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【別以爲孩子不完美就不能有自己的成功】
Don't Assume That An Imperfect Child Will Never Have His Own Success

我教書，從小學到中學級別，斷斷續續有十年。

我學命理堪輿超過十五年。

在我家族裡的孩子，還未到十歲，每個幾乎都有十八般武藝，生活能力特別強，就算是女生也特別獨立。

因為這幾種經驗的結合，對於如何栽培孩子的潛能我特別有心得。

在我眼裡，每個人都是佛，所以有無限的可能，孩子也一樣。

但諷刺的是，有時父母反而成為孩子的絆腳石。他們會把自己思維的侷限套在孩子的身上，斷了孩子未激發出來的潛能。

怎麼會這樣？

因為父母本身的八字潛能，也從來沒有被他們的父母激發過，因此成了這惡性循環。在忙於工作和兼顧家庭的無頭蒼蠅日子裡，他們又有何能耐和知識去做這些看似吃力不討好的事呢？

我批的孩童八字當中，有自閉兒、過動兒，有先天缺陷如聽力障礙、語言障礙等，學習過程會比一般孩子來得艱辛。

孩子還未進小學，要嘛就是父母因為這孩子而影響了婚姻，要嘛就父母覺得這孩子不行了，將來做什麼工作就將就吧！

今世的先天缺陷是前世惡因結的果，不該代表孩子的這一世就是死刑。

六歲前為孩子看八字和風水，對孩子的學習人生有很大的補助。三歲前，更佳。

破繭而出的蝴蝶，才能展翅高飛，而不是你打著真愛的口號，拿把剪刀去剪破毛毛蟲的繭。

父母是孩子的第一任老師，如果你們不懂得改善自己的命，你的孩子也會很容易向命運低頭。

愛孩子，就請告訴他們，人生的選項沒有必要鎖在ABCD，我們可以自己創造XYZ。

成功不只是有一種定義。

無論您是一位老師還是一位家長，我大力推薦大家去看這部適合一家大小一起看，由鄧超主演，挑戰我們華人社會對教育和親情習以為常的觀念的大陸電影《銀河補習班》。

看了之後，深入的去思考：我們追求有個孩子真正的意義應該是什麼？

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I have ten years of intermittent teaching experience, from primary school level to secondary school level.

I have also learnt Chinese Metaphysics for over 15 years.

In my family, before the age of ten, almost every child would have acquired a lot of life skills. Even the girls in our family are especially independent.

Because of these myriad experiences, I have my unique insight on how to cultivate the potential of children.

I see everyone as a Buddha, thus having infinite potential. The same goes for children.

Yet ironically, sometimes parents, the people who proclaimed the loudest that they love their children, are the exact ones who tripped their children in Life. They impose their limiting mindset on their children, disrupting the undiscovered potential of their children.

Why so?

Because the potential in the adults' Bazi was also never unearthed by their parents, thus forming a vicious cycle. In the daily grind of juggling family and work, running around like a headless chicken, how will they have the patience and knowledge to do such seemingly thankless acts?

In the children's Bazi I have analysed, some have autism, ADHD, listening or speech disabilities etc. Their learning process will understandably be more difficult than normal children.

Thus even before the child enters primary school, the parents would either face marriage disharmony or think that the child should just settle for any decent job in the future.

Born disabilities of this life are the fruits of our past-life karmic deeds, but this should not mark a death penalty in the child's destiny this lifetime.

To get the child's Bazi analysed and Feng Shui audited before age 6 can have enormous positive effects on the child's learning path. Even better if before age 3.

The butterfly that breaks out of its cocoon on its own is able to take flight, but will be crippled when you cut the caterpillar's cocoon with a scissors in the name of supposed true love.

Parents are the first teachers in a child's life. If you do not know how to change your destiny, your child will bow down to Life easily.

If you love them, please let them know life does not have to be restricted to ABCD options. We can create our own XYZ choices.

Success has more than one definition.

Whether you are a teacher or a parent, I recommend you and your children to watch this inspirational China movie on challenging Chinese societal norms in parenting and education, Looking Up (銀河補習班), starring Deng Chao.

And think in depth, what should be the real meaning in having children?

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抗疫日久，無論大人小朋友都有各種壓力，容易出現焦慮、抑鬱等情緒問題，在家有何方法減壓？不如試試禪繞畫(Zentangle)，就是那種圖案密密麻麻、看似錯綜複雜的圖畫，只需一張紙一支筆，不用講究藝術天份，任何年齡的人都可以進行，畫作順著靈感而行，不用使用橡皮擦，畫畫時的專注和平靜，可以有減壓作用，亦可以訓練耐性，想了解更多不妨上網搜尋更多資料。

初試禪繞畫：
1. 選一張正方形的紙，任何大小都可以，初學者可選小一點，畫作會比較快完成更有滿足感。
2. 用一支鉛筆或黑色筆，在紙上畫上四點圓點，用線連起來。
3. 用線條畫分四個區域，直線曲線皆可。
4. 選一個區域，用重複圖案或線條將它填滿，可以是幾何圖案、波浪或者植物紋理。
5. 隨意將圖案之間的空間填滿色。
6. 餘下三個區域同樣做法即可。

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Draw a Zentangle to relieve stress
It is inevitable to feel stressful after dealing with the pandemic for a prolonged period of time. Are there ways to de-stress? Try Zentangle, which involves seemingly complicated tangled and repeated patterns. All you need is a piece of paper and a pen, and you do not need to be artistic to complete this exercise. Individuals of any age can paint a Zentangle, you paint according to your inspiration, and eraser is not required. When painting, try to stay focused and cultivate inner peace, as it helps to relieve stress and train our patience. You can find more information online if you wish to learn more about Zentangle.

Zentangle for beginners:
1. Choose a piece of square paper of any size, beginners are advised to start with a smaller piece of paper, as it will speed up the process, giving them a sense of accomplishment.
2. Use a pencil or black pen, drop four dots on the paper, and link the dots up with lines.
3. Use straight or curved lines to divide them into four zones.
4. Select a zone, use a repeated pattern or line to fill it up – it can be geometric shapes, wave patterns or textures of a leaf.
5. Color the space in between as you wish.
6. Repeat the same process for the three remaining zones.

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(English version below)

有位先生撥電向吾說，他學玄學一陣子，可是還是不會用，感到很受挫。

吾以爲他學了至少一年，一問之下，才發現原來他祇上了幾堂課。

吾會心一笑。吾從20多歲的小伙子，學到現在2018年，都沒說過「受挫」，至今也仍在學習。風水命理如果容易學而有成，滿街都是「武功蓋世」的師父了。

現在很多人看風水都看不好，風水師卻越來越多，但爲何不見得每個家庭都有好的風水？

一、看的人沒有耐性。
二、看的人學藝不精。
三、看的人拜錯師。

結果，禍害連連。

吾最近爲客人看商店風水時，親自精心爲老闆娘擇牆壁和傢俱顏色，並細心解說吾的選擇會如何幫助她業務的發展。

一間店面不能夠太破舊，更何況是開門做生意的。

當老闆把一間舊店重新裝潢時，就是在告訴客人，我們很積極，有專業精神，我們把賺取的錢投資在這店裡，因爲我們重視客人在店內的體驗，勢必要客人來我們店消費時，感覺到賓至如歸。

客人領受到妳你的誠意，自然而然會覺得妳你是個用心的老闆，也樂意給妳你生意做，甚至當妳你的店的活招牌。

吾在這一行20年來，從未打廣告或開店面，卻非常吃得開，客人還愈來愈多，靠的就是口碑。吾稟著「真心誠意」這四個字來服務大家，爲有緣的人排憂解難。

做人做事、學習智慧，都要有進取心。

做出來的，要超越別人對妳你的期望。

不要急著看到眼前的利益，就失去了長遠心，淪陷爲一個唯利是圖的商人，斷送了廣結善緣、勤修菩提心的大因緣。

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A gentleman told me over the phone that he was frustrated at not knowing how to apply Chinese Metaphysics, despite learning the subject for "quite awhile".

I thought he has been learning it for at least a year, but upon asking him, came to realise that he had only taken a few lessons.

I smiled in my heart. I embarked on my journey on mastering Chinese Metaphysics when I was just a young lad in my twenties. Till today, in the year 2018, I had never utter any word frustration or defeat, and am still joyously on my leaning journey.

If Feng Shui and Destiny subjects are easy to master, the street will be filled with Masters of extraordinary skills.

Today, many people do not experience any improvement with Feng Shui, despite the increasing number of Feng Shui practitioners.

Why are we not seeing more families enjoying the fruits of good Feng Shui?

1. The Feng Shui practitioner lacks patience.
2. He or she is not accomplished in the practice.
3. He or she learnt from the wrong teacher.

And the result is a string of misfortunes.

I did a Feng Shui audit of a commercial shop recently. As part of the audit service, I personally chose the auspicious colors of the walls and furniture for the lady boss, and meticulously explained how my decisions would help her sales.

A shop must not look run down, especially when its outlook determines your revenue intake.

When the boss refurbishes and renews her old shop lot, she is demonstrating to her customers her enthusiasm and professionalism in doing business with them.

As she invests her profits back into her shop, she is telling the customers that she places great emphasis to provide a good experience for her customers, so that they feel at home in her shop, when they spend at her shop.

When your customers feel your sincerity, they will naturally think good of you, be the best ambassadors for your business and have no qualms in giving more sales to you.

I have been in this line for 20 years. I have never advertised my services, nor operate from a shop, yet I make a more than decent living with a growing clientele base, because of good word-of-mouth.

In resolving the life problems of my clients, I go by my motto of treating others with an honest and sincere heart.

As a human being, in our way of life and journey of learning wisdom, always strive to do better than what others expect from you. Do not be so anxious to see immediate profits, that you sacrifice your long-term vision and degrade to a profits-before-everythiing businessman. Treasure the affinity and opportunity to cultivate massive positive affinities and a heart of bodhicitta.