another big matchup.

The Warriors visit the Pepsi Center on Saturday night for another big matchup.

"That game's bigger than this game," suggested Anthony.

But this game will long be remembered, too.

When Nene stripped off his warmups and finally entered the game with 1:17 left, he was given a rousing standing ovation and teammate Kenyon Martin embraced him in a bear hug.

"George Karl said, 'Go ahead, enjoy your party,' " Nene said of Denver's coach. "It's a special moment in my life."

Nene had hoped to play about 5 minutes, but those aspirations were dashed when the Nuggets fell behind by 15 points early on.

Besides, it's not as though the Nuggets were looking for a major contribution or even an emotional lift.

"It's not about how he plays," Karl, a fellow cancer survivor, said before tip-off. "We're just happy he's back and we're going to celebrate his health, we're going to celebrate his coming off of major cancer surgery, and we're just going to celebrate. This has nothing to do with basketball. We're just happy he's with us."

Iverson said this was a night he'll remember forever.

"He's a teammate, and he's somebody we care about and we want around, but life is so much bigger than basketball," Iverson said. "When it happened to him, it put it more in perspective for me that it's not just about this game, it's about life. It was just a good feeling and I was happy to be a part of it."

Karl said he wanted to cry when Nene got into the game.

"It's worthy of tears," Karl said. "To see him come back, he's a hell of a person and to help him through this, if we can help him play this year, it will be a great story, it'll be a great feeling, it will be a great building block for the character and chemistry of our team."

Anthony also chipped in 10 boards and eight assists, helping Denver overcame a 30-point night by Josh Howard and 19 points and 15 assists from Jason Kidd.

The Mavericks are 10-9 since acquiring Kidd from New Jersey, but none of the wins was against teams with winning records. Six of their final 10 games are against teams above .500, including two against Golden State.

Dallas fell to 1-1 since losing MVP Dirk Nowitzki indefinitely with knee and ankle injuries.

But the Mavs controlled the tempo for much of the game. Kidd was left unguarded on the left elbow and swished a 3-pointer in the third quarter to give the Mavericks a 79-71 lead.

The Nuggets responded with an 18-2 run, with Anthony scoring half of the points. His breakaway slam dunk gave Denver its first lead since the opening minutes.

Anthony sank four free throws with 3:17 left in the third quarter for an 86-81 lead after Dallas coach Avery Johnson and Howard received technicals for arguing a personal foul on Howard.

"Geez, I'm the only guy in the league that gets a technical by saying one word," Johnson complained. "It wasn't even a bad word. I was asking for a clarification. They have to get some tougher skin."

The Nuggets built their lead to 94-86 after three quarters and weren't threatened again.

Howard surpassed his scoring average of 19.6 points with a 22-point first half, leading Dallas to a 70-60 lead at the break. But without Nowitzki, the Mavericks couldn't keep repelling Denver's runs.

"I don't know if there was a void. Guys stepped up," Kidd said. "We just couldn't keep them off the boards and didn't take care of the ball in that second half."