culture example的八卦，YOUTUBE和Yahoo名人娛樂都在討論

"Tuan.... jangan sesekali bandingkan apa yang tuan buat dengan apa yang isteri buat.... Apa yang tuan buat takkan pernah sama dengan apa yang isteri tuan buat dan lalui... ketika tuan nyenyak tidur tahukah tuan berapa kali isteri tuan bangun tidur, betulkan kedudukan anak yang kepalanya terteleng ke tepi... tukar lampinnya.. beri dia susu & baru tidur? Tahukah tuan betapa banyak perit yang isteri tuan lalui ketika mengandung #9bulan10hari, berdepan saat melahirkan anak & menyusukannya? Bayangkan... bila tangan tuan luka sedikit pun tuan terasa sakitnya.. apatah lagi yang bertarung nyawa melahirkan anak?.. Jadi, janganlah bandingkan apa yang tuan buat dengan apa yang isteri buat... kerana ia takkan pernah sama... " - Ustaz Ebit Lew ( Pakar Syariah 9bulan10hari)
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#kisahbenar
Ada suami ni jenis suka complain...

Katanya dialah yang buat semua kerja.. dialah yang paling bz.. dialah yang buat itu & ini...

Sehingga bila isteri minta tolong tidurkan anak pun dia ungkit.. katanya "saya dah mandikan anak, pakaikan dia baju.. dah byk sy buat"

Sedangkan benda yang suami tu buat hanya sekali dari 4 kali yang isterinya buat...

Walaupun buat hanya sekali namun diungkitnya mcm beratus kali buat...

Isterinya diam... cakap pun tak guna... sebab sehingga bila bila pun dia tetap akan kata dialah yang paling banyak buat kerja..

Sedangkan suaminya hanya berkepit dengan telefon berjam di tangan sambil baring..

Isterinya... kejap kejap bangun uruskan makan minum anak2 dan keluarga... kejap kejap layan anak sebab anak anak lebih suka bercakap dengan ibu dari ayahnya yang kerap melayan handphone!

Walaupun isterinya buat semua... tapi dia tetap kata dialah yang cari nafkah & dialah yang banyak kerja...!

Isteri di rumah yang buat kerja online business untuk sama sama bantu suami ni tak nampak!

Come on lah brother... tuan lelaki... tuan patut lebih pandai beri contoh terbaik buat isteri...

Bukannya mengarah itu & ini guna hukum Islam tapi bila sentuh bab sama sama jaga semuanya ditolak ke tepi!

Maka si isteri ini terlalu makan hati berhari2.. sehingga apa yang dia buat pun seperti terpaksa & rela hati..

& si suami... terus bela diri.. katanya dialah yang selalu makan hati...

Pelik..!

Macam mana rezeki nak masuk kalau hati bidadari sendiri pun ditolak ke tepi??

Tak terasa berdosakah buat orang yang tinggalkan hidup single & family demi suami?

Lebih 80% isteri makan hati dengan suami... & merekalah antara suami yang hatinya sering tak tenteram & bila buat apa saja terasa tak cukup sempurna.

Ustaz Ebit Lew selalu pesan... jagalah hati ibu & isteri kita.. bahagiakan mereka... dengan itu banyak rezeki yg tak disangka sangka mudah menghampiri kita.

COPYRIGHT@Nazira Nazir buat 9bulan10hari. Tak dihalalkan copy paste! Elakkan budaya copy paste. Menulislah sendiri...
" Sir.... don't ever compare what you do with what the wife does.... what you do will never be the same as what your wife does and go through... when you sleep well you know how many times your wife woke up , correct the position of the child whose head is terteleng to the side... change the baby.. give him milk & just sleep? Do you know how much pain your wife is going through when she is pregnant with #9 Bulan10hari, face when she gives birth to child & child? Imagine... when your hands are hurt even a little bit is painful.. What else is the one who fights the life of giving birth?.. so don't compare what you do with what the wife does... because it will never be the same... " - Ustaz @[465806410116276:274:Ebit Lew] (Syariah Expert @[151329642013884:274:9bulan10hari])
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There's a husband who likes to complain...

He said he did all the work.. He's the most busy.. He did it & this...

Until when the wife asks for help to make her child mention it.. She said "I've bathed her child, put her clothes on.. I've done a lot"

While the thing that the husband does only once from 4 times his wife does...

Even though I do it only once but it seems like I've done it hundreds of times...

His wife is silent... even talking is useless... because until whenever he will still say he is the most working..

While her husband only berkepit with a phone for hours in hand while laying down..

His wife... waking up for a while to manage to eat children and family... for a while to treat children because the children prefer to talk to the mother of her father who often treats her handphone!

Even though his wife did it all... but he still said he was the one who made a living & he was the one who worked a lot...!

Wife at home who does online business work to help her husband don't see it!

Come on brother... the master... you should be more good at giving the best example to your wife...

It's not leading that & this is using Islamic law but when you touch the same chapter, take care of everything being pushed to the side!

So this wife eats her heart too much.. until what she does is like forced & willing..

& the husband... continue to defend himself.. He says he's the one who always eats the heart...

Weird..!

How do you want to enter if your own angel's heart is rejected by the side??

Don't you feel the can for the people who leave their single life & family for the sake of their husbands?

More than 80 % of wives eat their hearts with their husbands... & they are among husbands whose hearts are often not at peace & when they do anything they don't feel perfect.

Ustaz Ebit Lew always order... take care of our mother & wife's hearts.. make them happy... with that many unexpected provisions that will be easy to approach us.

Copyright @ @[1416700617:2048:Nazira Nazir] for @[151329642013884:274:9bulan10hari]. The copy paste is not allowed! Avoid the culture of copy paste. Write by myself...Translated

Press statement by the Minister of Youth and Sports, Malaysia

I condemn in the strongest terms, the violence which took place at the AFF-Suzuki Cup semi-final fixture between Malaysia and Vietnam at the Shah Alam Stadium last night. Although only a small segment of Malaysian fans turned unruly, their violent conduct directed at visiting Vietnamese fans was completely unacceptable and has tarnished Malaysia’s reputation.

This is clearly not the Malaysian way. Violence is not and was never part our culture. The vast majority of Malaysian fans were respectful, courteous and hospitable last night, and I am saddened that the football match was marred by the actions of a small number of hooligans

I would like to apologise to the Vietnamese fans for the behaviour of these unruly fans, whose actions have been condemned by many Malaysians.

I have spoken to the Deputy Inspector-General of Police and have asked the police for cooperation in expediting the investigations. Given that the photos of the assailants have been widely circulated on social media, I hope that the police will swiftly bring those responsible to justice.

I also called the Vietnamese Ambassador to Malaysia, His Excellency Pham Cao Phong, and I reiterated my apologies to the Vietnamese fans for what transpired last night. I assured him that the police will be proactive and swift in their investigations.

At the same time, I requested from the Ambassador safe passage for our fans who will be travelling to Hanoi for the second leg of the Malaysia-Vietnam match on Dec 11. He assured me that the safety of Malaysian fans travelling to Hanoi will be looked after by Vietnamese authorities.

In light of this incident, I urge Malaysian fans travelling to Hanoi to take all necessary safety precautions. While we appreciate the safety assurance given by the Ambassador, tensions are still running high. I hope that all Malaysian travellers will be not only be careful, but more importantly, be responsible and respectful.

Sports is meant to unify and bring people together. Likewise for the AFF-Suzuki Cup, it is meant to unite the Southeast Asian community in the spirit of friendly competition. Not only am I disheartened by the mindless acts of violence last night, I am deeply disappointed that we failed to show the Southeast Asian community that we can lead by example through our sportsmanship on and off the field.

8 December, 2014

【台美日共同守護印太安全】
　　
美國、日本、台灣三國智庫共同主辦「2020台美日三邊印太安全對話」，包括蔡英文總統、美國前國務院助卿坎博(Kurt Campbell)、前國防部印太安全助理部長薛瑞福(Randall Schriver)、日本前駐美大使佐佐木賢一郎等重要人士都與會。
　　
我也參與三國國會議員的對談，與羅致政委員、陳以信委員、美國聯邦眾議員貝拉(Ami Bera)以及日本眾議員鈴木馨祐，交流2020後的印太及台海情勢與願景。
　　
結果準備厚厚一疊的英文講稿幾乎沒派上用場，講太HIGH不小心就脫稿演出....。無論如何還是提供原本的講稿跟大家參詳，一起來練習英文吧：
　　
　　　　
2020 Taiwan-US-Japan Trilateral Indo-Pacific Security Dialogue

Hello moderator, fellow panelists, I am Taiwan legislator Freddy Lim.

This year, due to the pandemic, we can only conduct this panel online. I’m still very glad to be invited to attend this event and exchange ideas with these great panelists. Here I want to share my views on today’s main topic: “Challenges and Opportunities in the Indo-Pacific Region and the Taiwan Strait in 2020 & Beyond”.

First I want to start with the conventional positioning of Taiwan under the established international order.

After WWII, the international order led by the allies dragged Taiwan into China’s civil war. Since then, Taiwan's been struggling with the “One China” dispute, unable to gain independence and world recognition like many other colonies.

Even though Taiwanese people have built an independent and democratic country after half a century of hard work, now we enjoy freedom and human rights, the international community still isolates Taiwan. One of the main reasons is obviously China.

The established international community viewed China as a huge economic opportunity, a partner that would eventually carry out political reforms and be integrated into modern international order. Under this conventional thinking, the international community is willing to help China ease and suppress many of its unpleasant problems, including the thorny "Democratic Taiwan."

This has reduced Taiwan to merely China’s “Taiwan Problem”. We’re even slandered as the “troublemaker” of the Taiwan Strait; As a result, the respect that Taiwan deserves continues to be shelved, and the active role we can play, the contributions we can make in the international community are also ignored.

However, this established international structure is now changing.

After decades of appeasement policy, and acquiring WTO membership in 2001, China’s various structural changes that the world anticipated have never taken place. On the contrary, China’s been using organized measures, such as bribing, infiltration, and hybrid-warfare, to undermine international norms. It’s worked hard to manipulate and control international organizations, in order to project its influence onto the world. These actions have been even more distinct after Xi Jinping became President of China in 2012.

Internationally, China implemented debt-trap diplomacy on many countries through the Belt and Road Initiative. It established Confucius Institutes around the world, which are basically intelligence operations in the name of culture. Chinese tech giant, Huawei also aids China’s international surveillance. Not to mention China’s relentless expansion in the South China Sea, building military bases, creating man-made islands. This year, it’s even more serious. We witnessed the long time Chinese infiltration into UN organizations. The favoritism towards China helped its cover-up, which led to the dysfunction of WHO, ultimately causing the COVID-19 global pandemic.

Domestically, the Chinese government not only failed to implement any political reforms, but it also created the “Social Credit” system with advanced technology, to surveil and control its own people; In addition, the Chinese government built the notorious “Reeducation Camps” - concentration camps in reality, in Tibet, Xingjian, where human rights conditions were already in a bad shape. Even the Hong Kong people, who were supposed to be protected by the promise of “One Country, Two Systems”, their freedom and human rights were completely destroyed by the Chinese government.

These compelling examples show that there is some serious fallacy in the conventional way of viewing China. All facts point to this: Taiwan is not the problem. China is the problem. China is the troublemaker of the Taiwan Strait. It’s the troublemaker of the Indo-Pacific region. It’s even the troublemaker of the entire world.

Under decades of collective misjudgement, China was allowed to become the most terrifying, largest digital authoritarian government in human history. It’s a new form of dictatorship. As a response, many countries have vastly changed their China policy in recent years, thus the change of international structure.

This brings me to my next point: Give Taiwan the status it deserves. Let us contribute to the international society.

In a new international structure, Taiwan shouldn’t be categorized as “China’s Taiwan Problem”. Instead, we should be one of the key countries for international cooperation, responding to the new type of dictatorship.

Taiwan has faced authoritarian China on the front line for decades. Many countries are now facing the problem of China's infiltration under its United Front programs. Taiwan started dealing with the same problems 10 to 20 years ago. We have gained a lot of experience to contribute to the international community.

Taking the COVID pandemic as an example, Taiwan has studied and analyzed the actual situation and the information provided by the Chinese government with a serious and high-vigilance attitude. Based on our experience and lessons learned from the China SARS epidemic in 2001, we decisively formed a series of epidemic preventive measures. We have handled the crisis with the principle of openness and transparency. Our people have been self-disciplined and willing to cooperate. All of this demonstrates the high level of democracy in Taiwan’s society.

After the domestic epidemic was brought under control, Taiwan has continued to share our epidemic prevention supplies and the experiences on forming epidemic prevention policies with the world.

Although Taiwan was suppressed, even excluded by China in various international organizations in the past, we’ve been doing our best to comply with the norms & regulations of international organizations. We always actively contribute every time we have the opportunity. What I want to say is, all of this proves Taiwan could be a reliable partner in the international community. We are capable of working with other countries to solve major problems. We deserve our seats and participation in international organizations.

Regarding the impact of U.S. change of administration.

Now the U. S. presidential election is over and the administration is currently under transition. Many countries, including Taiwan, are concerned about whether the new U.S. government will change its course on foreign policy, especially its China policy. However, the "Rebalance (of Asia-Pacific Region)" proposed by the Obama administration in 2011, was in fact already a strategic adjustment in response to the rise of China and possible subsequent expansion.

The Trump administration further proposed the Indo-Pacific strategy in 2017 to promote and uphold international law and regulations, aiming to ensure every country has the liberty to be free from oppression and coercion. I believe that both parties in the U.S. understand the root cause of the Indo-Pacific regional problem comes from the Chinese government. Even for the Biden administration, it will have to provide practical responses. Facing the new structure, they can’t just go back to the traditional thinking of the last century.

As for Taiwan, the pro-Taiwan acts in the U.S., such as the Asia Reassurance Initiative Act of 2018, Taiwan Travel Act, Taiwan Allies International Protection and Enhancement, were passed with strong consensus between the Republicans and the Democrats. I believe Taiwan could be a key partner to the international community and play an active role in the free world. This isn’t just the consensus of the two parties in the U.S., but will be the consensus of all democratic countries.

In a progressive aspect, the International community can benefit from a wider recognition of Taiwan.

In recent years, the performance of Taiwanese society in terms of epidemic prevention performance, human rights, gender equality, marriage equality, and open government are actually in line with many progressive ideas and visions. The ideas and visions that many democratic countries have long supported. Therefore, I’m quite optimistic that, after 2020, Taiwan can make even greater progress, on multiple levels and in broader aspects, contributing to the international community.

Finally, I want to emphasize again that to truly resolve regional problems, we need dynamic multilateral cooperation. But this must not be a return to the conventional thinking of the past century, which was "expecting" China to abide by the international order. The outdated thinking had been proved to be a failure. Otherwise there wouldn’t be a series of Chinese infiltration and aggression after its rise in recent years, which became one of the most difficult issues in the world. I believe after 2020, U.S., Japan, and Taiwan can establish a new model of international cooperation through deeper collaboration and communication. And hopefully, this model will maximize the security of the Indo-Pacific region and promote peace, stability and development in the region.

This concludes my speech, thank you all for listening.
Lastly, I’d like to express my gratitude to the moderators, my fellow panelists, and the organizers of this event.
I wish everyone peace and good health. Thank you.

Omurice or omu-rice (オムライス Omu-raisu) is an example of yōshoku (a Western-influenced style of Japanese cuisine) consisting of an omelette made with fried rice and usually topped with ketchup. With omu and raisu being contractions of the words omelette and rice, the name is an example of Gairaigo. It is a popular dish both commonly cooked at home and often found at western style diners in Japan. The dish was brought to Korea during Japanese rule, and today it is a fixture on gimbap restaurant menus throughout South Korea, where it is rendered as "오므라이스 (omeuraiseu)" in Hangul. Omurice is also popular in Taiwan, another territory formerly occupied by Japan. Children, in particular, enjoy omurice, and it is often featured in okosama-ranchi or kids' meals.

Omurice is said to have originated around the turn of the 20th century at a western style restaurant in Tokyo's Ginza district called Renga-tei, inspired by chakin-zushi.

It has been featured in popular culture such as the Japanese film Tampopo and the Korean TV series Rooftop Prince, and more recently in the manga Shokugeki no Soma.

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[10 REASONS WHY ASIANS DON'T GET FAT]

Now of course, there are Asians who are fat or chubby, so the title is a bit of a generalized statement or stereotype, but as a whole, there's definitely some truth to it. Genetics is an obvious factor so I'm gonna leave that one off the list.

1. Fish & Seafood

Asians eat a lot of seafood. The biggest benefit to eating fish is the omega-3 fatty acids. Fish gives our brain and body the DHA & EPA it needs. EPA in particular has been shown to prevent obesity. 1.5 to 2 grams daily of fish oil can produce weight loss of a couple pounds over a period of a month.

2. Cooking Methods

If you compare Western and Asian eating habits, sure they both consume deep fried foods, but Asian countries vary their cooking methods a lot more.

3. Food Perception

How people see and experience food can be different depending on where you are. In America, for example, food is seen more as entertainment. There is desire, joy and anticipation associated with eating. Not that it isn't in Asian countries, but it's a lot more toned down. Eating has more of a practical feel, in many cases closer to being a chore rather than entertainment.

4. Portion Size

Asians eat smaller portions. Food is often served in small serving bowls and small plates and this helps regulate how much is consumed in one sitting. Now if we take a look at America? SUPERSIZE!

5. Leafy Greens

Asian portion size in general might be smaller, but their vegetable portion size is consistently larger. In many Asian countries, people don't even need to be reminded to eat their veg. It's just ingrained.

6. Drink Habits

It is a common belief that drinking water, especially cold water, with your meal is a habit that one should avoid, as it dilutes your digestive enzymes and makes it harder for your stomach to digest food. Americans often drink cold water or sodas with their meals, not so much for Asian people however. Rather they drink hot teas before or after a meal. I should note that many experts say this is greatly exaggerated and that it's generally ok to drink water with your meals.

7. Population Density

Many Asian countries & cities are densely populated. There are lots of people living in small apartments and almost everything you need is just round the corner. Leading one to possibly conclude that many Asian people must exert less energy in their daily lives. In actuality, Asian people in this circumstance may end up walking more. With everything being in close proximity, they are more inclined to just walk to their destination, whereas in many Western countries, distances are often too great.

8. Fermented Foods

Asians consume more fermented foods such as miso, natto, tempeh, kimchi, kombucha, etc, and this is not just good for your gut health, but helps reduce the overall inflammation in the body. And inflammation is a contributing factor to weight gain and obesity.

9. Snacks & Desserts

This one's quite simple. Asian snacks, healthy, Western snacks, not so much. Asian snacks and desserts may be rice cakes, red beans, seaweed snacks, nuts, seeds, and lots of fruit. For Western snacks and desserts, you have cookies, chips, ice cream, sugary cakes.

10. Prevention vs Treatment
Asians practice prevention, while others practice treatment. With the Western approach, you have your antibiotics, antacids, NSAIDs, quick, temporary, remedies that might actually hurt you in the long run. The Asian approach attempts to get to the root of the problem using nutrition, healthy habits, prevention practices. It's a societal mindset. Health is not simply the absence of sickness.

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10 MOST INFLUENTIAL ASIAN SUPERHEROES FROM MARVEL & DC

There are a lot of comic book fans out there, and many of them are Asian. Yet historically, superheroes of Asian descent have been a rare thing in the Marvel & DC universes.

With movies like Captain America Civil War, Batman vs Superman and Deadpool already having broken several box office records this year, superhero movies are only getting more popular.

And you know, you have the first female solo superhero film in quite some time coming out in 2017 with DC’s Wonder Woman, and the first black solo superhero film in some time coming out in 2018 with Marvel’s Black Panther. Makes me wonder when we’ll see the first Asian solo superhero film on the big screen.

But we’re a long ways off because first, we actually need a successful and popular Asian superhero in the comics, and thus far, it’s not clear if we even have one.

Well you be the judge.

1. Jubilee (Marvel)
- arguably the most well-known Asian superhero
- a Chinese-American girl born in LA
- X-Men’s youngest member in the early 1990s

2. Shang Chi (Marvel)
- created in the 1970s, a period in time where people were crazy for Bruce Lee and anything Kung Fu related
- the premiere Asian character of the 70s
- born in China
- son & nemesis of the infamous, wealthy international Chinese crime lord Fu Manchu.
- has no superpowers, but is an expert in all forms of martial arts
- unfortunately as stereotypically Asian as you can get

3. Sunfire (Marvel)
- Japan’s premiere superhero
- just like Shang Chi, an Asian character of overt Asian symbolisms.
- real name, Shiro Yoshida
- born to a mother who suffered radiation poisoning (Hiroshima atomic bomb)
- became a mutant possessing solar radiation powers

4. Atom (DC)
- real name, Ryan Choi
- super smart & gets good grades
- can be quite the ladies’ man
- from Hong Kong
- protege of original Atom, Ray Palmer
- the Atom is a super hero who can shrink to a subatomic size (like Ant-Man)
- pretty noteworthy because first time an Asian guy took over the mantle of an existing superhero with an already established fan base
- too bad he only appeared in 78 issues before being killed off by the assassin, Deathstroke
- his death became the subject of racial controversy as he had been one of the few high profile Asian characters in the DC Universe

5. Batgirl (DC)
- real name, Cassandra Cain
- she’s a halfie, with a white dad and a Chinese mom
- adopted by Bruce Wayne, aka Batman.
- under Batman’s watch, she became Batgirl
- some refer to her as the Asian Batgirl

6. Psylocke (Marvel)
- real name is Elizabeth “Betsy” Braddock, originally a blonde haired girl from Essex, Great Britain
- a mutant with vast telepathic and telekinetic powers and a long time X-Man.
- had her soul transferred into the body of a Japanese female ninja
- in X-Men: Apocalypse movie she is played by Olivia Munn (Is this another example of whitewashing in Hollywood?)

7. Ms. Marvel (Marvel)
- real name, Kamala Khan, the second Ms. Marvel who made her debut in 2013
- a Pakistani Muslim teenage girl living in New Jersey from a very traditional Pakistani family.
- is an inhuman (a race of superhumans)
- her power makes her able to stretch her body in unimaginable ways

8. Silk (Marvel)
- real name Cindy Moon, a Korean American girl.
- Spiderman was bitten by a radioactive spider but what we didn’t know was, so did another student

9. Hulk (Marvel)
- in 2015 we were introduced to a Korean Hulk.
- real name, Amadeus Cho, a Korean American
- this new Hulk fights gamma monsters while traveling cross country with his sister Maddy

10. Superman
- DC one upped Marvel by making one of, if not, the most iconic superhero of all time Asian.
- Superman is now Chinese!
- a 17 year old kid from Shanghai named Kenan Kong
- you can imagine the outrage this has caused as ‘superman is supposed to be white’ and American

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