一個麻醉科同行前輩曾醫師女兒的悲劇,我想說明一下,昨天應該很多人私訊我,我都沒回覆,不是我不願意第一時間幫忙發聲,這是個沉痛的悲劇,我知道大家都很熱心,但這樣沉痛的悲劇,在我立場我必須要確認幾件事。
第一,事情真偽。有不少新聞報導,應該不是謠言或假新聞。
第二,家屬的授權。這麼難過的事情,如果是我,應該是撕心裂肺的疼痛吧?也許我會選擇勇敢討回公道,也許我會選擇找個沒人找得到我的角落躲起來舔舐著永遠無法癒合的傷口,不願意再碰觸它。
我知道自己粉專的流量有多大,所以很多事情都必須要謹慎再三。如果家屬並沒有希望這件事,那旁人過多的關心其實會造成家屬的二次傷害。
這篇文章有取得曾醫師和以琳的媽媽同意。
也希望曾醫師和宇慶阿姨節哀,我相信以琳也會希望看到你們都好好的。
以下圖片和內文,轉自林宛靜醫師。
沒有直接轉林醫師原文是因為我個人覺得這樣的事件,我不忍心放上以琳的照片,怕曾醫師他們看了更加難受。
希望大家能幫幫忙連署。
--原文如下--
今晚剛知道這件事!非常非常非常痛心遺憾…
我以前在聖馬和署嘉的同事,曾醫師的獨生女,(小時還讓我看過眼睛…)在11/6發生以下事件…
我已經連署,請大家幫忙…
因為韓文介面有點難懂,所以有把步驟截圖在照片中示範…
據說要衝到20萬人才受理,我是第3700多個…
真的很震驚!韓劇裡不是有“代理司機”嗎?想不到還有酒駕!!!
拜託各位,歡迎轉傳!
代轉麻醉科曾慶暉主任的請求:
這是切身之痛,從來沒想過會發生在我們身上,我的女兒在首爾綠燈時走斑馬線回家的路上,被酒駕高速闖紅燈撞死了。
我們痛定思痛,希望不要有下一位受害者,所以我們要向青瓦台請願,修法提高嚴懲酒駕的法律,這個提案需要20萬人以上的連署,才能被公開此信,請你們幫助我們,按照下列方式完成連署,請也轉給你認識的朋友一起幫助我們,感激不盡!讓我們的女兒不會白白犧牲。
操作方式:
1.點選連結,進去後往下拉到這藍色方框劃面
2.按右下方的藍色四方形
3.選facebook確認身分
4.用自己的fb帳號去登錄
5.然後一樣再按一次點藍色四方形(這是"同意"的意思)
6.這樣您就是20萬人之一!一起為遏止酒駕盡心力,也安慰慶暉的心!
7.請幫忙盡量找朋友用FB 連署,我們需要您的連署,讓我們夫妻重新再站起來,謝謝大家幫忙
連結路徑如下⬇️
https://www1.president.go.kr/petitions/Temp/yl2lee
[A 28-year-old young woman was killed by a drunk driver while crossing a crosswalk.]
On the evening of November 6, 2020, a 28-year-old promising young woman was hit by a drunk driver while crossing the street on a green pedestrian light. She was killed on the spot.
She was my closest friend and beloved neighbor, nearing five years of residence in Korea as a foreigner. She was a passionate student who worked harder for her dreams than anyone else.
Despite years of living a difficult life in a foreign land, her affections for Korea ran deeper than anyone I knew.
Perhaps Korea was the country where my friend would have wanted to stay, rather than returning to her home country.
This beloved friend was hit by a drunk driver and was forcibly deprived of all of her future opportunities and dreams, dreams and hopes that any young person would have nurtured, would have dreamed of; she was sent to a place of no return.
My friend’s parents, who were allowed only a brief stay in Korea due to COVID-19, were told by the authorities that the driver would actually receive a softer punishment because the accident happened while the perpetrator was drunk.
A drunk driving accident is not just something that can happen to my friend. It can happen to any of our family and friends, regardless of nationality, age, or gender. Drinking and driving is premeditated murder and requires more, not less, severe punishment than other crimes.
There is only one reason for this petition.
My friend, who has gone to heaven, cannot return.
My only hope is of a future where no more precious lives, not even one, have to be taken in terrible drunk driving accidents such as this.
That this tragic event will never repeat for any of our families, our friends, and our loved ones, we urge stronger penalties for drunk driving-related crimes.
嘉義醫院指出,已號召各界到青瓦台網站連署,目前已有5千人響應,希望達到20萬人連署門檻,讓韓國政府正視酒駕致死的嚴重性,並希望修訂嚴法嚴懲酒駕事件。
https://udn.com/news/story/7321/5040118?fbclid=IwAR1tPZQg5QnCqO1_er8LRWJvr_1sCDa3B-7wtoSCbnDweKM3F2YB_Ww19Co
同時也有2部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過14萬的網紅張韶涵Angela Zhang,也在其Youtube影片中提到,張韶涵第八張專輯《張韶涵 Angela Zhang》最後一支MV『愛旅行的人』作為貫穿整張專輯的最後一隻MV來播出也背負特殊使命。 第八張專輯從概念發想到創意討論再到執行推敲成果展現,每一個細節Angela張韶涵都認真參與,每一項工作的成形,她都親力親為,對張韶涵來說,這就是一段敢於挑戰的成功音樂之...
no one lives in heaven 在 Pakar diari hati Facebook 八卦
Bila Ibu kita sudah tua.
Ibu kita ini sering kesunyian. Ibu sering ketakutan. Ibu sering dilanda kerinduan. Dahulunya hidup si Ibu bertemankan suaminya yang dicintai. Kini teman sehidupnya telah lama pergi. Janji semati tidak mampu lagi ditepati. Tinggallah si Ibu sendirian meniti hari.
Jika kita letak diri di tempat Ibu sebegini, mampukah kita menjawab soalan - soalan yang bermain di fikirannya? Dapatkah kita mendengar bisikan hatinya tanpa menitiskan sedikit pun air mata?
...Continue ReadingWhen our mother is old.
Our mother is often lonely. Moms are often scared. Mother is often affected by longing. Once a mother lived with her beloved husband. Now friends in life are long gone. The promise of the life is no longer able to be fulfilled. Leave the Mother alone on the day.
If we put ourselves in a mother's place like this, can we answer the questions that play on her mind? Can we hear the whisper of his heart without shed a little tear?
Well, feel some of what's playing on our Moms mind.
′′ My husband, why did you go first? Why leave love alone? My husband, dear miss, how do you love to live this life? Baby is scared, love is quiet. Love can't live alone. Please return my husband. Unusual love. We always do everything together. Why go first? What do you want to do? Baby is so scared."
At the time and time I type the verse in the paragraph above, I literally cry desperately - esak like a child. That's just a little bit actually. Can't afford to dive any deeper. My heart feels so small as squeezed - pinch being as small as a guli. The eyes are heavy looking, the shoulder is still heavy.
Don't be reprimanded why Mom always remember what the late Father likes and does together often. Dozens of years, there must be things that will be attached to Mom's mind forever. Surely every one that has been touched, will be felt, every happiness that has been fulfilled, will be remembered.
Don't dare talk about ′′ move on ′′ and life must go on. If we have never felt the loss of a friend who has been together for decades, we will never ever understand the longing and loss that Mother has passed until we go through it ourselves.
Don't you rudely suggest a replacement. Mom already knows who's waiting for her in heaven later. The most loved person is the husband.
Our mother is often misunderstood. Usually Mom doesn't mean what we interpret. Sometimes Mom is too honest because she's been tired all the time holding back, taking care of her heart and always ignoring her sensitivity.
We as younger, we as children must be patient. Although sometimes it's bitter to swallow, but we have to accept the way our Mother is as Mom has accepted us since we were young.
How can we not stand the burden of mother while this Mother is the one who gave birth to us? How can we raise our voice to the people who introduced us to the world? If you ever treated a mother like this, don't you remember sin, a rebellious child?
When was the last time we asked our Mother what our Mother wanted to do? If there is, try to realise it. If you haven't, make it as soon as possible. We don't know maybe it's his last desire or maybe that realised desire will give him the spirit to live for years.
At this age, Mom likes to tell stories. Sometimes the same thing. Surely most of the old things. Pay attention to him. Enjoy the conversation and the sharing. That's all that's left in Mom's mind, past things. Memory of a million color life. Moments of joy, distress, role model and border. As long as you can, take it all. Absorb the sharing. Hopefully we can follow through the experience of life.
Old age brings a thousand pain. Practice asking how our Mother's health is. Accompany Mom to the hospital when needed. Now everything is upside down. Remember us when we were small? How scared are we to see a Doctor? However, Mother's hand leadership calms everything down. Just like now. Our mother is like a terrified child, believe that she really needs a soul calm that we are her children.
The end of the word, let us not be children who do not remember our services. When we're in trouble, Mother among the first to put a hand out. Everytime we feel like being angry at Mom, think what we have donated to her? Is it the same as what we have ever received? If not, it's better to be silent than to say. Because our responsibility will not be equal. No matter how much gem gold is in the world, we can't afford to give Mother lives.
So much my heart nukilan about Mom. Hopefully can open eyes and mind.
Share this writing for more people's viewing and as a sign you love your Mother
If your mother is gone, pray and give charity through the benefits she has given and in her name. Hopefully this can help him in the afterlife.
Credit: Akhtar SyamirTranslated
no one lives in heaven 在 Milton Goh Blog and Sermon Notes Facebook 八卦
You are the Light of the World
“As he passed by, he saw a man blind from birth. His disciples asked him, “Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?” Jesus answered, “Neither did this man sin, nor his parents; but, that the works of God might be revealed in him. I must work the works of him who sent me, while it is day. The night is coming, when no one can work. While I am in the world, I am the light of the world.” When he had said this, he spat on the ground, made mud with the saliva, anointed the blind man’s eyes with the mud, and said to him, “Go, wash in the pool of Siloam” (which means “Sent”). So he went away, washed, and came back seeing.” (John 9:1-7 WEB)
The disciples who did not have the power to heal, were discussing why the man was born blind.
Sometimes people have a tendency to talk as if they know what is going on, assuming things that they know nothing about.
We make up all sorts of smart-sounding explanations for why things happen, when only God knows the truth.
The disciples asked whether the man sinned such that he was blind from birth. It is either that they believed in reincarnation (the false concept of past lives), or acting smart has just made them really foolish. How can an unborn person sin so that they are born blind?
Jesus was not interested to discuss about sin. He wanted to talk about God and to release God’s power.
In stark contrast to the disciples, Jesus is solution oriented. He knew He had the power to heal the man and doing that was His priority.
Jesus gave us a pattern to follow. Night is coming upon this world—a time of great tribulation. The church won’t be here to do the works of God to restrain the power of evil.
“You are the light of the world. A city located on a hill can’t be hidden. Neither do you light a lamp, and put it under a measuring basket, but on a stand; and it shines to all who are in the house. Even so, let your light shine before men; that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven.” (Matthew 5:14-16 WEB)
While we are still in the world, we are the light of the world. Say this now: “I am the light of the world, for the Spirit of Christ dwells in me.”
You have the responsibility to shine since you have this light. God has sent you to be a bearer of His light. Pray for people and be a conduit for God’s power to flow through to the world. Do good whenever God gives you the opportunity. Be solution-focused like Jesus!
See God’s love and grace for you in all the 37 recorded miracles of Jesus Christ, and receive bold faith for more miracles in your own life: https://bit.ly/messiahs-miracles
no one lives in heaven 在 張韶涵Angela Zhang Youtube 的評價
張韶涵第八張專輯《張韶涵 Angela Zhang》最後一支MV『愛旅行的人』作為貫穿整張專輯的最後一隻MV來播出也背負特殊使命。
第八張專輯從概念發想到創意討論再到執行推敲成果展現,每一個細節Angela張韶涵都認真參與,每一項工作的成形,她都親力親為,對張韶涵來說,這就是一段敢於挑戰的成功音樂之旅,如今分享給大家除了專輯的好音樂外,也傳達出一種對人生經歷世事回首,愛旅行的人才能體會的正能量。
姚若龍的歌詞,一直賦予張韶涵清楚的溫暖形象,『愛旅行的人』充滿了創作大師的鮮明風格,也依照張韶涵的個性量身譜寫,歌詞中清楚盡現張韶涵獨特的率性與灑脫,藉由這首歌告訴大家,人生的道路上會經歷著不同的旅行,沿途充滿了冒險和挑戰,只有經歷那些過程才會讓一個人成長,內心才會變得強大,更加堅強;而旅行的終點並非結束,是自己對自己的認可。
MV邀集了多位知名旅遊部落客參與演出,作為張韶涵這張專輯中最後介紹的一首音樂錄影帶,就是講述旅行者心境的『愛旅行的人』。
姚若龍的歌詞原本就刻畫入裡,讓人看了心有戚戚焉,導演陳映之再以巨大的流動風景明信片的概念,虛擬的機艙或是候機室的感覺,呈現旅途中萍水相逢但各自背負著故事相聚離別,彷彿有著說不完的旅途趣聞,卻又一切盡在不言中。
愛旅行的人 Travel Enthusiast
作詞:姚若龍
作曲:Ger
有時候悶得寧願我 能完全隱形
Sometimes frustration gets to me, I wish I could be invisible
溝通並不代表 就能去澄清
Communication doesn't always lead to clarification
遼闊的世界人和人 都有各自的邏輯
Everything and everyone has their own logic in this wide world
不想說服什麼人 更不想改變我自己
Don't want to convince anyone, no intention of changing myself either
有緣份就談心 沒默契就別矯情
If we click we'll get along, If not, don't pretend
若個性決定命運 用微笑回應
If personality defines fate, respond with a smile
走過的每個風景 留下一些回憶
Every scenery remains some memory
有的晴朗了心情 也有的是嘆息
Some lighten up the hearts, some are depressing
熱愛旅行的人 總有某種純真
Those who love to travel tend to possess purity
不怕雨雪風塵 有忘了痛苦的天份
Unaffected by rain and storm, gifted with the ability to forget pain
黑夜等我的燈 就像燦爛星辰
Darkness awaits my light, like the shiny stars
讓勇氣溫暖到沸騰 不再是孤獨靈魂
Warm up courage untill it's boiled, no longer a wandering soul
沿路蒐集來的紀念品 擁有特殊的魔力
Souvenirs that are picked up along the journey hold special magic
放在手心看著 情緒最終會平靜
Hold one in the palm and gaze at it, the heart will eventually be calm
忍不住要佩服自己 有過這許多經歷
Can't help admiring myself for possessing so many experiences
還相信有一個天堂 許的願望會降臨
I still believe there's a heaven that grants my wish
從飄雪的山林 來到熱帶的雨林
From the snowing forrest to the rain forest
我看過美麗夕陽 還是愛黎明
I've seen beautiful sunsets but still love the sunrise
等待著從漆黑裡看太陽閃耀走近
Waiting in the darkness for the sun to rise gloriously
對今天感到好奇 用全新的情緒
Face today with curiousity using a brand new feeling
熱愛旅行的人 內心總有回聲
Those who love to travel have a voice from their hearts
喊著為夢奔走 能夠讓生命變豐盛
That screams, chasing dreams will make lives richer
最酸澀的淚痕 最甜蜜的笑聲
The most bitter tears and the sweetest laughter
編輯成最美的繪本 去永恆精彩過程
Create the most fascinating picture books that eternalize the journey
就算開窗會飄點雨 我寧願雨淋
Even if rain falls in with the window open, I'd rather get wet
不想緊閉自己 沒空氣呼吸
Don't want to enclose myself, with no air to breath
no one lives in heaven 在 BILLbilly01 Youtube 的評價
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"Kodaline - Brother" Lyrics:
When we were young
We were the ones
The kings and queens
Oh yeah, we ruled the world
We smoked cigarettes
Man no regrets
Wish I could relive
Every single word
We've taken different paths
And travelled different roads
I know we'll always end up on the same one when we're old
And when you're in the trenches
And you're under fire I will cover you
[Chorus]
If I was dying on my knees
You would be the one to rescue me
And if you were drowned at sea
I'd give you my lungs so you could breathe
I've got you brother-er-er-er
I've got you brother-er-er-er
I've got you brother-er-er-er
I've got you brother-er-er-er
[Verse 2]
Oh brother, we'll go deeper than the ink
Beneath the skin of our tattoos
Though we don't share the same blood
You're my brother and I love you
That's the truth
We're living different lives
Heaven only knows
If we'll make it back
With all our fingers and our toes
5 years, 20 years, come back
It will always be the same
[Chorus]
If I was dying on my knees
You would be the one to rescue me
And if you were drowned at sea
I would give you my lungs so you could breathe
I've got you brother-er-er-er
I've got you brother-er-er-er
[Post Chorus]
And if we hit on troubled water
I'll be the one to keep you warm and safe
And we'll be carrying each other
Until we say goodbye on our dying day
Because I've got you brother-er-er-er
I've got you brother-er-er-er
I've got you brother-er-er-er
I've got you brother-er-er-er
If I was dying on my knees
You would be the one to rescue me
And if you were drowned at sea
I would give you my lungs so you could breathe
[Outro]
Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh
I've got you brother-er-er-er
I've got you brother-er-er-er