早安~每天都覺得心情不美麗嗎?
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💐How to Stop the Negative Chatter in Your Head
打消大腦中的消極念頭
🧸Did you make your New Year’s resolutions? I hope you put “cognitive reappraisal” on the list. Psychologists use this term to refer to the practice of replacing negative thoughts with ones that are both more positive and true. People who control their self-talk in this manner have better mental health, more life satisfaction, and even better-functioning hearts, research shows. Experts say the technique, which is central to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, is an important skill to master during difficult times. The good news is that you can do it at home.
你的新年目標定好了嗎?我希望你的目標裡有「認知重評」這一項。在心理學中,「認知重評」指的是用更積極、也更真實的想法來代替消極的念頭。研究顯示,能夠以這種方式控制自我對話的人,不僅心理更健康、生活滿意度更高,就連心臟功能也更強大。專家指出,作為「認知行為療法」的核心,認知重評是度過艱難時期需掌握的一項重要技能。好消息是,你在家就可以練習這項技能。
-cognitive reappraisal: 認知重評
-psychologist: 心理學家
-master: 精通
🌞Ethan Kross is an experimental psychologist and neuroscientist who specializes in emotion regulation. He is a professor of psychology and management at the University of Michigan and director of the Emotion & Self Control Laboratory, where he studies the science of introspection, or the silent conversations people have with themselves. He has a new book coming out this month called “Chatter: The Voice in Our Head, Why it Matters, and How to Harness It.”
實驗心理學家、神經科學家伊桑·克洛斯(Ethan Kross)是情緒控制方面的專家,他目前在密歇根大學擔任心理學及管理學教授,同時還兼任情緒及自我控制實驗室(Emotion & Self Control Laboratory)的主任。在這家實驗室裡,克洛斯主要研究與自省相關的課題,所謂自省,就是人們與自己進行的一場無聲對話。今年1月,他的新書《碎碎念:腦中的聲音、它的重要性以及如何掌控它》(Chatter: The Voice in Our Head, Why it Matters, and How to Harness It)出版。
-specialize in sth: 精通某事
-introspection: 自我省察、自省
-chatter: 碎碎念
-harness: 運用、掌控
🍀Does everyone talk to themselves?
Dr. Kross: Yes. There are lots of ways we use language internally. We use it to keep things fresh in our heads, like repeating a phone number. We try to simulate what we are planning to say, like when we go on an interview or a date. We talk to ourselves when we’re trying to or when we are trying to solve a problem. When we are doing something difficult, we mentally walk ourselves through the steps we need to take. Self-talk helps us to author the stories of our life, to capture stories that explain what we have gone through. Even if our self-talk is negative, that doesn’t always mean it’s bad. We can learn things from painful experiences that help us grow and improve.
每個人都會和自己對話嗎?
克洛斯:沒錯。我們和自己對話的方式有很多種。為了讓自己記住某件事,我們會和自己說話,比如不斷重複一個電話號碼;有時候自我對話是為了排演某個場景,比如在面試或約會之前;還有的時候,當我們想努力控制自己,或是想要解決某個問題時,也會自說自話。在遇到難事兒時,我們也會在腦海中構想自己需要採取哪些步驟。
這種自我對話可以幫助我們書寫生活裡的故事,記錄我們經歷的點點滴滴。即便自我對話有時很消極,也並不總是意味著它一無是處。痛苦的經歷可以教會我們成長,幫助我們不斷改進。
-capture: 捕捉
-painful: 痛苦的
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#電影英文筆記
#C式練英文法
大家敲碗敲來的!
Marriage Story(婚姻故事)Nicole 獨白的部分。
因為已經看完電影,所以當再次很深度的看 Nicole 這段獨白時,
更能感受他們在這段感情中,是從哪個細微末節中開始產生不愉快和矛盾的。
編劇真的好厲害,邊聽打時,邊感受出這段台詞和影像互相產生的節奏性。
沒想到單純練個英文,意外發現這麼多電影有趣的地方!
(關於我怎麼練的部分,請看上一篇喔)
來吧!
分享 Nicole 的獨白中,我覺得滿值得學的地方
單字的部分,當然就是對 undaunted 這個字很深層的體會,
看完電影後,再把Charlie的個性、形象和 undaunted 連起來,很具體吧!
Undaunted 頑強的,不屈不撓的
- He never lets other people’s opinions or any setbacks keep him from what he wants to do.
(嗯,這點我很有感,我也有個這樣的老公…)
Charlie eats like he’s trying to get it over with.
(Charlie 每次吃東西的時候都草草了事想要趕快吃完。)
To get sth over with 可以先觀察這兩句
I’m not looking forward to this stupid blind date. My mother told me to do it. I just want to get it over with.(我不期待這次的相親,我媽叫我要去的,我只是想要趕快去一去敷衍了事。)
I know you don’t want to clean the house, but the sooner you get it over with, the sooner you can go back to your Switch.(我知道你不想要整家裡,但你越快把事情做一做,你就越快可以回去玩你的Switch。)
所以可以感受到,就是一件你不是很想做的事,想要趕快做完交差這種感覺。
Charlie takes all my moods steadily, he doesn’t give in to them or make me feel bad about them.(Charlie坦然接受我的各種情緒,不會跟著我失控,也不會讓我難為情。)
這句話講得真好!大家是不是都應該來學學這點,有助於長久關係喔~
這句英文要我來講我也許會講得亂七八糟什麼lose control/composure都出來,原來”give in to my moods”就好!
He moved to New York from Indiana with no safety net, and now he’s more New Yorker than any New Yorker. (他毅然決然從印第安納州搬到紐約,現在成了道地的紐約客。)
with no safety net這句一開始我以為是類似「在沒有任何人的幫助、在當地也不認識任何人的情況下」的這種「安全網」,不過翻譯翻得更好,就是不顧任何不方便還是毅然決然搬來。
還有很多句呢!
你們喜歡哪一句呢?
What I love about Charlie…
Charlie is undaunted. He never lets other people’s opinions or any setbacks keep him from what he wants to do.
Charlie eats like he’s trying to get it over with and like there won’t be enough food for everyone. A sandwich is to be strangled while devoured. But he’s incredibly neat, and I rely on him to keep things in order.
He’s energy-conscious.
He doesn’t look in the mirror too often.
He cries easily in movies.
He’s very self-sufficient, he can darn a sock, cook himself dinner, and iron a shirt.
He rarely gets defeated, which…I feel like I always do.
Charlie takes all my moods steadily, he doesn’t give in to them or make me feel bad about them.
He’s a great dresser. He never looks embarrassing, which is hard for a man.
He’s very competitive.
He loves being a dad. He loves all the things he’s supposed to hate, like the tantrums, the waking up at night. It’s almost annoying how much he likes it, but…then, it’s mostly nice.
He disappears into his own world. He and Henry are alike in that way.
He can tell people when they have food in their teeth or on their face in a way that doesn’t make them feel bad.
Charlie is self-made. His parents…I only met them once, but he told me there was a lot of alcohol and some violence in his childhood.
He moved to New York from Indiana with no safety net, and now he’s more New Yorker than any New Yorker.
He’s brilliant at creating a family out of whoever is around.
With the theater company, he cast a spell that made everyone feel included. No one, not even an intern was unimportant.
He can remember all the inside jokes.
He’s extremely organized and thorough. He’s very clear about what he wants, unlike me, who can’t always tell.
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《UDN》報導:
In Taiwan, two out of every ten people in poverty are children. According to statistics from the Taiwan Fund for Children and Families, approximately 4-6% of children will be born into families suffering from poverty. They don’t have enough food and nutrition, lack protection and care, and grow up to fall into the vicious cycle of poverty. “There is no simple solution to poverty.” From the long-term observation of the YongLin Education Foundation, 100 children have 100 different stories. There is no simple solution to their problem. “You have to help every child achieve his or her happiness.” Get close to them, listen to them, and lend them a helping hand.
1. suffer from poverty 陷於貧窮
2. according to 根據
3. lack proper nutrition缺乏適當的營養
4. the vicious cycle of poverty 貧困的惡性循環
5. there is no simple solution 沒有單一的解決方式
6. long-term observation 長期觀察
7. lend someone a helping hand 像某人伸出援手
台灣每10個窮人中,就有2個是兒童,據家扶基金會統計,約有4-6%的孩子生而貧困。童年時食不果腹、缺乏照顧與保護,長大了也悲慘落入上一代的貧窮困境。「貧窮沒有單一的解決方式,」長期扎根偏鄉、照顧學童的永齡教育基金會觀察,100個貧窮兒背後有100個故事,沒有同樣一致的解決方式,「只有幫每一個貧窮兒量身打造幸福。」靠近他們、傾聽他們,向他們伸出援手。
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The 23-year-old Liang-chin Chen once worked four jobs as a child. When in junior high school, his parents failed in their business venture and were frequent by loan sharks who often came to collect debts. They borrowed NT$300,000, but with rolling interests, their debt accumulated into the millions. His family lived in metal shacks, and all their hard-earned cash was given to underground loan sharks. “I earn my own living expenses, and I went to sell mantou (Chinese steamed buns) at moving night markets for NT$5 apiece. When business was good, I would earn NT$400, and the whole family would be able to fill their bellies the next day.” Once when he was in the seventh grade, a gang member came to his house and scolded him: If you don’t have money, why do you bother to study? Why not go out and make some money?!
8. business venture 商業冒險、事業投機
9. loan shark 放高利貸者
10. collect debts 討債
11. rolling interest 滾利
12. metal shacks 鐵皮屋
13. hard-earned cash 辛苦錢
14. fill their bellies填飽他們的肚子
15. scold (v.) 責罵,責備
16. a gang member 黑道成員
17. bother to 努力,盡力;費心*
23歲的陳良進年幼時曾同時打4份。讀國中時,父母因為生意失敗、家道中落,三不五時就有黑道上門討債,借了30萬利息滾出幾百萬債務,全家人住在鐵皮屋裡,辛苦賺的錢都繳給地下錢莊。「我自己的生活費自己賺,到許多流動夜市賣饅頭,賣掉一顆賺5元,生意好時一個晚上賺400元,全家人隔天就能吃飽,」陳良進說,國一時黑道上門,指著他罵:「沒錢讀什麼書,為什麼不出去賺錢?」
*bother to: https://bit.ly/2Y676IH
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In this environment, Liang-chin Chen could not care less about school work, focusing only on working part-time jobs to make ends meet. He lived this way until his high school teacher convinced him that “studying holds the greater value” by showing him how he can receive scholarships through good grades. It’s more cost-effective than selling mantou. Liang-chin Chen climbed from the bottom of a remote high school to the top of his class in a national university. His university even helped him pay back the loan sharks through scholarships. He is currently a postgraduate student at National Cheng Kung University. This year, Liang-chin Chen is teaching elders how to exercise in Tainan’s remote areas. “I don’t have the money to contribute back to society and to help others, so I will use my skills and abilities to help elders in the community.” Liang-chin Chen is also a lecturer for Fubon Charity Foundation’s Youth from Disadvantaged Family Program.
18. could not care less abt sth (表示強調)一點也不在乎某事 (這裡指自暴自棄)*
19. make ends meet 勉強維持生計
20. cost-effective 有成本效益的;物有所值的;合算的,划算的
21. contribute back to 回饋給
22. disadvantaged 處於劣勢的,處於不利地位的
*could not care less: https://bit.ly/3ft0UjR
在這種環境下,除了每天打工賺錢溫飽外,學業上自暴自棄,上學只為了中午能吃到營養午餐。直到高中遇到良師跟他說「讀書CP值更高」,還教他計算成績多少可以換取多少獎學金,比賣饅頭划算。讓他從山上放牛班的學生變成國立大學第一名畢業,大學還靠獎學金幫家裡還完地下錢莊的債,現在就讀成大的研究所。陳良進今年到台南偏鄉教老人運動,「自己沒有錢回饋社會、幫助別人,只好用一技之長回饋社區幫助老人家。」最近陳良進也接受中華人之幼協會邀請,擔任講師。
★★★★★★★★★★★★
Liang-chin Chen is a paragon of the charity’s efforts to invite homegrown talents back to local comminutes in Tainan. Always smiling and speaking Taiwanese with elders, Liang-chin Chen can empathize with poverty-stricken children in remote regions. “I was a kid who grew up in a metal shack, but I met so many remarkable people who helped me during my studies. Do not be ashamed of your roots. Work to achieve your goals 10, 20 years from now, and you can do it. I am a living example of what one can accomplish.”
23. a paragon of 完人,盡善盡美的模範(或典型)
24. homegrown talents 在地的優異人才
25. local communities 在地社區
26. poverty-stricken 貧困的,一貧如洗的
27. remote regions 偏鄉地區
28. remarkable people 貴人
29. don’t be ashamed of 不需要以…為恥,不用為…感到不好意思
30. one’s roots 一個人的出身
陳良進就是該協會邀請合作留在台南家鄉貢獻的範例。總是面帶笑容,跟長輩講得一口好台語的陳良進,可以理解偏鄉貧困孩子的處境,「我是住在鐵皮屋長大的小孩,學習過程中遇到大大小小的貴人,因此長大後想回饋,也能看到不同的世界,」他說,走入偏鄉會跟貧窮兒說,不用害怕出身環境不好,要比拚的是10年、20年後的成就,他自己就是活生生的示範。
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貧窮解方 Solutions to Poverty
1.體制外撈起需要幫助的貧窮兒
Help poverty-stricken children outside the system
2.運用在地人力,降低流動率
Use local talents to reduce talent loss
3.貧窮兒長大返鄉回饋,自己家鄉的孩子自己救
Contribute back to the community from which we came
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Satirist
Blackface
There’s more than meets the eye
This is bullshit
Siren wailing
Egregious
Run-in
Slap the shit out of you
Garner
Butthurt
Politically incorrect
Unbeknownst to sb
Epicenter
Woke
Gorge / gorgeous
I can’t with you
Chuckle
Immune to sth
Conscience
Riddled with guilt
Misnomer
Go down on sb
Moan
Pressing issue
Slick
I could come with
Clear throat
Hot lay
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呢一首歌係近期超級stuck in my head,好深情好sweet, 平坦描述緊我好嚮往既一種愛情既歌黎。每一次聽都感覺到已經沉浸左係裡面咁,可以留意下啲歌詞?係呢段大家都home office或者無得出街既時候,可以同你愛既人一齊係屋企都可以經歷到既type of love.
Hope everyone stay safe, healthy and sweet in your way❤️ love you!!
Bruno major is one of my favorite singer songwriter. And this song is definitely sth else, I just can't stop listening and thinking of it. Whenever I sing this song, I just feel like I m drowning in this perfect kind of love❤️ In this very period, whenever you re doing home office or have no where to go but stay home, you can experience this slow, little and best kind of love with your loved ones. Anyway, enjoy and go check out Bruno's other songs!!
Lyrics:
Track suits and red wine
Movies for two
We'll take off our phones
And we'll turn off our shoes
We'll play Nintendo
Though I always lose
'Cause you'll watch the TV
While I'm watching you
There's not many people
I'd honestly say
I don't mind losing to
But there's nothing
Like doing nothing
With you
Dumb conversations
We lose track of time
Have I told you lately
I'm grateful you're mine
We'll watch The Notebook
For the seventeenth time
I'll say, it's stupid
Then you'll catch me crying
We're not making out
On a boat in the rain
Or in a house I've painted blue
But there's nothing
Like doing nothing
With you
So shut all the windows
And lock all the doors
We're not looking for no one
don't need nothing more
You'll bite my lip and
I'll want you more
Until we end up
In a heap on the floor
Mm
You could be dancing on tabletops
Wearing high-heels
Drinking until the world
Spins like a wheel
But tonight your apartment
Had so much appeal
Who needs stars?
We've got a roof (mm)
But there's nothing
Like doing nothing
With you
Mm
No, there's nothing
Like doing nothing
With you
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