Egan pointed to my belly recently and said “Another baby?” (Should I laugh or cry?)
Egan最近指我肚子然後問我“還有另外一個寶寶？“（不知道要笑還是哭）
So, here’s the truth of it. 40 weeks of baby development can be and feel and even look so so sexy while you know there’s a baby in your womb and you’re creating a life. Once that baby is out and about and partying hard at night, though, suddenly your body doesn’t feel so sexy anymore.
好的。不想聽的話來了。你花40個禮拜的時間來“製造一個寶寶“，過程中有時候真的會覺得好幸福，甚至你會覺得自己好性感。肚子很好摸。但，寶寶一出生然後晚上在房間不睡覺開趴的時候，你看到自己的身材會突然覺得一點也不性感了。
There’s saggy bits, there’s wrinkles, there’s stretch marks, there are things flapping around that never flapped before. Ladies---- You WILL still look pregnant. I magically grew another two butts (which you’d THINK would be a good thing, but nope…) Boobies are probably looking AMAZING, but even that comes with the challenge of what to do with these new sets of udders.
有鬆鬆下垂的一坨一坨，有皺紋，有好多新的妊娠紋，有不該飛來飛去的肉。。。在飛來飛去。 女人們，你。看。起。來。還。是。會。像。在。懷。孕！我的屁股多了兩個（不是好事變翹的那種）。胸部，哇噻！很漂亮喔。。。 很大，很挺，很豐滿。。。但是，到底要怎麼使用這組新的ㄋㄟ ㄋㄟ啊，又要開始跟它戰鬥了。
I found my postpartum pic after Egan and here’s my postpartum pic after Dylan. My body the second time around definitely feels even MORE saggy and baggy all over. Definitely a lot more “luggage” the second time around.
我找到那時候生Egan的產後身材。也跟你分享我生Dylan的產後身材。看的出來比起上一次，我這次到處都更鬆鬆垮垮軟軟的。比較多Dylan忘記帶走的“行李“。
Anyway, this is just a quick reminder (to you and to myself!) that it took us 9-10 months to create a new life, so don’t be too hard on yourself when after you deliver a baby, your body is looking like it does. It will take time to heal, to recover, to rebuild, to tighten up again, and to become a new version of your old body.
最後，這是一個溫馨的提醒(給你跟我自己！）我們花了快10個月的時間創造新生命，所以不要對自己太嚴格。生完小孩也是要對自己好一點。你會需要時間治癒，恢復，重建，再次變緊實，讓身體變成2.0新版本。
媽媽們，加油！爸爸們，鼓勵一下你寶寶的媽媽囉！
